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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does any other men constantly get bombarded with messages from gay men asking if they can suck your dick while you watch porn or supposedly straight men begging to let you suck your cock why there wifes at work or asleep i have put it on my bio and my status all the time that i am not looking for that but regardless its at least 4 times a night is anyone else having this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block single men from messaging you, job done

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"block single men from messaging you, job done "
ive been told that before but shouldnt have to and sometimes some lads are just messaging for a chat cos there bored so i chat back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"block single men from messaging you, job done ive been told that before but shouldnt have to and sometimes some lads are just messaging for a chat cos there bored so i chat back "

I’ve not blocked guys for that same reason, i’m happy to chat and i do get the occasional message asking for a quick fix which i just delete, but if it’s bothering you enough to post on the forum, then i would block, even just for a couple of months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"block single men from messaging you, job done ive been told that before but shouldnt have to and sometimes some lads are just messaging for a chat cos there bored so i chat back

I’ve not blocked guys for that same reason, i’m happy to chat and i do get the occasional message asking for a quick fix which i just delete, but if it’s bothering you enough to post on the forum, then i would block, even just for a couple of months."

To be fair... you also posted on what’s “bothering” you... it’s good to talk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im posting to ask is it something that alot of men get like you just said you get every now and again i get 3 or 4 a night

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"block single men from messaging you, job done ive been told that before but shouldnt have to and sometimes some lads are just messaging for a chat cos there bored so i chat back "

Uhm....just delete and block then? Welcome to fab. If you don’t want to entertain it, then you wouldn’t entertain it?

But hey, welcome to the inbox of women— persistent men who ignore your profile, preferences, and desires? Check!

On the flip side, gay men would, and rightfully so, be pissed if ppl went on a quest to make them completely straight and bombarded them with straight sex offers. They expect people to respect their sexual orientation. Touché.

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london

Women should do an experiment and message a bunch of gay men asking them to eat our pussies...or wait...would they let us suck their dicks?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"block single men from messaging you, job done ive been told that before but shouldnt have to and sometimes some lads are just messaging for a chat cos there bored so i chat back

I’ve not blocked guys for that same reason, i’m happy to chat and i do get the occasional message asking for a quick fix which i just delete, but if it’s bothering you enough to post on the forum, then i would block, even just for a couple of months.

To be fair... you also posted on what’s “bothering” you... it’s good to talk "
what do you mean what ive posted on a forum called that you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im posting to ask is it something that alot of men get like you just said you get every now and again i get 3 or 4 a night "

i think you’ve highlighted the problem right there, being on at night, that’s when the horny devils come out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Follow your heart

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

It’s a fair question, as to why some gay men seem to seek out straight men to play with rather than seeking out other gay men.

Suggesting that OP blocks single men doesn’t answer the question. I would be interested in the answer too, I’ve had several approaches, I’m not bothered by them but don’t really understand the interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its only at night i see the messages i mean i dont come on while im in work or when i have my children so im only ever on on weekends

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s a fair question, as to why some gay men seem to seek out straight men to play with rather than seeking out other gay men.

Suggesting that OP blocks single men doesn’t answer the question. I would be interested in the answer too, I’ve had several approaches, I’m not bothered by them but don’t really understand the interest. "
thats what i was asking its just obviously come across wrong but i wouldnt message a lesbian and try to convince her just as if a womens preference was black men i wouldnt say why dont you come round watch porn of black men while i fuck you i was wondering why a gay man would want to sit sucking a man knowing that if the porn wasnt there he wouldnt be hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its only at night i see the messages i mean i dont come on while im in work or when i have my children so im only ever on on weekends "

Okay, if it’s only the weekend you’re online, put it on your top line of the profile and if any messages do come in requesting sex with you from another guy, just delete and block, won’t be too long before the messages stop coming in.

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"It’s a fair question, as to why some gay men seem to seek out straight men to play with rather than seeking out other gay men.

Suggesting that OP blocks single men doesn’t answer the question. I would be interested in the answer too, I’ve had several approaches, I’m not bothered by them but don’t really understand the interest. "

A common fantasy— having what you can’t or not supposed to “have or get”. The winning over, conquering the supposed “straight” guy, the taboo-ness of it all. The perception that “straight” is more “masculine”, thus more attractive.

It’s a common trope or theme in gay porn too.

Personally, I think it’s a bit pathetic and self delusional. With the exception of a one/two time curious guy— if a guy expresses more than passing interest in a guy— he’s not straight.

You all can also use Google:

https://www.vice.com/en/article/mbz9ny/why-gay-men-often-fetishize-straight-men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its not the messages im bothered about its kinda an ego boost im wondering why gay men want try so hard to suck off straight men rather than meet other gay men

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton


"Does any other men constantly get bombarded with messages from gay men asking if they can suck your dick while you watch porn or supposedly straight men begging to let you suck your cock why there wifes at work or asleep i have put it on my bio and my status all the time that i am not looking for that but regardless its at least 4 times a night is anyone else having this"

all the time haha this is the world of fab so I wouldn’t look to much into it! I take it as a compliment now haah!

As others have suggested try the messaging filters it won’t stop them all but will definitely slow them down! Maybe change your username?? There’s no smoke without fire haha

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork


"Follow your heart "

I think most guys on fab follow their cocks rather than their hearts.

Good advice in general though

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"It’s a fair question, as to why some gay men seem to seek out straight men to play with rather than seeking out other gay men.

Suggesting that OP blocks single men doesn’t answer the question. I would be interested in the answer too, I’ve had several approaches, I’m not bothered by them but don’t really understand the interest. thats what i was asking its just obviously come across wrong but i wouldnt message a lesbian and try to convince her just as if a womens preference was black men i wouldnt say why dont you come round watch porn of black men while i fuck you i was wondering why a gay man would want to sit sucking a man knowing that if the porn wasnt there he wouldnt be hard "

I don’t think your question came across wrong, some of the answers just avoided the question and suggested you block men.

I don’t quite understand the dynamic either, and would be interested to know why it happens. And I haven’t always said no, I have met a couple of guys who wanted to suck a straight guy and it’s been fun. Maybe they are looking for guys who won’t be looking to reciprocate? Just want to suck?

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By *ow are you ABCMan
over a year ago

Chester

Find many straight guys want to fuck bi guys

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork


"Its not the messages im bothered about its kinda an ego boost im wondering why gay men want try so hard to suck off straight men rather than meet other gay men "

Because it’s a numbers game. If they message enough then they might get lucky and get a positive response.

I was chatting to a guy on tinder who messaged asking me for bare back anal. I asked him how often he got a yes and he said it had happened once so now he just asks every woman in the hope a second one will say yes as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s a fair question, as to why some gay men seem to seek out straight men to play with rather than seeking out other gay men.

Suggesting that OP blocks single men doesn’t answer the question. I would be interested in the answer too, I’ve had several approaches, I’m not bothered by them but don’t really understand the interest. thats what i was asking its just obviously come across wrong but i wouldnt message a lesbian and try to convince her just as if a womens preference was black men i wouldnt say why dont you come round watch porn of black men while i fuck you i was wondering why a gay man would want to sit sucking a man knowing that if the porn wasnt there he wouldnt be hard

I don’t think your question came across wrong, some of the answers just avoided the question and suggested you block men.

I don’t quite understand the dynamic either, and would be interested to know why it happens. And I haven’t always said no, I have met a couple of guys who wanted to suck a straight guy and it’s been fun. Maybe they are looking for guys who won’t be looking to reciprocate? Just want to suck? "
i have too and never thought of it like that i just cant imagine going down on a women knowing its not something she's fully enjoying and has to watch porn so she can pretend its a women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its not the messages im bothered about its kinda an ego boost im wondering why gay men want try so hard to suck off straight men rather than meet other gay men

Because it’s a numbers game. If they message enough then they might get lucky and get a positive response.

I was chatting to a guy on tinder who messaged asking me for bare back anal. I asked him how often he got a yes and he said it had happened once so now he just asks every woman in the hope a second one will say yes as well. "
hahaha now that shits just messes up lol thats just a mother fucker with no boundaries lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Follow your heart

I think most guys on fab follow their cocks rather than their hearts.

Good advice in general though "

Follow your cock 8=•

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork


"Follow your heart

I think most guys on fab follow their cocks rather than their hearts.

Good advice in general though

Follow your cock 8=•"

I have a bright purple one. It’s nice and perky so when I’m wearing it I go where it leads

*this is not an invitation for messages asking me to fuck you with said perky purple cock so don’t even go there*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does any other men constantly get bombarded with messages from gay men asking if they can suck your dick while you watch porn or supposedly straight men begging to let you suck your cock why there wifes at work or asleep i have put it on my bio and my status all the time that i am not looking for that but regardless its at least 4 times a night is anyone else having this"

Yes, used to get it all the time, day and night, tbf it seems to have dropped off since I re worded my profile so clearly it gets the message across. I find it pretty offensive tbh when I get those kind of messages. I'm not anti gay, but to object to attempts at trying to make me gay, including the setting up of false couple profiles, and just before a meet it changes to "it's only me here today (guy) , why don't you come over and I'll suck your cock for you? " ..Erm yuk, yuk, and yuk! Lol

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

The huge volume of "fab straight" blokes on here means it's worth chancing their arm. I get more messages from "straight" blokes offering to "suk Ur cok" than I do from other bi blokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go through phases, more so if I upload a new pic, then it dies down again

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

It's something that I've had over the years, even to the extent I was offered a four figure sum. I did ask one guy what the attraction was, his reply, 'straight cock tastes so much better!'. Which to me is a contradiction if ever I've heard one.

As others have said, it's about the fantasy, ' turning' a straight guy, similar to that of a male fucking a lesbian. It's not going to happen unless they are curious by which they aren't straight anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude...I just read your profile and am genuinly curious if even you have read it?!

Your profile is an open invitiation

You are not straight and it says you have fucked guys so what do you expect?

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"block single men from messaging you, job done ive been told that before but shouldnt have to and sometimes some lads are just messaging for a chat cos there bored so i chat back

I’ve not blocked guys for that same reason, i’m happy to chat and i do get the occasional message asking for a quick fix which i just delete, but if it’s bothering you enough to post on the forum, then i would block, even just for a couple of months.

To be fair... you also posted on what’s “bothering” you... it’s good to talk "

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Your profile reads like “I’m not interested in men BUT I am interested in men” and it’s quite saucily worded.

It’s a red flag to horny men! You also ooze sexiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude...I just read your profile and am genuinly curious if even you have read it?!

Your profile is an open invitiation

You are not straight and it says you have fucked guys so what do you expect?"
This might be a clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"block single men from messaging you, job done "

There’s a block button for men, when did this happen, this is a game changer ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an essentially gay man, I do worry where my next blow job is coming from

I might have to go back straight to get a nosh off a bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You state I your profile bi-curious, that u do play with both sexes, so I'm really struggling to see the point of this thread...you have left the door wide.open to be messaged by these men...then moan about it, maybe for future ref,actually know what your looking for

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"Dude...I just read your profile and am genuinly curious if even you have read it?!

Your profile is an open invitiation

You are not straight and it says you have fucked guys so what do you expect?"

He really might be trolling then because I don’t think his profile said all that a couple hours ago, lol...

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

Messages like these,you can actually end up having a great laugh with guy and having a good chat,even though it’s leading to nothing,sometimes it’s just good to talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right...try that again.....

I get those messages a few times a day but I think they’re par for the course. Not having overtly sexual photos in my profile helps to keep the numbers manageable or it’s more likely that I’m just not attractive enough to be inundated.

I also don’t want to block all men as some in the Forum message me off a threads as well. It would inhibit my interaction here. I do not have any filters on.

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By *ovebjsMan
over a year ago

Bristol

why not just take Bi curiouse off the profile and then they would not bother to ask

seems more of a clickbait post to be honest

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

I'm straight in that I have never been with a man, but the idea of a man sucking me off was starting to sound like a i've never tried it therefore... so I tagged myself as bi curious ??

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By *ovebjsMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"I'm straight in that I have never been with a man, but the idea of a man sucking me off was starting to sound like a i've never tried it therefore... so I tagged myself as bi curious ??"

But Thats ok is it not? because you are saying you are up for the idea of a guy suvking you off and so would expect offers

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie

I get messages from lots of "straight" men wanting sex, so it's clear that not everyone claiming to be straight actually us. Just accept that someone finding you attractive is a compliment and say no thank you.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

The lady doth protest too much.

Perhaps don't tag yourself as bi curious x

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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester Middleton

Yep breaks me. Ir it's a fake couple with the bloke messaging, Gipping!

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Does any other men constantly get bombarded with messages from gay men asking if they can suck your dick while you watch porn or supposedly straight men begging to let you suck your cock why there wifes at work or asleep i have put it on my bio and my status all the time that i am not looking for that but regardless its at least 4 times a night is anyone else having this"

I just blocked these messages on default settings.

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By *ob rodMan
over a year ago

lancaster

Relationship straight never been in LTR with guy

but shamelessly gave wank suck rim off anyone and occasionally fuck arse so obviously not straight so put bi curious

Majority of messages I get are off straight guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We state that we’re only looking for Bi people. Doesn’t stop straight people messaging us, or the endless winks from straight guys on Abby’s pics.

We just shrug it off. It doesn’t stress us out.

V

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over a year ago

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"It's something that I've had over the years, even to the extent I was offered a four figure sum. I did ask one guy what the attraction was, his reply, 'straight cock tastes so much better!'. Which to me is a contradiction if ever I've heard one.

As others have said, it's about the fantasy, ' turning' a straight guy, similar to that of a male fucking a lesbian. It's not going to happen unless they are curious by which they aren't straight anyway."

So you’re not straight if you’ve ever had a sexual experience with a man? Fair enough if that is your view. To me, sexuality terms are just labels anyway. Do I find men physically attractive? No. Do I get aroused when I see another man naked? No. Do I get aroused when another man is jerking me off, sucking me or rimming me? Yes. Because it feels nice.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant


"It's something that I've had over the years, even to the extent I was offered a four figure sum. I did ask one guy what the attraction was, his reply, 'straight cock tastes so much better!'. Which to me is a contradiction if ever I've heard one.

As others have said, it's about the fantasy, ' turning' a straight guy, similar to that of a male fucking a lesbian. It's not going to happen unless they are curious by which they aren't straight anyway.

So you’re not straight if you’ve ever had a sexual experience with a man? Fair enough if that is your view. To me, sexuality terms are just labels anyway. Do I find men physically attractive? No. Do I get aroused when I see another man naked? No. Do I get aroused when another man is jerking me off, sucking me or rimming me? Yes. Because it feels nice. "

Personally and I do mean personally I wouldn't let another man close enough to do any of those things. Plenty of experience with mfm and not once has that happened.

Yes sexualities are labels and mine says straight. The problem comes when many, usually men have a problem with admitting they are at the very least curious! By definition, by allowing, no matter how nice it may feel, men to make you feel nice, you're not straight. I have no idea whether you claim you are or not.

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"It's something that I've had over the years, even to the extent I was offered a four figure sum. I did ask one guy what the attraction was, his reply, 'straight cock tastes so much better!'. Which to me is a contradiction if ever I've heard one.

As others have said, it's about the fantasy, ' turning' a straight guy, similar to that of a male fucking a lesbian. It's not going to happen unless they are curious by which they aren't straight anyway.

So you’re not straight if you’ve ever had a sexual experience with a man? Fair enough if that is your view. To me, sexuality terms are just labels anyway. Do I find men physically attractive? No. Do I get aroused when I see another man naked? No. Do I get aroused when another man is jerking me off, sucking me or rimming me? Yes. Because it feels nice. "

Lmao, what is up with the denial on this site? If you have dabbled more than a couple of times with men (as in beyond the curiosity stage), and obviously aroused with sexual activity with them— then no you aren’t “straight”. There’s nothing wrong with being “not straight” either.

If you are thinking you aren’t bisexual or whatever because you wouldn’t be romantically attracted to men (e.g. date or have a relationship)- that doesn’t negate bisexuality. Just means you’re heteromantic or heteroamrous. You’re romantically attracted to women.

The whole point is I don’t think a STRAIGHT man is going to let another man rim and suck him off LOL. So laughable.

The real tea is most people aren’t STRAIGHT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most of the men offering straight men blowjobs are probably bi or experimenting with sexuality. There’s likely to be a “naughty” factor that enhances the experience knowing the other guy is straight/curious and closeted. I’d say most dyed in the wool gay men wouldn’t be that fussed with straight types. Could be wrong though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you've put that you're bi, you've had sex with men. Why wouldn't they message you?

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By *hick7uncutMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Because straight men that are starting to get curious is an ideal scenario to a lot of gay and bi men to be the person they try it with.

Im guilty of doing it but if the lads profile says stop messaging i wouldnt as thats pestering.

I do think its only polite too if the lad has taken time to put a lot of good pics on to fab them....part of the site isnt it?

Working or workgear pics are like red rag to a bull haha

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"Because straight men that are starting to get curious is an ideal scenario to a lot of gay and bi men to be the person they try it with.

Im guilty of doing it but if the lads profile says stop messaging i wouldnt as thats pestering.

I do think its only polite too if the lad has taken time to put a lot of good pics on to fab them....part of the site isnt it?

Working or workgear pics are like red rag to a bull haha

"

Guilty? Of? Do you send unsolicited messages offering to suck cock to straight guys? Or do you wait for them to message you if they are indeed curious?

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By *hick7uncutMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Because straight men that are starting to get curious is an ideal scenario to a lot of gay and bi men to be the person they try it with.

Im guilty of doing it but if the lads profile says stop messaging i wouldnt as thats pestering.

I do think its only polite too if the lad has taken time to put a lot of good pics on to fab them....part of the site isnt it?

Working or workgear pics are like red rag to a bull haha

Guilty? Of? Do you send unsolicited messages offering to suck cock to straight guys? Or do you wait for them to message you if they are indeed curious?"

Sorry guilty of looking at straight mens profiles....I dont send message's saying or forcing it on them....that just gets you blocked.

But i do get a lot looking at my profile too so its a two way thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All men are cock obsessed.

You all want to wave it about at anyone that will look - male, female and anything in-between

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm obsessed with straight men sucking gay men's cocks.

Got any videos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does any other men constantly get bombarded with messages from gay men asking if they can suck your dick while you watch porn or supposedly straight men begging to let you suck your cock why there wifes at work or asleep i have put it on my bio and my status all the time that i am not looking for that but regardless its at least 4 times a night is anyone else having this"

There’s literally nothing on your profile that suggests 100% straight and only interested in communication with women.

I’m not entirely sure what the problem here is.

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By *ampshire_guy40Man
over a year ago

hampshire

I get messages from blokes on here all the time asking to suck my cock alot but never taken anyone up on the offer as of yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have chat open to everyone. If they’re interesting. I have had that happen before, but not anymore.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's standard here but it's probably less an obsession from gay men and more that profiles don't always state the full picture. How else could fab straight men get action with each other, if they didn't cut a few corners?

When fab bothers you, it's better to do something about it and changing the world is a tougher call than changing something about your own situation, the things that you have control over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's standard here but it's probably less an obsession from gay men and more that profiles don't always state the full picture. How else could fab straight men get action with each other, if they didn't cut a few corners?

When fab bothers you, it's better to do something about it and changing the world is a tougher call than changing something about your own situation, the things that you have control over. "

Sophie stop talking sense - the OP doesn't really want men to stop asking to suck his cock - he just wanted to draw some more attention to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dude...I just read your profile and am genuinly curious if even you have read it?!

Your profile is an open invitiation

You are not straight and it says you have fucked guys so what do you expect?

He really might be trolling then because I don’t think his profile said all that a couple hours ago, lol..."
so as most of the women have said about men not reading there profile i state everything in mine what i have done and what i wont do so if it is there in black and white why do people not read it properly

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"Dude...I just read your profile and am genuinly curious if even you have read it?!

Your profile is an open invitiation

You are not straight and it says you have fucked guys so what do you expect?

He really might be trolling then because I don’t think his profile said all that a couple hours ago, lol...so as most of the women have said about men not reading there profile i state everything in mine what i have done and what i wont do so if it is there in black and white why do people not read it properly "

Obviously it’s not black and white— hence why you are having the problems you have... and have started a thread where people have given you copious feedback.

Maybe you have a comprehension problem, I don’t know. If so, take people’s advice on here and clarify your profile with clear communication.

You’re obviously bisexual to some degree and like sucking men off along with servicing women. Say you want to meet bi or straight MF couples and women; and not looking for single men.

Why delve into your backstory of fucking men? That’s unnecessary. Just say you’re orally bi, but only when playing with an MF couple; and you’re not looking for single men.

You honestly can’t be surprised gay, or more likely bisexual dudes are messaging you to sick your cock with the way your profile is written

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"Dude...I just read your profile and am genuinly curious if even you have read it?!

Your profile is an open invitiation

You are not straight and it says you have fucked guys so what do you expect?

He really might be trolling then because I don’t think his profile said all that a couple hours ago, lol...so as most of the women have said about men not reading there profile i state everything in mine what i have done and what i wont do so if it is there in black and white why do people not read it properly

Obviously it’s not black and white— hence why you are having the problems you have... and have started a thread where people have given you copious feedback.

Maybe you have a comprehension problem, I don’t know. If so, take people’s advice on here and clarify your profile with clear communication.

You’re obviously bisexual to some degree and like sucking men off along with servicing women. Say you want to meet bi or straight MF couples and women; and not looking for single men.

Why delve into your backstory of fucking men? That’s unnecessary. Just say you’re orally bi, but only when playing with an MF couple; and you’re not looking for single men.

You honestly can’t be surprised gay, or more likely bisexual dudes are messaging you to sick your cock with the way your profile is written

"

Suck*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's standard here but it's probably less an obsession from gay men and more that profiles don't always state the full picture. How else could fab straight men get action with each other, if they didn't cut a few corners?

When fab bothers you, it's better to do something about it and changing the world is a tougher call than changing something about your own situation, the things that you have control over.

Sophie stop talking sense - the OP doesn't really want men to stop asking to suck his cock - he just wanted to draw some more attention to it "
if your sarcastic arse read my bio like everyone should read peoples bios its all there in black and white i have tried things in the past not for me so dont want it is that so hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a fair question, as to why some gay men seem to seek out straight men to play with rather than seeking out other gay men.

Suggesting that OP blocks single men doesn’t answer the question. I would be interested in the answer too, I’ve had several approaches, I’m not bothered by them but don’t really understand the interest. "

it’s because many many men are “fab straight”, which is where they are happy to play with men but dont advertise it on their profiles because they think it will reduce their chances with women

so the gay and bi men have no idea if your profile is really straight of fab straight - blame your fellow man for creating an environment where profiles are not fully truthful

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Dude...I just read your profile and am genuinly curious if even you have read it?!

Your profile is an open invitiation

You are not straight and it says you have fucked guys so what do you expect?

He really might be trolling then because I don’t think his profile said all that a couple hours ago, lol...so as most of the women have said about men not reading there profile i state everything in mine what i have done and what i wont do so if it is there in black and white why do people not read it properly

Obviously it’s not black and white— hence why you are having the problems you have... and have started a thread where people have given you copious feedback.

Maybe you have a comprehension problem, I don’t know. If so, take people’s advice on here and clarify your profile with clear communication.

You’re obviously bisexual to some degree and like sucking men off along with servicing women. Say you want to meet bi or straight MF couples and women; and not looking for single men.

Why delve into your backstory of fucking men? That’s unnecessary. Just say you’re orally bi, but only when playing with an MF couple; and you’re not looking for single men.

You honestly can’t be surprised gay, or more likely bisexual dudes are messaging you to sick your cock with the way your profile is written

"

This

You even welcome questions at the end of your profile text. So it doesn’t surprise me that some gay or bi guys will message asking a question and one of those is ....can I suck your cock ?

So just rewrite the profile text or block all men from messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" your sarcastic arse read my bio like everyone should read peoples bios its all there in black and white i have tried things in the past not for me so dont want it is that so hard "

OP, your profile does not have to be a confession of your past so why treat it as such? Surely it should’ve about what you’re into now, not what you used to be.

Just update it to what you’re looking for now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" your sarcastic arse read my bio like everyone should read peoples bios its all there in black and white i have tried things in the past not for me so dont want it is that so hard

OP, your profile does not have to be a confession of your past so why treat it as such? Surely it should’ve about what you’re into now, not what you used to be.

Just update it to what you’re looking for now.

"

* should be

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"block single men from messaging you, job done ive been told that before but shouldnt have to and sometimes some lads are just messaging for a chat cos there bored so i chat back "

I’ll chat back and after so long most in my vicinity realize it’s a fruitless endeavor. There’s is some that obviously just copy and paste out to everyone but just block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it can happen OP. If its bothering you can you not just delete the message and move on? I tend to find that messages like that are generally cut and paste and sent to lots of guys and clearly they dont read profiles, etc. Its probably going to happen a lot to you at first unless you enact your message filter.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get messages from straight men asking me to suck there cocks , so it works both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have you thought that your profile name maybe confusing some? no offence meant by that but you know how people dont read profiles.

all i can say is dont worry to much. you can block all men then message just the mates directly so they bypass the message filter.

these guys that want to suck you , they just saying it, not doing it so its only words.

be polite back, thanks but not for me etc and thats all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does any other men constantly get bombarded with messages from gay men asking if they can suck your dick while you watch porn or supposedly straight men begging to let you suck your cock why there wifes at work or asleep i have put it on my bio and my status all the time that i am not looking for that but regardless its at least 4 times a night is anyone else having this"

Block messages from men?

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By *heron212Man
over a year ago

London

I get bombarded by allegedly 'straight men' asking me to fuck them.

I get bombarded on here by 'straight men' asking to suck on my 'BBC', as they assume anyone melanated must be hung.

THAT is what I get bombarded with.

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