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Do body tone matter to you for an ideal meet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes or no ?

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no but english does

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"no but english does"

Aww. Shame Scottish doesn’t past muster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no but english does

Aww. Shame Scottish doesn’t past muster. "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence and personalty beats anything , women love a confident guy. Being big and ripped does no favours haha . Maybe the odd

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

It definitely matters.

That’s not to say it’s the deciding feature.

But if your ripped it’s gonna open more doors than it closes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Colour or muscles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we're talking about the "ideal" meet, where everything is perfect, then of course he would have an awesome body, amazing looks, great personality, confidence and would make me laugh constantly, then he'd be phenomenal in bed lol

But I certainly don't insist on all these things when I meet someone, and some are way more important than others to me.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"Colour or muscles?"

Exactly, this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. As long as we are into that person. If we have a connection with them is infinitely more important.

J

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Nope

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

No I love curves x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It depends on whether you mean somebody should have what the media portrays as an attractive body. The answer to that is no.

I (Luke) am attracted to people at the larger end of the spectrum. There is such a thing as too slim but there is also such a thing as too large. I'm attracted to what I'm attracted to. Body shape is part of what I'm attracted to but what the media pushes is too small for my liking. I love mum tums and muffin tops. I find realistic bodies very sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 st or 18 id fuck you in ways even the lord can't explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8 st or 18 id fuck you in ways even the lord can't explain "

Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No xx

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I am attracted initially to men of a heavier chunky build personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we're talking about the "ideal" meet, where everything is perfect, then of course he would have an awesome body, amazing looks, great personality, confidence and would make me laugh constantly, then he'd be phenomenal in bed lol

But I certainly don't insist on all these things when I meet someone, and some are way more important than others to me."

Check, check, check, check, ahhhh shit, I’m terrible in bed, I get crumbs every where.

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By *ornyone30Man
over a year ago

ABERDEEN

Confidence in your own skin is the sexiest thing around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The face is the most important part. A guy could be shredded to hell with a lovely penis but if his face isn’t handsome then it cancels out the rest.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No it doesn't. If all you are attracted to is the body then you are about as shallow as a puddle!

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"No it doesn't. If all you are attracted to is the body then you are about as shallow as a puddle!"

Come jump in me x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"no but english does"

Would that include punctuation use?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"No it doesn't. If all you are attracted to is the body then you are about as shallow as a puddle!

Come jump in me x "

Don't you mean on you? x

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"no but english does

Would that include punctuation use? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter to me. I like a real woman. Ultimately though it is about the person and how they interact with me. I love a woman who can make me laugh and find it a real turn on when she does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I discovered that when I got toned and in to shape I had a lot more interest in my profile. Covid and a bad knee injury has seen the return of my dad bod hence why i removed my torso photo's and now I barely get any interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter to me. I like a real woman. Ultimately though it is about the person and how they interact with me. I love a woman who can make me laugh and find it a real turn on when she does. "

What does that sentence mean? Doesn’t matter to you, you like a real woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what you even asking?.... Like the tone of there skin or if there physically toned?.... Either way couldn't care less about such trivial things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body tone is probably one of the last things I'd consider

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Muscle tone? Enough to keep his body off mine when needed

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Skin colour doesn't matter to me but I like a person's body to be in the slim to average/rugby build range. I'm not especially bothered by muscle tone but we'll toned guy can be very attractive to look at.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Doesn't matter to me. I like a real woman. Ultimately though it is about the person and how they interact with me. I love a woman who can make me laugh and find it a real turn on when she does.

What does that sentence mean? Doesn’t matter to you, you like a real woman "

Not a blow up doll?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter to me. I like a real woman. Ultimately though it is about the person and how they interact with me. I love a woman who can make me laugh and find it a real turn on when she does.

What does that sentence mean? Doesn’t matter to you, you like a real woman

Not a blow up doll?"

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"Confidence and personalty beats anything , women love a confident guy. Being big and ripped does no favours haha . Maybe the odd"

Your body, many banter......haha we’d take over the forums!!!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"The face is the most important part. A guy could be shredded to hell with a lovely penis but if his face isn’t handsome then it cancels out the rest. "

^^^This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...

But a nice smile, good manners, a wicked sense of humour and a penchant for receiving oral are

Lol

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"If we're talking about the "ideal" meet, where everything is perfect, then of course he would have an awesome body, amazing looks, great personality, confidence and would make me laugh constantly, then he'd be phenomenal in bed lol

But I certainly don't insist on all these things when I meet someone, and some are way more important than others to me.

Check, check, check, check, ahhhh shit, I’m terrible in bed, I get crumbs every where. "

Crumbs in bed Reaching for the block button as that's a cardinal sin!

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town


"No...

But a nice smile, good manners, a wicked sense of humour and a penchant for receiving oral are

Lol "

We second this.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

My lack of body tone is what bothers me

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"No it doesn't. If all you are attracted to is the body then you are about as shallow as a puddle!

Come jump in me x

Don't you mean on you? x"

I know wot I mean x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"No it doesn't. If all you are attracted to is the body then you are about as shallow as a puddle!

Come jump in me x

Don't you mean on you? x

I know wot I mean x "

I know you know x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being about to laugh together is one of the most important things to me.

like the first time Nora was naked in front of me i couldnt stop laughing!

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Doesn't matter to me. I like a real woman. Ultimately though it is about the person and how they interact with me. I love a woman who can make me laugh and find it a real turn on when she does. "

Whats a real woman?

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Colour or muscles?"

musicality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Confidence and personalty beats anything , women love a confident guy. Being big and ripped does no favours haha . Maybe the odd"

So why do you train to keep in shape if it don’t matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It definitely matters.

That’s not to say it’s the deciding feature.

But if your ripped it’s gonna open more doors than it closes "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Colour or muscles?

musicality "

Wham!

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"no but english does

Aww. Shame Scottish doesn’t past muster. "

It's pass muster

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By *entlemansRelishMan
over a year ago

Colchester

Doesn’t matter to me so much - would rather find someone who’s cool once the funs been had instead of going all weird!

Eyes and a pretty face are a must though for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much tone, but i wouldn't like anyone too skinny in case i kill them with my breasts.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Colour or muscles?

musicality "

AN harmonic minor chord.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Doesn't matter to me. I like a real woman. Ultimately though it is about the person and how they interact with me. I love a woman who can make me laugh and find it a real turn on when she does.

Whats a real woman? "

One that isn't inflatable

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Confidence and personalty beats anything , women love a confident guy. Being big and ripped does no favours haha . Maybe the odd

So why do you train to keep in shape if it don’t matter "

Is it not the case that people sculpt their bodies for their own satisfaction, rather than the satisfaction of others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The face is the most important part. A guy could be shredded to hell with a lovely penis but if his face isn’t handsome then it cancels out the rest. "

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if the chemistry is there no

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Tone... absolutely not under any description... but certain things don't attract me

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

The entire package is important; attractive wrapping entices one in, and if the contents are of sufficient quality and in the right quantity its a winner; if one aspect is slightly lacking this can be counterbalanced by another component.

By the time the contents are stripped bare, you should make the best of it; used goods cannot be returned.

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Not. I’m more interested in the whole package or enough of the package to want to find out more and hopefully they feel the same way too.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Not to me, but it might to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confidence and personalty beats anything , women love a confident guy. Being big and ripped does no favours haha . Maybe the odd

So why do you train to keep in shape if it don’t matter

Is it not the case that people sculpt their bodies for their own satisfaction, rather than the satisfaction of others?"
This

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