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"Asking for a meet during covid or same day when we've never chatted. Getting shirty if you don't reply immediately and sending another message Sending a dick pic and asking of I wanna ride it/suck it Pestering when I've said no already. " All these plus How kinky are you? Can I ask you a question? Are you into role play (of the familial variety)? One word messages - Chat, Kik etc Etc etc etc | |||
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"I’ve never had to block so many as I have this year - it becomes tiresome. I have on my profile title that I’m not meeting at the moment - I had a guy message me yesterday saying he was free to come over and giving me all his contact details. He had hidden his profile so I couldn’t block him and then sent another 3 messages. Even away from Covid times I don’t meet in that way. I had to report him and hopefully they blocked him. Some people are just yuk! " You can still block, click on the three lines in the top right corner. | |||
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"I’ve never had to block so many as I have this year - it becomes tiresome. I have on my profile title that I’m not meeting at the moment - I had a guy message me yesterday saying he was free to come over and giving me all his contact details. He had hidden his profile so I couldn’t block him and then sent another 3 messages. Even away from Covid times I don’t meet in that way. I had to report him and hopefully they blocked him. Some people are just yuk! You can still block, click on the three lines in the top right corner. " Thanks I didn’t know that. | |||
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"When talking to couples yet the female part of the couple is never around and apparently can’t join a conversation....suuuuure" Definitely this! | |||
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"Offers or bare back and breeding. Or my total fave when I turn ppl down, they lowered themselves to message me in the first place OK then special boy" It's a shame when they have to scrape the bottom of the barrel isn't it? (obvs sarcasm!) | |||
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"Offers or bare back and breeding. Or my total fave when I turn ppl down, they lowered themselves to message me in the first place OK then special boy It's a shame when they have to scrape the bottom of the barrel isn't it? (obvs sarcasm!)" I should leave the site and work on my appearance clearly | |||
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"Offers or bare back and breeding. Or my total fave when I turn ppl down, they lowered themselves to message me in the first place OK then special boy It's a shame when they have to scrape the bottom of the barrel isn't it? (obvs sarcasm!) I should leave the site and work on my appearance clearly " We've not had those reactions to a negative yet, but we have had such as "what a fat *****" off the bat. Frigging charming haha! | |||
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"I hate those messages that start with "your site supporter subscription is about to expire".. So bloody annoying! " Ignore and block | |||
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"wuu2 " Took me a good minute to figure that out. I'm so using that ! | |||
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"Well my block list is growing! Had some cretin offer me money for sex, politely told him that this isn't that kind of site, his response is no one would know Bye now!! What makes you block? " I'm still trying to work out what type of site it actually is | |||
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"“Are you on the car park?” I have no explanation or reason other than we showed as near by. " Brilliant! | |||
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"Well my block list is growing! Had some cretin offer me money for sex, politely told him that this isn't that kind of site, his response is no one would know Bye now!! What makes you block? " I had a woman knock on the door of my truck recently. She said £50 for full sex. I said sorry but I haven't got the time. Shame really because I needed the money! | |||
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"Just had a FAF? type message. I suggested he read my profile & see if he could work out the answer for himself " Sorry, what does FAF mean? | |||
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"Just had a FAF? type message. I suggested he read my profile & see if he could work out the answer for himself Sorry, what does FAF mean?" Fancy a fuck. | |||
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"Just had a FAF? type message. I suggested he read my profile & see if he could work out the answer for himself Sorry, what does FAF mean? Fancy a fuck." THANKYOU I had been wondering. I thought it was "fit as fuck" | |||
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"Just had a FAF? type message. I suggested he read my profile & see if he could work out the answer for himself Sorry, what does FAF mean? Fancy a fuck. THANKYOU I had been wondering. I thought it was "fit as fuck" " You’re welcome | |||
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"wuu2 " Nope, still not got this... | |||
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"Bet you look good inside my anus daddy " It'd be dark, how would they know how you looked? | |||
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"wuu2 Nope, still not got this..." "Wot u up 2?" Unfortunately. | |||
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"I get members asking for my e mail address a lot, I know they collect them then sell them in bundles. Anybody asks me for a tribute to meet or speak to them. Any nasty comments on my pics and writings get BLOCKED.... " What's the email address of your local police station? | |||
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"wuu2 Nope, still not got this... "Wot u up 2?" Unfortunately." Thanks. You're clearly more youthful than me | |||
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"We've been offered money from someone who just wanted to watch! Felt a bit bad for him to be honest." So did you let me watch for free! | |||
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"We've been offered money from someone who just wanted to watch! Felt a bit bad for him to be honest. So did you let me watch for free! " Haha no, but I do hope he found someone into it | |||
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"I hate the odd ones. I Get some going on about tiny men in my cocktail glass, enough to put me off Pimm's for life." I don’t understand these messages and I’ve had a couple now. Like, why do I want a little person swimming around my drink? It’s not quirky or funny, it’s just stupid | |||
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"Well my block list is growing! Had some cretin offer me money for sex, politely told him that this isn't that kind of site, his response is no one would know Bye now!! What makes you block? " Terrible bathroom decor or socks with sandals. | |||
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"Asking for a meet during covid or same day when we've never chatted. Getting shirty if you don't reply immediately and sending another message Sending a dick pic and asking of I wanna ride it/suck it Pestering when I've said no already. " 100% this | |||
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"I hate anything involving breeding. Not only is it creepy and gross, but since I can't have kids, it's really insensitive and upsetting!" sorry to hear luv | |||
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"I got a "I'm looking for granny sex" I've never got over that one " There are some stunning grannies on here! | |||
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"The worst message I ever got was a guy asking me if I'm into extreme deep throat until I puke thick vomit " Ugg that's is horrible. | |||
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"We had some guy ask me to use him as a human toilet!!!!" Lmfao ok you win | |||
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"We had some guy ask me to use him as a human toilet!!!!" absolute madness | |||
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"I got a "I'm looking for granny sex" I've never got over that one There are some stunning grannies on here! " Weirdly enough I was asked once if I had children, upon my saying no ... he then asked "any grandchildren?" | |||
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"We had some guy ask me to use him as a human toilet!!!!" I've had this a few times lol Even asked 1 guy what happens about toilet paper lmao Hr called me a wind up and time waster lol But then those messages usually happen late night weekends and I think my questions back while under the influence are funny and not the wind up they claim..still never found about the toilet paper situation.. | |||
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"I only block really ugly people! " Loooooool mr bants | |||
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"I only block really ugly people! Loooooool mr bants" You're safe! | |||
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"I only block really ugly people! Loooooool mr bants You're safe! " Oh thanks lol | |||
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"Worst message we got were usually variations of "your husband isn't a real man, but i am and my cock is huge" or "Let's meet today and I will fuck babies into you"" | |||
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"Worst message we got were usually variations of "your husband isn't a real man, but i am and my cock is huge" or "Let's meet today and I will fuck babies into you" " I know. Or there was a guy who wanted permission to mutilate his testicles. That was an intense conversation | |||
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"Worst message we got were usually variations of "your husband isn't a real man, but i am and my cock is huge" or "Let's meet today and I will fuck babies into you" I know. Or there was a guy who wanted permission to mutilate his testicles. That was an intense conversation " argh omg no way honestly some people really need to self critique themselves wth wow | |||
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"Worst message we got were usually variations of "your husband isn't a real man, but i am and my cock is huge" or "Let's meet today and I will fuck babies into you" I know. Or there was a guy who wanted permission to mutilate his testicles. That was an intense conversation argh omg no way honestly some people really need to self critique themselves wth wow " I think some people just try and live out fantasies by text. They get a rush from saying shit they wouldn't dream of saying in public | |||
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"We had some guy ask me to use him as a human toilet!!!!" I've had a couple of those. | |||
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"Worst message we got were usually variations of "your husband isn't a real man, but i am and my cock is huge" or "Let's meet today and I will fuck babies into you" I know. Or there was a guy who wanted permission to mutilate his testicles. That was an intense conversation argh omg no way honestly some people really need to self critique themselves wth wow I think some people just try and live out fantasies by text. They get a rush from saying shit they wouldn't dream of saying in public " Yes very true and being so caught up in their moment they don't stop and how think how the receiver would take their message. Pretty selfish if you ask me | |||
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"I had the one when I'd just joined (like JUST joined) asking me to shit on her husbands chest and make him eat it. I'm like luv, I can't go unless I'm on my own toilet and we'd all die of starvation waiting for me to drop a log. I've had some really fucking nasty stuff too where they're gonna break into my house whilst I'm asleep and all that bollocks. " to the first bit My heart's just sank at the last bit, sorry to hear you had such nasty messages towards you hugs and kisses hun xxx | |||
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"Worst message we got were usually variations of "your husband isn't a real man, but i am and my cock is huge" or "Let's meet today and I will fuck babies into you" I know. Or there was a guy who wanted permission to mutilate his testicles. That was an intense conversation argh omg no way honestly some people really need to self critique themselves wth wow I think some people just try and live out fantasies by text. They get a rush from saying shit they wouldn't dream of saying in public Yes very true and being so caught up in their moment they don't stop and how think how the receiver would take their message. Pretty selfish if you ask me " incredibly selfish. If I want to do a humiliation scene, I need permission from everyone involved. These people don't care who they hurt. They just want their kicks and to feel better about themselves | |||
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"Worst message we got were usually variations of "your husband isn't a real man, but i am and my cock is huge" or "Let's meet today and I will fuck babies into you" I know. Or there was a guy who wanted permission to mutilate his testicles. That was an intense conversation argh omg no way honestly some people really need to self critique themselves wth wow I think some people just try and live out fantasies by text. They get a rush from saying shit they wouldn't dream of saying in public Yes very true and being so caught up in their moment they don't stop and how think how the receiver would take their message. Pretty selfish if you ask me incredibly selfish. If I want to do a humiliation scene, I need permission from everyone involved. These people don't care who they hurt. They just want their kicks and to feel better about themselves " Yes spot on its so true | |||
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"I did have one where some guy wanted me to have sex with his mum so he could watch. " omg no wayyy wow | |||
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"I block for different reasons, mainly not reading my profile. However, today was the first time I blocked a guy for wanting to meet me because I was a squirter. Yes, I am, but I am so much more than just that, and I am not here to just be a tick on someone's bucket list. Then yesterday I blocked someone because, after over a month of conversations, with me being very specific when I was available (after Covid), he "forgot" he actually was not available in the hours I am, due to "work commitments". Like I haven't got "work commitments" myself. " high 5 to you gurrl I block for different reasons too and quite the same as your reasons xx | |||
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"I did have one where some guy wanted me to have sex with his mum so he could watch. " | |||
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"Well my block list is growing! Had some cretin offer me money for sex, politely told him that this isn't that kind of site, his response is no one would know Bye now!! What makes you block? " Wow. Nobody ever offered me money for sex. Demanded it though after ..... Rudeness gets blocked | |||
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"I had an abusive message out of the blue last week from a woman I’ve never communicated with. Nothing but a load of vitriol because she didn’t like my profile. WTF." Stop bragging! | |||
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"The worst message I ever got was a guy asking me if I'm into extreme deep throat until I puke thick vomit " This guy is back in my inbox despite blocking each account he makes and reported him each time too | |||
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"Had loads.. From the "?". That was it...wuu2 is another one we get regularly.. One guy asked if he paid me would I crap on his chest. Another said as soon as hubby dies (stage 4 cancer, chemo, doing well) I should give him a call to get "propa sorted out". It's all fun and games on fab " I have no words for those people. I want to apologise on his behalf for wishing death on your husband that is just awful big hug and kiss xxxxx | |||
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"I did have one where some guy wanted me to have sex with his mum so he could watch. omg no wayyy wow " I don’t even think that’s my worst message | |||
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"I did have one where some guy wanted me to have sex with his mum so he could watch. omg no wayyy wow I don’t even think that’s my worst message " Oh goodness xx | |||
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"Oh I did have some vile guy wish me and my family got covid and died all because He couldn’t get a rise out of me and I was polite " sorry to hear this xxx | |||
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"Oh I did have some vile guy wish me and my family got covid and died all because He couldn’t get a rise out of me and I was polite " It’s honestly no wonder why a lot of women won’t reply if this is an example of the messages men send | |||
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"I've had a few who say things such as 'it's on my list to try fucking a fatty' cheers. Also when you say youre not interested politely and end up with some vile derogatory comment about your image. Sorry 5mins ago you wanted to fuck me so which is it " "Didn't wanna anyway" (throws toy out of pram) | |||
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"Well my block list is growing! Had some cretin offer me money for sex, politely told him that this isn't that kind of site, his response is no one would know Bye now!! What makes you block? " I mainly block if a person sends a friend request and we haven't met a few times. Rude disrespectful behaviour If a person persists on messaging even though I don't reply xx | |||
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"Constant messaging on the borderline of harassment is the only reason I block usually or if your a complete twat.. either or." Yep. If I get the same message a few days in a row and I’m not interested that is a block | |||
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"Iv just been told I talk Stilton " Must learn to read I block abusive messages, abusive status’, any mention of drugs each their own but it’s not my thing and people offering money | |||
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"Iv just been told I talk Stilton Must learn to read I block abusive messages, abusive status’, any mention of drugs each their own but it’s not my thing and people offering money " Thankful I didn’t offer to pay for ferry fare now haha | |||
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"Iv just been told I talk Stilton Must learn to read I block abusive messages, abusive status’, any mention of drugs each their own but it’s not my thing and people offering money Thankful I didn’t offer to pay for ferry fare now haha" | |||
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