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is it gay or not ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If a bloke wants to be done by a lady with a strap-on, but not by a man, is he just kinky or in denial

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

neither just enjoying a extra sexual experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Denial ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if he's fantasizing about it being a cock up there it could be curiousness...if he just wants a different kind of orgasm, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say curious. He doesn't fancy it being done by a man because he probably doesn't fancy men hence he's not gay just curious

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

tried it, amasing feeling and orgasm as it was a vib one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's certainly going to split opinions, but i think a lot of blokes would secretly love to try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then try a cock up yer ass? maybe?

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Yes agree with last post. although most have straight on there profiles, I would think that most guys that are really into experiementing in sexual feeling and fun would try most things that some would consider bi or gay.

It just fun and trying new erotic feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

correct me if im wrong but is gay not someone who only has sex with someone of the same sex? is bi someone who has sex with people of both sex? the act of anal does not make you bi, if you a guy who only has anal with women using a strap on or any other toy your straight

I know lots of guys who like their arses being played with but only by women, how can they be gay/be bi if they never have male contact?

A guy who likes a woman using a strap on on him is not in denial hes a guy who knows what he likes and thats a toy up his arse if when you have a woman using a strap on on you you fantasise about it being a guy you maybe curious but other wise just take it for what it is and enjoy

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

But is he bi if he wonders what Fems love about sucking cock and would like to try sucking a cock just to see what it felt like? The Fem half things it would be so horny seeing or sharing a cock orally with him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But is he bi if he wonders what Fems love about sucking cock and would like to try sucking a cock just to see what it felt like? The Fem half things it would be so horny seeing or sharing a cock orally with him"
That's getting of the subject as only a female with a strap-on was involved, obviously if you suck a real cock you're bi or gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you have never played with a guy your not bi

if you think about it your curious

if you have no interest in play with men your straight

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Agreed he is curious.....but why not try anything and everything ,whats the point of wondering, Fems try and like bi playful fun and it could be very horny seeing him giving or recieving and bj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i agree if your curious go for it

whats the worse than can happen, you dont like it? so dont try it again, surely its better to give it a go so you know than spend the rest of your life wondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i let one woman i have a very good relationship with do it to me on cam.

we both enjoyed it and i knew she would too.

if its something you want to do just do it.

sod what others say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The act of anal sex does not make someone gay or bi, that's almost as daft as saying a man wearing a pink shirt must have homosexual tendencies.

The instrument being a strap on does not mean that the guy is fantasising about it being a cock, the shape and the size works that's all. Lots of men like women inserting their fingers, it doesn't make them gay.

A lot of people will say a similar thing about lesbians - if they use strap ons then they must secretly be wanting cock so why not go and get the real thing. Its basically because the shape of a dildo works and feels good.

The toys you use in sex do not determine your sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it simulation or stimulation where a strap on is a substitute for the real thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man's g-spot is in his ass but it doesn't mean he needs another man to pleasure it when a woman can do the same thing thus keeping in with his 'straight' sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't make you gay at all. That's all about enjoying sex with men because you want a man. With a woman for me it was about total role reversal. Being fucked and dominated and taken by a woman. They were great experiences, just make sure its with someone who knows what she's doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"correct me if im wrong but is gay not someone who only has sex with someone of the same sex? is bi someone who has sex with people of both sex? the act of anal does not make you bi, if you a guy who only has anal with women using a strap on or any other toy your straight

I know lots of guys who like their arses being played with but only by women, how can they be gay/be bi if they never have male contact?

A guy who likes a woman using a strap on on him is not in denial hes a guy who knows what he likes and thats a toy up his arse if when you have a woman using a strap on on you you fantasise about it being a guy you maybe curious but other wise just take it for what it is and enjoy "

Completely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The act of anal sex does not make someone gay or bi, that's almost as daft as saying a man wearing a pink shirt must have homosexual tendencies.

The instrument being a strap on does not mean that the guy is fantasising about it being a cock, the shape and the size works that's all. Lots of men like women inserting their fingers, it doesn't make them gay.

A lot of people will say a similar thing about lesbians - if they use strap ons then they must secretly be wanting cock so why not go and get the real thing. Its basically because the shape of a dildo works and feels good.

The toys you use in sex do not determine your sexuality "

And this, good post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"correct me if im wrong but is gay not someone who only has sex with someone of the same sex? is bi someone who has sex with people of both sex? the act of anal does not make you bi, if you a guy who only has anal with women using a strap on or any other toy your straight

I know lots of guys who like their arses being played with but only by women, how can they be gay/be bi if they never have male contact?

A guy who likes a woman using a strap on on him is not in denial hes a guy who knows what he likes and thats a toy up his arse if when you have a woman using a strap on on you you fantasise about it being a guy you maybe curious but other wise just take it for what it is and enjoy "

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

only if he asks to wear a pink feather boa and scream in tune to 'I am what I am' as you pump his tight hole....

apart from that, straight exploring his sexual limits

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By *uyuksno1Man
over a year ago

poole


"only if he asks to wear a pink feather boa and scream in tune to 'I am what I am' as you pump his tight hole....

apart from that, straight exploring his sexual limits"
pmsl xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This conversation is too gay for me

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Is a lesbian straight if her lesbian partner uses a strap on in her pussy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"correct me if im wrong but is gay not someone who only has sex with someone of the same sex? is bi someone who has sex with people of both sex? the act of anal does not make you bi, if you a guy who only has anal with women using a strap on or any other toy your straight

I know lots of guys who like their arses being played with but only by women, how can they be gay/be bi if they never have male contact?

A guy who likes a woman using a strap on on him is not in denial hes a guy who knows what he likes and thats a toy up his arse if when you have a woman using a strap on on you you fantasise about it being a guy you maybe curious but other wise just take it for what it is and enjoy "

Amen sista!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"only if he asks to wear a pink feather boa and scream in tune to 'I am what I am' as you pump his tight hole....

apart from that, straight exploring his sexual limits"

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And all power to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a bloke wants to be done by a lady with a strap-on, but not by a man, is he just kinky or in denial "

It is what it is he wants to be submissive to a woman and play a submissive role reversal with a woman. Its kinky compared to a vanilla lifestyle but not to many others here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people need to attach labels?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"If a bloke wants to be done by a lady with a strap-on, but not by a man, is he just kinky or in denial "

Do you really not know the answer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup you'll be sucking random cocks and swallowing spunk before ya know it

the next step is flamboyant outfits, referring to your male friends as 'girlfriend' and referring to yourself as 'str8 acting'

it really is a slippery slope !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The moment you stick a label onto what gives you pleasure is the moment that you diminish that pleasure. In no way can taking a strap-on up your bum possibly be gay. Being gay involves actually being attracted to the same sex. Being gay involves having an intimate knowledge of and gaining sexual and emotional pleasure from the contact and support of the same sex. Sexual pleasure from an inanimate plastic object slid in and out of your arse, is more on the lines of just having pleasure from having your prostrate and colon massaged and not much more. If you want to put labels on it it's a fetish and nothing more. The levels of ignorance across some of these forums leaves me flabbergasted to the extreme. I read just now that some poor deluded soul thought that fisting an arse or a vagina would permanently stretch it out of place and gave it labels such as a bucket vagina and a loose fuck. For sanities sake. Ok I'm off to have a Mocha choca late with sprinkles on, and see if I can get a nice pair of panties, and some size 12 doc martins, with the red stitching and some knee highs and matching garters. Then go an pick my wife up.

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

I wear pink shirts and I am straight

If I want a stimulated prostate would that make me gay? If I wanted a female to to it using a toy to stimulate would that be gay?

If that toy happened to be a belt with a prosthetic appendage but she is still a female and I am still having a sexual act with a female

Then I am still straight but ever so slightly not vanilla

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"If a bloke wants to be done by a lady with a strap-on, but not by a man, is he just kinky or in denial "

It's not that kinky anymore, surely? Gay, bi and straight men all have the same physical body form, and hence the same ability to be pleasured - the difference is in their minds, concerning what they want and find pleasurable.

You only need to be open with yourself, first and foremost, this is where honesty starts, and where you can learn to understand what you need to be satisfied and happy.

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London


"If a bloke wants to be done by a lady with a strap-on, but not by a man, is he just kinky or in denial

It's not that kinky anymore, surely? Gay, bi and straight men all have the same physical body form, and hence the same ability to be pleasured - the difference is in their minds, concerning what they want and find pleasurable.

You only need to be open with yourself, first and foremost, this is where honesty starts, and where you can learn to understand what you need to be satisfied and happy."

what he/she said

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By *thlete0Couple
over a year ago

southend


"But is he bi if he wonders what Fems love about sucking cock and would like to try sucking a cock just to see what it felt like? The Fem half things it would be so horny seeing or sharing a cock orally with him"

We want to try that to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter what he is? So long as he's enjoying it who are we to put labels on him as being "gay" "bi-curious" "bisexual" or "straight" I genuinely believe that there are hundreds of shades of grey with regards to sexuality.

I am on my profile as bisexual, but I wouldn't have a relationship with a woman so does that make me bi-curious? Well no because I'll play with women on their own. So what am I? I honestly think I'm just greedy and very sex positive!!!

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


" It is what it is he wants to be submissive to a woman and play a submissive role reversal with a woman. Its kinky compared to a vanilla lifestyle but not to many others here. "

Not sure I get you. Does that mean a woman is submissive if a man is fucking her?

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