FabSwingers.com forum: Define swinging

By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

It seems that ‘swinging’ has quite a large semantic range.

What definition do you use?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

A quick way to traverse the jungle

LvM

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

When sex is your hobby

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"A quick way to traverse the jungle

LvM"

The Tarzan definition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When sex is your hobby

This

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"When sex is your hobby

Yep! That's how I view it and sum up what we're about as a couple. Sod all the hotwife/stag/vixen/whatever labels

Mrs kf x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do we need to define it?

What swinging is to me, isn't what swinging is to you or lacey red or anyone else. And it's OK because we can still interact.

To me it's ethical non monogamy based around sex. (As opposed to polyamory which is ethical non monogamy based around relationships)

For others it's just sex.

Or it's a way to find a relationship

Or it's what you at the weekend when your hubby thinks you are having tea with your best friend.

It doesn't matter ultimately. It's a means to an end

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"When sex is your hobby

I like that. A bit like people who play tennis with a range of different doubles partners

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"Why do we need to define it?

What swinging is to me, isn't what swinging is to you or lacey red or anyone else. And it's OK because we can still interact.

To me it's ethical non monogamy based around sex. (As opposed to polyamory which is ethical non monogamy based around relationships)

For others it's just sex.

Or it's a way to find a relationship

Or it's what you at the weekend when your hubby thinks you are having tea with your best friend.

It doesn't matter ultimately. It's a means to an end"

You've just defined it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Whatever you want it to be.

Two terms I dislike intensely are 'proper swingers' and 'vanilla'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An enjoyable pastime in the park. Assuming the bloody kids aren’t hogging all the swings

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

"When sex is your hobby

Best definition that I have heard!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

A casual approach to sex, where it’s for pleasure but not associated with deep emotional connections.

It can be between multiple partners or two, depending on the individual and respective dynamics

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

I'm not a swinger but the part of the label I would use will be the group sex part, club orgies are high on my bucket list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When sex is your hobby

I like that

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"A casual approach to sex, where it’s for pleasure but not associated with deep emotional connections.

It can be between multiple partners or two, depending on the individual and respective dynamics"

This is how I see it too, definitely more about the physical connection not emotional/romantic

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