FabSwingers.com forum: Wolf Whistling

By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Lots of talk of making it an offence but deep down do any women past their prime take it as a compliment and makes them feel young and desirable again

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Past their prime

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Do you want me to take that shovel off you OP?

LvM

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Jebus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Past their prime?? What a way with words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't think those 'past their prime' were allowed out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, not sure that was the best turn of phrase. You might need to specify when ‘prime’ ends OP

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Not sure if I'm past my prime but when it happens my eyes just

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

The only prime in my life is my Amazon

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Past their prime is perfect OP. Ask women how they feel about wolf whistling and all those past their prime (35+) will say how much they love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a charmer OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you past your prime OP

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

At my age all compliments are appreciated, even wolf whistles.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I'm so past my prime my hearing is going!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

The OP should join the manosphere on YouTube. He'll have to brush up on the lingo though as it's "hitting the wall" not past their prime.

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over a year ago

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I spy blue touch paper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It comes off as creepy to me, and it can be intimidating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of talk of making it an offence but deep down do any women past their prime take it as a compliment and makes them feel young and desirable again "

Do you when it happens to you?

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Don't think I ever HAD a prime...

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

“Feel young and desirable again”??

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Past their prime is perfect OP. Ask women how they feel about wolf whistling and all those past their prime (35+) will say how much they love it.

Oh no you didn’t!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"The only prime in my life is my Amazon

Ohh it’s nearly prime day

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Past their prime is perfect OP. Ask women how they feel about wolf whistling and all those past their prime (35+) will say how much they love it.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"The only prime in my life is my Amazon

Ohh it’s nearly prime day

Oooooh

LvM

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

"Lots of talk of making it an offence but deep down do any women past their prime take it as a compliment and makes them feel young and desirable again "

And this is why you are a legend Tom.

The Dimbleby of the forums, asking the questions that others fear too.

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By *ovebjsMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Lots of talk of making it an offence but deep down do any women past their prime take it as a compliment and makes them feel young and desirable again "

I think it's a bit outdated now and should be put in a box and burried along with blokes leaning out of car and van windows shoutint oi oi!!

If I see a fit woman out and about I can appreciate her without having to make a pratt of myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be a bit intimidating for any woman to suffer through that. I’m on the fence if it should come an offence.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Lots of talk of making it an offence but deep down do any women past their prime take it as a compliment and makes them feel young and desirable again "

Oops, pressed send to quickly...

When is a woman past her prime, out of interest?

Also curious as to when is a man past his prime?

Finally, when the man is not past his prime, should be be allowed to wolf-whistle a woman whom he perceives to be not past her prime and what would happen if he wolf-whistled a woman who is past her prime but does not think she is?

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Never done it, even when I was in my teens. As a bloke I was always uncomfortable doing it or when blokes I was with did.

Pretty immature.

Yeah I was always a it mature

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If I heard a wolf whistle I'd assume probably correctly that it wasn't aimed at me. I'm waaay past my prime I've graduated to being at the peak of my awesomeness, I confidently expect to remain here for the rest of my life

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol

O.p your funny

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've enjoyed it and flirted back but unprompted male attention can be a problem for many and I've certainly had very uncomfortable situations caused by men that are frightening. Ideally men would be as light as possible with their shows of appreciation, though the lighted of any could be distressing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think it should be an offence but I do think that *some* men should stop and think about their actions. A general rule I think would be useful to apply is "would I be happy for my mothet/sister/daughter/partner to be treated this way?"

The same should apply to women but in general it's men who wolf whistle or parrots.

I don't know if it would make me feel young and desirable again as it hasn't happened to me since about 1976. I'm happy being old and desirable

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Lots of talk of making it an offence but deep down do any women past their prime take it as a compliment and makes them feel young and desirable again

Oops, pressed send to quickly...

When is a woman past her prime, out of interest?

Also curious as to when is a man past his prime?

So many permutations that need to be clarified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of talk of making it an offence but deep down do any women past their prime take it as a compliment and makes them feel young and desirable again

Oops, pressed send to quickly...

When is a woman past her prime, out of interest?

Also curious as to when is a man past his prime?

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I left school and became a scaffolder in the city. Female office workers wolf whistling every day .

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By *othicslaveCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Not bothered by it, its a form of compliment, smile

but as long as its not in a himulliating or degrading way or at children!!

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

It is a bit flattering but more embarrassing for drawing all that attention my way. I don't like being centre of attention really so would rather not be whistled at or the psst etc loool xx

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Surely some older ladies take it as a compliment especially if they are on the downslope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely some older ladies take it as a compliment especially if they are on the downslope "

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

came in think this was going to be a thread about

wolf and whistle Lingerie lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they’re over 35 and past their prime then I just give them a little arse slap as they walk by

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Not bothered by it, its a form of compliment, smile

but as long as its not in a himulliating or degrading way or at children!!"

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Hated it aged 13, hate it aged 56

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely some older ladies take it as a compliment especially if they are on the downslope "

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

The 1950's are alive and kicking I see

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I'd actually be flattered if someone wolf whistled at me. It would be good to know I can still attract someone.

Mrs

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Surely some older ladies take it as a compliment especially if they are on the downslope "

no at first I didn't think you meant to offend when you said past their prime just thought you had a way with words which won't take to everyone's fancy.

You and I are gonna age at some point but with the right should age gracefully

However you gone too far OP and I feel like you don't care who you offend. That's very rude, as we can have our opinions nothing stops us being mindful and respectful.

How you present yourself on these forums could affect your meets off here so it doesn't make sense to block yourself of that but its up to you end of the day *shrugs shoulders*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always found wolf whistles a big compliment personally

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

I was watching an interview a couple of months ago. A spokesperson from a organisation stated that due to Misogyny, that they wanted not only wolf whistles , but any male who winked , smiled or even sat next to a female etc in public transport . Could be reported to authorities. Interviewer who was female , tried to say that was impossible to enforce and how would any male approach a female in public place. This would include pubs ,clubs etc. Also as interviewer said without giving her full details away. Stated she would not have met her husband if that type of law in place

as a lot of males would not perhaps approach / try chatting with a female if they new could be reported.Realise a bit extreme if did happen?

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

^ didn't make a lot of sense....

I've never liked wolfwhistles. It's creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the answers on this thread show the issues with a blanket approach, some find it intimidating, others flattering. Some may find it flattering in some circumstances and intimidating in others.

I've pointed out to my lovely lady that she has thoroughly enjoyed the kind of attention from some guys that she has described as creepy and disgusting off others - generally the deciding factor is how attractive she finds them.

However, as above, if men (and women in fact) made more of an effort to consider how their behavoir is likely to make others feel there would likely be far less intimidated, insulted and upset people in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Past their prime

It was at this moment..he knew he fucked up.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

"^ didn't make a lot of sense....

I've never liked wolfwhistles. It's creepy. "

Basically any female could report a male for any unwanted approach in any place. How would authorities be able to confirm this etc. The interviewer said , how often in UK , is it that female who actually approaches male , in pubs , etc ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on lads, no more own goals. The facts aren't in our favour.

Prime:

Men in 20's

Women in 30's

It's hard to walk one one foot, especially when the other is in your mouth.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"^ didn't make a lot of sense....

I've never liked wolfwhistles. It's creepy.

Just don't be creepy and if someone says they don't like it stop. How hard is that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"past their prime"

OP you must be very flexible to get your foot that far in your mouth!!

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Past their prime

It was at this moment..he knew he fucked up."

In Morgan Freeman's voice, no less...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of talk of making it an offence but deep down do any women past their prime take it as a compliment and makes them feel young and desirable again

Oops, pressed send to quickly...

When is a woman past her prime, out of interest?

Also curious as to when is a man past his prime?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of talk of making it an offence but deep down do any women past their prime take it as a compliment and makes them feel young and desirable again "

Wow! Which charm school did you go to???

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Past their prime

It was at this moment..he knew he fucked up."

Loooooooool ha ha ha this tickles me too much. I even read it slow with the voice in my head xx

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

"^ didn't make a lot of sense....

I've never liked wolfwhistles. It's creepy.

Just don't be creepy and if someone says they don't like it stop. How hard is that? "

Perhaps play devils advocate . How many females on here have met , been approached chatted to in real world and at first thought no way etc . Yet gone on to be marry , be partners etc . ? The interviewee was stating that this is what law was required.

My point was how far does law go. ?

Yes from experience. Years ago while working away while at that time single, actually met my ex wife while away. Another guy who also single did not care about chatting females up. Even if married . He would do in front of husbands. His success rate with females getting dates etc was very good . But he did get hurt physically a lot of times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of talk of making it an offence but deep down do any women past their prime take it as a compliment and makes them feel young and desirable again "

I'm part my prime but then so are the men I fancy

I've always found wolf whistling quite uncomfortable and you never know if it's directed at you unless you're the only person in sight

Had to walk past two barracks on the way to school so learnt very quickly to ignore it, then found another route to school

Seriously a lot of people don't realise how intimidating it can feel

Missy

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

"^ didn't make a lot of sense....

I've never liked wolfwhistles. It's creepy.

Just don't be creepy and if someone says they don't like it stop. How hard is that?

My point was how far does law go. ?

Again, unclear.

How far does the law go? In many cases, not far enough. Ideally? Far enough to protect the safety of individuals going about their daily business without interference or harassment.

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Oh dear, OP has helpfully put himself on my block list.

I'd definitely like wolf whistling and catcalling strangers to be consigned to the dustbin. Some women just suffer endless microaggressions day in, day out for years- it's very wearing! And absolutely makes some people feel unsafe. However, walking into a meet or a club and hearing it as an expression of appreciation is lovely, when you're on the same page. Not great when you're walking down the street thinking about work or shopping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of talk of making it an offence but deep down do any women past their prime take it as a compliment and makes them feel young and desirable again

I'm part my prime but then so are the men I fancy

I've always found wolf whistling quite uncomfortable and you never know if it's directed at you unless you're the only person in sight

Had to walk past two barracks on the way to school so learnt very quickly to ignore it, then found another route to school

Seriously a lot of people don't realise how intimidating it can feel

Missy"

If you don't smile back will they get pissed off.

If you do smile back will they think that it's an invitation.

Men on threads like this often say but not all men are like that....

But how do we know which ones will turn nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently fly they're not allowed to do this any longer (site rules). The new shout out is "cuckoo" these days, so the lads can rush out and have a look!!

. (Got that little bit of info from a very reliable source!! Lol)

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

How to make friends and influence people right here OP

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

It happened to me last week by some builders working opposite our house. I have to say it made me smile and brightened my day.

I think it’s just harmless fun

Jxx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"^ didn't make a lot of sense....

I've never liked wolfwhistles. It's creepy.

Just don't be creepy and if someone says they don't like it stop. How hard is that?

My point was how far does law go. ?

I don't see how that's relevant and your mate sounds like a dick.

Great that it worked out for you and your misses but the point of the law would be to stop unwanted approaches so, as I said, if the woman says no thank you but the guy carries on then that's where it comes in to play.

I've seen lord of videoss where women have told a guy she's not interested yet they continue harassing them. It's really uncomfortable viewing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently fly they're not allowed to do this any longer (site rules). The new shout out is "cuckoo" these days, so the lads can rush out and have a look!!

. (Got that little bit of info from a very reliable source!! Lol) "

I have used that to discreetly draw attention to a passing lady who has passed my field of view. I’m not a wolf Whistler but I do like to admire discreetly without making a lady feel uncomfortable.

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I wonder the ladies who have never been wolf whistles object more than those who have been...

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

If I heard one, I would assume it's for someone else, would getting one offend me, not in a million years, may point them towards Specsavers though.

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"If I heard one, I would assume it's for someone else, would getting one offend me, not in a million years, may point them towards Specsavers though."

Not at all...x

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I wonder the ladies who have never been wolf whistles object more than those who have been..."

I think - and I am trying to say this really gently - you are not helping your cause now? Just a thought?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women of my generation that I talk to find it a compliment, as long as it isn't accompanied by any vulgarities. Younger women seem to be more sensitive about it. It's not something I've ever done, I'm not that forward..

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Tom, your choice of words to describe women who are getting older is less than polite, to say the least.

I always rather liked getting wolf whistles when I was younger and never felt intimidated, only flattered.

Though I know that many women feel very differently, I don't think banning them would help.

What we need is better education accross the board. Remember that it's not just men, d*unk women seem to think mokesting men is perfectly acceptable... it isn't.

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