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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I put effort into messages then no responce also attach photos, very popular at ckubs but messaging doesn't cut it

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Welcome to the world of fab

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

A profile pic might help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh it's a strange world we live in...

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Theres nothing on your profile, so realistically, why would anyone reply, a message with a pic doesn't give any indication of who you are or what you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooh it's a strange world we live in..."

Is it really strange on here today or am I still half asleep?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooh it's a strange world we live in...

Is it really strange on here today or am I still half asleep?

"

Been strange on here ever since I joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no profile pic, no profile text, no public gallery ( just dick pics taken in your bathroom of course ) .. you have a number of published verifications so seems like those other issues can be easily resolved ..

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I read a profile to see if I'm interested before I decide whether to even open a message. A blank profile with no avatar or public pics would be ignored.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

No profile or public pics!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People look at profiles, often before reading a message. Anyone sending them is advised to question how well their profile lets others see if they are attractive to them or not.

At the back end of the pandemic, people have been more closed to others for many reasons.

Single men here have to just do their best and have patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People usually look at a profile before replying and you don’t have anything public ...

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By *aturewomanloverMan
over a year ago

staffs/cheshire

Send 30 really nice messages, won't get read,. Get a bit miffed and send one with a bit of attitude (then wish you hadn't, and hope it doesn't get read) 100% it will get read

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

No public pics or profile pic.

Come on...there is no excuse not to have at least a profile pic.

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton

Just send a dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I respond to a message, or even open it, I look at the senders profile... can you guess where I am going with this?

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton


"Send 30 really nice messages, won't get read,. Get a bit miffed and send one with a bit of attitude (then wish you hadn't, and hope it doesn't get read) 100% it will get read "

So so so true! Your not alone mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best advice I ever read was pretty simple ... if they dont like your messages, send cake. Bitches love cake ...

( your mileage may vary )

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Take a pic of yourself in a black morph suit in front of a white background..

Oh - you already have - silly me.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

In a club people can see body language and feel the vibe you're giving off.

Through written word and picture you have to try to create that as best you can to give a half decent reflection of yourself.

Plus in a club the people you're engaging with are wanting to engage with others, or they'd not be there. On here that's not necessarily the case. On here you could be sending a message when someones in a shitty mood, tired, hormonal, hungry, running late, and above all else, this last year has been brutal on anyone with a heart and has had a huge impact on desire to communicate, libido etc.

So there you have it.

The advice I give to anyone and everyone who whinges about getting no replies is go to organised socials or clubs and use the site to keep in touch with those people you connect with at said events.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People usually look at a profile before replying and you don’t have anything public ..."

Exactly this matey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe stop being a whinge-bag and write better messages...

No?

If they were any good they would reply to them.

Try bring specific about the persons profile and interests, mention some of yours, treat it as this person probably gets loads of messages and what will make yours different, and no matter what,

no-one HAS to reply to anybody, freewill

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