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By *avess OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Anyone else have it where you're chatting with someone and seem to be getting on well, swapped face/ body pics, talked about potentially grabbing drinks.

Then see they've looked at your profile and/or added as friend then poof. Nothing. Don't even have any friend only dick pics to look at. Any idea on why this happens? Quite frustrating when things are moving along nicely!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Best thing you can do is try not to figure it out - it'll drive you bonkers if you do, there could be any number 0f reasons it happened, from the mundane (the kids came home from school and needed their tea making), to the sinister (they were a bloke pretending to be a woman and had shot their load) and any number of other things in between, including they saw something in your profile they didn't like.

Best thing you can do is accept it happens and that if they were really interested in you they'll be back in touch, if not, you've lost nothing apart from a bit of your time and a slightly dented ego.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, what he said..

Fuck it, move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t say that was ghosting. That’s just someone changing their mind for whatever reason. To be ghosted you need to have at least met the person with good communication and everything seemingly going fine only for them to disappear with no explanation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s not ghosting.

They probably weren’t that into you, so forget it and move on.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

OP it happens all the time on here, to women as well. I find it best not to overly invest until you get to the social/meet stage.

People are, and always will be, weird x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

They just changed their mind?

It happens... Don't sweat it.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I wouldn’t say that was ghosting. That’s just someone changing their mind for whatever reason. To be ghosted you need to have at least met the person with good communication and everything seemingly going fine only for them to disappear with no explanation. "

This

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

That's not Ghosting

Welcome to the

Internet

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Anyone else have it where you're chatting with someone and seem to be getting on well, swapped face/ body pics, talked about potentially grabbing drinks.

Then see they've looked at your profile and/or added as friend then poof. Nothing. Don't even have any friend only dick pics to look at. Any idea on why this happens? Quite frustrating when things are moving along nicely! "

He wanted dick pics.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Anyone else have it where you're chatting with someone and seem to be getting on well, swapped face/ body pics, talked about potentially grabbing drinks.

Then see they've looked at your profile and/or added as friend then poof. Nothing. Don't even have any friend only dick pics to look at. Any idea on why this happens? Quite frustrating when things are moving along nicely!

He wanted dick pics.

"

Oh gramps

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Okay Yas....... He wanted love but thought himself inadequate so he has gone for a long think but hopes to be back to take the O.P. out on a wonderful trip on a river.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

He didn’t have private pics? Then they don’t get too look at mine either... x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Okay Yas....... He wanted love but thought himself inadequate so he has gone for a long think but hopes to be back to take the O.P. out on a wonderful trip on a river. "

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By *avess OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Yeah, ghosting the wrong term perhaps. Just frustrating as I then start wondering if there's something about me. Ah well their loss. Just means another sexy lady or couple gets my attention!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Yeah, ghosting the wrong term perhaps. Just frustrating as I then start wondering if there's something about me. Ah well their loss. Just means another sexy lady or couple gets my attention! "

Its not you x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Yeah, ghosting the wrong term perhaps. Just frustrating as I then start wondering if there's something about me. Ah well their loss. Just means another sexy lady or couple gets my attention! "

Happens to everyone

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By *avess OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Okay Yas....... He wanted love but thought himself inadequate so he has gone for a long think but hopes to be back to take the O.P. out on a wonderful trip on a river. "

This is everything. On a river exactly. I'm not picky with my rivers for romantic getaways. Who cares if it's a guy ir girl at this point.

I hope they message me back now!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

All you can do Dave is give your nipple a tweak and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t say it’s ghosting it happens don’t over think it could be any reason

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater


"Yeah, ghosting the wrong term perhaps. Just frustrating as I then start wondering if there's something about me. Ah well their loss. Just means another sexy lady or couple gets my attention! "
exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s fab. And life. People get bored, change their minds. For any number of reasons. Don’t try to read it. Forget it. Move on.

J

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By *avess OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"All you can do Dave is give your nipple a tweak and move on.

"

Consider it tweaked!

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"All you can do Dave is give your nipple a tweak and move on.

Consider it tweaked! "
scratch your balls instead of your head and the tweak should work too

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Could be they changed their mind or life has got in the way

Like others said, try not to dwell on it as it does happene, to women and couples too.

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