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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Following from another thread

I am much more than a cock

I'm a kind thoughtful caring person ( most of the time )

My ability to put thought into almost any situation

My ability to think how some of my actions may effect others

My ability to be the best version possible of me

My ability to accept that not 1 person on this entire planet is it ever will be truly happy

My emotions are the main stroke of my confidence

Don't ask me to explain all this because I simply can't

I know 100% I'm up there and that's that

Have a nice day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, following on from another thread ...

No, no, self-praise really is no praise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, following on from another thread ...

No, no, self-praise really is no praise! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, following on from another thread ...

No, no, self-praise really is no praise! "

Self praise is and always will be just that

Self praise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, following on from another thread ...

No, no, self-praise really is no praise! "

Don't you feel all those things inside you ? Or do you need others opinions to feel it ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would self praise not be confidence ?

In my honest opinion which I am more than entitled to

Confidence does not come from your cock or your pecs or what others have told you

Confidence comes from the mind and it's ability to be used

I don't mean grammar or being able to rebuild a v12 or desire the bible word for word

Your either confident or your not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would self praise not be confidence ?

In my honest opinion which I am more than entitled to

Confidence does not come from your cock or your pecs or what others have told you

Confidence comes from the mind and it's ability to be used

I don't mean grammar or being able to rebuild a v12 or desire the bible word for word

Your either confident or your not "

Resite*

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

People with confidence don't need to shout about it...it just comes across.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People with confidence don't need to shout about it...it just comes across.

"

Again your opinion which you are entitled to, just because you could be right don't mean I'm wrong

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"People with confidence don't need to shout about it...it just comes across.

Again your opinion which you are entitled to, just because you could be right don't mean I'm wrong "

It is and thanyou, I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People with confidence don't need to shout about it...it just comes across.

Again your opinion which you are entitled to, just because you could be right don't mean I'm wrong

It is and thanyou, I am "

Me 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, following on from another thread ...

No, no, self-praise really is no praise!

Don't you feel all those things inside you ? Or do you need others opinions to feel it ?"

No, I don't need praise, nor do I feel the need to brag, but if that's the way you like to get attention, each to their own. Go well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, following on from another thread ...

No, no, self-praise really is no praise!

Don't you feel all those things inside you ? Or do you need others opinions to feel it ?

No, I don't need praise, nor do I feel the need to brag, but if that's the way you like to get attention, each to their own. Go well. "

I'm not bragging, we can't really determine what a person's persona is over a forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, following on from another thread ...

No, no, self-praise really is no praise!

Don't you feel all those things inside you ? Or do you need others opinions to feel it ?

No, I don't need praise, nor do I feel the need to brag, but if that's the way you like to get attention, each to their own. Go well.

I'm not bragging, we can't really determine what a person's persona is over a forum "

You seem well able to express yourself in writing. Surely, that's a fairly good insight?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, following on from another thread ...

No, no, self-praise really is no praise!

Don't you feel all those things inside you ? Or do you need others opinions to feel it ?

No, I don't need praise, nor do I feel the need to brag, but if that's the way you like to get attention, each to their own. Go well.

I'm not bragging, we can't really determine what a person's persona is over a forum

You seem well able to express yourself in writing. Surely, that's a fairly good insight? "

Thank you

I think I'm able to express myself in a variety of different manners

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

In my opinion.. I think you’re confidence is covering how you actually feel about yourself and others! I think you are hiding behind it to protect yourself.

Thats not a bad thing I also have that sometimes especially when talking to a hot guy!

Mt inbox is open if you would like to speak about your insecurities you have!

If not then good luck on your fab quest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following from another thread

I am much more than a cock

I'm a kind thoughtful caring person ( most of the time )

My ability to put thought into almost any situation

My ability to think how some of my actions may effect others

My ability to be the best version possible of me

My ability to accept that not 1 person on this entire planet is it ever will be truly happy

My emotions are the main stroke of my confidence

Don't ask me to explain all this because I simply can't

I know 100% I'm up there and that's that

Have a nice day "

Sounds a great C.V

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Following from another thread

I am much more than a cock

I'm a kind thoughtful caring person ( most of the time )

My ability to put thought into almost any situation

My ability to think how some of my actions may effect others

My ability to be the best version possible of me

My ability to accept that not 1 person on this entire planet is it ever will be truly happy

My emotions are the main stroke of my confidence

Don't ask me to explain all this because I simply can't

I know 100% I'm up there and that's that

Have a nice day

Sounds a great C.V"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my opinion.. I think you’re confidence is covering how you actually feel about yourself and others! I think you are hiding behind it to protect yourself.

Thats not a bad thing I also have that sometimes especially when talking to a hot guy!

Mt inbox is open if you would like to speak about your insecurities you have!

If not then good luck on your fab quest

"

Think everyone carries some sort of insecurities

My inbox is also open should you like to discuss yours

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"In my opinion.. I think you’re confidence is covering how you actually feel about yourself and others! I think you are hiding behind it to protect yourself.

Thats not a bad thing I also have that sometimes especially when talking to a hot guy!

Mt inbox is open if you would like to speak about your insecurities you have!

If not then good luck on your fab quest

Think everyone carries some sort of insecurities

My inbox is also open should you like to discuss yours "

Thanks op may just take you up on that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my opinion.. I think you’re confidence is covering how you actually feel about yourself and others! I think you are hiding behind it to protect yourself.

Thats not a bad thing I also have that sometimes especially when talking to a hot guy!

Mt inbox is open if you would like to speak about your insecurities you have!

If not then good luck on your fab quest

Think everyone carries some sort of insecurities

My inbox is also open should you like to discuss yours

Thanks op may just take you up on that "

Anytime

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Do you do a happy dance when things go well?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you do a happy dance when things go well?"

Taking me shopping can be funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would self praise not be confidence ?

In my honest opinion which I am more than entitled to

Confidence does not come from your cock or your pecs or what others have told you

Confidence comes from the mind and it's ability to be used

I don't mean grammar or being able to rebuild a v12 or desire the bible word for word

Your either confident or your not

Resite*"

*recite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would self praise not be confidence ?

In my honest opinion which I am more than entitled to

Confidence does not come from your cock or your pecs or what others have told you

Confidence comes from the mind and it's ability to be used

I don't mean grammar or being able to rebuild a v12 or desire the bible word for word

Your either confident or your not

Resite*

*recite"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would self praise not be confidence ?

In my honest opinion which I am more than entitled to

Confidence does not come from your cock or your pecs or what others have told you

Confidence comes from the mind and it's ability to be used

I don't mean grammar or being able to rebuild a v12 or desire the bible word for word

Your either confident or your not

Resite*

*recite

Thank you "

While we're at it - *you're

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following from another thread

I am much more than a cock

I'm a kind thoughtful caring person ( most of the time )

My ability to put thought into almost any situation

My ability to think how some of my actions may effect others

My ability to be the best version possible of me

My ability to accept that not 1 person on this entire planet is it ever will be truly happy

My emotions are the main stroke of my confidence

Don't ask me to explain all this because I simply can't

I know 100% I'm up there and that's that

Have a nice day "

Up where?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Following from another thread

I am much more than a cock

I'm a kind thoughtful caring person ( most of the time )

My ability to put thought into almost any situation

My ability to think how some of my actions may effect others

My ability to be the best version possible of me

My ability to accept that not 1 person on this entire planet is it ever will be truly happy

My emotions are the main stroke of my confidence

Don't ask me to explain all this because I simply can't

I know 100% I'm up there and that's that

Have a nice day

Up where? "

I'm in your fantasies your just blinded by imperfections

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Following from another thread

I am much more than a cock

I'm a kind thoughtful caring person ( most of the time )

My ability to put thought into almost any situation

My ability to think how some of my actions may effect others

My ability to be the best version possible of me

My ability to accept that not 1 person on this entire planet is it ever will be truly happy

My emotions are the main stroke of my confidence

Don't ask me to explain all this because I simply can't

I know 100% I'm up there and that's that

Have a nice day

Up where? "

16/Feb

Amazing photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's great you think so highly of yourself, not quite sure why we all need to know what you think of yourself but I must have missed the other post... Without context this post just kind of seems braggy and look how amazing I am (which doenst come across as confident in the slightest)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's great you think so highly of yourself, not quite sure why we all need to know what you think of yourself but I must have missed the other post... Without context this post just kind of seems braggy and look how amazing I am (which doenst come across as confident in the slightest) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People with confidence don't need to shout about it...it just comes across.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may need a day or two away from the site, you dig deeper and deeper

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I like to see confidence and high self esteem expressed. I wish there was more of it. The faux self deprecation and belief in leagues etc is very wearisome.

I'm only sorry it isn't more celebrated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People with confidence don't need to shout about it...it just comes across.

"

I'm trying my best to be informative

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I like to see confidence and high self esteem expressed. I wish there was more of it. The faux self deprecation and belief in leagues etc is very wearisome.

I'm only sorry it isn't more celebrated.

"

Do you not believe in leagues Nicecouple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's great you think so highly of yourself, not quite sure why we all need to know what you think of yourself but I must have missed the other post... Without context this post just kind of seems braggy and look how amazing I am (which doenst come across as confident in the slightest) "

Exactly this

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I like to see confidence and high self esteem expressed. I wish there was more of it. The faux self deprecation and belief in leagues etc is very wearisome.

I'm only sorry it isn't more celebrated.

Do you not believe in leagues Nicecouple? "

I don't believe, as is often suggested here that the better looking a person is the better treatment they deserve or that less attractive people aren't worthy of their attention. Do I believe they exist in people's minds, yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to see confidence and high self esteem expressed. I wish there was more of it. The faux self deprecation and belief in leagues etc is very wearisome.

I'm only sorry it isn't more celebrated.

Do you not believe in leagues Nicecouple?

I don't believe, as is often suggested here that the better looking a person is the better treatment they deserve or that less attractive people aren't worthy of their attention. Do I believe they exist in people's minds, yes."

Absolutley this

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Following from another thread

I am much more than a cock

I'm a kind thoughtful caring person ( most of the time )

My ability to put thought into almost any situation

My ability to think how some of my actions may effect others

My ability to be the best version possible of me

My ability to accept that not 1 person on this entire planet is it ever will be truly happy

My emotions are the main stroke of my confidence

Don't ask me to explain all this because I simply can't

I know 100% I'm up there and that's that

Have a nice day "

That is really good to read - nobody is perfect all the time anyway. I think it is important we strive to do the right thing even if it is hard at times and the outcome may not be perfection.

The confidence I was referring to at the end of the other thread (and this is just true for me, of course, others may see it differently) is about

- being comfortable in your own skin,

- accepting yourself as you are while - trying to improve yourself and grow as

a person, emotionally and cognitively

- working on your expectations of others

(are they realistic?)

- focus on giving at least as much as you

take (not always possible but on

balance)

- trying to find contentment in non-

material things

The kind of person I am describing oozes genuine confidence and integrity; they have no need to show off, to lie, to manipulate. And that also, as a by-product, makes them sexy.

Not aimed at you or anybody - just my reflection on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's great you think so highly of yourself, not quite sure why we all need to know what you think of yourself but I must have missed the other post... Without context this post just kind of seems braggy and look how amazing I am (which doenst come across as confident in the slightest)

Exactly this "

Each to there own, your opinion matters thank you

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I know 100% I'm up there and that's that "

Up where?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know 100% I'm up there and that's that

Up where? "

Cloud 9

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to see confidence and high self esteem expressed. I wish there was more of it. The faux self deprecation and belief in leagues etc is very wearisome.

I'm only sorry it isn't more celebrated.

"

I agree with this, if someone is having a crisis of confidence we try and pull them up. Why try and tear them down when they are expressing how they feel about themselves.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Confidence can also be seen as arrogance it’s all how it’s projected

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Confidence can also be seen as arrogance it’s all how it’s projected "

And accepted

Not everyone has the same ideas

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I've seen the other thread. I dint understand the point in that or this one. Your just pontificating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've seen the other thread. I dint understand the point in that or this one. Your just pontificating. "

Thank you

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I've seen the other thread. I dint understand the point in that or this one. Your just pontificating.

Thank you "

Your welcome.

I am much more than tits

I am over opiniatonated

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I like to see confidence and high self esteem expressed. I wish there was more of it. The faux self deprecation and belief in leagues etc is very wearisome.

I'm only sorry it isn't more celebrated.

I agree with this, if someone is having a crisis of confidence we try and pull them up. Why try and tear them down when they are expressing how they feel about themselves.

"

Why indeed?

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By *rith47Man
over a year ago

Erith


"People with confidence don't need to shout about it...it just comes across.

"

100% agree. Confidence can be unspoken, and very sexy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People with confidence don't need to shout about it...it just comes across.

100% agree. Confidence can be unspoken, and very sexy."

Me personally I do find an arrogant woman a bit of a turn on times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People with confidence don't need to shout about it...it just comes across.

100% agree. Confidence can be unspoken, and very sexy.

Me personally I do find an arrogant woman a bit of a turn on times "

At times *

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