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Does my profile come across as a fake/cheater?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been told because of the can't accommodate thing I come across as a potential cheater

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"I've been told because of the can't accommodate thing I come across as a potential cheater "

It's your choice whether you accommodate or not. It's your right. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

Being able to accommodate is not all its cracked up to be, I tell you. Even though I can accommodate, and my profile says so, not a single one of my meets happened in my house. Clubs, cars, parties, outdoors, me visiting others is all I have done.

Take it easy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know, I just don't want my 3 wives and 2 girlfriends to find out, I'm looking for more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man stop worrying what others think or say.

People will always come up with some bullshit reason not to meet.

Block and forget.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Yes....for no other reason than I dont want to read it and you need an answer

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I do always ask if a man is attached in any way of they say they cannot accommodate.

Interestingly enough I have it on mine and can't remember the last time I was asked the same.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Side note.... Ball gags don't silence people

Also, sex while being made to keep quiet is quite hot

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Some people will always jump to that conclusion I'm afraid. Can you put an explanation on your profile why you can't? Not that you should have to obviously.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

You explain why you can’t accom so nope, no issue.

If someone says they can’t accom I ask why... just in case they miss the very obvious request for single only on my profile.

Usually anyone genuine is happy to say why, appreciate they might not though.

Being vague or cagey about not being able to accom would potentially make me feel awkward though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think cannot accommodate is the norm - who would want someone you don't know around your house - they could be a psycho and they know where you live. Meet in clubs, hotels is the only way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You explain why you can’t accom so nope, no issue.

If someone says they can’t accom I ask why... just in case they miss the very obvious request for single only on my profile.

Usually anyone genuine is happy to say why, appreciate they might not though.

Being vague or cagey about not being able to accom would potentially make me feel awkward though x"

I've just added that part right before the thread.

But I don't see how an explanation really changes things because to Quote Dr.House People lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this and here is what I told them.

Ok I'll accommodate just for you, I hope you're ok with us fucking Infront of my slowly dying mother who happens to be on a bed in the front room so you'll have to pass her and the machine which helps her breathe.

And this is a fact.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Some people use it as a red flag, that’s what happens.

If they rule you out for that, then that’s their prerogative. You’ve been around here long enough to know that people discount others for all sorts of reasons, it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No people have different things going on like kids, house shares etc. I wouldn’t presume anyone was married just because they say they can’t accommodate.

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By *ob08Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

Do not worry about it, very few women are willing to accommodate on here, why should it be any different for men?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not accomodating alone isn't a sign of someone cheating, could live with family or have kids with them. It only seems to be when men can't accom they're called cheats though.

There are other flags ie when they can message you, when they can meet such as daytimes only.

So i don't think you do op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to see some women who are reasonable about this.

I think it's a bit cheeky for anyone to question another's profile. If a man did this to a women or couple he would be getting dogs abuse.

Don't get down about it OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know, I just don't want my 3 wives and 2 girlfriends to find out, I'm looking for more "

This is a real conundrum lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people use it as a red flag, that’s what happens.

If they rule you out for that, then that’s their prerogative. You’ve been around here long enough to know that people discount others for all sorts of reasons, it happens"

I know! I was turned down for not having green eyes once

Life is so cruel!

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton

Take it as a positive OP! Maybe they think your to good to be true?! Having a body like Hercules and single

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

cheaters don’t have bounty’s down their trousers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take it as a positive OP! Maybe they think your to good to be true?! Having a body like Hercules and single "

Old pics, I now look like Captain America before the capsule treatment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" cheaters don’t have bounty’s down their trousers "

They have extra poker cards

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

There's many reasons why people can't accommodate, a lot of people nowadays live in shared accommodation so can't. I never assume they're a cheater because of that.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I don't accommodate, it's a personal choice because with my living circumstances it would be inappropriate.

I wouldn't assume someone has a partner or is fake, I'd just ask why they don't and if maybe it would be a possibility in the future after meeting before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will always get the fake profile comments mate regardless of whether you accommodate or not.

Usually from profiles who don't accommodate themselves or have no chance of meeting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think cannot accommodate is the norm - who would want someone you don't know around your house - they could be a psycho and they know where you live. Meet in clubs, hotels is the only way."

Loads of men don’t care if a women comes over theirs. I normally go to the blokes house on a first meet. Cannot accomm by a man isn’t the norm for a man Iv found.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I don't accommodate until I know someone well.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"I've been told because of the can't accommodate thing I come across as a potential cheater "

You don’t need to accommodate, just come to me

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