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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys, as I have lost 4 good friends due to mental health problems in the last 6years and also battling my own demons, I'm offering my ears to listen to those who feel like they need to chat to a stranger and let their feelings go,I won't judge I'm hear to listen and advise from my previous experiences, don't hold it in any longer

#itsokaynottobeokay

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

You are perfectly right and I am sorry to hear about your friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It feels the right thing to do

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

Think suicide is still the biggest killer of men under 45 in the UK.

But no one seems to care.

Lost countless friends now. 2 in the past years.

Talk to someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone can be the better friend and check on their friends, a simple text or a 5min call, if you haven't heard from your mate for a while, give him a call see how he has been and stuff, just be the friend you'd want by your side

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I'm so sorry to hear this, OP.

In this day and age no one should Feel they have to suffer in silence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

great thread OP

I'll join ya, anyone needing to just chat for any reason....go for it.

15 yr veteran of depression anxiety and ptsd - still standing.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Anyone can be the better friend and check on their friends, a simple text or a 5min call, if you haven't heard from your mate for a while, give him a call see how he has been and stuff, just be the friend you'd want by your side "

It's a very good point. Checking in is the first step.

Be kind to yourself too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think suicide is still the biggest killer of men under 45 in the UK.

But no one seems to care.

Lost countless friends now. 2 in the past years.

Talk to someone"

It is the biggest killer of men under 45 in the UK ... over 85 deaths per week and absolutely shocking statistics

Heart breaking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"great thread OP

I'll join ya, anyone needing to just chat for any reason....go for it.

15 yr veteran of depression anxiety and ptsd - still standing.

Well done mate, keep at it, keep fighting those demons, I had depression for 10 yrs, I had good family and friends around me at the time, some people don't have that luxury, some only have friends, or some only have family, so always good to check your brother and sister too

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