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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If I sent you a message would you reply just from looking at my profile ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

Lu

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope.

Lu "

Can I ask why ?

What is the turn offs ??

Not trying to sound rude or anything just wanting to know what I can do to improve that

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

You're not my type OP, but good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope.

Lu

Can I ask why ?

What is the turn offs ??

Not trying to sound rude or anything just wanting to know what I can do to improve that "

Can I ask why you'd think I would?

Do you expect a reply from every one?

Women on fab receive 100s of messages a day sometimes, dunno about you but I'd expect a full time wage replying to all those!

Personally, we wouldn't respond because you aren't remotely what we're looking for.

Don't worry about why people don't reply...

Make sure your profile represents you well. Be polite. Write personal, interesting messages that will stand out from the generic "hey howz u", "up 2 much?", "wow nice tits, how big?"...and above all, don't be a dick or wave yours at people who haven't asked to see it.

Any man can be successful on here, you get out what you put in.

Good luck OP

Lu

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"If I sent you a message would you reply just from looking at my profile ??

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No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never expect you to but that's why I posted on the forums to ask and see people's views, I should of made it clear in the original post and ask why.

I understood women and couples get 100s of messages hence why I asked if someone would reply just from the profile as I can imagine ots easier that way instead of reading every message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never expect you to but that's why I posted on the forums to ask and see people's views, I should of made it clear in the original post and ask why.

I understood women and couples get 100s of messages hence why I asked if someone would reply just from the profile as I can imagine ots easier that way instead of reading every message "

But surely it's pointless asking everyone? Statistically most of whom won't be looking for what you have to offer...

You're better off asking the opinion of those looking to meet guys like yourself.

Most of the site are looking to meet women...they prolly wouldn't reply to a single dude

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never expect you to but that's why I posted on the forums to ask and see people's views, I should of made it clear in the original post and ask why.

I understood women and couples get 100s of messages hence why I asked if someone would reply just from the profile as I can imagine ots easier that way instead of reading every message

But surely it's pointless asking everyone? Statistically most of whom won't be looking for what you have to offer...

You're better off asking the opinion of those looking to meet guys like yourself.

Most of the site are looking to meet women...they prolly wouldn't reply to a single dude "

Fully understandable and probably the best thing to do but the more Insight and opinions on my profile and way to improve it is always a bonus haha..

I know I'm not what everyone is looking for and probably not even 1% of fab so that's why I asked in ways to make my profile more attractive

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We reply based on the message much more than the profile. Send a good message and get a reply. Send a crap message and it will take a quick trip to Bin Land.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. "

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

You seem quite genuine. Your profile looks OK.

Throw in some interests like music and films you like places you like to visit.

Food you like.

It all helps a lady know what she's potentially going to meet.

Yes you have a large erection, but they need to know the person behind it.

In time you will meet lots of ladies, be patient.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I wouldn't reply OP, but my age filters would prevent you from messaging anyway.

Ultimately, there is no magic formula for a successful profile. Just be yourself, the right people will find that appealing and those that don't aren't the ones for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there’s a bit of inconsistency with some of your pics which may be a red flag to some, your profile text could do with a little bit more work too.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Not sure what the inconsistencies are meant to be but on your pics.

Depending on the message and the vibe you give off I'd potentially reply

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

I must be blind but I'm not seeing inconsistencies in your pictures. But you do come off a bit woe is me in your profile so I probably wouldn't reply. If I was looking I'd be looking for someone with confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, no I wouldn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly, no I wouldn’t. "

Why? At least try! Otherwise you come across nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only read messages from profiles where I like the look of the profile pic. I can see immediately you aren't what I'm looking for so no. I wouldn't read your message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope sorry I'm not fab straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it would depend on how the message you sent read. A well thought out reply with something personal added is always a good thing, I'd read it then I'd look at your profile.

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