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By * Sophie x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

So then you fabulous lot, what is the most jaw dropping, oh my god how did they think they would get away with it lie you have ever been told?

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I'm a virgin, honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a friend once who ghosted me for 3 years.

When I saw him in the street, he tried to say he had lung cancer and withdrew himself from everyone whilst he recovered.

His mum confirmed my suspicion, it was a lie.

Never spoke to him again.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

A guy I worked with claimed on a jolly boys outing there was a guy on the bus who fell asleep wearing glasses so they cut his ear off and he was that pissed he didn’t notice and couldn’t work out why his glasses didn’t feel right.

He genuinely thought we would believe him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a friend once who ghosted me for 3 years.

When I saw him in the street, he tried to say he had lung cancer and withdrew himself from everyone whilst he recovered.

His mum confirmed my suspicion, it was a lie.

Never spoke to him again."

That's a right excuse . Bad enough ghosting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a friend once who ghosted me for 3 years.

When I saw him in the street, he tried to say he had lung cancer and withdrew himself from everyone whilst he recovered.

His mum confirmed my suspicion, it was a lie.

Never spoke to him again."

That's terrible! I don't think I can top that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex told me he had lost his mojo due to a bad back. Turned out his mojo was just directed elsewhere!

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I had a friend once who ghosted me for 3 years.

When I saw him in the street, he tried to say he had lung cancer and withdrew himself from everyone whilst he recovered.

His mum confirmed my suspicion, it was a lie.

Never spoke to him again."

What a thing to lie about!! Are we allowed to say what a gobshite in the forums? Definitely fits the description. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy I worked with claimed on a jolly boys outing there was a guy on the bus who fell asleep wearing glasses so they cut his ear off and he was that pissed he didn’t notice and couldn’t work out why his glasses didn’t feel right.

He genuinely thought we would believe him. "

But was the guy alright? Did he have his ear sewn back on again?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

That she was single. For two years.

It turned out that she wasn’t.

That was just the tip of the iceberg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a friend once who ghosted me for 3 years.

When I saw him in the street, he tried to say he had lung cancer and withdrew himself from everyone whilst he recovered.

His mum confirmed my suspicion, it was a lie.

Never spoke to him again.

What a thing to lie about!! Are we allowed to say what a gobshite in the forums? Definitely fits the description. Xxx "

Was a long time ago and it wasnt through here so yep, can say that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't cum in your mouth...honest!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"That she was single. For two years.

It turned out that she wasn’t.

That was just the tip of the iceberg"

Sounds very similar to mine!

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"An ex told me he had lost his mojo due to a bad back. Turned out his mojo was just directed elsewhere!"

Just checked my mojo Satnav and it points right at you - sounds like he needed an update!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a friend once who ghosted me for 3 years.

When I saw him in the street, he tried to say he had lung cancer and withdrew himself from everyone whilst he recovered.

His mum confirmed my suspicion, it was a lie.

Never spoke to him again."

That's a shitty thing to say. I can't tell you how much that's angered me

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I won't cum in your mouth...honest!"

Not valid if not a pinky promise x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't cum in your mouth...honest!"

I've never used that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm either surrounded by honest people, really good liars or I'm just oblivious

I cant think of any whoppers ever.

I remember a few brush offs from people pretending they're doing something else when we've arranged to meet up and things like that - but nothing major.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I won't cum in your mouth...honest!

I've never used that one "

Is that a lie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That she was single. For two years.

It turned out that she wasn’t.

That was just the tip of the iceberg"

Out of curiosity, did you not go around her house?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

It won't hurt

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

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A friend of mine fled from her ex husband due to an abusive marriage and moved continent. He told everyone she died and held a wake. This lady then phoned his other ex wife a couple of months later, and she refused to believe it was my friend on the phone as she’d attended the wake. Wild!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in trouble with the police once a long time ago, when asked for my name I told them “I am Pete Mitchell”

The officer responded,” So you are that pilot of top gun, call sign Maverick?. I hope Goose’ death hasn’t effected you too much!”

Bugger!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I care about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It tastes like chicken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I care about you"

Yeah I had that once lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't cum in your mouth...honest!"

I'm still sorry about that, I don't know what happened...

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"That she was single. For two years.

It turned out that she wasn’t.

That was just the tip of the iceberg

Out of curiosity, did you not go around her house? "

Yep!

Repeatedly.

We had a full relationship but she spent most time at mine.

Looking back there were more red flags than a Russian semaphore convention, but at the time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose mine would be finding out on my 24th birthday that my dad wasn't my biological father. The whole family knew apart from me.

NBVN x

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"So then you fabulous lot, what is the most jaw dropping, oh my god how did they think they would get away with it lie you have ever been told?

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£350m a week to be saved & given to the NHS on the side of a bus, justifying Brexit

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I'm working late tonight....

Working late sticking it elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did once tell a very clingy young woman I was seeing that i was gay just to try and soften the break up because I genuinely thought telling her I just didn't like her that much anymore would be more traumatic.

How wrong I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not me ... (fucking clearly is ) !!

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By *ewfie02Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

My ex mother in law would contact the police every time there was a major crime in the area and say that it was me. I was arrested several times for murder, arson etc. It wasn't funny. I had to get a lawyer to threaten the police with an injunction and wrongful arrest law suits.

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea


"I won't cum in your mouth...honest!"

I have never said that before.....

Lol

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Sticking work hard You can be anything you want...

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By *1ueWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

My ex claiming he'd never ever been unfaithful

Then she requestd a DNA test on her child!

Then story changed to it only happened once

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By *ewfie02Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I did once tell a very clingy young woman I was seeing that i was gay just to try and soften the break up because I genuinely thought telling her I just didn't like her that much anymore would be more traumatic.

How wrong I was "

I have done that several times! Also told a few men that I have gone straight!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

"Going to play golf". Shame he'd left his 1.5k golf kit in the hall way. When questioned, he said he'd used the club set.

Needless to say, lead to divorce.

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By *C7995XCouple
over a year ago

London

Mr: I won’t cum inside you........9 months later Mrs “well that was a lie”

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

An ex told me her mum had died. Went round with flowers she wasn't in!. Her sister later called me asking what the flowers were for! Yeah her mum was fine!

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By *reamblueMan
over a year ago

London


"My ex mother in law would contact the police every time there was a major crime in the area and say that it was me. I was arrested several times for murder, arson etc. It wasn't funny. I had to get a lawyer to threaten the police with an injunction and wrongful arrest law suits. "

WTF? For real? Man, she must have really hated you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex mother in law would contact the police every time there was a major crime in the area and say that it was me. I was arrested several times for murder, arson etc. It wasn't funny. I had to get a lawyer to threaten the police with an injunction and wrongful arrest law suits. "

Wow!!

She sure didnt like you!!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

My sister told my niece and nephew that our dad is dead.

She disowned him when he moved out the family home. He tried to maintain a relationship with her but she closed the door on him.

Me and her don't speak but I wasn't gonna stop my son from seeing his cousin. She had already said to me as far as she was concerned dad was dead a few years previous, whatever ya twat, knock yerself out, but it was when my son called me and told me about a really awkward convo he had with his cousin that I realised just how insidious she really is.

My son and nephew had been talking about their plans for the rest of the weekend and my son mentioned going to see grandad. My nephew asked who? All puzzled. So my son told him, our mums dad, my mum and your mum have the same dad, our grandad.

My nephew looked at my lad like he was a loon and said "no, he has been dead before I was born"

Breaks my heart man and sickens me that I'm related to her.

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By *atch0101Man
over a year ago

Here

That "our" second child was my daughter.

To tell you the truth these days I have doubts my first child is biologically mine

But I'm still his Dad no matter what anyone says

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"My sister told my niece and nephew that our dad is dead.

She disowned him when he moved out the family home. He tried to maintain a relationship with her but she closed the door on him.

Me and her don't speak but I wasn't gonna stop my son from seeing his cousin. She had already said to me as far as she was concerned dad was dead a few years previous, whatever ya twat, knock yerself out, but it was when my son called me and told me about a really awkward convo he had with his cousin that I realised just how insidious she really is.

My son and nephew had been talking about their plans for the rest of the weekend and my son mentioned going to see grandad. My nephew asked who? All puzzled. So my son told him, our mums dad, my mum and your mum have the same dad, our grandad.

My nephew looked at my lad like he was a loon and said "no, he has been dead before I was born"

Breaks my heart man and sickens me that I'm related to her."

That's absolutely awful!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I know someone that pretended to have cancer. Her husband was going along with it and they were happily accepting gifts and sympathy from people.

There was absolutely nothing wrong with her

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"My sister told my niece and nephew that our dad is dead.

She disowned him when he moved out the family home. He tried to maintain a relationship with her but she closed the door on him.

Me and her don't speak but I wasn't gonna stop my son from seeing his cousin. She had already said to me as far as she was concerned dad was dead a few years previous, whatever ya twat, knock yerself out, but it was when my son called me and told me about a really awkward convo he had with his cousin that I realised just how insidious she really is.

My son and nephew had been talking about their plans for the rest of the weekend and my son mentioned going to see grandad. My nephew asked who? All puzzled. So my son told him, our mums dad, my mum and your mum have the same dad, our grandad.

My nephew looked at my lad like he was a loon and said "no, he has been dead before I was born"

Breaks my heart man and sickens me that I'm related to her.

That's absolutely awful!"

He's never abused us, he's always been a really decent guy. His actions didn't match her wants and she didn't like his new wife. She's a brat.

The only issue I've ever had with my dad was that he didn't leave sooner and have a chance at happiness years earlier coz it left me with guilt that he sacrificed for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest it surprises me quite how often the old cancer lie is thrown around. Seems completely alien and abhorrent to me. Yet my exes ex husband did the exact same thing. By means of just one more way to try and control both her and their children.

Sickening and so disrespectful for anyone that has in fact really had to deal with and battle it themselves for real.

J

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By *ambertMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I had a friend once who ghosted me for 3 years.

When I saw him in the street, he tried to say he had lung cancer and withdrew himself from everyone whilst he recovered.

His mum confirmed my suspicion, it was a lie.

Never spoke to him again."

Oof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An ex told me he had lost his mojo due to a bad back. Turned out his mojo was just directed elsewhere!"

Oh.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"My sister told my niece and nephew that our dad is dead.

She disowned him when he moved out the family home. He tried to maintain a relationship with her but she closed the door on him.

Me and her don't speak but I wasn't gonna stop my son from seeing his cousin. She had already said to me as far as she was concerned dad was dead a few years previous, whatever ya twat, knock yerself out, but it was when my son called me and told me about a really awkward convo he had with his cousin that I realised just how insidious she really is.

My son and nephew had been talking about their plans for the rest of the weekend and my son mentioned going to see grandad. My nephew asked who? All puzzled. So my son told him, our mums dad, my mum and your mum have the same dad, our grandad.

My nephew looked at my lad like he was a loon and said "no, he has been dead before I was born"

Breaks my heart man and sickens me that I'm related to her.

That's absolutely awful!

He's never abused us, he's always been a really decent guy. His actions didn't match her wants and she didn't like his new wife. She's a brat.

The only issue I've ever had with my dad was that he didn't leave sooner and have a chance at happiness years earlier coz it left me with guilt that he sacrificed for me."

I sort of get where you're coming from, Peach, but you can't blame yourself for someone else's decisions.

However I also realise that logic often goes out of the window in these situations.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"My sister told my niece and nephew that our dad is dead.

She disowned him when he moved out the family home. He tried to maintain a relationship with her but she closed the door on him.

Me and her don't speak but I wasn't gonna stop my son from seeing his cousin. She had already said to me as far as she was concerned dad was dead a few years previous, whatever ya twat, knock yerself out, but it was when my son called me and told me about a really awkward convo he had with his cousin that I realised just how insidious she really is.

My son and nephew had been talking about their plans for the rest of the weekend and my son mentioned going to see grandad. My nephew asked who? All puzzled. So my son told him, our mums dad, my mum and your mum have the same dad, our grandad.

My nephew looked at my lad like he was a loon and said "no, he has been dead before I was born"

Breaks my heart man and sickens me that I'm related to her."

Thats awful how can anyone claim that a loved one has died when they are really alive...

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West


"I won't cum in your mouth...honest!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So then you fabulous lot, what is the most jaw dropping, oh my god how did they think they would get away with it lie you have ever been told?

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That hardhouse is dead wtaf, coundnt make that one up

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By *1ueWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"To be honest it surprises me quite how often the old cancer lie is thrown around. Seems completely alien and abhorrent to me. Yet my exes ex husband did the exact same thing. By means of just one more way to try and control both her and their children.

Sickening and so disrespectful for anyone that has in fact really had to deal with and battle it themselves for real.

J "

Id totally forgotten until this thread... my neighbour faked cancer, even telling her children she was having a cancer operation (she was really being sterilised)

Saw her in town shopping when she'd told others she was having chemo

She fakes illnesses for her child too

Munchausens possibly

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"My sister told my niece and nephew that our dad is dead.

She disowned him when he moved out the family home. He tried to maintain a relationship with her but she closed the door on him.

Me and her don't speak but I wasn't gonna stop my son from seeing his cousin. She had already said to me as far as she was concerned dad was dead a few years previous, whatever ya twat, knock yerself out, but it was when my son called me and told me about a really awkward convo he had with his cousin that I realised just how insidious she really is.

My son and nephew had been talking about their plans for the rest of the weekend and my son mentioned going to see grandad. My nephew asked who? All puzzled. So my son told him, our mums dad, my mum and your mum have the same dad, our grandad.

My nephew looked at my lad like he was a loon and said "no, he has been dead before I was born"

Breaks my heart man and sickens me that I'm related to her.

That's absolutely awful!

He's never abused us, he's always been a really decent guy. His actions didn't match her wants and she didn't like his new wife. She's a brat.

The only issue I've ever had with my dad was that he didn't leave sooner and have a chance at happiness years earlier coz it left me with guilt that he sacrificed for me."

As a parent I get it, I stayed with the girls dad far longer than I should have, I think about all those years I could have spent with someone who actually did make me happy unlike the nightmare he put me through staying x

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By * Sophie x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"So then you fabulous lot, what is the most jaw dropping, oh my god how did they think they would get away with it lie you have ever been told?

That hardhouse is dead wtaf, coundnt make that one up "

Anyone who says this is dead to me!!!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've never mentioned this to anyone but Mr N before.

My mother used to say she had a brain tumour, not to the wider world just us kids and my dad. One time she had us all up in the bedroom where she lay in the dark giving us gifts like some final goodbye. She's 87 this month and as yet had received no confirmed diagnosis of this ailment. She now has multiple genuine health problems but still persists with the 'alternative ' ones.

It's a kind of standing, grim joke between my brother and I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So then you fabulous lot, what is the most jaw dropping, oh my god how did they think they would get away with it lie you have ever been told?

That hardhouse is dead wtaf, coundnt make that one up

Anyone who says this is dead to me!!!!! "

Done n dusted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some seriously fucked up shit on here.

I will never understand some people and the older I get, the less I trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some seriously fucked up shit on here.

I will never understand some people and the older I get, the less I trust."

I’ve just read through really bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lad thatworked for me was 2.5 hour late for work,

his excuse..

"Sorry i was in a police chase,i out ran the police cars but had to drive through tesco underground carpark and hide from the helicopter"

Me... in a monotone voice

"You drive a 1.1 Peugeot 106"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shaggy when he said it wasn't him, when it obviously was

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By *ob08Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

Former friend tell me hard bass is shit, I never speak to her again

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By *auti Lass and MoleCouple
over a year ago

Bicester

Ooops sorry, wrong hole.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex friend used to tell everyone she worked in a Norwich mental health institute and Ian Huntley was there when she worked there

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

A girl I decided to dump because of her erratic, possessive nature,,,, told me her mum had died suddenly.... I felt sorry for her and we continued for another month. Her mother turned up at a wine bar we was in one night.....

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

An ex best friend told me she had cancer and only six months to live. That was eight years ago. She's healthier than I am. My mum had died from breast cancer so it was a particularly cruel lie.

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Then there's 'no, I'm not married love'. His wife had different ideas about that. She phoned me up. I was just 18. They'd just had a baby. She didn't blame me, as apparently he'd done it before. The pain in her voice and guilt for being so niaive however, will stay with me forever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably on someone's profile on here but I've not realised it when I've seen it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shaggy when he said it wasn't him, when it obviously was "

Plot twist, it wasn't him.

He was telling his friend what to say

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

That he wasn’t cheating on me.

J

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Some seriously fucked up shit on here.

I will never understand some people and the older I get, the less I trust."

I dare say that it’s not much to do with age and everything to do with being on here.

The depths to which people will delve for sex never fails to make me feel ill

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

My wages were short this month as they messed up.... he spent it on porn sites I later found out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something deliberately said to garner sympathy, gain friends and used a tool to get in to people's beds. Instincts can be a wonderful thing and they help with the sick feeling when the truth finally comes out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am single! ... turns out they were Married!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An ex best friend told me she had cancer and only six months to live. That was eight years ago. She's healthier than I am. My mum had died from breast cancer so it was a particularly cruel lie.

*

Then there's 'no, I'm not married love'. His wife had different ideas about that. She phoned me up. I was just 18. They'd just had a baby. She didn't blame me, as apparently he'd done it before. The pain in her voice and guilt for being so niaive however, will stay with me forever. "

To be fair to your friend I do know a couple of people who have been given the big C death sentence and at the last minute go into remission ... not excusing any lie but it can happen

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility


"An ex best friend told me she had cancer and only six months to live. That was eight years ago. She's healthier than I am. My mum had died from breast cancer so it was a particularly cruel lie.

*

Then there's 'no, I'm not married love'. His wife had different ideas about that. She phoned me up. I was just 18. They'd just had a baby. She didn't blame me, as apparently he'd done it before. The pain in her voice and guilt for being so niaive however, will stay with me forever.

To be fair to your friend I do know a couple of people who have been given the big C death sentence and at the last minute go into remission ... not excusing any lie but it can happen "

My friend didn't have cancer at all. She made it up. Total lie.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Bit of a more light hearted one..my kid standing in front of me when she was about 6 with a lopsided head, swearing blind she hadn't cut one of her bunches off....

Makes me laugh even now.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I promise to love and cherish you till death do us part.

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By *ob08Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield


"I promise to love and cherish you till death do us part."

Maybe wife die next day from mysterious illness and then this is true no?

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Bit of a more light hearted one..my kid standing in front of me when she was about 6 with a lopsided head, swearing blind she hadn't cut one of her bunches off....

Makes me laugh even now.

"

That reminds me of the tine my eldest was an only child & wrote his name on a wall. But it wasn’t him...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm std free

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Bit of a more light hearted one..my kid standing in front of me when she was about 6 with a lopsided head, swearing blind she hadn't cut one of her bunches off....

Makes me laugh even now.

"

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Our son came home from school and had clear!y been using his sleeve instead of a tissue. I questioned him and he assured me he'd fallen over in some slugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a friend once who ghosted me for 3 years.

When I saw him in the street, he tried to say he had lung cancer and withdrew himself from everyone whilst he recovered.

His mum confirmed my suspicion, it was a lie.

Never spoke to him again."

Don't think anyone will top this, like there's folk dying everyday, to lie about something so heart breaking it's actually disgusting behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh! And there was the woman who told people someone assaulted her, which was completely false, closer to being the other way round...and then played dumb when she was confronted...

Just lucky there were a bunch of people present to witness that no such event took place!

It's pathetic how some people spread such shitty, shitty lies around.

Lu

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By *1ueWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Bit of a more light hearted one..my kid standing in front of me when she was about 6 with a lopsided head, swearing blind she hadn't cut one of her bunches off....

Makes me laugh even now.

.

Our son came home from school and had clear!y been using his sleeve instead of a tissue. I questioned him and he assured me he'd fallen over in some slugs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love you and want to be with you forever

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

Biggest lie for me is, I was d*unk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love you and want to be with you forever "

Iv not once told anyone this and lied, I did how ever open my bloody eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't cheat on you. You can trust me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody else would want you or put up with you"

"Nobody thinks you look cool dressed like that, you look stupid"

Liiesss

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By * Sophie x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


""Nobody else would want you or put up with you"

"Nobody thinks you look cool dressed like that, you look stupid"

Liiesss "

Yeah he lied....my cat thinks you're great

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I love you

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By * Sophie x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"I love you "

Already? we hardly know each other

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"I love you

Already? we hardly know each other "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lie to myself in an effort to dissuade myself from doing stupid things. I have a female friend with whom I close to addicted. I have told her about my feeling and that anything physical would destroy our friendship. I desperately want to feel her beside me naked.

I regularly stop her from answering questions on the subject so as not to prove or disprove the lie I tell myself.

I suppose it is becasue I am a coward

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


""Nobody else would want you or put up with you"

"Nobody thinks you look cool dressed like that, you look stupid"

Liiesss

Yeah he lied....my cat thinks you're great "

But cats are known liars who will do anything to get what they want

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts


"So then you fabulous lot, what is the most jaw dropping, oh my god how did they think they would get away with it lie you have ever been told?

£350m a week to be saved & given to the NHS on the side of a bus, justifying Brexit "

Just maybe, it got used up by Covid 19 stuff??

you do try hard with the Boris bashing don't you??

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By *omewhatSlightlyDazedMan
over a year ago

Warwick Birmingham & YamYamLand


"So then you fabulous lot, what is the most jaw dropping, oh my god how did they think they would get away with it lie you have ever been told?

£350m a week to be saved & given to the NHS on the side of a bus, justifying Brexit

Just maybe, it got used up by Covid 19 stuff??

you do try hard with the Boris bashing don't you??"

Covid stuff

Money printer goes brrrr

Covid cash came from bank of england (it's called quantitative easing)

The bus stuff was always a lie

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By *iscreetDonerMan
over a year ago

hartlepool


"I won't cum in your mouth...honest!"

Brilliant ????

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

When I was 14 I had a yoghurt in the fridge. My sister ate it. She still to this day denies it.

It’s been 15 years and I’m not ready to let it go until she admits it

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By *iscreetDonerMan
over a year ago

hartlepool

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By *iscreetDonerMan
over a year ago

hartlepool


"When I was 14 I had a yoghurt in the fridge. My sister ate it. She still to this day denies it.

It’s been 15 years and I’m not ready to let it go until she admits it "

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"When I was 14 I had a yoghurt in the fridge. My sister ate it. She still to this day denies it.

It’s been 15 years and I’m not ready to let it go until she admits it "

Wow. Remind me never to cross you

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I promise to love and cherish you till death do us part.

Maybe wife die next day from mysterious illness and then this is true no?"

I'm still here

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By *omewhatSlightlyDazedMan
over a year ago

Warwick Birmingham & YamYamLand


"When I was 14 I had a yoghurt in the fridge. My sister ate it. She still to this day denies it.

It’s been 15 years and I’m not ready to let it go until she admits it

Wow. Remind me never to cross you "

I quite like the feistiness so I'd probably have to eat your yoghurt on purpose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He said he loved me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An ex best friend told me she had cancer and only six months to live. That was eight years ago. She's healthier than I am. My mum had died from breast cancer so it was a particularly cruel lie.

*

Then there's 'no, I'm not married love'. His wife had different ideas about that. She phoned me up. I was just 18. They'd just had a baby. She didn't blame me, as apparently he'd done it before. The pain in her voice and guilt for being so niaive however, will stay with me forever.

To be fair to your friend I do know a couple of people who have been given the big C death sentence and at the last minute go into remission ... not excusing any lie but it can happen

My friend didn't have cancer at all. She made it up. Total lie. "

WTF!!! Absolutely disgusting omfg why? Just why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was 14 I had a yoghurt in the fridge. My sister ate it. She still to this day denies it.

It’s been 15 years and I’m not ready to let it go until she admits it "

Sorry but I'm so giggling at this ... never let it go hahahahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That he was an ex para who had been honourably discharged after injuries in bombing incidents in Afghanistan. He told such detailed stories about his time in the military and I had no reason to disbelieve him. Not having any friends or family in the forces meant I didn't pick up on any discrepancies for a couple of years. I even wrote a CV for him to get a job at my Mum's place of work which included details of his years in the Paras.

Eventually I twigged, but not until after he'd moved up to Yorkshire with me and my children. It turns out the intricately detailed stories were memorised from military biographies. He was obsessed with the military and knew ridiculous amounts of information about the history, weapons, wars etc. but had been rejected when he applied as a youngster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That he was an ex para who had been honourably discharged after injuries in bombing incidents in Afghanistan. He told such detailed stories about his time in the military and I had no reason to disbelieve him. Not having any friends or family in the forces meant I didn't pick up on any discrepancies for a couple of years. I even wrote a CV for him to get a job at my Mum's place of work which included details of his years in the Paras.

Eventually I twigged, but not until after he'd moved up to Yorkshire with me and my children. It turns out the intricately detailed stories were memorised from military biographies. He was obsessed with the military and knew ridiculous amounts of information about the history, weapons, wars etc. but had been rejected when he applied as a youngster."

Wow ... just wow and not in a good way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That he was an ex para who had been honourably discharged after injuries in bombing incidents in Afghanistan. He told such detailed stories about his time in the military and I had no reason to disbelieve him. Not having any friends or family in the forces meant I didn't pick up on any discrepancies for a couple of years. I even wrote a CV for him to get a job at my Mum's place of work which included details of his years in the Paras.

Eventually I twigged, but not until after he'd moved up to Yorkshire with me and my children. It turns out the intricately detailed stories were memorised from military biographies. He was obsessed with the military and knew ridiculous amounts of information about the history, weapons, wars etc. but had been rejected when he applied as a youngster.

Wow ... just wow and not in a good way "

The really tragic thing is that he's a really lovely, caring, funny guy. He had no need to invent such a backstory to get attention. I was furious that he risked my children's happinesss an stability by moving in with us knowing that one day it would come out. Once the anger subsided I mostly felt sad that he felt so unimpressive that he went to those extremes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are "

**or some can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I heard enough today about lies and true colours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are "

The widow man I presume?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are "

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over a year ago


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are

The widow man I presume? "

He shall rename nameless but yeah, fucked up, truth always outs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are

The widow man I presume? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are

The widow man I presume?

He shall rename nameless but yeah, fucked up, truth always outs "

Yea I've heard some absolute bs in my time. That was right up there with them...

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are

The widow man I presume?

He shall rename nameless but yeah, fucked up, truth always outs

Yea I've heard some absolute bs in my time. That was right up there with them..."

Agreed, bit it shows how people can create facades and personas to dupe other people.

Granted there's some shock around here today at the revelations but presumably that's because the individuals are annoyed with themselves at being taken in for so long.

Makes me slightly more sympathetic towards people who fall for elaborate scams, or find themselves in abusive or toxic relationships

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I love you....biggest lie ever told x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are

The widow man I presume?

He shall rename nameless but yeah, fucked up, truth always outs

Yea I've heard some absolute bs in my time. That was right up there with them..."

Mate I hear some whoppers in.mytime, the gezzer is a wrong un pure.n simple.. if I get called out on that I don't give a fuck, I'll call it as I see it....I've see and heard alot of shady shot in my time but that's next level shit

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are

The widow man I presume?

He shall rename nameless but yeah, fucked up, truth always outs

Yea I've heard some absolute bs in my time. That was right up there with them...

Agreed, bit it shows how people can create facades and personas to dupe other people.

Granted there's some shock around here today at the revelations but presumably that's because the individuals are annoyed with themselves at being taken in for so long.

Makes me slightly more sympathetic towards people who fall for elaborate scams, or find themselves in abusive or toxic relationships "

I'm more shocked at how casually people can go around throwing grenades and blowing things up.

I suppose it's easy if you don't have to pick up the pieces afterwards.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i suppose the worst thing you can do is tell someone you love them when you dont.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are

The widow man I presume?

He shall rename nameless but yeah, fucked up, truth always outs

Yea I've heard some absolute bs in my time. That was right up there with them...

Agreed, bit it shows how people can create facades and personas to dupe other people.

Granted there's some shock around here today at the revelations but presumably that's because the individuals are annoyed with themselves at being taken in for so long.

Makes me slightly more sympathetic towards people who fall for elaborate scams, or find themselves in abusive or toxic relationships

I'm more shocked at how casually people can go around throwing grenades and blowing things up.

I suppose it's easy if you don't have to pick up the pieces afterwards....."

this

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I had a friend once who ghosted me for 3 years.

When I saw him in the street, he tried to say he had lung cancer and withdrew himself from everyone whilst he recovered.

His mum confirmed my suspicion, it was a lie.

Never spoke to him again.

What a thing to lie about!! Are we allowed to say what a gobshite in the forums? Definitely fits the description. Xxx "

As the person is not on this site you can call him what you want

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are

The widow man I presume?

He shall rename nameless but yeah, fucked up, truth always outs

Yea I've heard some absolute bs in my time. That was right up there with them...

Agreed, bit it shows how people can create facades and personas to dupe other people.

Granted there's some shock around here today at the revelations but presumably that's because the individuals are annoyed with themselves at being taken in for so long.

Makes me slightly more sympathetic towards people who fall for elaborate scams, or find themselves in abusive or toxic relationships

I'm more shocked at how casually people can go around throwing grenades and blowing things up.

I suppose it's easy if you don't have to pick up the pieces afterwards....."

^^this. Worryingly it was the number of nonchalantly thrown grenades that has really opened eyes.

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By *uriouscayotesCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Somebody once told me Santa isn't real

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are

The widow man I presume?

He shall rename nameless but yeah, fucked up, truth always outs

Yea I've heard some absolute bs in my time. That was right up there with them...

Agreed, bit it shows how people can create facades and personas to dupe other people.

Granted there's some shock around here today at the revelations but presumably that's because the individuals are annoyed with themselves at being taken in for so long.

Makes me slightly more sympathetic towards people who fall for elaborate scams, or find themselves in abusive or toxic relationships

I'm more shocked at how casually people can go around throwing grenades and blowing things up.

I suppose it's easy if you don't have to pick up the pieces afterwards....."

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are

The widow man I presume?

He shall rename nameless but yeah, fucked up, truth always outs

Yea I've heard some absolute bs in my time. That was right up there with them...

Agreed, bit it shows how people can create facades and personas to dupe other people.

Granted there's some shock around here today at the revelations but presumably that's because the individuals are annoyed with themselves at being taken in for so long.

Makes me slightly more sympathetic towards people who fall for elaborate scams, or find themselves in abusive or toxic relationships

I'm more shocked at how casually people can go around throwing grenades and blowing things up.

I suppose it's easy if you don't have to pick up the pieces afterwards.....

^^this. Worryingly it was the number of nonchalantly thrown grenades that has really opened eyes."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a friend once who ghosted me for 3 years.

When I saw him in the street, he tried to say he had lung cancer and withdrew himself from everyone whilst he recovered.

His mum confirmed my suspicion, it was a lie.

Never spoke to him again.

What a thing to lie about!! Are we allowed to say what a gobshite in the forums? Definitely fits the description. Xxx

As the person is not on this site you can call him what you want"

Oh Good! He's a fucking scumbag!

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"I'm working late tonight....

Working late sticking it elsewhere"

I really was working late!!!

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"That "our" second child was my daughter.

To tell you the truth these days I have doubts my first child is biologically mine

But I'm still his Dad no matter what anyone says"

Good man, will always applaud the man that stands up. Anyone can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a dad.

Best of luck mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are

The widow man I presume?

He shall rename nameless but yeah, fucked up, truth always outs

Yea I've heard some absolute bs in my time. That was right up there with them...

Agreed, bit it shows how people can create facades and personas to dupe other people.

Granted there's some shock around here today at the revelations but presumably that's because the individuals are annoyed with themselves at being taken in for so long.

Makes me slightly more sympathetic towards people who fall for elaborate scams, or find themselves in abusive or toxic relationships

I'm more shocked at how casually people can go around throwing grenades and blowing things up.

I suppose it's easy if you don't have to pick up the pieces afterwards....."

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

Biggest lie:

Father Christmas isn’t real

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are

The widow man I presume?

He shall rename nameless but yeah, fucked up, truth always outs

Yea I've heard some absolute bs in my time. That was right up there with them...

Agreed, bit it shows how people can create facades and personas to dupe other people.

Granted there's some shock around here today at the revelations but presumably that's because the individuals are annoyed with themselves at being taken in for so long.

Makes me slightly more sympathetic towards people who fall for elaborate scams, or find themselves in abusive or toxic relationships

I'm more shocked at how casually people can go around throwing grenades and blowing things up.

I suppose it's easy if you don't have to pick up the pieces afterwards.....

^^this. Worryingly it was the number of nonchalantly thrown grenades that has really opened eyes."

Exactly this. Absolutely no thought or concern for innocent parties and the consequences or effect on them...if you've got an issue with someone take it up with them personally, don't involve and possibly devestate the lives of others.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are

The widow man I presume?

He shall rename nameless but yeah, fucked up, truth always outs

Yea I've heard some absolute bs in my time. That was right up there with them...

Agreed, bit it shows how people can create facades and personas to dupe other people.

Granted there's some shock around here today at the revelations but presumably that's because the individuals are annoyed with themselves at being taken in for so long.

Makes me slightly more sympathetic towards people who fall for elaborate scams, or find themselves in abusive or toxic relationships

I'm more shocked at how casually people can go around throwing grenades and blowing things up.

I suppose it's easy if you don't have to pick up the pieces afterwards.....

^^this. Worryingly it was the number of nonchalantly thrown grenades that has really opened eyes.

Exactly this. Absolutely no thought or concern for innocent parties and the consequences or effect on them...if you've got an issue with someone take it up with them personally, don't involve and possibly devestate the lives of others. "

That’s an interesting perspective, you don’t think that the people directly involved in their lives have a right to know what’s going on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

That’s an interesting perspective, you don’t think that the people directly involved in their lives have a right to know what’s going on? "

It's spiteful, vengeful behaviour under a poor guise of doing the right thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Biggest lie:

Father Christmas isn’t real "

Bollocks it's the Easter bunny ain't real

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are

The widow man I presume?

He shall rename nameless but yeah, fucked up, truth always outs

Yea I've heard some absolute bs in my time. That was right up there with them...

Agreed, bit it shows how people can create facades and personas to dupe other people.

Granted there's some shock around here today at the revelations but presumably that's because the individuals are annoyed with themselves at being taken in for so long.

Makes me slightly more sympathetic towards people who fall for elaborate scams, or find themselves in abusive or toxic relationships

I'm more shocked at how casually people can go around throwing grenades and blowing things up.

I suppose it's easy if you don't have to pick up the pieces afterwards.....

^^this. Worryingly it was the number of nonchalantly thrown grenades that has really opened eyes.

Exactly this. Absolutely no thought or concern for innocent parties and the consequences or effect on them...if you've got an issue with someone take it up with them personally, don't involve and possibly devestate the lives of others.

That’s an interesting perspective, you don’t think that the people directly involved in their lives have a right to know what’s going on? "

Spoken like a true sjw. Do what you "feel" is right, consequences or fallout be damned. You have the notion of being virtuous on your side so you can't go wrong.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"Biggest lie:

Father Christmas isn’t real

Bollocks it's the Easter bunny ain't real "

I did say the biggest lie lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok lets get back to the OP please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking I was a person. It’s a kind of beautiful lie but seriously disorienting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently found out someone I know has lied for the past 3 years.

It hurt and now I'll have to live with the regret that I didn't sort it sooner.

People hurt you intentionally sometimes and I don't understand why

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there


"

That’s an interesting perspective, you don’t think that the people directly involved in their lives have a right to know what’s going on?

It's spiteful, vengeful behaviour under a poor guise of doing the right thing"

However offended or affronted a person has been what gives someone else the right to be a self imposed judge, jury and executioner?

That'd be the same sort of person who'd want their nearest and dearest to always have the benefit of the doubt, the chance to defend themselves and a fair chance to sort out their own issues.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

One guy to me he didn't wear flip flops.. he did. And they were pink. And we wernt even on the beach.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

One guy to me he didn't wear flip flops.. he did. And they were pink. And we wernt even on the beach.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think the biggest lie in my life is that there's one correct way to be and to make sense of myself. That I need to contort myself rather than flourish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saddam Hussein has weapons of mass destruction.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are

The widow man I presume?

He shall rename nameless but yeah, fucked up, truth always outs

Yea I've heard some absolute bs in my time. That was right up there with them...

Agreed, bit it shows how people can create facades and personas to dupe other people.

Granted there's some shock around here today at the revelations but presumably that's because the individuals are annoyed with themselves at being taken in for so long.

Makes me slightly more sympathetic towards people who fall for elaborate scams, or find themselves in abusive or toxic relationships

I'm more shocked at how casually people can go around throwing grenades and blowing things up.

I suppose it's easy if you don't have to pick up the pieces afterwards.....

^^this. Worryingly it was the number of nonchalantly thrown grenades that has really opened eyes.

Exactly this. Absolutely no thought or concern for innocent parties and the consequences or effect on them...if you've got an issue with someone take it up with them personally, don't involve and possibly devestate the lives of others.

That’s an interesting perspective, you don’t think that the people directly involved in their lives have a right to know what’s going on?

Spoken like a true sjw. Do what you "feel" is right, consequences or fallout be damned. You have the notion of being virtuous on your side so you can't go wrong."

My point is that there’s a line between discretion and enabling manipulating behaviour.

I don’t agree with consequences be damned but I also don’t agree with enabling problematic behaviours. It’s a moral minefield and not as simple as being made out here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard some in.my time, but heard one yesterday that just beggars belief so goes to show how.full of shit ppl really are

The widow man I presume?

He shall rename nameless but yeah, fucked up, truth always outs

Yea I've heard some absolute bs in my time. That was right up there with them...

Agreed, bit it shows how people can create facades and personas to dupe other people.

Granted there's some shock around here today at the revelations but presumably that's because the individuals are annoyed with themselves at being taken in for so long.

Makes me slightly more sympathetic towards people who fall for elaborate scams, or find themselves in abusive or toxic relationships

I'm more shocked at how casually people can go around throwing grenades and blowing things up.

I suppose it's easy if you don't have to pick up the pieces afterwards.....

^^this. Worryingly it was the number of nonchalantly thrown grenades that has really opened eyes.

Exactly this. Absolutely no thought or concern for innocent parties and the consequences or effect on them...if you've got an issue with someone take it up with them personally, don't involve and possibly devestate the lives of others.

That’s an interesting perspective, you don’t think that the people directly involved in their lives have a right to know what’s going on?

Spoken like a true sjw. Do what you "feel" is right, consequences or fallout be damned. You have the notion of being virtuous on your side so you can't go wrong.

My point is that there’s a line between discretion and enabling manipulating behaviour.

I don’t agree with consequences be damned but I also don’t agree with enabling problematic behaviours. It’s a moral minefield and not as simple as being made out here"

Regardless of it being a moral minefield, wrong is wrong by anybodies moral compass...

Lies, deceit, manipulation and devious behaviour are all a personal call based in dishonesty to garner either sympathy, attention, ill gotten gains etc. that being said ppl use these things for a multitude of reasons.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"

That’s an interesting perspective, you don’t think that the people directly involved in their lives have a right to know what’s going on?

It's spiteful, vengeful behaviour under a poor guise of doing the right thing"
Bring back public flogging and hanging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people are saying "I love you" ... don't you think at the time the person that said it meant it? Just grew out of it or changed? Actually really curious to know, I've been single for decades lol

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"A lot of people are saying "I love you" ... don't you think at the time the person that said it meant it? Just grew out of it or changed? Actually really curious to know, I've been single for decades lol "
It’s probably a mixture of both some people lie just to get what they want and others genuinely just fall out of love ..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A lot of people are saying "I love you" ... don't you think at the time the person that said it meant it? Just grew out of it or changed? Actually really curious to know, I've been single for decades lol "

I think the words 'I love you' are used so frequently now that people are very casual about it. I regularly hear people use it instead of 'good bye'. I do agree too that quite often people mean they love you at the moment they say it.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

The lies I told myself, that I was happy blah blah I'm such an idiot blah.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Religion convinced the world that there's an invisible man in the sky who watches everything you do. And there's 10 things he doesn't want you to do or else you will go to to a burning place with a lake of fire until the end of eternity. But he loves you! ...And he needs money! He's all powerful, but he can't handle money!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Religion convinced the world that there's an invisible man in the sky who watches everything you do. And there's 10 things he doesn't want you to do or else you will go to to a burning place with a lake of fire until the end of eternity. But he loves you! ...And he needs money! He's all powerful, but he can't handle money!"

Yes religion has to be the biggest humdinger in history.

All the perverts and criminals hide behind it - and people let them get away with it in the name if whatever man in the sky they believe in

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Worst lie...I'm not in love with you because of everything that you have, but because of the way that you make me feel...lying bitch, would she feel the same way if I was on the dole, lived in a hovel, and looked like Quasemodo, I don't think so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab for most is a lie....

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Stereotypes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stereotypes "

Like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s ok, I can’t get pregnant; the doctor told me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s ok, I can’t get pregnant; the doctor told me."

I still love her and our two boys. I just wish she were still with us

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I want us to be together and not see other people ,but she still did

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

And that other classic,it's not you it's me

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"Stereotypes

Like? "

Like Asian people

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"A lot of people are saying "I love you" ... don't you think at the time the person that said it meant it? Just grew out of it or changed? Actually really curious to know, I've been single for decades lol "

Some do, some don't

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Ah no I can’t tell you. You’ll laugh at me for being such a naïve bastard.

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