FabSwingers.com forum: What’s a real woman?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See this phrase being banded about and curious to see what people think.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

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You xx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

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Me x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

God knows.....guess maybe the guys would care to explain x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tits and flange....takes it up the bum is an added bonus.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Only the people using the term know their definition.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Tits and flange....takes it up the bum is an added bonus."

That's me then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the phrase ‘real woman’. It seems to be used when bigging up one group whilst putting down another.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

She has a pulse.

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Bet Lynch

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

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"I hate the phrase ‘real woman’. It seems to be used when bigging up one group whilst putting down another. "

This x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

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"Bet Lynch"

Pat butcher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate the phrase ‘real woman’. It seems to be used when bigging up one group whilst putting down another. "

That’s my take on it, it’s usually said to Curvaceous women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See this phrase being banded about and curious to see what people think. "

I find women attractive in all different forms.

I think the term usually gets used to describe women who have curves or as they say, something to grab onto.

I couldn't be so pigeon holed, beauty has so many forms, I couldn't nail my colours to any one mast lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone identifying as female

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

They probably eat quiche or something...

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By *entlemansRelishMan
over a year ago

Colchester

"Tits and flange....takes it up the bum is an added bonus."

Dude don’t beat around the bush will you..... why don’t you say it how you mean? LOL

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

"I hate the phrase ‘real woman’. It seems to be used when bigging up one group whilst putting down another. "

Nope. It stresses an ideal woman. Ridiculous to imagine it puts down anyone else.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Likes fluffy kittens?

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Tits and flange....takes it up the bum is an added bonus.

That's me then."

Hi there

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

No such thing, especially on the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a means of belittling one another

Real women don't do this or don't do that

Real listens and communicates

Real accepts and compromises

Real is fucking rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate the phrase ‘real woman’. It seems to be used when bigging up one group whilst putting down another.

Nope. It stresses an ideal woman. Ridiculous to imagine it puts down anyone else."

No it’s not, in the context it’s said it can be totally used to put other women down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They probably eat quiche or something..."

Or cucumber sandwiches without crusts

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

What's a 'real' anything. Similar to real woman, real man gets banded about a lot as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate the phrase ‘real woman’. It seems to be used when bigging up one group whilst putting down another.

That’s my take on it, it’s usually said to Curvaceous women. "

Agree with both of these comments.

Said in a way to make slimmer women lesser quite often.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"They probably eat quiche or something...

Or cucumber sandwiches without crusts "

That's a real lady, not a real woman lol

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Anyone identifying as female"

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who identifies as/is a woman.

We're all real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They probably eat quiche or something...

Or cucumber sandwiches without crusts

That's a real lady, not a real woman lol "

Surely they can be both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One you don't need to blow up?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

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A woman

A cook

A mother

A sister

A Daughter

A niece

A beauty

A strong willed feisty kind human

A carer

A worker

What is a real man?

Behind every great man a great woman stands xxxx

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"One you don't need to blow up?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate the phrase ‘real woman’. It seems to be used when bigging up one group whilst putting down another.

Nope. It stresses an ideal woman. Ridiculous to imagine it puts down anyone else."

It happens all the time on here.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I hate the phrase ‘real woman’. It seems to be used when bigging up one group whilst putting down another.

That’s my take on it, it’s usually said to Curvaceous women. "

Fat women, CJ.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Dunno, but it's a phrase usually used to fight body shaming with body shaming

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"They probably eat quiche or something...

Or cucumber sandwiches without crusts

That's a real lady, not a real woman lol

Surely they can be both "

I may not be a lady, but I'm all woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate the phrase ‘real woman’. It seems to be used when bigging up one group whilst putting down another.

Nope. It stresses an ideal woman. Ridiculous to imagine it puts down anyone else."

So anyone who doesn't match up to the ideal is what? It is impossible to say something is the best without simultaneously saying that everything other than that is somehow less than.

Then there's the whole question of what is an ideal woman?

Horrible phrase, should be banned along with real man, ladylike, manly etc. They're all subjective ideals by which some (most?) people judge others.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My definition of a real person is someone who is approachable and friendly and doesn't rely on an online persona to attract others. It has nothing to do with looks or body shape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And some one who can be honest with them selves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate the phrase ‘real woman’. It seems to be used when bigging up one group whilst putting down another.

That’s my take on it, it’s usually said to Curvaceous women.

Fat women, CJ."

Nah, I ain’t falling for that one again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They probably eat quiche or something...

Or cucumber sandwiches without crusts

That's a real lady, not a real woman lol

Surely they can be both

I may not be a lady, but I'm all woman. "

All woman here to, I think lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One you don't need to blow up?"

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I hate the phrase ‘real woman’. It seems to be used when bigging up one group whilst putting down another.

Nope. It stresses an ideal woman. Ridiculous to imagine it puts down anyone else."

You not been on these forums long?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone woman is a real woman

Everyone woman is beautiful in they own unique special way

Everyone woman deserves to be treated with the upmost highest respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t come with a puncture repair kit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One that eats cake and doesn't share with no one.....

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I hate the phrase ‘real woman’. It seems to be used when bigging up one group whilst putting down another.

That’s my take on it, it’s usually said to Curvaceous women.

Fat women, CJ.

Nah, I ain’t falling for that one again. "

Not "skin and bone" I think is the term often used on here.

Or bag of bones.

I still have bones you know; They're just smothered in flab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real women don't poop or fart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I interpret "real women" as fat and middle aged. Some people sugar coat it as "curvy"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One that eats cake and doesn't share with no one....."

Should I be identifying as a woman ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

A person who identifies as a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Real women don't poop or fart."

No that's a lady lol but she would have to poop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A real woman is anyone who says they are.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"A person who identifies as a woman"

This exactly

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

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"A person who identifies as a woman"

Me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate the phrase ‘real woman’. It seems to be used when bigging up one group whilst putting down another. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One that eats cake and doesn't share with no one.....

Should I be identifying as a woman ?"

Yes!

I won't tell on you......

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Isn't any woman a real woman. Shape, size, age, looks, doesn't matter, they are all real ,

Except Jessica Rabbit, she was just drawn that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye of the beholder

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have breast implants so I’ve seen men saying they don’t like women with boob jobs they prefer real women. I’ve seen it said on threads about being slim or fit and guys say they prefer real women.

Think its just a stupid thing.

My auntie is a real woman, she wears a tabard and flicks her fag ash in the pocket.

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By *ambertMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Any woman is a real woman.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

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"I have breast implants so I’ve seen men saying they don’t like women with boob jobs they prefer real women. I’ve seen it said on threads about being slim or fit and guys say they prefer real women.

Think its just a stupid thing.

My auntie is a real woman, she wears a tabard and flicks her fag ash in the pocket. "

Ahhh a mans point of view x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All women in this forum are all real and curves in the right places and bloody gorgeous and so polite as well

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

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"All women in this forum are all real and curves in the right places and bloody gorgeous and so polite as well

What you sticking up your bum

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

A real woman is authentic. If you have fake boobs because it makes you look on the outside how you feel on the inside , then you more authentic.

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By *am450Man
over a year ago

North Kent/Greater London

"She has a pulse.

I was pretty pleased with myself having thought of this only to find O was beaten to it

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I see this too about both genders

. And my answer is whatever genitals u was born with determine if u a man or woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is an interaction between humans and depending on that is how you judge each other and go forward.

the only one id call a real women is the one that loved me and was what i wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a posed to a fake on maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy, natural big boobs and a mummy tummy. Just what I imagine when someone mentions real woman.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"As a posed to a fake on maybe "

As opposed

Define fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a real woman is someone truly comfortable in themselves, regardless of size. I agree with previous posters that the term can be used to bodyshame slimmer women. Im kinda in awe of loads of people here on fab and how comfortable they seem with their pics etc. Its wonderful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One who stays at home and has dinner and a whiskey ready for when you come in from the office.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curvy, natural big boobs and a mummy tummy. Just what I imagine when someone mentions real woman. "

I’m curious as to why that type is ‘real’ and others aren’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One who stays at home and has dinner and a whiskey ready for when you come in from the office."

You’d better run and hide now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One who stays at home and has dinner and a whiskey ready for when you come in from the office.

You’d better run and hide now

I can take it. I'm a real man

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"One who stays at home and has dinner and a whiskey ready for when you come in from the office."

You stay home

I work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One who stays at home and has dinner and a whiskey ready for when you come in from the office.

You stay home

I work "

Deal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One who stays at home and has dinner and a whiskey ready for when you come in from the office.

You’d better run and hide now

I can take it. I'm a real man

Haha! You’re a brave man, that’s for sure

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"One who stays at home and has dinner and a whiskey ready for when you come in from the office."

Me again.

I'm beginning to think real women are idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curvy, natural big boobs and a mummy tummy. Just what I imagine when someone mentions real woman.

I’m curious as to why that type is ‘real’ and others aren’t "

Not saying others aren't, just saying that's what comes to mind, probably because it's the type I'm most attracted to. Un_conscious bias maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a posed to a fake on maybe

As opposed

Define fake "

Not human plastic/robot/something else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One who stays at home and has dinner and a whiskey ready for when you come in from the office."

What about the washing up though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All women in this forum are all real and curves in the right places and bloody gorgeous and so polite as well

What you sticking up your bum

A 19mm spanner

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

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"All women in this forum are all real and curves in the right places and bloody gorgeous and so polite as well

What you sticking up your bum

A 19mm spanner "

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Real women is someone who u don't av 2 loose air out wen uv finished and put back in wardrobe lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One who stays at home and has dinner and a whiskey ready for when you come in from the office.

What about the washing up though? "

If you were a real woman you wouldn't need to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One who stays at home and has dinner and a whiskey ready for when you come in from the office.

What about the washing up though? "

And the hoovering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I interpret "real women" as fat and middle aged. Some people sugar coat it as "curvy"?

That's it. Women who don't care what they eat,don't care how they look. Just let it all go. I've been called a 'real woman.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"One who stays at home and has dinner and a whiskey ready for when you come in from the office.

Me again.

I'm beginning to think real women are idiots

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Curvy, natural big boobs and a mummy tummy. Just what I imagine when someone mentions real woman. "

You talking about me again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One who stays at home and has dinner and a whiskey ready for when you come in from the office.

What about the washing up though?

If you were a real woman you wouldn't need to ask

Never said I was..... but I do know you wouldn't last 5 minutes around me with that sort of outlook

ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One who stays at home and has dinner and a whiskey ready for when you come in from the office.

What about the washing up though?

And the hoovering "

Thats what the kids are for ha ha

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"One who stays at home and has dinner and a whiskey ready for when you come in from the office."

That's an awful thing to say !!

I mean ... Whiskey ??

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"One who stays at home and has dinner and a whiskey ready for when you come in from the office.

What about the washing up though?

If you were a real woman you wouldn't need to ask

Never said I was..... but I do know you wouldn't last 5 minutes around me with that sort of outlook

ha ha "

^ She's not joking either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One who stays at home and has dinner and a whiskey ready for when you come in from the office.

What about the washing up though?

If you were a real woman you wouldn't need to ask

Never said I was..... but I do know you wouldn't last 5 minutes around me with that sort of outlook

ha ha "

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

"Tits and flange....takes it up the bum is an added bonus."

Such eloquently put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A real woman;

The superior half of the human species...

Plus they have their very own boobies that they can play with whenever they want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was to say anything that's real to me

Real women put there children first

Above absolutely everything

They keep them safe and away from harm

Real men also do the same as far as I'm concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone giving a definition of what a real woman is.... go sit in the corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was to say anything that's real to me

Real women put there children first

Above absolutely everything

They keep them safe and away from harm

Real men also do the same as far as I'm concerned

You do have that right as a mother would give her life for her children if needed to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A real woman is an honest woman aware that some days they’re perfect and somedays they are nearly perfect.

I think your real woman understands her limitations as well as where she’d like to end up.

I think honest about everything initiate some women more than men

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Anyone giving a definition of what a real woman is.... go sit in the corner "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was to say anything that's real to me

Real women put there children first

Above absolutely everything

They keep them safe and away from harm

Real men also do the same as far as I'm concerned

You do have that right as a mother would give her life for her children if needed to "

I guess I'm a mother then

Nothing and I mean nothing is more important to me than my children

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

No idea. I always thought its a bit of a silly thing to say.

But I will hazard a guess and say without plastic surgery?

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"A real woman;

The superior half of the human species...

Plus they have their very own boobies that they can play with whenever they want!

Yes, but the distraction when you're working though...

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"She has a pulse.

I was pretty pleased with myself having thought of this only to find O was beaten to it

Sorry

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"See this phrase being banded about and curious to see what people think. "

In my eyes, someone who’s been both photo verified and real verified.

I’ve seen people get past the photo verification process so don’t trust that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Curvy, natural big boobs and a mummy tummy. Just what I imagine when someone mentions real woman. "

This is the most common definition when talking about what a real woman is. But why can’t you have a teal woman that’s had a boob job and doesn’t have what people refer to as a ‘mummy tummy’ which usually means it could be a bit big. I’ve got a mummy tummy because I have a tummy and I’m a mother. Yet I don’t fit what men believe is a ‘real woman’. Baffles me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Curvy, natural big boobs and a mummy tummy. Just what I imagine when someone mentions real woman.

Real ffs not teal!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"See this phrase being banded about and curious to see what people think. "

I don't like the term myself because it seems to be a put down when used negatively...

having said that the people who have told me I am seem to be referring to my ample curves and my natural body hair so I'm guessing that's what they mean when they say it???

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Pure and simply....

Anyone with a vagina and boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it all went downhill when they got the vote.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

A real woman is any adult female human... haven’t met any fake women yet but have had a bot send me a message once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See this phrase being banded about and curious to see what people think. "
one with a heartbeat and doesn't require being inflated .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a virtual one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ALL women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Woman who is themself and happy with who they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A difficult one, I am not even sure where that expression come from?

I would say she’s the one who answer my messages because she knows I am a real man

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

For some it'll be one that does what they're told.

For others it'll be one that is totally independent.

For him it may be one that spends all their time preening and looking their best.

For her it might be one that is happy in their skin, armpit, leg and chin sprouty hair embraced.

Some may think of it as the mumsy type.

Others may envision someone who is all of the above, but at different times.

Ultimately it comes down to the individual doing the perceiving. I don't care about being someone else's perception of a real woman, even though it can sting at times when I'm not in a good place mentally. It implies others who don't fit into their box are unworthy or incomplete somehow.

I'll continue to be the real me, with my periods and rogue hairs and independence yet neediness. I'll carry on being the walking contradiction I grew into because there's far more too me to cram into a box labelled 'real woman'.

I'll take half decent human over real woman any day of the week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But seriously I would say she’s the one who assume her life, don’t do drama all the time, don’t wear the feminist badge as a fashion statement, can change a bulb, had a few life scars experience...

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Anyone giving a definition of what a real woman is.... go sit in the corner "

Said by a real man.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"For some it'll be one that does what they're told.

For others it'll be one that is totally independent.

For him it may be one that spends all their time preening and looking their best.

For her it might be one that is happy in their skin, armpit, leg and chin sprouty hair embraced.

Some may think of it as the mumsy type.

Others may envision someone who is all of the above, but at different times.

I'll take half decent human over real woman any day of the week

this and in essence to me that is what we should all aim to do. Is be your real self despite it all. Labels others attach to you only bother you only if they hit a nerve in your own insecurities.

I mean someone called my a fat chimp, didn't care that they called me a chimp but the fat bit did. Because it hit my own insecurities. So I gave my own head a wobble and got on with life.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I think it’s a bizarre description - a real woman I guess one not costing £3000 made entirely of silicon like these new dolls - that’s another strange one - guys who want to marry their sex doll… but I digress…. No idea what it’s supposed to mean - if it’s that nondescript as a definition then it’s pointless using it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See this phrase being banded about and curious to see what people think. "

Loyal ! Doesn’t depend on her man to support her ! Self respect and takes no shit ! There’s more but if your lucky enough to get them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But seriously I would say she’s the one who assume her life, don’t do drama all the time, don’t wear the feminist badge as a fashion statement, can change a bulb, had a few life scars experience... "

Seriously?? Perhaps I’ve ceased being’real’

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"They probably eat quiche or something..."

That’s “real men” is it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A "real woman" is yet another label and a particularly vague one at that.

Often used in lieu of an actual description and/or as a means to justify rejecting one body type over another.

It is also used as a cunning filter by men to allow women to self identify as someone's type.

It's about as much use as "gym fit". Geoff Capes was gym fit, could work out all day, could bench press a Lada and could pull a truck using just his ballsack*.

*I made that bit up.

I'm not a fan of negative or vague lables.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone identifying as female"

Bless you to everyone saying this, there’s so many beautiful hearted people here. The term “real woman” itself is such a weird thing to describe but I do know it hurts so much when someone tries telling you that you are not one.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

"I hate the phrase ‘real woman’. It seems to be used when bigging up one group whilst putting down another.

This x"

Absolutely.

They're just two words concatenated together, possibly with the intention of causing division. I personally won't be defined by anyone apart from me.

Labels are for freezer bags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A "real woman" is yet another label and a particularly vague one at that.

Often used in lieu of an actual description and/or as a means to justify rejecting one body type over another.

It is also used as a cunning filter by men to allow women to self identify as someone's type.

It's about as much use as "gym fit". Geoff Capes was gym fit, could work out all day, could bench press a Lada and could pull a truck using just his ballsack*.

*I made that bit up.

I'm not a fan of negative or vague lables."

It’s not a label mate she’s asking for ur your opinion there’s no right or wrong answer just different perspectives !

Why does some things have to turn so complicated!

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

"I hate the phrase ‘real woman’. It seems to be used when bigging up one group whilst putting down another.

Nope. It stresses an ideal woman. Ridiculous to imagine it puts down anyone else.

You not been on these forums long?"

I don’t take much notice of a lot of comments. The internet paved the way for hyper comments that people don’t actually say in reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A "real woman" is yet another label and a particularly vague one at that.

Often used in lieu of an actual description and/or as a means to justify rejecting one body type over another.

It is also used as a cunning filter by men to allow women to self identify as someone's type.

It's about as much use as "gym fit". Geoff Capes was gym fit, could work out all day, could bench press a Lada and could pull a truck using just his ballsack*.

*I made that bit up.

I'm not a fan of negative or vague lables.

It’s not a label mate she’s asking for ur your opinion there’s no right or wrong answer just different perspectives !

Why does some things have to turn so complicated!

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and I posted my opinion.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A "real woman" is yet another label and a particularly vague one at that.

Often used in lieu of an actual description and/or as a means to justify rejecting one body type over another.

It is also used as a cunning filter by men to allow women to self identify as someone's type.

It's about as much use as "gym fit". Geoff Capes was gym fit, could work out all day, could bench press a Lada and could pull a truck using just his ballsack*.

*I made that bit up.

I'm not a fan of negative or vague lables.

It’s not a label mate she’s asking for ur your opinion there’s no right or wrong answer just different perspectives !

Why does some things have to turn so complicated!

and I posted my opinion."

You did mate an interesting one when I read it a second time

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

A real woman is whatever the hell she wants to be

It's one of those words we love to hate on here, like fake and genuine. It's meant as a compliment to some and taken by others as an insult. It's one of those hand-grenade words and best avoided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not an AI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A real woman is like a good dinner (satisfying)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A real woman is whatever the hell she wants to be

It's one of those words we love to hate on here, like fake and genuine. It's meant as a compliment to some and taken by others as an insult. It's one of those hand-grenade words and best avoided.

You are so right. Thats very insightful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A real woman is whatever the hell she wants to be

It's one of those words we love to hate on here, like fake and genuine. It's meant as a compliment to some and taken by others as an insult. It's one of those hand-grenade words and best avoided.

You are so right. Thats very insightful

Yeah definitely it’s subjective every body has there own interpretation of what they like in there women ? Threading carefully not to use the word real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A real woman is whatever the hell she wants to be

It's one of those words we love to hate on here, like fake and genuine. It's meant as a compliment to some and taken by others as an insult. It's one of those hand-grenade words and best avoided.

You are so right. Thats very insightful

"
But, and this is true.

There are times in a mans life when that is the only thing he can think about someone.

Because (and normally it has nothing to do with sex) that person has behaved in a way that measures up to his idea of his ideal woman.

For it to be bandied around cheaply is bullshit and I wouldn't use it publicly to compare people.

No slight to OP as it is a good question.

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

"A real woman is whatever the hell she wants to be

It's one of those words we love to hate on here, like fake and genuine. It's meant as a compliment to some and taken by others as an insult. It's one of those hand-grenade words and best avoided.

You are so right. Thats very insightful

Yeah definitely it’s subjective every body has there own interpretation of what they like in there women ? Threading carefully not to use the word real

I love the idea of 'threading carefully'.

More people should employ this tactic on threads

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I hate the phrase ‘real woman’. It seems to be used when bigging up one group whilst putting down another.

Nope. It stresses an ideal woman. Ridiculous to imagine it puts down anyone else.

You not been on these forums long?

I don’t take much notice of a lot of comments. The internet paved the way for hyper comments that people don’t actually say in reality."

People say it in reality too.

Although this is not face to face conversation we aren't in a parallel universe.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"A real woman is whatever the hell she wants to be

It's one of those words we love to hate on here, like fake and genuine. It's meant as a compliment to some and taken by others as an insult. It's one of those hand-grenade words and best avoided.

I agree. It is. I’ll never forget some poor newbie man said it on a thread and got absolutely slated! He even apologised yet still it went on. He was really upset he actually left over it.

Was awful.

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

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"A real woman is whatever the hell she wants to be

It's one of those words we love to hate on here, like fake and genuine. It's meant as a compliment to some and taken by others as an insult. It's one of those hand-grenade words and best avoided.

You are so right. Thats very insightful

But, and this is true.

There are times in a mans life when that is the only thing he can think about someone.

Because (and normally it has nothing to do with sex) that person has behaved in a way that measures up to his idea of his ideal woman.

For it to be bandied around cheaply is bullshit and I wouldn't use it publicly to compare people.

No slight to OP as it is a good question."

In my opinion it's usually a poor choice of words and what comes across on the thread isn't necessarily what was in the person's mind when they wrote it. Using ideal instead of real would be infinitely better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate the phrase ‘real woman’. It seems to be used when bigging up one group whilst putting down another.

Nope. It stresses an ideal woman. Ridiculous to imagine it puts down anyone else.

You not been on these forums long?

I don’t take much notice of a lot of comments. The internet paved the way for hyper comments that people don’t actually say in reality.

People say it in reality too.

Although this is not face to face conversation we aren't in a parallel universe. "
If people say it in reality then they are immature and insensitive people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They probably eat quiche or something..."

Cucumber sandwiches at high noon tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a real woman. I have boobs. I have ovaries. I have a womb. I have everything all women have or have had. Except children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all subjective based on personal taste, perception and type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A real woman is whatever the hell she wants to be

It's one of those words we love to hate on here, like fake and genuine. It's meant as a compliment to some and taken by others as an insult. It's one of those hand-grenade words and best avoided.

You are so right. Thats very insightful

But, and this is true.

There are times in a mans life when that is the only thing he can think about someone.

Because (and normally it has nothing to do with sex) that person has behaved in a way that measures up to his idea of his ideal woman.

For it to be bandied around cheaply is bullshit and I wouldn't use it publicly to compare people.

No slight to OP as it is a good question.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I'm a real woman. I have boobs. I have ovaries. I have a womb. I have everything all women have or have had. Except children.

I wish you luck in the battles to come

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By *imandHer9396Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Do you exist on this reality?

Do you identify as a woman?

Congratulations! You are a real woman!

Job done

Her x

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

"I'm a real woman. I have boobs. I have ovaries. I have a womb. I have everything all women have or have had. Except children.

Some women don't have boobs or ovaries or a womb but they're no less real than you are.

It's a very contentious word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A real woman is someone who you get on with and in your eye is a real woman.

It's all in the eye of the Beholder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you exist on this reality?

Do you identify as a woman?

Congratulations! You are a real woman!

Job done

Her x"
As Mumbles nearly said let us guys have a little (should be unspoken) bit of subjectiveness please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A real woman is someone who you get on with and in your eye is a real woman.

It's all in the eye of the Beholder"
True, true.

People just need to learn sensitivity as to when and how they use it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've no clue but am probably less clueless than those people who use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you exist on this reality?

Do you identify as a woman?

Congratulations! You are a real woman!

Job done

Her x As Mumbles nearly said let us guys have a little (should be unspoken) bit of subjectiveness please.

Why? She’s right, if you exist and identify as a woman, you’re a real woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it's a thinly vailed insult... Real women take it up the arse.... real women have curves or real women give head expecting nothing in return..... Its like a form of negging like you need to do this to or have that or els I will view you as less than them

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"To me it's a thinly vailed insult... Real women take it up the arse.... real women have curves or real women give head expecting nothing in return..... Its like a form of negging like you need to do this to or have that or els I will view you as less than them"

Exactly what she said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a real woman. I have boobs. I have ovaries. I have a womb. I have everything all women have or have had. Except children.

Some women don't have boobs or ovaries or a womb but they're no less real than you are.

It's a very contentious word."
but did they have them?

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

"I'm a real woman. I have boobs. I have ovaries. I have a womb. I have everything all women have or have had. Except children.

Some women don't have boobs or ovaries or a womb but they're no less real than you are.

It's a very contentious word.

but did they have them? "

Some women are born without them. it doesn't make them any less of a woman.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

A real woman is a sultry, minxy creature who seduces your mind, often by the way she dresses totally seductively, and if you are lucky enough you get to kiss her passionately, touch her sensuously, ultimately sliding your fingers up her figure hugging dress, passing gently over her stocking tops, and not finding yourself with a handful of balls! That's when you know that you have a real woman on your hands, so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a real woman. I have boobs. I have ovaries. I have a womb. I have everything all women have or have had. Except children.

Some women don't have boobs or ovaries or a womb but they're no less real than you are.

It's a very contentious word.

but did they have them?

Some women are born without them. it doesn't make them any less of a woman.

"
I didn't say they wasn't. It was just a point meaning that's what a woman has. It wasn't intended to upset anyone

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

"I'm a real woman. I have boobs. I have ovaries. I have a womb. I have everything all women have or have had. Except children.

Some women don't have boobs or ovaries or a womb but they're no less real than you are.

It's a very contentious word.

but did they have them?

Some women are born without them. it doesn't make them any less of a woman.

I didn't say they wasn't. It was just a point meaning that's what a woman has. It wasn't intended to upset anyone "

I'm definitely not upset. It's a word that's just probably best avoided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a real woman. I have boobs. I have ovaries. I have a womb. I have everything all women have or have had. Except children.

Some women don't have boobs or ovaries or a womb but they're no less real than you are.

It's a very contentious word.

but did they have them?

Some women are born without them. it doesn't make them any less of a woman.

I didn't say they wasn't. It was just a point meaning that's what a woman has. It wasn't intended to upset anyone

I'm definitely not upset. It's a word that's just probably best avoided."

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"See this phrase being banded about and curious to see what people think. "

A real women is one that doesn't have made in china, stamped on the sole of the left foot and smells of plastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea - I'm fake apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No idea - I'm fake apparently

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hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One that is them self ! ...

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Isn't a real woman one who does not just accept herself for what she is, but walks tall knowing she has an innate worth as a human being regardless of any specific looks, traits etc.?

For me it is about that, and striving to fulfil my potential - irrespective of what that is in the individual case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curvy, natural big boobs and a mummy tummy. Just what I imagine when someone mentions real woman.

Real ffs not teal!"

You are a real woman. Don't get too hung up on the actual definition, in the same way as women say "real man", what's a real man? You are whatever the individual looking at you perceives you to be. It's so subjective and not worth thinking too deep into.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not me, I’m apparently Fakey McFakeface.

People mean different things by it, on here I think it mainly means “someone who will meet me” as opposed to the fakes who won’t.

In any context, I hate the terms “real women” and “real men” because they’re designed to lift a group up by putting another group down. Or sometimes, to distance a group from a badly behaved sub-group: “a REAL man wouldn’t do that”.

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By *imandHer9396Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

"Do you exist on this reality?

Do you identify as a woman?

Congratulations! You are a real woman!

Job done

Her x As Mumbles nearly said let us guys have a little (should be unspoken) bit of subjectiveness please.

Why? She’s right, if you exist and identify as a woman, you’re a real woman."

Nah, I'm not right, "real women" hardly are

Maybe if I sign it off as my husband, I'd be a bit more credible in my response to this nonsense

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One that can pound her manns ass with a strapon better than he can do hers

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