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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

So y'all may have noticed I'm naked in my Tits out Tuesday pic this week.

I took the picture this morning and hated it. Absolutely hated it. All I can see are the bits of my body that I can't stand. But instead of deleting it as I would usually, I posted it here. There are three reasons I went that way.

1. I couldn't be arsed to take yet another almost identical boob picture to the ones I already have.

2. This is me. If you're going to see me naked in person you'll see all of me eventually, and if you're not then it doesn't matter anyway.

3. It might encourage those women who think they're fat and have rolls to reconsider.

I should point out, I still picked the least unflattering of a dodgy bunch, I'm not that brave.

And I've been overwhelmed by the positive reaction to the picture. Ok, maybe a lot of it is boob blindness... show the tits and people see nothing else.... but I've also had messages from women saying they wish they had my confidence. It isn't confidence though, although I'm getting more so. It is just the three reasons above (with a bit of one more but that's my secret ).

This ramble is leading to my question. Is there a part of your body you wouldn't normally show? Or have done once and been amazed by the positive reaction? Would you share it with us here?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Just wanted to say you’re amazing and you look beautiful in that pic

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Just wanted to say you’re amazing and you look beautiful in that pic "

I love you woman

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

You’re gorgeous NSP. Celebrate all of you!

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Good 4 u x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look great, I don’t know as I could do that pose as my boobs without a bra and my stomach are horrible to me. I have done a pic like that but with lingerie on and it was well fabbed x

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I don’t show my face publicly on here or my bum hole. Just in case people get them confused.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I won't share my bits anymore than I'll share my jaffa cakes.

By the time people are seeing my podge n wonky spaniels ears I've already voodoo magic'd em into thinking I'm perfect.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

It's a lovely pic Posh. I tend to post pictures of me I don't particularly like on a regular basis. And nobody has ever said anything worse than the normal idiots.

It's good to accept your body how it is, fab has been good for that for me personally.

Lush picture Posh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yayyyy, good on you. I think you look great and why not show the world what a normal body looks like.

I'm a very similar size (I don't actually know but we look fairly similar) and it makes me want to go and do the same!!

Bit of a cliché but Girl power!! Love it xx

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"You’re gorgeous NSP. Celebrate all of you! "

Nah. Not my feet

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Good 4 u x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find it amazingly brave when anyone posts a picture of themselves unhidden by lingerie or clothing, it's a very vulnerable thing to do and so it's great that you felt confident enough to be brave in this way.

I personally hate my tummy and a few extra lockdown pounds hasn't helped with this. I hide it as much as possible in my photos. Funnily enough I don't think guys care in the slightest, but I always imagine they will.

Maybe I should be braver with my flabby tummy!

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

Yeah I think stomach for me, but actually through being on Fab I've gained a lot more love of it and have seen that a lack of "posing" and realness is really appreciated by the male contingent.

Same with my bed face, I've exchanged vids a couple of times with no makeup just naked and just felt really sexy in the moment.

This place is very good at times in getting you out of your self-criticism

I agree, you look awesome and I love your post x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I never show my tum directly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my big belly however one of my more recent pics have got a bit of it showing

Also my lumpy dimply arse, ever since a guy messaged me to tell me that my arse is lumpy I can't see past that

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I like the shape of my legs, but they are short.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Sometimes thanks to my endometriosis, my stomach swells to the point I look pregnant. I can go from feeling great looking in the mirror to the next day feeling like a heffalump . I also hate my back fat and my scar can give me a roll under my boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a bit of a belly and a few chins, which I hate so I don't post them in here, in the open as I feel ashamed of my body so I won't force it on the whole forum x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look amazing in that picture, and knowing how hard you find it, you’re also so brave too

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have a baggy, craggy, saggy body and i dont care im happy to gwt naked but not in here. I dont get body parts out on here

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"You look great, I don’t know as I could do that pose as my boobs without a bra and my stomach are horrible to me. I have done a pic like that but with lingerie on and it was well fabbed x "

I hate my stomach. With a fiery vengeance. That's the main issue I have with the picture. And the fact that my boobs are pretty much meeting my belly button. And the six chins.

A year ago I never would have had even a boob out on here. I certainly wouldn't have taken a naked photo at all. I still only have one mirror in my house (bathroom) because I hate looking at myself. Confidence, not so much. Acceptance is the word. And you can do it. If you want to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you. I have bits I don't like. It also took me quite a few months to show my boobs on fab when I was on before this profile. I had no confidence at all a few months before joining and it took me a while to bare myself on here. It doesn't matter what body type we have we can all be self conscious or lack confidence. And it can take months or longer to get to a comfortable place.

I love it when I see people comfortable in themselves. It's also sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nsp you look beautiful

I'm not a massive fan of my tummy, I have posted on here occasionally a fully naked pic but it's not often , because I'd rather hide it away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely beautiful NSP

I hope to be as brave one day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look great and be proud xx

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Proud of ya Posh

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Like you NSP probably my tummy, I’ll usually place an arm across in pics although I’m much more accepting of it now than I ever was before

I love your pic

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Looking great.

I can't stand my bum. The deal job has turned out into a flabby old man butt

I've started doing lots of squats to try firming it up a bit though.

Not sure I'm as brave as you to post it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love your new pic NSP and I think we're all better off for the bravery you've shown and hopefully it can encourage other people to do the dlsame

I was never a huge fan of my entire body to start with as I always saw myself as too skinny, especially in my arms and shoulders, it was so difficult to find angles that I thought made me look good. I'm still not satisfied but I'm definitely in a better place with how I think I look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look great, I don’t know as I could do that pose as my boobs without a bra and my stomach are horrible to me. I have done a pic like that but with lingerie on and it was well fabbed x

I hate my stomach. With a fiery vengeance. That's the main issue I have with the picture. And the fact that my boobs are pretty much meeting my belly button. And the six chins.

A year ago I never would have had even a boob out on here. I certainly wouldn't have taken a naked photo at all. I still only have one mirror in my house (bathroom) because I hate looking at myself. Confidence, not so much. Acceptance is the word. And you can do it. If you want to x"

Yes very true, just have a hernia that sticks out in my stomach, so I’m very aware of that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done you, you look great. I don't like my stomach much, its ok when I'm laying down but it's wobblier than I'd like but the older I get the more I'm learning to love what I have.

I think we're designed to always dislike something. I've been in much better shape than I am now and looking back had nothing to complain about but I still had things I wasn't happy about

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

You empower yourself immensely with this picture and approach. Your personality shines through the forums anyway, and less people are bothered about wibbly bits than we think.

I've always had a photo that showed everything in its natural imperfect glory that I would send via message if I thought things were going to get naked. I ended up adding it into my profile photos of old. Nothing changed in my apparent desireableness

Keep on the path of owning who and what you are x

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"So y'all may have noticed I'm naked in my Tits out Tuesday pic this week.

I took the picture this morning and hated it. Absolutely hated it. All I can see are the bits of my body that I can't stand. But instead of deleting it as I would usually, I posted it here. There are three reasons I went that way.

1. I couldn't be arsed to take yet another almost identical boob picture to the ones I already have.

2. This is me. If you're going to see me naked in person you'll see all of me eventually, and if you're not then it doesn't matter anyway.

3. It might encourage those women who think they're fat and have rolls to reconsider.

I should point out, I still picked the least unflattering of a dodgy bunch, I'm not that brave.

And I've been overwhelmed by the positive reaction to the picture. Ok, maybe a lot of it is boob blindness... show the tits and people see nothing else.... but I've also had messages from women saying they wish they had my confidence. It isn't confidence though, although I'm getting more so. It is just the three reasons above (with a bit of one more but that's my secret ).

This ramble is leading to my question. Is there a part of your body you wouldn't normally show? Or have done once and been amazed by the positive reaction? Would you share it with us here?"

There’s nothing wrong with a woman showing off her body. I for one am a total perve x

And to answer your question: little Tony

I don’t share or show him unless specifically asked.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I think you look incredible, and it’s so inspiring to see woman embracing there bodies! You are beautiful inside and out NSP

I try to keep my photos classy although I’ve shown most of my bits some days I feel more comfortable in my own skin than others but over the years I’ve learned to love what I’ve got.

Xx

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I hate my tummy but I've reached a place like you where I'm like you know what if anyone meets me and it leads to anything they're gonna see it, so just embrace it, hence my pic this week.

You look amazing hun!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Can I change everything about my body please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for an amazing post and your photo is fab... You should be very proud of your body. This will inspire a lot of to embrace who we are. The vast majority of us have body issues so you have highlighted that it's important to be yourself. Thanks again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So y'all may have noticed I'm naked in my Tits out Tuesday pic this week.

I took the picture this morning and hated it. Absolutely hated it. All I can see are the bits of my body that I can't stand. But instead of deleting it as I would usually, I posted it here. There are three reasons I went that way.

1. I couldn't be arsed to take yet another almost identical boob picture to the ones I already have.

2. This is me. If you're going to see me naked in person you'll see all of me eventually, and if you're not then it doesn't matter anyway.

3. It might encourage those women who think they're fat and have rolls to reconsider.

I should point out, I still picked the least unflattering of a dodgy bunch, I'm not that brave.

And I've been overwhelmed by the positive reaction to the picture. Ok, maybe a lot of it is boob blindness... show the tits and people see nothing else.... but I've also had messages from women saying they wish they had my confidence. It isn't confidence though, although I'm getting more so. It is just the three reasons above (with a bit of one more but that's my secret ).

This ramble is leading to my question. Is there a part of your body you wouldn't normally show? Or have done once and been amazed by the positive reaction? Would you share it with us here?"

I've taken a photo I wouldn't ever have before. So thankyou.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Well done NSP, it takes bravery to show something that you feel is not your best feature.

Well done you... Amazing!

My nose was broken years ago and when they corrected it, they didn’t reset it straight. The Dr said they’d operate again to correct it and I said no...wasn’t going to let my vanity cost more Drs hours. As a result my face isn’t symmetrical which I have a slight complex about but it’s probably not something people notice...all these little things make us unique so you should embrace it like you have...

K

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Oh my god!!!!!!!! You are awesome!!!

What a brilliant, wobbly, beautiful, body positive photo.

V x

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

You Go girl...Good for you..Be Proud

I have put on 2 1/2 stone and I'm struggling to embrace the way it's left me looking...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play NSP, go girl..

There's parts of me I don't like but fuck it I think here's me like it or lump it, some will some won't either way it's all gravy baby

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I hate my breasts

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

NSP, you are fantastic! You are beautiful inside and out and an inspiration to others, and your recent photo is so naturally gorgeous.

I have a few parts that I hate with a passion, one of them being an ugly scar on my stomach. I braved it and posted a photo and made it public on our profile. I received a few compliments and lots of support.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NSP I love your picture, its so honest and beautiful in it's simplicity.

The only body part of mine I really lack confidence in are my labia because they're on the long side. I've put a picture up before of my bum with my legs slightly apart so they are visible, but I would never feel comfortable showing a close up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re you and there you are, in all your glory. It’s brave of you to face up to what you dislike, whether it’s your body or anything else.

I daren’t show my bits and I find the pictures of my semi-naked self cringe-worthy as it is the antithesis of who I am but it’s Fab and par for the course here. I am trying to overcome my reserve. It’s beginning to work. I have taken more selfies for my profile than I have done in the past decade.

Bravo for leading by example, my dear girl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear, I said “girl.” Is that an acceptable term? I’m confused by these terms that used to be so simple in my youth.

Old dog...new tricks and all that. I’m a hopeless case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look great, but the part of my body I hate is my bottom. No filters are going to make that look good. The reason I did one, I was asked to, so there it is.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Oh dear, I said “girl.” Is that an acceptable term? I’m confused by these terms that used to be so simple in my youth.

Old dog...new tricks and all that. I’m a hopeless case. "

I like to be called 'girl'. I like that it's 'young'. Perhaps I'm just in denial about getting old

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I won't share my bits anymore than I'll share my jaffa cakes.

By the time people are seeing my podge n wonky spaniels ears I've already voodoo magic'd em into thinking I'm perfect."

I tried voodoo magic. Didnt seem to work.

But I have no doubt your voodoo skills are greater than mine!

And by the way woman. You are perfect. You're perfectly you

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"So y'all may have noticed I'm naked in my Tits out Tuesday pic this week.

I took the picture this morning and hated it. ... "

I see beauty, nothing but beauty.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I wouldn’t show my mum tum... I’m good at hiding it in photos and I’ve never had complaints at meets, but it is something I am very self-conscious about...

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"So y'all may have noticed I'm naked in my Tits out Tuesday pic this week.

I took the picture this morning and hated it. ...

I see beauty, nothing but beauty.

"

Thank you. I think that's the thing.... most of us look at pictures of ourselves through a negative style filter. And yet we look at other people's photos with true sight. Flaws are never as great when they are someone else's and beauty is greater. When they're ours it is the other way around.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"You look great, but the part of my body I hate is my bottom. No filters are going to make that look good. The reason I did one, I was asked to, so there it is."

And that's the attitude to have!

If someone wants to see it in person then they'll be glad to see a picture. If not then who cares!

Well done you!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Feet

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"You’re you and there you are, in all your glory. It’s brave of you to face up to what you dislike, whether it’s your body or anything else.

I daren’t show my bits and I find the pictures of my semi-naked self cringe-worthy as it is the antithesis of who I am but it’s Fab and par for the course here. I am trying to overcome my reserve. It’s beginning to work. I have taken more selfies for my profile than I have done in the past decade.

Bravo for leading by example, my dear girl!"

Thank you. And quite frankly.... your semi nakedness is lovely kind sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My elbows! I get psoriasis sometimes when I’m stressed and even when I’m clear it’s never fully gone from there. Makes summer time hard when you have to wear something that’s at least 3/4 sleeve length.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Mens wrinkley stinky balls

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"NSP I love your picture, its so honest and beautiful in it's simplicity.

The only body part of mine I really lack confidence in are my labia because they're on the long side. I've put a picture up before of my bum with my legs slightly apart so they are visible, but I would never feel comfortable showing a close up."

I'm not comfortable with pictures of the "action area" on here myself. But well done you for posting as much as you did. Others would either not have noticed or enjoyed it, and yet I'm guessing that like me, the part you are uncomfortable with is almost all you can see.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

My feet. I always tell Mr N to crop them out if they're on show without shoes

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"NSP, you are fantastic! You are beautiful inside and out and an inspiration to others, and your recent photo is so naturally gorgeous.

I have a few parts that I hate with a passion, one of them being an ugly scar on my stomach. I braved it and posted a photo and made it public on our profile. I received a few compliments and lots of support.

"

I was so very impressed with you when you did that! It took a lot, I know. And was definitely not the part of the photo that anyone really focused on. The whole is a beautiful picture and the scar tells your story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My tum losing too much weight at the moment and will not put a Willy picture on hear think my tum and Willy I hate em both x

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I hate my breasts"

And yet I'm guessing you have a lot of appreciation for them!

I'm impressed you show them despite your dislike of them. Well done you!

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Fair play NSP, go girl..

There's parts of me I don't like but fuck it I think here's me like it or lump it, some will some won't either way it's all gravy baby "

You're just proper chill. Teach me lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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The only body part of mine I really lack confidence in are my labia because they're on the long side. I've put a picture up before of my bum with my legs slightly apart so they are visible, but I would never feel comfortable showing a close up."

It was a beautiful photo of you Nell - your labia are you and wonderful because they are part of you and look great. x

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"So y'all may have noticed I'm naked in my Tits out Tuesday pic this week.

I took the picture this morning and hated it. Absolutely hated it. All I can see are the bits of my body that I can't stand. But instead of deleting it as I would usually, I posted it here. There are three reasons I went that way.

1. I couldn't be arsed to take yet another almost identical boob picture to the ones I already have.

2. This is me. If you're going to see me naked in person you'll see all of me eventually, and if you're not then it doesn't matter anyway.

3. It might encourage those women who think they're fat and have rolls to reconsider.

I should point out, I still picked the least unflattering of a dodgy bunch, I'm not that brave.

And I've been overwhelmed by the positive reaction to the picture. Ok, maybe a lot of it is boob blindness... show the tits and people see nothing else.... but I've also had messages from women saying they wish they had my confidence. It isn't confidence though, although I'm getting more so. It is just the three reasons above (with a bit of one more but that's my secret ).

This ramble is leading to my question. Is there a part of your body you wouldn't normally show? Or have done once and been amazed by the positive reaction? Would you share it with us here?"

You look lovely the way you are in the new pic and evey pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should feel proud of yourself op. You look great. I'm not keen on my own pictures, so i know you are very brave to post them.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"You Go girl...Good for you..Be Proud

I have put on 2 1/2 stone and I'm struggling to embrace the way it's left me looking... "

I lost 10 stone a few years ago (have put a lot back on). I hated the way it left me looking. I was fit, healthy and hated my body more than I ever have.

I think with weight changes it is as much about the way we think we look as it is how we actually look. And with weight gain (when you're not happy about it) it is also to do with yearning for the pre gain body.

Try looking at yourself in the mirror and imagining the reflection is your best friend. It's a lot harder to be critical of a friend than yourself

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

After losing 10st, I've had several skin removal surgeries with another tweak due in September.

I will never have an amazing body, but others seem to appreciate it so I will be grateful for what I have

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Oh my god!!!!!!!! You are awesome!!!

What a brilliant, wobbly, beautiful, body positive photo.

V x

"

Thank you so much V. That's what I'm aiming for. So far I'm at acceptance. Positivity is the dream but if it helps others to feel more positive that's all I can hope for x

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

OP - You only see what you think is wrong and are blind to everything that is so right about you. You look gorgeous but more importantly you’re an incredibly attractive person all round XX just saying XX

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Well done NSP, it takes bravery to show something that you feel is not your best feature.

Well done you... Amazing!

My nose was broken years ago and when they corrected it, they didn’t reset it straight. The Dr said they’d operate again to correct it and I said no...wasn’t going to let my vanity cost more Drs hours. As a result my face isn’t symmetrical which I have a slight complex about but it’s probably not something people notice...all these little things make us unique so you should embrace it like you have...

K"

Thank you K. I'm doing my best. Which is all we can do

I've never noticed your nose isn't straight, now I feel I should examine it closer x

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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That's a lovely photo NSP.

I hide my mum tum in my photos. It does worry me that someone is going to take a look at me naked and run for the hills though.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"

I've taken a photo I wouldn't ever have before. So thankyou. "

Mrs Sapphire.... I LOVE your new pics.

Well done for that! I'm glad I had a small part in encouraging you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boobs. And my bare face.

I sometimes strategically show my boobs now...but never totally bare. And NEVER bare faced selfies.

S'a nice pic Mrs...keep telling you, only you see your "flaws" everyone else just sees you.

Lu

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Thank you for an amazing post and your photo is fab... You should be very proud of your body. This will inspire a lot of to embrace who we are. The vast majority of us have body issues so you have highlighted that it's important to be yourself. Thanks again "

That means a lot to me. And if I've managed to inspire anyone (which it appears I have and I'm so happy about it), then me having to be offended by my stomach is totally worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11th down in my public gallery made me nervous to post.

I did get 1 or 2 negative comments but majority were positive.

I also have 2 HUGE hip scars from surgery, the one on my left hip almost caves in a bit and makes it looks all bumpy around it. I am not keen on it but I don't intentionally hide it either.

I hate side on photos, as my tummy looks bloated.

I have posted fully nudes and have them in FO.

I am unsure if I would ever post a side on though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're lush, NSP. Never forget that!

I'm literally covered in some really quite horrendous scars that I try and hide, but maybe it's about time I got them out and stopped hiding them? Xx

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"My boobs. And my bare face.

I sometimes strategically show my boobs now...but never totally bare. And NEVER bare faced selfies.

S'a nice pic Mrs...keep telling you, only you see your "flaws" everyone else just sees you.

Lu "

Nothing wrong with either, Boobs or face. Very pretty.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Can I change everything about my body please"

No. Because you are perfectly you. And they already cut bit out. Remember how much that hurts? You don't want more of the same

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

This is one of the bests threads ever.

You’re amazing lady xx

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"11th down in my public gallery made me nervous to post.

I did get 1 or 2 negative comments but majority were positive.

I also have 2 HUGE hip scars from surgery, the one on my left hip almost caves in a bit and makes it looks all bumpy around it. I am not keen on it but I don't intentionally hide it either.

I hate side on photos, as my tummy looks bloated.

I have posted fully nudes and have them in FO.

I am unsure if I would ever post a side on though x"

Another beautiful woman - all I have to say xx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Well done all of fabland...there have always been aspirations for the perfect body...the perfect life....the past few years have surely shown us all that these are all illusions and we should embrace with both arms the life we have... it's a gift ..time is a fleeting commodity and time on earth is beyond riches

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I hate my tummy but I've reached a place like you where I'm like you know what if anyone meets me and it leads to anything they're gonna see it, so just embrace it, hence my pic this week.

You look amazing hun! "

I LOVE the picture you're talking about. It's gorgeous. And I'm glad you're at the realisation I came to. It is freeing.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I'm a fellow tummy worrier. It's saggy, fat, covered with silver stretch marks/crevices and just looks BUT I do have a pic or two showing it. Although I dislike it, I also don't care what people on here think of it, I just don't think it's in any way attractive so I avoid having it in pics.

Nice one for your pic, NSP, a lovely one it is too!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Posh, you look fabulous! And well done you!

I've always hated my stomach and I hate it even more due to my massive lockdown weight gain.

BUT! I'm biting the bullet.

I'm going to upload one now.

Before I change my mind xx

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I think you look incredible, and it’s so inspiring to see woman embracing there bodies! You are beautiful inside and out NSP

I try to keep my photos classy although I’ve shown most of my bits some days I feel more comfortable in my own skin than others but over the years I’ve learned to love what I’ve got.

Xx"

We all have better and worse days. You're utterly beautiful and always classy lovely xx

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"So y'all may have noticed I'm naked in my Tits out Tuesday pic this week.

I took the picture this morning and hated it. Absolutely hated it. All I can see are the bits of my body that I can't stand. But instead of deleting it as I would usually, I posted it here. There are three reasons I went that way.

1. I couldn't be arsed to take yet another almost identical boob picture to the ones I already have.

2. This is me. If you're going to see me naked in person you'll see all of me eventually, and if you're not then it doesn't matter anyway.

3. It might encourage those women who think they're fat and have rolls to reconsider.

I should point out, I still picked the least unflattering of a dodgy bunch, I'm not that brave.

And I've been overwhelmed by the positive reaction to the picture. Ok, maybe a lot of it is boob blindness... show the tits and people see nothing else.... but I've also had messages from women saying they wish they had my confidence. It isn't confidence though, although I'm getting more so. It is just the three reasons above (with a bit of one more but that's my secret ).

This ramble is leading to my question. Is there a part of your body you wouldn't normally show? Or have done once and been amazed by the positive reaction? Would you share it with us here?"

I think we are our own worst critics. There is nothing wrong with how you look. I always think the worse of me but I have a hubby that helps me overcome my insecurities or he is a good fibber lol. There was a time I would not even undress in front of him with the light on. I would undress under the quilt. But now I just don't care.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"

There’s nothing wrong with a woman showing off her body. I for one am a total perve x

And to answer your question: little Tony

I don’t share or show him unless specifically asked."

You utter perve. Keep up the good work x

I think genitals are different anyway. But unless LT has two heads or green spots, you've nothing to worry about there x

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Right. It's up

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"You empower yourself immensely with this picture and approach. Your personality shines through the forums anyway, and less people are bothered about wibbly bits than we think.

I've always had a photo that showed everything in its natural imperfect glory that I would send via message if I thought things were going to get naked. I ended up adding it into my profile photos of old. Nothing changed in my apparent desireableness

Keep on the path of owning who and what you are x "

Thank you chick. I think you're right. And people see what they're looking for. If they're nasty people, looking for imperfections, let them carry on. I don't want to be associated with them. If they're good people they'll see the good in the images.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

OP beautiful

Red beautiful

Embrace xx

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By *uit and bootsMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Right. It's up "

I love that pic xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I've taken a photo I wouldn't ever have before. So thankyou.

Mrs Sapphire.... I LOVE your new pics.

Well done for that! I'm glad I had a small part in encouraging you "

You played a big part, thankyou

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Well done you, you look great. I don't like my stomach much, its ok when I'm laying down but it's wobblier than I'd like but the older I get the more I'm learning to love what I have.

I think we're designed to always dislike something. I've been in much better shape than I am now and looking back had nothing to complain about but I still had things I wasn't happy about "

I used to look at women who I thought had "perfect bodies" and wonder how they could ever have insecurities. As I've got older I don't think that now. We are definitely designed to lean towards self criticism, no matter who we are or what we look like.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"You look great, I don’t know as I could do that pose as my boobs without a bra and my stomach are horrible to me. I have done a pic like that but with lingerie on and it was well fabbed x

I hate my stomach. With a fiery vengeance. That's the main issue I have with the picture. And the fact that my boobs are pretty much meeting my belly button. And the six chins.

A year ago I never would have had even a boob out on here. I certainly wouldn't have taken a naked photo at all. I still only have one mirror in my house (bathroom) because I hate looking at myself. Confidence, not so much. Acceptance is the word. And you can do it. If you want to x

Yes very true, just have a hernia that sticks out in my stomach, so I’m very aware of that x "

I have a huge cyst on my right butt cheek that I'm very very aware of too. Maybe one day we will either get them removed or learn to love them? Xx

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Right. It's up "

You look beautiful Red! And your boobs are amazing.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I love your new pic NSP and I think we're all better off for the bravery you've shown and hopefully it can encourage other people to do the dlsame

I was never a huge fan of my entire body to start with as I always saw myself as too skinny, especially in my arms and shoulders, it was so difficult to find angles that I thought made me look good. I'm still not satisfied but I'm definitely in a better place with how I think I look "

Thank you gorgeous man.

I'm so glad I helped with that in my little way. And I too hope my picture encourages others

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Right. It's up

I love that pic xxx"

Aw, you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok posh, just for you dear.

Side on and showinf scar in 1 photo.

It wont be staying up permanently though x

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Looking great.

I can't stand my bum. The deal job has turned out into a flabby old man butt

I've started doing lots of squats to try firming it up a bit though.

Not sure I'm as brave as you to post it though "

Take a squat picture.... not from below. That helps with wibbly bits on bums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right. It's up "

I am blaming you too for me adding my recent pic

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Like you NSP probably my tummy, I’ll usually place an arm across in pics although I’m much more accepting of it now than I ever was before

I love your pic

"

Thank you Cookie

I'm still not releasing the entire beast to the world..... so the arms are staying where they are for now.

It's wonderful that you've reached acceptance. The next step is like..... and I hope you get there too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I've taken a photo I wouldn't ever have before. So thankyou.

Mrs Sapphire.... I LOVE your new pics.

Well done for that! I'm glad I had a small part in encouraging you

You played a big part, thankyou "

Hello Mrs. Sapphire of Southampton.

Lovely eyes and gorgeous everything else!!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Well done you, you look great. I don't like my stomach much, its ok when I'm laying down but it's wobblier than I'd like but the older I get the more I'm learning to love what I have.

I think we're designed to always dislike something. I've been in much better shape than I am now and looking back had nothing to complain about but I still had things I wasn't happy about

I used to look at women who I thought had "perfect bodies" and wonder how they could ever have insecurities. As I've got older I don't think that now. We are definitely designed to lean towards self criticism, no matter who we are or what we look like."

Posh, I STILL look at women with (what I perceive to be) beautiful bodies & wish it was me.

Years ago, I was pretty slim, tiny waist & boobs & I do think my body is ugly now. Though I quite like my boobies!

We need to practice what we preach & love ourselves. Look at all the fabulous comments you've got!

You rock, Posh!

WE rock! Xx

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"OP beautiful

Red beautiful

Embrace xx"

you Yasmeen xx

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Proud of ya Posh "

Thanks Moose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well done you, you look great. I don't like my stomach much, its ok when I'm laying down but it's wobblier than I'd like but the older I get the more I'm learning to love what I have.

I think we're designed to always dislike something. I've been in much better shape than I am now and looking back had nothing to complain about but I still had things I wasn't happy about

I used to look at women who I thought had "perfect bodies" and wonder how they could ever have insecurities. As I've got older I don't think that now. We are definitely designed to lean towards self criticism, no matter who we are or what we look like.

Posh, I STILL look at women with (what I perceive to be) beautiful bodies & wish it was me.

Years ago, I was pretty slim, tiny waist & boobs & I do think my body is ugly now. Though I quite like my boobies!

We need to practice what we preach & love ourselves. Look at all the fabulous comments you've got!

You rock, Posh!

WE rock! Xx"

Big hug my lovely lovely friend.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"You look great and be proud xx"

Thank you lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right. It's up

I am blaming you too for me adding my recent pic "

That's a fucking beautiful pic Ivy!

Lu

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Right. It's up

You look beautiful Red! And your boobs are amazing. "

Aw, Meli

I'll let you touch them at the MLS xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right. It's up

I am blaming you too for me adding my recent pic

That's a fucking beautiful pic Ivy!

Lu "

Fanx

First ever side on shot

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Right. It's up

I am blaming you too for me adding my recent pic "

Don't be blaming me! Haha!

You look stunning Ivy, and it gives me comfort to know that even you aren't body confident. I'd kill for your waist xx

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Well done you, you look great. I don't like my stomach much, its ok when I'm laying down but it's wobblier than I'd like but the older I get the more I'm learning to love what I have.

I think we're designed to always dislike something. I've been in much better shape than I am now and looking back had nothing to complain about but I still had things I wasn't happy about

I used to look at women who I thought had "perfect bodies" and wonder how they could ever have insecurities. As I've got older I don't think that now. We are definitely designed to lean towards self criticism, no matter who we are or what we look like.

Posh, I STILL look at women with (what I perceive to be) beautiful bodies & wish it was me.

Years ago, I was pretty slim, tiny waist & boobs & I do think my body is ugly now. Though I quite like my boobies!

We need to practice what we preach & love ourselves. Look at all the fabulous comments you've got!

You rock, Posh!

WE rock! Xx

Big hug my lovely lovely friend. "

Aw, thanks Lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right. It's up

You look beautiful Red! And your boobs are amazing. "

My erudite crush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right. It's up

I am blaming you too for me adding my recent pic

That's a fucking beautiful pic Ivy!

Lu

Fanx

First ever side on shot "

Hopefully not the last! Yowza!

I always find it so interesting to know other people's insecurities...funny isn't it, they're always the things no one else notices or cares about.

I think you're pretty fucking beautiful from all angles, sinched or not, I hope you're able to embrace them all one day and not see any "flaws", I've looked (hard)....can't find a single thing that makes that pic anything other than stunning!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Some gorgeous pics on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right. It's up

I am blaming you too for me adding my recent pic

Don't be blaming me! Haha!

You look stunning Ivy, and it gives me comfort to know that even you aren't body confident. I'd kill for your waist xx

"

I am a confident woman but when it comes to my body I am of an "it is what it is" mindset.

My waist and boobs are probably the only parts I do truly like x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right. It's up

I am blaming you too for me adding my recent pic

That's a fucking beautiful pic Ivy!

Lu

Fanx

First ever side on shot

Hopefully not the last! Yowza!

I always find it so interesting to know other people's insecurities...funny isn't it, they're always the things no one else notices or cares about.

I think you're pretty fucking beautiful from all angles, sinched or not, I hope you're able to embrace them all one day and not see any "flaws", I've looked (hard)....can't find a single thing that makes that pic anything other than stunning!

"

Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder.

I view others in a different light to myself because we are always our own biggest critics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right. It's up

I am blaming you too for me adding my recent pic

That's a fucking beautiful pic Ivy!

Lu

Fanx

First ever side on shot

Hopefully not the last! Yowza!

I always find it so interesting to know other people's insecurities...funny isn't it, they're always the things no one else notices or cares about.

I think you're pretty fucking beautiful from all angles, sinched or not, I hope you're able to embrace them all one day and not see any "flaws", I've looked (hard)....can't find a single thing that makes that pic anything other than stunning!

Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder.

I view others in a different light to myself because we are always our own biggest critics x"

Absolutely!

I know there are parts of my body I'll never love, or even like. But I'm well on my way to accepting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a fantastic thread Posh. What an example you are and well done to those who confessed or showed them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit late to the party (you know why!)

So anyway- you Are Gorgeous, in all your imperfect-Perfection, you are real, beauty really does shine from inside.

Me- I don't like my tummy, and always wanted bigger boobs for my frame. Got them but also got the big thighs and bum etc, so be careful what you wish for, I guess.

Acceptance is a step along the journey to self love, so we are getting there, I reckon!

By the time we are a pair of wrinkly old bags, we'll have cracked it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right. It's up

I am blaming you too for me adding my recent pic

That's a fucking beautiful pic Ivy!

Lu

Fanx

First ever side on shot

Hopefully not the last! Yowza!

I always find it so interesting to know other people's insecurities...funny isn't it, they're always the things no one else notices or cares about.

I think you're pretty fucking beautiful from all angles, sinched or not, I hope you're able to embrace them all one day and not see any "flaws", I've looked (hard)....can't find a single thing that makes that pic anything other than stunning!

Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder.

I view others in a different light to myself because we are always our own biggest critics x"

Nobody judges me like my head judges me, judge jury n executioner

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Nsp you look beautiful

I'm not a massive fan of my tummy, I have posted on here occasionally a fully naked pic but it's not often , because I'd rather hide it away "

Thank you gorgeous.

I won't say you should post more because I won't push anyone.... but when you have I've thought how beautiful you look

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Good for you. I have bits I don't like. It also took me quite a few months to show my boobs on fab when I was on before this profile. I had no confidence at all a few months before joining and it took me a while to bare myself on here. It doesn't matter what body type we have we can all be self conscious or lack confidence. And it can take months or longer to get to a comfortable place.

I love it when I see people comfortable in themselves. It's also sexy. "

It's something I never understood before fab, but this place has shown me that the people we see as beautiful and perfect don't see themselves as such. We should all try and do what one of my beautiful friends keeps telling me to do....

"Never be cruel to yourself. You wouldn't say those things about your friend, so don't say them about mine"

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Right. It's up

You look beautiful Red! And your boobs are amazing.

My erudite crush "

Aww Sharedow

One day when I'm not quite so big I'll find the confidence to post a full length nude of myself, tummy and all.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I have a baggy, craggy, saggy body and i dont care im happy to gwt naked but not in here. I dont get body parts out on here"

I think it's wonderful that you don't care and are happy to get naked. Photos here aren't the important thing, it is how you feel that's important

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"You look amazing in that picture, and knowing how hard you find it, you’re also so brave too "

you know more than most

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I have a bit of a belly and a few chins, which I hate so I don't post them in here, in the open as I feel ashamed of my body so I won't force it on the whole forum x"

I've spent over 35 years being ashamed of my body. And as you can see, I'm forcing it on the forum anyway now.

Maybe one day you might reach acceptance, whether that means photos here or strutting around the house in the nude with full length mirrors. I hope you do xx

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I am fortunate enough that my hubby takes photo's of me fully naked that I can accept. It took me years to accept that I am who I am. And as Hubby says if people don't like what they see, then look somewhere else.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Sometimes thanks to my endometriosis, my stomach swells to the point I look pregnant. I can go from feeling great looking in the mirror to the next day feeling like a heffalump . I also hate my back fat and my scar can give me a roll under my boobs. "

I've never seen any back fat on you, but I wouldn't have noticed it even if it were there. You're a beautiful and sexy woman and I hope on the bad days you can see past the hard stuff to the great looking, gorgeous woman you are xx

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I like the shape of my legs, but they are short."

Short but perfectly formed then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posh keep doing what your doing, it's a great way to push through those barriers we set ourselves, embrace and accept you,

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Yes my big belly however one of my more recent pics have got a bit of it showing

Also my lumpy dimply arse, ever since a guy messaged me to tell me that my arse is lumpy I can't see past that "

Well done for the recent pic!

The negative things people say are always louder and more long lasting than the good ones. I hope you can see past it some day and accept it again, as you must have done before

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I never show my tum directly x"

I never did.

Yours has carried your children. You have that beautiful thing to thank it for. I know that doesn't always help but it is a miracle

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"OP beautiful

Red beautiful

Embrace xx

you Yasmeen xx"

Xx

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Yeah I think stomach for me, but actually through being on Fab I've gained a lot more love of it and have seen that a lack of "posing" and realness is really appreciated by the male contingent.

Same with my bed face, I've exchanged vids a couple of times with no makeup just naked and just felt really sexy in the moment.

This place is very good at times in getting you out of your self-criticism

I agree, you look awesome and I love your post x "

Thank you x

You're right. It can be great for the acceptance and self love. It can also be a vicious and cruel place. We just have to all learn to quiet the negativity and turn up the volume on the positive. Every bit helps x

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I always find it amazingly brave when anyone posts a picture of themselves unhidden by lingerie or clothing, it's a very vulnerable thing to do and so it's great that you felt confident enough to be brave in this way.

I personally hate my tummy and a few extra lockdown pounds hasn't helped with this. I hide it as much as possible in my photos. Funnily enough I don't think guys care in the slightest, but I always imagine they will.

Maybe I should be braver with my flabby tummy!"

You're brave with so much of you. I think you have a gorgeous figure and I'd never have thought you had any part you weren't happy with.

If you can be braver and want to.... no man will be put off at all

And it gives an amazing sense of pride.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Yayyyy, good on you. I think you look great and why not show the world what a normal body looks like.

I'm a very similar size (I don't actually know but we look fairly similar) and it makes me want to go and do the same!!

Bit of a cliché but Girl power!! Love it xx"

You know what? I'm breaking my own rule..... if you want to, then I say do it!!

I also think maybe you are looking at me through one of those fun house mirrors as I'm pretty certain I'm bigger than you. But I'll take the compliment! Thank you lovely xx

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over a year ago

The thing I love most about the swinging scene is when embraced, how quickly the prescribed terms of attraction dissipate and are wonderfully replaced by that little bit more. OP, your beauty radiates, you look stunning and your attitude is sexy as hell!

I am blessed with vitiligo, rather helpfully, mainly on my hands and penis! I have no choice to embrace it, own it and crack on with it.

Posts like yours though, certainly make it easier!

Thank you

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"It's a lovely pic Posh. I tend to post pictures of me I don't particularly like on a regular basis. And nobody has ever said anything worse than the normal idiots.

It's good to accept your body how it is, fab has been good for that for me personally.

Lush picture Posh "

Thank you Frida you gorgeous human. You've been an inspiration to me as you've said before that you post pics you aren't massively happy with. And I think they're all beautiful

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Wit woooo darling.. I see all of you and you're incredibly sexy and beautiful... naturally so. You look natural and wholesome with a splash of savvy minx!

I've changed my profile to show my tummy and boobs. Tummy is scarred and doughy having had grafts and babies. You can sink your fingers in and knead like dough, ha.

My boobies breastfed two children for far too long and are soft and stretchy!

But wowee my body is a fully functioning pleasure dome!

What I care about these days is how I feel when I'm being touched by my partners who appreciate me. How I feel to my lovers when I touch them.

There's sooooooooooo much love and pleasure to give and receive within these fleshy vessels we have! And lots of accepting and undoing of the vulnerabilities passed on to us within our culture and life experiences.

In the end, that's what matters to me now is carrying on regardless of my insecurities. As time goes on, my body is undergoing huge changes but never do I want to underestimate the magic of its capabilities.

Thank you NSP.. Lovely thread xxx

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I wouldn’t show my mum tum... I’m good at hiding it in photos and I’ve never had complaints at meets, but it is something I am very self-conscious about... "

I understand completely. And I spend a lot of time trying to hide my stomach usually. Two arms aren't often enough

Anyone that would complain at a meet is not worth your time.

Beautiful lady xx

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Some lovely photos ladies. We've all got things we don't like about our bodies both men and women. You all have massive respect from me and i admire you all for stepping out of your comforts zones and publicly showing them. Negative comments from people on here through messages aren't nice i know that from my own experiences. Its tough and upsetting but remember someone out there likes you for who and what you are. Big hugs and lots of love from me and again my up most admiration to you all

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Feet"

I get that totally.

And I must say.... if I never had to see feet I'd be happy.

But it's wonderful that's the only part you don't like! Well done you! Xx

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"My elbows! I get psoriasis sometimes when I’m stressed and even when I’m clear it’s never fully gone from there. Makes summer time hard when you have to wear something that’s at least 3/4 sleeve length. "

It's not nice when our bodies attack us in that way at all.

A close friend of mine has the same trouble but it's all.over her arms and chest. Summer is very hard for her too.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"My feet. I always tell Mr N to crop them out if they're on show without shoes "

I do the same! And I may show my lumps, rolls and general yuck... but never feet!

You do have gorgeous shoes though....

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

It's a beautiful pic NSP.

Have just read through this thread and it is wonderful to see such supportive comments and so many being prepared to show their vulnerabilities & insecurities.

I'm currently struggling to come to terms with the lockdown lard & get my head in the right mindset to deal with it, this thread has definitely helped.

K

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"My tum losing too much weight at the moment and will not put a Willy picture on hear think my tum and Willy I hate em both x "

I hope that you'll reach a point where you're comfortable in your skin and can at least accept them, even if you don't show pics on here or anywhere x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Feet

I get that totally.

And I must say.... if I never had to see feet I'd be happy.

But it's wonderful that's the only part you don't like! Well done you! Xx"

Plenty I don't like

But accept

Broken nose scars everywhere x

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"So y'all may have noticed I'm naked in my Tits out Tuesday pic this week.

I took the picture this morning and hated it. Absolutely hated it. All I can see are the bits of my body that I can't stand. But instead of deleting it as I would usually, I posted it here. There are three reasons I went that way.

1. I couldn't be arsed to take yet another almost identical boob picture to the ones I already have.

2. This is me. If you're going to see me naked in person you'll see all of me eventually, and if you're not then it doesn't matter anyway.

3. It might encourage those women who think they're fat and have rolls to reconsider.

I should point out, I still picked the least unflattering of a dodgy bunch, I'm not that brave.

And I've been overwhelmed by the positive reaction to the picture. Ok, maybe a lot of it is boob blindness... show the tits and people see nothing else.... but I've also had messages from women saying they wish they had my confidence. It isn't confidence though, although I'm getting more so. It is just the three reasons above (with a bit of one more but that's my secret ).

This ramble is leading to my question. Is there a part of your body you wouldn't normally show? Or have done once and been amazed by the positive reaction? Would you share it with us here?

You look lovely the way you are in the new pic and evey pic "

Thank you

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"You should feel proud of yourself op. You look great. I'm not keen on my own pictures, so i know you are very brave to post them.

"

Thank you x

I wish you were happier with yours, all I see is beauty.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"After losing 10st, I've had several skin removal surgeries with another tweak due in September.

I will never have an amazing body, but others seem to appreciate it so I will be grateful for what I have "

Congratulations! I know how that feels. I wasn't able to have skin removal when I lost 10st, and often wonder if I had would I have been happier.

Yoir body is amazing. It carries you through your life, brings you and others joy. Be grateful, but also be accepting and happy if you can x

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"OP - You only see what you think is wrong and are blind to everything that is so right about you. You look gorgeous but more importantly you’re an incredibly attractive person all round XX just saying XX "

Thank you so much.

I have been blind to all the good things for a very long time. But I'm slowly getting there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there is a part and no I won’t show, I had my teeth messed up on a night out before covid and thanks to the pandemic things got delayed and worsened

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"That's a lovely photo NSP.

I hide my mum tum in my photos. It does worry me that someone is going to take a look at me naked and run for the hills though. "

If they did, they're not worth your time or concern. But I can't imagine that would ever happen.

You are beautiful. And your mum tum is incredible I have no doubt. I hope you embrace it for what it has given you, and can accept it as part of your amazing body xx

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"My boobs. And my bare face.

I sometimes strategically show my boobs now...but never totally bare. And NEVER bare faced selfies.

S'a nice pic Mrs...keep telling you, only you see your "flaws" everyone else just sees you.

Lu "

Back at you woman xx

Your boobs have been a big part of my inspiration. Just saying

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"11th down in my public gallery made me nervous to post.

I did get 1 or 2 negative comments but majority were positive.

I also have 2 HUGE hip scars from surgery, the one on my left hip almost caves in a bit and makes it looks all bumpy around it. I am not keen on it but I don't intentionally hide it either.

I hate side on photos, as my tummy looks bloated.

I have posted fully nudes and have them in FO.

I am unsure if I would ever post a side on though x"

I know you've posted since this one.... so I'm gonna say now that I adore that photo of you.

And the one you mentioned that you had the negative remarks on as well. You're stunning, and I've seen you in the flesh so I get to tell you that and you know I mean it.

I also know that you have the insecurities and you don't let them stop you. You rock

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"You're lush, NSP. Never forget that!

I'm literally covered in some really quite horrendous scars that I try and hide, but maybe it's about time I got them out and stopped hiding them? Xx"

I think you need to be reminded that your scars are a part of your story. They show what you've survived and that you're here to tell the tale. And chances are they aren't as noticable as you believe.... to anyone else.

If you can accept them and be proud, that's the most important thing. And if you want to show off that gorgeous figure of yours, I have no doubt no one would complain xx

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By *edonisticHandfulWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield

Thank you to the op for this thread. It's beautiful, and you are beautiful. So many incredibly gorgeous women here and all I see is beauty. I've been doing the whole self acceptance thing on my mum tum,I finally got to a place where I have a pic that shows my tummy and I didn't post it because of the 16 chins! That was a big day. I'm going to follow suit though and be brave and post it on my profile.

Red, Ivy... and so many more... you all look incredible.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"This is one of the bests threads ever.

You’re amazing lady xx"

I'm just me gorgeous. I'm so blessed to have wonderful people in my life who are helping me see the good even in the bad

And if I can help others do that too, I'm happy.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Well done all of fabland...there have always been aspirations for the perfect body...the perfect life....the past few years have surely shown us all that these are all illusions and we should embrace with both arms the life we have... it's a gift ..time is a fleeting commodity and time on earth is beyond riches "

When did you get all sensible?

You're not wrong though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you can apply what you are saying to everyone else to yourself NSP.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I'm a fellow tummy worrier. It's saggy, fat, covered with silver stretch marks/crevices and just looks BUT I do have a pic or two showing it. Although I dislike it, I also don't care what people on here think of it, I just don't think it's in any way attractive so I avoid having it in pics.

Nice one for your pic, NSP, a lovely one it is too!"

Thank you lovely xx

I admire your attitude so much. In so many ways. You're one of my heroes on here xx

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Posh, you look fabulous! And well done you!

I've always hated my stomach and I hate it even more due to my massive lockdown weight gain.

BUT! I'm biting the bullet.

I'm going to upload one now.

Before I change my mind xx "

I love it! Well done you! I hope all the love you've been shown for that pic is helping you see that there is nothing to hate xx

And thank you.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Bit late to the party (you know why!)

So anyway- you Are Gorgeous, in all your imperfect-Perfection, you are real, beauty really does shine from inside.

Me- I don't like my tummy, and always wanted bigger boobs for my frame. Got them but also got the big thighs and bum etc, so be careful what you wish for, I guess.

Acceptance is a step along the journey to self love, so we are getting there, I reckon!

By the time we are a pair of wrinkly old bags, we'll have cracked it! "

We will! And you know I think you're gorgeous and another one of my inspirations

Well done you.... and thank you xxx

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"This is one of the bests threads ever.

You’re amazing lady xx

I'm just me gorgeous. I'm so blessed to have wonderful people in my life who are helping me see the good even in the bad

And if I can help others do that too, I'm happy."

Very positive thread Posh. You know I’ve got your back. I’m mean I’m behhhindd you!!! Watch out.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Right. It's up

You look beautiful Red! And your boobs are amazing.

My erudite crush

Aww Sharedow

One day when I'm not quite so big I'll find the confidence to post a full length nude of myself, tummy and all. "

You'll never be the size of me Meli!

I hope you do find the confidence. Or just like I did, find the "too hell with it, this is me". It is liberating.

And the positive affirmation is humbling x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I'm a fellow tummy worrier. It's saggy, fat, covered with silver stretch marks/crevices and just looks BUT I do have a pic or two showing it. Although I dislike it, I also don't care what people on here think of it, I just don't think it's in any way attractive so I avoid having it in pics.

Nice one for your pic, NSP, a lovely one it is too!

Thank you lovely xx

I admire your attitude so much. In so many ways. You're one of my heroes on here xx"

Yikes, thanks

Your supportive and inclusive nature on here does not go unnoticed

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I am fortunate enough that my hubby takes photo's of me fully naked that I can accept. It took me years to accept that I am who I am. And as Hubby says if people don't like what they see, then look somewhere else."

Having someone who can help you with that is so important. Acceptance and self love come from within bit if you have the support and trumpet blowing from that person as well it's a massive step.

I've learnt that.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"The thing I love most about the swinging scene is when embraced, how quickly the prescribed terms of attraction dissipate and are wonderfully replaced by that little bit more. OP, your beauty radiates, you look stunning and your attitude is sexy as hell!

I am blessed with vitiligo, rather helpfully, mainly on my hands and penis! I have no choice to embrace it, own it and crack on with it.

Posts like yours though, certainly make it easier!

Thank you "

That's so positive that you are doing just that! And I'm glad I could help a little.

Thank you too x

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By *edonisticHandfulWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield

I did the brave thing. I just blocked out the chins. It's really rather liberating.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Wit woooo darling.. I see all of you and you're incredibly sexy and beautiful... naturally so. You look natural and wholesome with a splash of savvy minx!

I've changed my profile to show my tummy and boobs. Tummy is scarred and doughy having had grafts and babies. You can sink your fingers in and knead like dough, ha.

My boobies breastfed two children for far too long and are soft and stretchy!

But wowee my body is a fully functioning pleasure dome!

What I care about these days is how I feel when I'm being touched by my partners who appreciate me. How I feel to my lovers when I touch them.

There's sooooooooooo much love and pleasure to give and receive within these fleshy vessels we have! And lots of accepting and undoing of the vulnerabilities passed on to us within our culture and life experiences.

In the end, that's what matters to me now is carrying on regardless of my insecurities. As time goes on, my body is undergoing huge changes but never do I want to underestimate the magic of its capabilities.

Thank you NSP.. Lovely thread xxx "

Thank you Freya my lovely. That is one gorgeous picture.... and your attitude is amazing. You're such a ray of light and so positive, and it's wonderful that you apply it to yourself as much as anyone else xxx

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"So y'all may have noticed I'm naked in my Tits out Tuesday pic this week.

I took the picture this morning and hated it. Absolutely hated it. All I can see are the bits of my body that I can't stand. But instead of deleting it as I would usually, I posted it here. There are three reasons I went that way.

1. I couldn't be arsed to take yet another almost identical boob picture to the ones I already have.

2. This is me. If you're going to see me naked in person you'll see all of me eventually, and if you're not then it doesn't matter anyway.

3. It might encourage those women who think they're fat and have rolls to reconsider.

I should point out, I still picked the least unflattering of a dodgy bunch, I'm not that brave.

And I've been overwhelmed by the positive reaction to the picture. Ok, maybe a lot of it is boob blindness... show the tits and people see nothing else.... but I've also had messages from women saying they wish they had my confidence. It isn't confidence though, although I'm getting more so. It is just the three reasons above (with a bit of one more but that's my secret ).

This ramble is leading to my question. Is there a part of your body you wouldn't normally show? Or have done once and been amazed by the positive reaction? Would you share it with us here?"

The honest truth? I am old enough, wise enough, and cynical enough to understand that it's state of mind and not looks that makes meeting people worthwhile.

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By *otSoPosh OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I have quite literally run out of space.... so I'm going to be totally self absorbed and start a new thread because I want to answer everyone.

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Currently I’m finding hard to show my body as I know I don’t look the same as I use to...the way it looks just makes me feel uncomfortable and not sexy in anyway tbh but I know that is probably just my own thoughts.

You are gorgeous, beautiful, powerful and absolutely amazing NSP x

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over a year ago


"I always find it amazingly brave when anyone posts a picture of themselves unhidden by lingerie or clothing, it's a very vulnerable thing to do and so it's great that you felt confident enough to be brave in this way.

I personally hate my tummy and a few extra lockdown pounds hasn't helped with this. I hide it as much as possible in my photos. Funnily enough I don't think guys care in the slightest, but I always imagine they will.

Maybe I should be braver with my flabby tummy!"

Your photos are incredible, everytime I come across them I’m green with envy.

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