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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you were having so much sex to the point that you were very satisfied and not as horny as you usually were, would you admit to the other person that they had "broken" you, or would you stubbornly keep having sex so as not to admit defeat?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Oh I've tapped out a few times for recovery cuddles

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Broken is many steps further along than that

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I would say that I needed a break. A cuppa and a biscuit then go again.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't think sex was a competition

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

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Would much rather communicate openly that a pause is required than keep going and resent doing it just to save face

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn't think sex was a competition "

Haha. It can be if you're both competitive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give in

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We simply don’t know when to stop! There’s no stop button for either....we often say one of us has to die for the other to stop.

We can’t breathe and look like we’ve gone 10 rounds but we’ll be buggered if either one of us says we are finished

K

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"If you were having so much sex to the point that you were very satisfied and not as horny as you usually were, would you admit to the other person that they had "broken" you, or would you stubbornly keep having sex so as not to admit defeat? "

Erm... that's not how sex works in my world.

If I have had enough, I would simply say so. Sex is about mutual enjoyment.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I'll let you know when it ever happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't give in "

That's the spirit - take no prisoners!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've tapped out after a few times in a day but its usually my body giving out before my mind. Give me a day and I'll be back at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe spice it up a bit try something new get that pulse racing again.

Is there such a thing as to much sex...

Or is that just me

Solider on mate no one likes a quitter ha ha

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've tapped out after a few times in a day but its usually my body giving out before my mind. Give me a day and I'll be back at it "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've tapped out after a few times in a day but its usually my body giving out before my mind. Give me a day and I'll be back at it "

I always think mental fatigue is worse than the physical equivalent.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

No shame in tapping out.

I've had times where I'm sore, times where my brain has just clicked the off button and I'm done.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I've tapped out after a few times in a day but its usually my body giving out before my mind. Give me a day and I'll be back at it

I always think mental fatigue is worse than the physical equivalent."

It's usually because carrying on is too sore for penetration and I'm numb to anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've tapped out after a few times in a day but its usually my body giving out before my mind. Give me a day and I'll be back at it

I always think mental fatigue is worse than the physical equivalent.

It's usually because carrying on is too sore for penetration and I'm numb to anything else "

See about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got 18m to catch up on...

Welcome new man.. you better get rest...

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I never got it there yet

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'd find it difficult to understand the word defeat because I enjoy the pleasure surrounding intimacy just a shame it's not frequently as this provides drive and motivation my past relationships have been very active in the sexual department it was explosive chemistry and completely satisfying for both each time and never any complaints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm assuming you are talking about longterm.

If I felt I couldn't continue at the pace I would let my partner know.

I can't have sex if I'm not in the right headspace

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm assuming you are talking about longterm.

If I felt I couldn't continue at the pace I would let my partner know.

I can't have sex if I'm not in the right headspace"

Without wanting to sound evasive, I think both interpretations of the question are teasing out very interesting answers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will let you know when it happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will let you know when it happens "

If I had a nickel for every time ...

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I won’t have sex for the sake of it. I have to really want it. Menopause is shit.

J x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Aww OP, it's lovely you've found someone! I hope neither of you concede and you keep on having lots and lots of sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aww OP, it's lovely you've found someone! I hope neither of you concede and you keep on having lots and lots of sex. "

Thank you for your kind wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Glass of vin or some cold pop and then ready to go again. Or maybe a glass of vin or some cold pop and then it's time for bed!

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