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"Google the meaning of professional, dead easy ""relating to or belonging to a profession" What my follow up question is, what does this have to do with fab? Assuming that most of us work and have a profession on here. But I've seen a lot of people use the term "professional" on their profile like a status thing. | |||
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"Google the meaning of professional, dead easy
"relating to or belonging to a profession"
What my follow up question is, what does this have to do with fab?
Assuming that most of us work and have a profession on here. But I've seen a lot of people use the term "professional" on their profile like a status thing.
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"Google the meaning of professional, dead easy
"relating to or belonging to a profession"
What my follow up question is, what does this have to do with fab?
Assuming that most of us work and have a profession on here. But I've seen a lot of people use the term "professional" on their profile like a status thing.
They think it sounds good. "Think you may have hit the nail on the head. | |||
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"Google the meaning of professional, dead easy
"relating to or belonging to a profession"
What my follow up question is, what does this have to do with fab?
Assuming that most of us work and have a profession on here. But I've seen a lot of people use the term "professional" on their profile like a status thing.
"It adds to the summation of the type of people they are. They have decent jobs, probably add witty comments to indicate they have fun personalities etc. | |||
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"Google the meaning of professional, dead easy
"relating to or belonging to a profession"
What my follow up question is, what does this have to do with fab?
Assuming that most of us work and have a profession on here. But I've seen a lot of people use the term "professional" on their profile like a status thing.
It adds to the summation of the type of people they are. They have decent jobs, probably add witty comments to indicate they have fun personalities etc. "Perhaps | |||
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"Not shour but I am a professional in the sack lol " Haha | |||
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"They do hits for the Mafia" You may be on to something here... | |||
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"I'm a professional knobhead x " I knew we’d be good wingmen | |||
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"It’s a way of avoiding saying “I’m actually a little ashamed of being on a swingers site and so want to make myself feel better about it by pretending I have all the rest of my life together.” "  | |||
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"I'm a professional knobhead x Tis a skill "I went 2 school 2 learn the art of it x | |||
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"I don’t think necessarily agree it is a status thing. Professional burglar is nothing to boast about. Unless you are Danny Ocean. Or have the kudos of being the person that professionally burgled Shergar." | |||
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"I'm a professional knobhead x
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"I'm a professional knobhead x Tis a skill
I went 2 school 2 learn the art of it x "There's way 2 many 2's in there for my liking. | |||
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"It’s a way of avoiding saying “I’m actually a little ashamed of being on a swingers site and so want to make myself feel better about it by pretending I have all the rest of my life together.” "
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"I'm a professional knobhead x I knew we’d be good wingmen "Deffo tom .double act | |||
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"I see a lot of people describing themselves as "professional" on here. What does that exactly mean? Are you a professional footballer/cricketer? Perhaps you play tiddlywinks? Can someone explain what this means? Thanks "It's to put off people who are offended by the word or don't understand what it means. It works well. | |||
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"I see a lot of people describing themselves as "professional" on here. What does that exactly mean? Are you a professional footballer/cricketer? Perhaps you play tiddlywinks? Can someone explain what this means? Thanks
It's to put off people who are offended by the word or don't understand what it means.
It works well. " | |||
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"It usually means they work in a profession that requires a ‘professional’ membership i.e. letters after their name. Further to your question as to what it has to do with fab, I’d say absolutely nothing. I work in such a profession and would never put that I’m a professional on my profile. I think it implies a degree of snobbery." I would see it as someone of a similar educational level. For me who seeks regular, there would be a better chance we would have compatibility. I would rather read a paragraph stating they hold a professional job, than I can lick for hours, breathe through my ears, up for anything, ask me anything......  | |||
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"It usually means they work in a profession that requires a ‘professional’ membership i.e. letters after their name. Further to your question as to what it has to do with fab, I’d say absolutely nothing. I work in such a profession and would never put that I’m a professional on my profile. I think it implies a degree of snobbery. I would see it as someone of a similar educational level. For me who seeks regular, there would be a better chance we would have compatibility. I would rather read a paragraph stating they hold a professional job, than I can lick for hours, breathe through my ears, up for anything, ask me anything...... "Exactly this I don't see it as snobbery, just a nod that they have a certain lifestyle and level of education, and that they are probably looking for similar.
I'm not sure that it works as a filter for people...but live and let live, it's their profile, and if it has negative connotations for you then it's easy to use that as a cue to dismiss that profile. | |||
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"I see a lot of people describing themselves as "professional" on here. What does that exactly mean? Are you a professional footballer/cricketer? Perhaps you play tiddlywinks? Can someone explain what this means? Thanks "Very broad question ! I’m not pro but semi pro bowls athlete ! I’m a dab hand at marbles 2 | |||
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"It usually means they work in a profession that requires a ‘professional’ membership i.e. letters after their name. Further to your question as to what it has to do with fab, I’d say absolutely nothing. I work in such a profession and would never put that I’m a professional on my profile. I think it implies a degree of snobbery. I would see it as someone of a similar educational level. For me who seeks regular, there would be a better chance we would have compatibility. I would rather read a paragraph stating they hold a professional job, than I can lick for hours, breathe through my ears, up for anything, ask me anything......
Exactly this I don't see it as snobbery, just a nod that they have a certain lifestyle and level of education, and that they are probably looking for similar.
I'm not sure that it works as a filter for people...but live and let live, it's their profile, and if it has negative connotations for you then it's easy to use that as a cue to dismiss that profile. "I've just found out I'm unprofessional... But.. Sitting on fab when I should be working should maybe have been a giveaway for me haha x | |||
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"I’m a nurse and a member of a professional body, who regulate my standards, (at work and outside, hence my pictures being very boring.) I don’t always talk about what I do as I can often get drawn into stuff. So I sometimes say I’m a professional. It’s not meant to be snobbish. " Most people who say they're professional aren't meaning to be snobs. It's other people's perceptions that lead them to make that inference. Interestingly reverse snobbery is often applied  | |||
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"I’m a nurse and a member of a professional body, who regulate my standards, (at work and outside, hence my pictures being very boring.) I don’t always talk about what I do as I can often get drawn into stuff. So I sometimes say I’m a professional. It’s not meant to be snobbish. " It is a bit dodgy being seen to be on a swinging site as a nurse. Maintaining a public image to the public and professionals. Casual sex would not be viewed as a positive image of nursing by the NMC. | |||
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"I’m a nurse and a member of a professional body, who regulate my standards, (at work and outside, hence my pictures being very boring.) I don’t always talk about what I do as I can often get drawn into stuff. So I sometimes say I’m a professional. It’s not meant to be snobbish. Most people who say they're professional aren't meaning to be snobs. It's other people's perceptions that lead them to make that inference. Interestingly reverse snobbery is often applied "With my accent, snobbery is hard, cor blimey guv’nor! | |||
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"I’m a nurse and a member of a professional body, who regulate my standards, (at work and outside, hence my pictures being very boring.) I don’t always talk about what I do as I can often get drawn into stuff. So I sometimes say I’m a professional. It’s not meant to be snobbish. It is a bit dodgy being seen to be on a swinging site as a nurse. Maintaining a public image to the public and professionals. Casual sex would not be viewed as a positive image of nursing by the NMC." It isn’t, as long as you conduct yourself in an appropriate manner. If I had pictures of my erect cock, or was engaging in sexual acts with others, it could be seen as public indecency. But this is a members only site, and as long as I conduct myself with dignity and decorum, it would be hard to bring a case against me. I’m an adult, I like sex, and I joined a site with like minded others. | |||
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"I’ve met lovely people with all kinds of jobs. To quote the Kingsman ‘manners maketh man’. Your qualification or career choice doesn’t define you. You’ll find some real gems on here hidden in amongst the fakes and time wasters. " Very true. Your profession doesn't define your personality. It can do at times though, but only if you let it
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"It’s often used to explain why people won’t share a face pic with you, even privately. I’ve always taken it to mean that they think they’re a cut above and slightly too good to be here. " Interesting theory... | |||
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"I see a lot of people describing themselves as "professional" on here. What does that exactly mean? Are you a professional footballer/cricketer? Perhaps you play tiddlywinks? Can someone explain what this means? Thanks
Very broad question ! I’m not pro but semi pro bowls athlete ! I’m a dab hand at marbles 2 "Ha. Give you a game sometime | |||
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"I see a lot of people describing themselves as "professional" on here. What does that exactly mean? Are you a professional footballer/cricketer? Perhaps you play tiddlywinks? Can someone explain what this means? Thanks
Very broad question ! I’m not pro but semi pro bowls athlete ! I’m a dab hand at marbles 2
Ha. Give you a game sometime "On a public thread you just threw down bro? Rookie move ! Look before shit gets heated !!! We talking bowls yeah ? you ain’t got a fucking hope ! Dublin regional semi pro champ the last 3 years ? ? You sure you wanna keep on talking | |||
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"I think it's shorthand for someone who has a decent job - implying education, money or some level of intelligence. Just a guess though" | |||
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"I think it's shorthand for someone who has a decent job - implying education, money or some level of intelligence. Just a guess though "Shit guess ! Worth a punt I suppose ! So The opinion you have of me on fabs is the above ? No offense I find it interesting actually | |||
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"I’ve met lovely people with all kinds of jobs. To quote the Kingsman ‘manners maketh man’. Your qualification or career choice doesn’t define you. You’ll find some real gems on here hidden in amongst the fakes and time wasters. Very true. Your profession doesn't define your personality. It can do at times though, but only if you let it
Also, am I the only one to read that in Colin Firth's voice? "I read it in Taron's voice.  | |||
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"I see a lot of people describing themselves as "professional" on here. What does that exactly mean? Are you a professional footballer/cricketer? Perhaps you play tiddlywinks? Can someone explain what this means? Thanks
Very broad question ! I’m not pro but semi pro bowls athlete ! I’m a dab hand at marbles 2
Ha. Give you a game sometime
On a public thread you just threw down bro? Rookie move !
Look before shit gets heated !!! We talking bowls yeah ?
you ain’t got a fucking hope ! Dublin regional semi pro champ the last 3 years ? ? You sure you wanna keep on talking
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"I’ve met lovely people with all kinds of jobs. To quote the Kingsman ‘manners maketh man’. Your qualification or career choice doesn’t define you. You’ll find some real gems on here hidden in amongst the fakes and time wasters. Very true. Your profession doesn't define your personality. It can do at times though, but only if you let it
Also, am I the only one to read that in Colin Firth's voice?
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"I see a lot of people describing themselves as "professional" on here. What does that exactly mean? Are you a professional footballer/cricketer? Perhaps you play tiddlywinks? Can someone explain what this means? Thanks
Very broad question ! I’m not pro but semi pro bowls athlete ! I’m a dab hand at marbles 2
Ha. Give you a game sometime
On a public thread you just threw down bro? Rookie move !
Look before shit gets heated !!! We talking bowls yeah ?
you ain’t got a fucking hope ! Dublin regional semi pro champ the last 3 years ? ? You sure you wanna keep on talking
Ah..
I meant a game of tiddlywinks "Never played it ? Sounds awful ? I’m willing to meet in the middle ? Your choice | |||
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"I see a lot of people describing themselves as "professional" on here. What does that exactly mean? Are you a professional footballer/cricketer? Perhaps you play tiddlywinks? Can someone explain what this means? Thanks
Very broad question ! I’m not pro but semi pro bowls athlete ! I’m a dab hand at marbles 2
Ha. Give you a game sometime
On a public thread you just threw down bro? Rookie move !
Look before shit gets heated !!! We talking bowls yeah ?
you ain’t got a fucking hope ! Dublin regional semi pro champ the last 3 years ? ? You sure you wanna keep on talking
Ah..
I meant a game of tiddlywinks
Never played it ? Sounds awful ? I’m willing to meet in the middle ? Your choice "Fuck it. Let's just go for a beer instead. | |||
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"I see a lot of people describing themselves as "professional" on here. What does that exactly mean? Are you a professional footballer/cricketer? Perhaps you play tiddlywinks? Can someone explain what this means? Thanks
Very broad question ! I’m not pro but semi pro bowls athlete ! I’m a dab hand at marbles 2
Ha. Give you a game sometime
On a public thread you just threw down bro? Rookie move !
Look before shit gets heated !!! We talking bowls yeah ?
you ain’t got a fucking hope ! Dublin regional semi pro champ the last 3 years ? ? You sure you wanna keep on talking
Ah..
I meant a game of tiddlywinks
Never played it ? Sounds awful ? I’m willing to meet in the middle ? Your choice
Fuck it. Let's just go for a beer instead. "It’s a plan mate ! Met a lot of really cool people from the uk last night and today when things go back to normal I’ll definitely be heading over I did a lot before all the shit last year nice chatting mate ur a gent enjoy the rest of your day / weekend | |||
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"I see a lot of people describing themselves as "professional" on here. What does that exactly mean? Are you a professional footballer/cricketer? Perhaps you play tiddlywinks? Can someone explain what this means? Thanks "Same as “due to job need to remain desecrate” actually means. “We are Randy horny police officers “ lol | |||
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"im a professional cow herder. and there are some right cows on here "Still makes you a professional cow herder ! I’m sure there was a dig in there somewhere but you keep living the dream my friend | |||
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"I see the term “Professional” being used by many as being a reason they don’t have a face pic available for everyone to see on their profile. We all have the right to decide what photos we allow others to see whether we work or not. But for some people (myself included) a face pic can determine if there’s an initial attraction there or not. " Look I don’t see what the fuss is about face pics but not straight away ! Learned that lesson ! But course you wanna see who your building a friendship with ! Not been vain or maybe I am but I wanna be attracted to that person | |||
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"I see the term “Professional” being used by many as being a reason they don’t have a face pic available for everyone to see on their profile. We all have the right to decide what photos we allow others to see whether we work or not. But for some people (myself included) a face pic can determine if there’s an initial attraction there or not. " Literally copied ur last nine didn’t notice that ! My bad | |||
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"im a professional cow herder. and there are some right cows on here
Still makes you a professional cow herder !
I’m sure there was a dig in there somewhere but you keep living the dream my friend "they unruly gotta crack that whip | |||
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"I see a lot of people describing themselves as "professional" on here. What does that exactly mean? Are you a professional footballer/cricketer? Perhaps you play tiddlywinks? Can someone explain what this means? Thanks
Very broad question ! I’m not pro but semi pro bowls athlete ! I’m a dab hand at marbles 2
Ha. Give you a game sometime
On a public thread you just threw down bro? Rookie move !
Look before shit gets heated !!! We talking bowls yeah ?
you ain’t got a fucking hope ! Dublin regional semi pro champ the last 3 years ? ? You sure you wanna keep on talking
Ah..
I meant a game of tiddlywinks
Never played it ? Sounds awful ? I’m willing to meet in the middle ? Your choice
Fuck it. Let's just go for a beer instead.
It’s a plan mate !
Met a lot of really cool people from the uk last night and today when things go back to normal I’ll definitely be heading over I did a lot before all the shit last year nice chatting mate ur a gent enjoy the rest of your day / weekend "Sounds like a plan!! Have a great weekend mate | |||
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"I see a lot of people describing themselves as "professional" on here. What does that exactly mean? Are you a professional footballer/cricketer? Perhaps you play tiddlywinks? Can someone explain what this means? Thanks
Same as “due to job need to remain desecrate” actually means. “We are Randy horny police officers “ lol "Hahaha. Interesting take on it. | |||
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"Professional can mean different things to different people. A professional photographer said to another that saying your professional just means you get paid for it: It doesn't mean you are any good at what you do. All with a job are getting paid and are in a profession. But not all have a responsible job or one with a recognised status. I think that is how it is used mostly on Fab. But in swinging, there are a very broad spectrum of careers. However, some will need to be VERY discreet (e.g. teachers, legal, celebs etc). " True | |||
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"It outlines that they are professional in all they do such as folding a towel, picking their nose and wiping their arse. They also move swiftly away at the traffic lights when it’s time to go. They’re the best society and fab has to offer. Others are stinky bum, stalling amateurs not worth a look. " Also means they won’t do nothing unless you pay them | |||
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"It usually means they work in a profession that requires a ‘professional’ membership i.e. letters after their name. Further to your question as to what it has to do with fab, I’d say absolutely nothing. I work in such a profession and would never put that I’m a professional on my profile. I think it implies a degree of snobbery. I would see it as someone of a similar educational level. For me who seeks regular, there would be a better chance we would have compatibility. I would rather read a paragraph stating they hold a professional job, than I can lick for hours, breathe through my ears, up for anything, ask me anything......
Exactly this I don't see it as snobbery, just a nod that they have a certain lifestyle and level of education, and that they are probably looking for similar.
I'm not sure that it works as a filter for people...but live and let live, it's their profile, and if it has negative connotations for you then it's easy to use that as a cue to dismiss that profile. "I would make a wager that over half the people who use it do not use it in the context spoken of above. | |||
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"It outlines that they are professional in all they do such as folding a towel, picking their nose and wiping their arse. They also move swiftly away at the traffic lights when it’s time to go. They’re the best society and fab has to offer. Others are stinky bum, stalling amateurs not worth a look. " Ah, I see. Thanks for clarifying | |||
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"Remove the 'ional' and keep the 'profess': Verb: Claim that one has (a quality or feeling), especially when this is not the case. "he had professed his love for her only to walk away"" Well...that's one take on it | |||
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"Remove the 'ional' and keep the 'profess': Verb: Claim that one has (a quality or feeling), especially when this is not the case. "he had professed his love for her only to walk away" Well...that's one take on it "I’ll tackle that one after I get some sleep which should of been hours ago !  | |||
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"The opposite of a 'dosser' " Thats how I've always read into it. It's not so much a statment saying they're in employment its more a way to signal to others how they veiw themselves in terms of education, finance, culture and/or class. Of which I'm not hating on because because we all want to find the sort of people we want on here. So if stating your a professional gets you the results you want with the people you want more power to you. Personally all terminology aside we like to take people as we find them, in person. That's a better way to get a true measure of someone rather than the profile text and key words. That's why we much prefer to meet people in a club than through a profile. | |||
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"The opposite of a 'dosser' Thats how I've always read into it. It's not so much a statment saying they're in employment its more a way to signal to others how they veiw themselves in terms of education, finance, culture and/or class. Of which I'm not hating on because because we all want to find the sort of people we want on here. So if stating your a professional gets you the results you want with the people you want more power to you. Personally all terminology aside we like to take people as we find them, in person. That's a better way to get a true measure of someone rather than the profile text and key words. That's why we much prefer to meet people in a club than through a profile." Yeah, it's why I hated the online dating scene. People swiping left or right purely based on what their profile says. It's so different meeting in person. We're in danger of increasingly shafting everyone into categories without giving it much thought and missing a great chance of meeting some very good people. Sometimes, a profile isn't always a true indicator of how someone actually is or behaves. Ah well. Just my two cents. | |||
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"The opposite of a 'dosser' Thats how I've always read into it. It's not so much a statment saying they're in employment its more a way to signal to others how they veiw themselves in terms of education, finance, culture and/or class. Of which I'm not hating on because because we all want to find the sort of people we want on here. So if stating your a professional gets you the results you want with the people you want more power to you. Personally all terminology aside we like to take people as we find them, in person. That's a better way to get a true measure of someone rather than the profile text and key words. That's why we much prefer to meet people in a club than through a profile. Yeah, it's why I hated the online dating scene. People swiping left or right purely based on what their profile says. It's so different meeting in person. We're in danger of increasingly shafting everyone into categories without giving it much thought and missing a great chance of meeting some very good people. Sometimes, a profile isn't always a true indicator of how someone actually is or behaves. Ah well. Just my two cents. "A profile is in no way an indication of what type of person you are ! Definitely not men ! We don’t write fucking paragraphs about are selfs we’r to lazy ! Literally I skip everything if I can then just wing it wen you get on the site not saying do it but I’m doing alright | |||
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"The opposite of a 'dosser' Thats how I've always read into it. It's not so much a statment saying they're in employment its more a way to signal to others how they veiw themselves in terms of education, finance, culture and/or class. Of which I'm not hating on because because we all want to find the sort of people we want on here. So if stating your a professional gets you the results you want with the people you want more power to you. Personally all terminology aside we like to take people as we find them, in person. That's a better way to get a true measure of someone rather than the profile text and key words. That's why we much prefer to meet people in a club than through a profile. Yeah, it's why I hated the online dating scene. People swiping left or right purely based on what their profile says. It's so different meeting in person. We're in danger of increasingly shafting everyone into categories without giving it much thought and missing a great chance of meeting some very good people. Sometimes, a profile isn't always a true indicator of how someone actually is or behaves. Ah well. Just my two cents.
A profile is in no way an indication of what type of person you are ! Definitely not men ! We don’t write fucking paragraphs about are selfs we’r to lazy !
Literally I skip everything if I can then just wing it wen you get on the site not saying do it but I’m doing alright "I know what you mean mate
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"The opposite of a 'dosser' Thats how I've always read into it. It's not so much a statment saying they're in employment its more a way to signal to others how they veiw themselves in terms of education, finance, culture and/or class. Of which I'm not hating on because because we all want to find the sort of people we want on here. So if stating your a professional gets you the results you want with the people you want more power to you. Personally all terminology aside we like to take people as we find them, in person. That's a better way to get a true measure of someone rather than the profile text and key words. That's why we much prefer to meet people in a club than through a profile. Yeah, it's why I hated the online dating scene. People swiping left or right purely based on what their profile says. It's so different meeting in person. We're in danger of increasingly shafting everyone into categories without giving it much thought and missing a great chance of meeting some very good people. Sometimes, a profile isn't always a true indicator of how someone actually is or behaves. Ah well. Just my two cents.
A profile is in no way an indication of what type of person you are ! Definitely not men ! We don’t write fucking paragraphs about are selfs we’r to lazy !
Literally I skip everything if I can then just wing it wen you get on the site not saying do it but I’m doing alright
I know what you mean mate
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"The opposite of a 'dosser' Thats how I've always read into it. It's not so much a statment saying they're in employment its more a way to signal to others how they veiw themselves in terms of education, finance, culture and/or class. Of which I'm not hating on because because we all want to find the sort of people we want on here. So if stating your a professional gets you the results you want with the people you want more power to you. Personally all terminology aside we like to take people as we find them, in person. That's a better way to get a true measure of someone rather than the profile text and key words. That's why we much prefer to meet people in a club than through a profile. Yeah, it's why I hated the online dating scene. People swiping left or right purely based on what their profile says. It's so different meeting in person. We're in danger of increasingly shafting everyone into categories without giving it much thought and missing a great chance of meeting some very good people. Sometimes, a profile isn't always a true indicator of how someone actually is or behaves. Ah well. Just my two cents. "
Profiles just list items of sex meat. Like a sex catalogue.
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"Don’t know why but I associate. ‘I’m a professional’ with ‘I am a twat’. That’s just my opinion though "Say what you really mean | |||
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