FabSwingers.com forum: Reasons you love the forum!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Only positive posts please

Why do you love the lounge?

For me, the support, the fun, the flirting and the diversity of posts ..

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

For me

It's the banter, the chuckles and all be it virtual, the outside contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its seeing attractive women i normally wouldnt come across.

and there are plenty on here all with unique qualities

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

The wonderful people who post on here.

The supportive, encouraging nature of it at times.

The ridiculously funny posts.

The chance to read other opinions, views on the world - it's fascinating for people watching.

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Might be easier to go through with a list of why I don't like the forums.. Especially the lounge. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Splendidly jolly fun ,things arnt taken to seriously in here which is spiffing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The flirting, the humour, to be quick wit and banter, and the friendships I've made.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I love the flirting but I also think it helps people to see past the profiles and get a glimpse of the person. I think it is a better way to get to know people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The flirting, the humour, to be quick wit and banter, and the friendships I've made.

*The quick wit

I was too quick for my own good, and not even witty

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Some threads make me laugh, some make me think,some I avoid but generally I'm here because there are some great people and it amuses me

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It's filled with an array of different characters from all walks of life and it's interesting to read people's ideas,views and opinions.

It can also be entertaining, makes me smile, occasionally makes me roll my eyes, and there is a good selection of people for eye candy.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Tbh haven’t been in much recently, used to enjoy it, subject matter could be interesting too.

But that was back a while..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mix of serious and silly, sex and sensibility, entertainment and education.

The many interesting, intelligent and funny people sharing their thoughts in an open and generous spirit.

The group dynamic which ebbs and flows in all sorts of intriguing ways.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The flirting, the humour, to be quick wit and banter, and the friendships I've made.

*The quick wit

I was too quick for my own good, and not even witty

Made me giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say the comments so far resonate how i feel about forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get to show off in front of some hot women, it’s the equivalent of doing wheelies on your BMX, some times you come off, other times you totally nail it and they be like, ‘wow who was that?’ ‘That’s City Jeans!’ ‘Wow, I thought he’d at least have a Raleigh Grifter!’

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By *ugsly95Man
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Propel here actually talk to me instead of ignoring me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your avatar OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the banter the interactions of threads that create flirting and the people involved are positive and nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your avatar OP

Aww, thanks

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Only positive posts please

Why do you love the lounge?

For me, the support, the fun, the flirting and the diversity of posts .."

Same for me actually

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I love these positive and lovely responses

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

You get to watch men doing wheelies in the vain hope it will gain them the attention of hot women. Very funny.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Because the vast majority of people are really really nice and the topics are varied!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having the courage to say im not coping with life

And thank you to all who replied to my post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a bit like the pub where everyone talks to each other but a bit racier.

That's my take of it

You get to hear other people's opinions, thoughts and banter whilst you sit there with a drink in the evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fun/laughs, flirting, support, and most importantly the people. Made some great friends on here

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

Love the random banta on some threads. Love to join in too.

Had a few good conversations through threads

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Having the courage to say im not coping with life

And thank you to all who replied to my post

I did see that but because I don't have any personal experience, didn't feel it was necessary to contribute.

However. It's so true that so many or us struggle with one thing or another, and it's great that you felt like you had this as an outlet to talk about it.

This is why the forums are (mostly) great.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Its a bit like the pub where everyone talks to each other but a bit racier.

That's my take of it

You get to hear other people's opinions, thoughts and banter whilst you sit there with a drink in the evening

Most things you can't mention to friends (depends on the friends of course!), It's great to able to talk about knobs. And other things too I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Having the courage to say im not coping with life

And thank you to all who replied to my post

That took a lot of courage

. I hope it has helped you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its a bit like the pub where everyone talks to each other but a bit racier.

That's my take of it

You get to hear other people's opinions, thoughts and banter whilst you sit there with a drink in the evening

Most things you can't mention to friends (depends on the friends of course!), It's great to able to talk about knobs. And other things too I guess."

Great to be able to talk about knobs

Quote of the day right here

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

The photo challenges and boing videos

I like that so many people get involved and you get to see people's personalities.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

They're funny and I have awesome friends here.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

The photo challenges, banter, friends I have made and the mix of flirtatious and more serious topics, there’s a nice balance and a sense of escapism from every day life. I have found them welcoming and great fun

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Its a bit like the pub where everyone talks to each other but a bit racier.

That's my take of it

You get to hear other people's opinions, thoughts and banter whilst you sit there with a drink in the evening

Most things you can't mention to friends (depends on the friends of course!), It's great to able to talk about knobs. And other things too I guess.

Great to be able to talk about knobs

Quote of the day right here

*Knock knock*

Do you have a moment to talk about knobs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the raisins!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The photo challenges, banter, friends I have made and the mix of flirtatious and more serious topics, there’s a nice balance and a sense of escapism from every day life. I have found them welcoming and great fun

Agreed I have made some friends and been able to open up more through the forums x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the raisins!

Is that your currant opinion?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I like the Forums for the wide diversity of people and topics, I am hoping my love affair with the lounge will reignite in the future, arms length is best for me right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the Forums for the wide diversity of people and topics, I am hoping my love affair with the lounge will reignite in the future, arms length is best for me right now"

Same here

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"All the raisins!

Is that your currant opinion?"

Weyyyyyy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The debates, laughs,flirts and sexy people

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

To get a better feel for people.

To understand different viewpoints more.

To be part of a virtual community.

To look at naked bodies, to play silly games and to find out who wants to snog, marry or avoid us

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"The mix of serious and silly, sex and sensibility, entertainment and education.

The many interesting, intelligent and funny people sharing their thoughts in an open and generous spirit.

The group dynamic which ebbs and flows in all sorts of intriguing ways."

Can I steal this one for mine too please?

Mrs kf x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To get a better feel for people.

To understand different viewpoints more.

To be part of a virtual community.

To look at naked bodies, to play silly games and to find out who wants to snog, marry or avoid us

Fuck

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By *lipy123TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Friendly fun with lot's of nice people, It just shows this sit is not all about faceless sex

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By *elethWoman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

So many wonderful people, some who have become great friends.

As has been said several times already, the diversity of opinion, perspective, knowledge and humour. The support people offer is incredible. It's a fun, fascinating, flirtatious place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find some threads hilarious others you find out things you didn’t know + it’s always nice to see someone you wouldn’t always see if you done a search

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By *ogueAngelMan
over a year ago

Near Bath / Bristol

I have only started exploring here in the past 24 hours thanks to a nudge from a friend here, but have been enjoying it greatly. Interesting people, funny, open, and there's a community behind it. Such a contrast to the more clinical one-on-one messaging in private.

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By *elethWoman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"The mix of serious and silly, sex and sensibility, entertainment and education.

The many interesting, intelligent and funny people sharing their thoughts in an open and generous spirit.

The group dynamic which ebbs and flows in all sorts of intriguing ways.

Can I steal this one for mine too please?

Mrs kf x"

I nearly did too, beautifully put, Leo!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Only positive posts please

Why do you love the lounge?

For me, the support, the fun, the flirting and the diversity of posts .."

Pretty much this

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

It makes me feel included not ignored and excluded

Always makes me smile

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By *ugsly95Man
over a year ago

Ashbourne

"It makes me feel included not ignored and excluded

Always makes me smile

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here are some of the reasons why I've always loved the forums :

Some post's are hilarious and full of quick witted people!! Great humour

Other posts are very informative, every day's a school day right?

I've seen genuine compassion, care and support for people who are not having the best of times.

And last but not least, you get to spot some eye candy that you otherwise wouldn't of come across

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

More than anything, it’s the wit, the sense of community and the connections that can be built.

I think the the forums can be great for sharing understanding, knowledge and for finding like minded folks

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Keeps me entertained and I have learned a few things!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Also the boobs

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Also the boobs"

And the knobs.

All the bits.

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By *inx555Woman
over a year ago

in a forest far away

I've not been here long but I like the randomness of the topics and a real sense of friendship amongst some of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm taking to some of ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the variety

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I think everyone who posts on the forums adds something. There are some right funny folk on here, some passionate artistic folk, argumentative types, those who are quick to offer a kind word or some advice (wanted or otherwise). There are those who make you question things you thought you held an opinion on, those who keep you informed about world wide events, those who need support.

It’s like people watching in a train station. You see snippets of people, just enough of them before they start getting on your tits and then they’re off. You may cross paths again, or not, you may not like some of them, but they make the place what it is. And they’re from all over the World.

I’ve been on a few forums and this is the one where I have stayed the longest. I like it here.

Yes sometimes folk are unkind, short, or sharp with their words (as we can all be, given a bad day), but on the whole, the good people outweigh the bad.

And of course, there’s the cock avatars. A pervers delight

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It's given me some of my closest friends.

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

Love the diversity in the threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet some amazing people In here and got some great advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I love all these answers. Keep them coming

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm something of a lurker

But I enjoy reading posts that make me smile and the banter, flirting and interaction between people. I have a few Posters that I look out for who invariably make me smile although I tend to avoid the overly serious threads. What's not to like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get to chat with some little gems that you otherwise may never find

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

The posters x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can bump those threads you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The tits

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Friends we've made, photo challenges... not been in much recently. Waiting for normality to resume and hope things perk up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The photo challenges, the people I've spoken to and come across that I wouldn't usually and the confidence it's given me in knowing that my opinion can count. The odd witty comment that cracks me up is also amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all need a village, especially as isolated as we’ve become over the last 18 months!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s lovely to hear how much this place and the people here make a positive impact on others.

In the strangest way, on a medium that is supposed to represent me as one dimensional, I am a more rounded person here than offline.

I am more garrulous and involved here. Offline, I am a wallflower. I am ‘that’ chap who tries to avoid eye contact lest someone comes to chat with me and when they do, my mind works feverishly to concoct an end to the conversation whilst simultaneously holding it.

Here, I am faceless yet known beyond being my son’s dad. I flirt as I would NEVER do offline and it’s all harmless fun, simply a way to say hello to a friend I’ve never met and barely spoken to.

I feel more a person here than I do offline.

Having said that, it’s time for a little break. Keep enjoying the Forum. Toodelu, chin chin, pip pip and see you in a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The variety of posts and the odd wacky posts that pop up. The sheer randomness of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s lovely to hear how much this place and the people here make a positive impact on others.

In the strangest way, on a medium that is supposed to represent me as one dimensional, I am a more rounded person here than offline.

I feel more a person here than I do offline.

Having said that, it’s time for a little break. Keep enjoying the Forum. Toodelu, chin chin, pip pip and see you in a bit."

Great response. Enjoy your break, make sure you come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just find it a place where I can escape for a few minutes and see what other like minded people are discussing.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

It has led to conversations, which is more than I can say for any other element of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The photo challenges and boing videos

I like that so many people get involved and you get to see people's personalities.

Kx"

Thanks K. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you

for always taking part. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different challenges plus fems and males on here are not up their own ass as to the actual site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy observing interactions. I enjoy opportunity to uplift mood and to reflect with others. Like a group brainstorming session. Or just good rolling on the floor laughing. I enjoy our photo challenges of course.. embracing others efforts and pushing myself to take more photos/get out there and be happy with who I am.

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