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Not telling wife/husband/partner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What you view? Why men or woman not tell their partner etc why not seeing other people. Why can't you be honest?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Loads of reasons but I guess the main one is that the partner wouldn't like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently it's easier to ask forgiveness than permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they can? Why does it bother you?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Divorce laws in the UK are ridiculous so often they have no choice. It can easily be financial ruin to go through with it so it’s just easier to cheat.

But if you don’t want a divorce and your just doing it anyways your a cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wouldn't like it done to me. I always tell my boyfriend

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I don't endorse it and I try not to judge it. I know also it can be tough to be this honest and open with a partner (from whom the person probably does not want to separate?) and most partners would probably not be too happy about it, some would leave.

I would not knowingly meet an attached person purely because I would not want to be part of any deception however valid the reasons might be.

I kind of agree that honesty works best, for me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me.

I'm what some call old fashioned.

I don't cheat or play around when in relationship.

If it's not working for some reason you can talk sensibly with sensitivity to your partner and if you part fine.

I see it no other way. Your in or your out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently it's easier to ask forgiveness than permission "

Having been in a long term relationship with someone who took the piss in asking for forgiveness too many times I am all out and have to disagree

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