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"Is getting skipped in the forum feeds the Fab equivalent of being the last person picked in PE? We all love the game threads (don’t we)? ‘Send a pick to the above’, ‘would you rather… the above’ So you play along, fab, send pic, comment… only for the person above to then ![]() ![]() Eh you rudely avoided me earlier so yeah your been bitter !!!! Na I’m kidding mate ![]() | |||
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"Thank you for the reassurance. It’s good to know it’s not just me. I’d love to get to know more people, but often never know how to start a conversation. I guess I’m an over thinking. I thought these types of threads will help. Hope you’re all keeping well. " Don’t feel bad about it. As much a “public” forum this is it’s basically private as in there’s a bunch of people that live on here, all know eachother and it’s just inside jokes/flirting you can’t join in with. The discussion threads are best because they value thoughtful comments over flirty banter | |||
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"Yeah it happens. I don't tend to join those threads, but occasionally I do and getting missed out is just par for the course. Being the weird hippy kid who was rubbish at sport as a child meant I was often picked last and I suppose it can feel a little reminiscent of that, but only when I'm feeling low in confidence for other reasons. Normally it's not a problem." Doubt you have an issue getting attention on here ! ![]() | |||
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"Yeah it happens. I don't tend to join those threads, but occasionally I do and getting missed out is just par for the course. Being the weird hippy kid who was rubbish at sport as a child meant I was often picked last and I suppose it can feel a little reminiscent of that, but only when I'm feeling low in confidence for other reasons. Normally it's not a problem." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Is getting skipped in the forum feeds the Fab equivalent of being the last person picked in PE? We all love the game threads (don’t we)? ‘Send a pick to the above’, ‘would you rather… the above’ So you play along, fab, send pic, comment… only for the person above to then ![]() ![]() I gave up on those kind of threads mate, because you’re quite correct, mostly they’re for the ‘in crowd’, but also blokes tend to skip other men to chase women they fancy, and couples skip blokes to chase couples they fancy, so the fun of the thread game loses out to sexual attraction ![]() | |||
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"Is getting skipped in the forum feeds the Fab equivalent of being the last person picked in PE? We all love the game threads (don’t we)? ‘Send a pick to the above’, ‘would you rather… the above’ So you play along, fab, send pic, comment… only for the person above to then ![]() ![]() I feel your pain, it’s often by accident though I feel. Well at least I hope so. ![]() | |||
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"Thank you for the reassurance. It’s good to know it’s not just me. I’d love to get to know more people, but often never know how to start a conversation. I guess I’m an over thinking. I thought these types of threads will help. Hope you’re all keeping well. " It's not just you, it happens to a lot of us x | |||
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"I don't partake in those games very often so I can't say I've experienced it very often. Feeling a bit meh about constantly being skipped over is crap though - if it's a general forum thread it's not deliberate but those ones? ![]() Pretty much ![]() | |||
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"If it was football, rugby, cricket infact, anything with a ball, I was àlways last to be chosen but if it was running, the teams all fought over me... Cometh the moment, cometh the man (person). We all bring something to the party and we all get a moment to bathe in glory (eventually)." Exactly mate. Well said. ![]() | |||
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"Is getting skipped in the forum feeds the Fab equivalent of being the last person picked in PE? We all love the game threads (don’t we)? ‘Send a pick to the above’, ‘would you rather… the above’ So you play along, fab, send pic, comment… only for the person above to then ![]() ![]() Sometimes you can post at the same time as someone else. Just happens., | |||
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"Is getting skipped in the forum feeds the Fab equivalent of being the last person picked in PE? We all love the game threads (don’t we)? ‘Send a pick to the above’, ‘would you rather… the above’ So you play along, fab, send pic, comment… only for the person above to then ![]() ![]() Not just you.... I've been in here years but regularly get ignored or skipped over. It's amusing sometimes as it's often new guys to the forums trying their best to get noticed by the sirens ![]() | |||
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"If you are commenting after a hot girl then the likelihood is you and 10 guys are going to reply and therefore you’ll get overlooked. Those type of games are always going to turn into chaos because every guy wants to respond to a woman and not another man. On normal type threads, people will tend to either reply to a known person or an interesting comment. Say enough interesting things and you’ll start getting noticed. Think you are getting over looked and therefore don’t comment, then you’ll just fade into the background. I comment for me really...I don’t really care so much whether that comment gets replied to or ignored. I’ve said what I wanted to on the thread ![]() Agree with this. Generally I comment on things that I have an opinion on & want to voice it, whether or not others agree, or disagree, or appreciate my input, is irrelevant really. I am unapologetically myself. You aren't being overlooked on purpose. Join in with discussion threads and just be yourself & you will slowly build your own little network of familiar forumites. | |||
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"I don't partake in those games very often so I can't say I've experienced it very often. Feeling a bit meh about constantly being skipped over is crap though - if it's a general forum thread it's not deliberate but those ones? ![]() I did actually LOL at "horny adults who haven't been out for a year" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think valuing your self esteem sometimes means protecting it by not doing things that might damage it. Even the strongest, most confident of people will feel bad about constant (perceived) rejection. I say perceived because it's not 'you' being passed over, it's a representation of you in a virtual game ![]() ![]() Like this a lot !!!! Very well put ![]() | |||
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"I think valuing your self esteem sometimes means protecting it by not doing things that might damage it. Even the strongest, most confident of people will feel bad about constant (perceived) rejection. I say perceived because it's not 'you' being passed over, it's a representation of you in a virtual game ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think valuing your self esteem sometimes means protecting it by not doing things that might damage it. Even the strongest, most confident of people will feel bad about constant (perceived) rejection. I say perceived because it's not 'you' being passed over, it's a representation of you in a virtual game ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I get there are people that can handle the bullshit that comes with this place I can’t but it so eloquent as you put it but yes the threads can be tough on the people with less self confidence and I always try throw the best advice I can some is good some I’m crazy messy ! But I don’t need to add anything to what you wrote it was perfect ![]() | |||
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"Is getting skipped in the forum feeds the Fab equivalent of being the last person picked in PE? We all love the game threads (don’t we)? ‘Send a pick to the above’, ‘would you rather… the above’ So you play along, fab, send pic, comment… only for the person above to then ![]() ![]() Welcome to the forums, common.occurance don't sweat it fuck it | |||
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"Is getting skipped in the forum feeds the Fab equivalent of being the last person picked in PE? We all love the game threads (don’t we)? ‘Send a pick to the above’, ‘would you rather… the above’ So you play along, fab, send pic, comment… only for the person above to then ![]() ![]() I always try and quote, to show who I’m talking to. I guess it’s just the nature of the site, people go for who they’re attracted to, not some new nerd like me. S’life! ![]() | |||
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"Is getting skipped in the forum feeds the Fab equivalent of being the last person picked in PE? We all love the game threads (don’t we)? ‘Send a pick to the above’, ‘would you rather… the above’ So you play along, fab, send pic, comment… only for the person above to then ![]() ![]() ![]() Don’t pull the pity party poor nerd dude routine ! Your smart women love that ! I’m told anyway I don’t have first hand experience ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Is getting skipped in the forum feeds the Fab equivalent of being the last person picked in PE? We all love the game threads (don’t we)? ‘Send a pick to the above’, ‘would you rather… the above’ So you play along, fab, send pic, comment… only for the person above to then ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Is getting skipped in the forum feeds the Fab equivalent of being the last person picked in PE? We all love the game threads (don’t we)? ‘Send a pick to the above’, ‘would you rather… the above’ So you play along, fab, send pic, comment… only for the person above to then ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Wasn’t been rude there pal just so you know just more a pep talk ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Is getting skipped in the forum feeds the Fab equivalent of being the last person picked in PE? We all love the game threads (don’t we)? ‘Send a pick to the above’, ‘would you rather… the above’ So you play along, fab, send pic, comment… only for the person above to then ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I didn’t think you were , I was laughing at you laughing at yourself. I also didn’t mean it to sound like poor me! ![]() | |||
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"Is getting skipped in the forum feeds the Fab equivalent of being the last person picked in PE? We all love the game threads (don’t we)? ‘Send a pick to the above’, ‘would you rather… the above’ So you play along, fab, send pic, comment… only for the person above to then ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() As long as we’r laughing mate things can get misconstrued so easily I’m not here to be a dick head ! Glad we cleared that up ![]() | |||
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"Is getting skipped in the forum feeds the Fab equivalent of being the last person picked in PE? We all love the game threads (don’t we)? ‘Send a pick to the above’, ‘would you rather… the above’ So you play along, fab, send pic, comment… only for the person above to then ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I didn’t think that mate, at all! | |||
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"Happens all the time and it's the nature of the forums. I rarely get fabs or winks through those threads and in the ask in private threads 99 percent of questions come from those on my friends list. There will always be those who join threads with no intention of taking part but are happy to be fabbed and winked by others. I used to take it personally when my forum comments were ignored but even though it still happens I persevere and don't let it put me off posting. " I’m glad you used the term “used” to take it personally this site in the scheme of actually life is nothing ! To much time and stress is based on social media it’s crazy to me ! Post what the fuck you want say wat you want as long as your not offending nobody ! This is fabs people let’s have a laugh and stop worrying about wat people say on forums ! Unless it’s me then I apologize for the madness ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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