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The moment of truth

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place

Do you get nervous when you’ve been chatting to someone for a while and are getting on well with and then you decide to send face pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! Very much so and for a number of reasons

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes. I think the day I don't get that flutter is the day I become a nun.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

To right, normally they run a mile

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By *elethWoman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Yep. Do you, Vine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as my face pic is already on here I’ve got nothing to hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess so but I’m open about sharing my face pic anyway, I’m attracted to eyes and smiles

So I love to see those anyway x

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"Yep. Do you, Vine?"

Yes! Obviously the perfect result is that you both find each other attractive. But it’s not guaranteed. I feel awful if I don’t fancy them. Worse than if I fancy them but they don’t fancy me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I do get nervous. Not only about whether I am attracted to them but also if they find me attractive. If the feelings are mutual there's a sigh of relief.

NBVN x

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"Do you get nervous when you’ve been chatting to someone for a while and are getting on well with and then you decide to send face pics?

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No,because we don't ask for or send face pics here.

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"Do you get nervous when you’ve been chatting to someone for a while and are getting on well with and then you decide to send face pics?

No,because we don't ask for or send face pics here. "

So, is the first time you see someone’s face when you meet them in the flesh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I do get nervous. Not only about whether I am attracted to them but also if they find me attractive. If the feelings are mutual there's a sigh of relief.

NBVN x

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Agreed!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Do you get nervous when you’ve been chatting to someone for a while and are getting on well with and then you decide to send face pics?

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That's why in the past i've sorted that issue very early on. Saves awkwardness and time.

Hope it goes well Op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why be nervous.

Trust me.women are more nervous about men rejecting them

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Nope

I tell them early on I look like Quazimango

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"Do you get nervous when you’ve been chatting to someone for a while and are getting on well with and then you decide to send face pics?

That's why in the past i've sorted that issue very early on. Saves awkwardness and time.

Hope it goes well Op "

Thanks, I had one go either way yesterday! So, that’s not bad.

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"Nope

I tell them early on I look like Quazimango "

Under promise over deliver!! Smart.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Yes. I think the day I don't get that flutter is the day I become a nun."

Please don't ever become a nun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I try to get that out of the way very quickly. I'd rather they fancied my face than invest myself and then be turned down.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No its fun I normally do it In the first two days of chatting if I really like him, that way if we are not compatible then it's not too much time spent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why be nervous.

Trust me.women are more nervous about men rejecting them"

How did you measure that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its fun I normally do it In the first two days of chatting if I really like him, that way if we are not compatible then it's not too much time spent"

This

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Nope

I tell them early on I look like Quazimango "
can I be your esmeralda then xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

I’m terrified of them seeing my face, I try and change the subject if they ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I just wait to see the messages get deleted after sending mine.

In fairness I like to send face pics early on so I get rejected quicker.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

If im chatting with the intention of possibly meeting I swap face pic straight away ...So no time to get nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as my face is plasters all over my profile

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

If I'm chatting with the possible intension of a meet I just add them as a friend and bare my soul

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I try to get it out of the way early on, to make sure there's a mutual attraction x

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"If I'm chatting with the possible intension of a meet I just add them as a friend and bare my soul "

I’m off to check for friend invites!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why be nervous.

Trust me.women are more nervous about men rejecting them

How did you measure that ?"

With a ruler

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

No I’ve a couple of face pics on my profile, if I am chatting with someone and there’s a potential to meet I’d exchange face pics pretty quickly, if there’s no attraction I wouldn’t take things forward

X

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

~~


"Do you get nervous when you’ve been chatting to someone for a while and are getting on well with and then you decide to send face pics?

"

Nah, send in first one/two messages and it’s done then. Decision made either way.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"If I'm chatting with the possible intension of a meet I just add them as a friend and bare my soul

I’m off to check for friend invites!! "

Or they invite me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not any more..

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Yep!

I tend to send them fairly early on, that way it gets it over and done with. Although I have mine on my friends pictures so if I add them and they’re still chatting, I take that as a good sign

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Sometimes yeah, so I try to get it out of the way pretty quickly.

Nothing hurts more than thinking your getting on brilliantly, to then be snubbed after sending a face pic.

Thankfully it hadn't happened too much.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Get it out of the way early doors or rely on the connection you’ve already built up and see on the day. Photos can be deceiving and attraction (for me anyway) is not all in the face

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Its not my face I worry about them seeing!

Honestly though, physical attraction is low on our list of compatibilities, as most people look the same bent over a spanking bench!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes a little bit. But at the end of the day you either like the look of someone or you don’t so no point dwelling on it. Chemistry works in mysterious ways and all that jazz.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Nope

I tell them early on I look like Quazimango can I be your esmeralda then xx"

Ha

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By *ostonJoeMan
over a year ago

Boston

Yes it is happening right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I worry more about meeting them and they realise I'm ancient and chubby

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By *ostonJoeMan
over a year ago

Boston


"No I worry more about meeting them and they realise I'm ancient and chubby "

Good god woman! Your not chubby at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get it out of the way early doors or rely on the connection you’ve already built up and see on the day. Photos can be deceiving and attraction (for me anyway) is not all in the face "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I worry more about meeting them and they realise I'm ancient and chubby

Good god woman! Your not chubby at all! "

She needs to be told

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Not at all. My face is probably the best part of me (apart from the fact that it has a mouth I use a lot, probs too much).

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

When your life story comes out and it is not the same as you have told the world around you,

That is a moment of truth

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No I don't. I would get nervous if they wanted a picture of my feet as the deciding factor in a meet though

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yes. I think the day I don't get that flutter is the day I become a nun.

Please don't ever become a nun. "

Catholicism wouldn't suit me

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

On my profile so it gets the disappointment out the way at the start x

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

Yes of course as there's always that thought of:

Do I already know them

Are they a work colleague

And who sends the photo first you or them??

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