FabSwingers.com forum: Has fab desensitised you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Isn't it weird how much we're used to seeing each others' naked bodies on this site? I've seen so many breasts and cocks in here, belonging people I regularly chat with as friends too, that I'd just never see in 'real life'.

Do you feel fab has desensitised you to the arousing excitement of nudity? Does nudity still arouse you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hasn’t desensitised me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actual nudity arouses me

Pictures of nudity don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it weird how much we're used to seeing each others' naked bodies on this site? I've seen so many breasts and cocks in here, belonging people I regularly chat with as friends too, that I'd just never see in 'real life'.

Do you feel fab has desensitised you to the arousing excitement of nudity? Does nudity still arouse you?"
I get what you mean but sexy bodies still turn me on x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It hasn’t desensitised me

To be fair, your nudity still hits the spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s no comparison between photos on here and a naked woman standing in front of you, I’m not going to go ‘meh there’s loads of these on Fab, what else you got ?!’ I’m still like hee hee, boobies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There’s no comparison between photos on here and a naked woman standing in front of you, I’m not going to go ‘meh there’s loads of these on Fab, what else you got ?!’ I’m still like hee hee, boobies. "

That's cute

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just find it odd that I have lots of friends from the forums, people I really like but who I have no particular chemistry with, and yet I've seen them totally naked. And that's normal to me now!

Is it weird that I HAVEN'T seen my non-fab friends naked?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No not at all because the random pics on here don’t arouse me at all. If I’m meeting someone or chatting to someone intending to meet them then it’s different. I can appreciate the nice pics on profiles but they don’t make my fanny flutter.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

When its people we are playing with its still exciting.

When its other people (strangers or friends) its a bit mundane.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

There is still something incredibly erotic about standing infront of a naked guy, or naked in front of him. Photos cannot capture ‘ that look’ .... the pheromone fuelled atmosphere, the electricity sparking, wanting to touch, the vulnerability, skin on skin ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s changed what I look for in a woman, but not desensitised me. I don’t think anyway.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I'm not sure random nudity ever aroused me in the first place. Fab has desensitised me to a lot of things though.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Actual nudity arouses me

Pictures of nudity don't "

This for me too. Though only hot male nudity

I socialise at the STPs with a lot of people that I have seen naked pic of. But they never even enter my mind when in their actual presence.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Pics dont arouse me, but physical contact does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. Massively when I was young and on here many moons ago

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Not at all, I look at most photos and appreciate the body or see the imagination / arty side gone into in, then wonder if I can draw it.

Arousal for me normally comes in person.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

The pics don't, I prefer the profiles of those ones that leave something to the imagination anyway...give me a real body in front of me instead anyway x

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Think porn may have done that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just find it odd that I have lots of friends from the forums, people I really like but who I have no particular chemistry with, and yet I've seen them totally naked. And that's normal to me now!

Is it weird that I HAVEN'T seen my non-fab friends naked?

Great point actually

Would be strange seeing my non fab friends naked and my fab friends naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some lovely pictures on here which are sexy-ish.. but to me it is much of a muchness. However as others have said, if a woman or a group of women ( I wish

) were to stand in front of me naked then I hope that my reaction would be a positive one, along with a HUGE.. grin on my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel free porn has already taken the spotlight on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must say I find it a lot more of a turn on when a lady is in her lingerie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think porn may have done that

I should read threads...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes OP I believe Fab has desensitised me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'm going full blown nudist doing away with clothes full.stop

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Male full nudity doesn't arouse me, I want to see shades and depth, contours and curves

I will say that I am desensitised to Penis Pictures as I have seen far too many on here, which is why I scroll past frequently

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I still love watching my buddies undress.

It's the knowing I'm privileged to get my hands on them that makes it exciting.

Some bodies on here are nice to look at regularly too.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Yes, in a certain degree.

I’m a bit weird in that random pictures of nudity never really aroused me anyway but even less so now. I find pictures sexy, erotic or appealing but I’m not turned on by them

I’m order to be arousing, there needs to be a degree of connection in the pictures for me; a picture taken for me or by a partner

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Do you feel fab has desensitised you to the arousing excitement of nudity? Does nudity still arouse you?"

Nudity still excites me.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Actual nudity arouses me

Pictures of nudity don't

This for me too. Though only hot male nudity

I socialise at the STPs with a lot of people that I have seen naked pic of. But they never even enter my mind when in their actual presence."

I remember talking to people at my second STP thinking "I've seen your genitals".Made me laugh to myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures dont arouse me on here. Im usually looking at the lingerie or snazzy hotel room. Even at my local swingers club on nude night i’m not looking with an eye of arousal. Maybe my pervert card needs revoking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a good question OP.

If anything it’s made me appreciate nudity even more. I love the diversity on Fab. You see bodies of every shape and size.

I have been bisexual for years and I certainly spend more time admiring the females on here than I do the males

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I have never seen so many ugly/strange cock or pussy pics in my life!

So I suppose it desensitised me in that way as in nothing really shocks me but I still love seeing sexy pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m mostly desensitised to the sheer amouuunt of cock pics ... but then there’s the odd one that makes me go ooop

yes please

I still get the flippy feeling if it’s a lady in the pic that I’m attracted to ... not a fan of the gynae pics but arty ... flirty ... and I’m very sensitised lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s a good question OP.

If anything it’s made me appreciate nudity even more. I love the diversity on Fab. You see bodies of every shape and size.

I have been bisexual for years and I certainly spend more time admiring the females on here than I do the males

This is really true actually, the range of bodies on here makes you realise there's no one way to look sexy. I'm straight and I usually look more at female pictures because I can appreciate the confidence needed to take them and share them, and I think that's amazing. Not that I don't think it requires confidence for men to do it, I suppose I can just empathise more with women.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Some profiles have so many photos I stop scrolling after the first 20, even if they are good photos.

My eyes go squiffy if I scroll for too long.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

No I definitely still love seeing naked bodies.

However I'd prefer to see them in person

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I definitely still love seeing naked bodies.

However I'd prefer to see them in person "

But isn't it odd that you've seen people naked who you'd never sleep with, who you're just friends with or not even that, and that it feels normal to see them naked? It's just bizarre, we don't see people in real life that way, only on fab! Dick first, face later lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You raise a good point. I imagine it must be weird talking to someone in real life after chatting on here and oddly enough, they have clothes on. I guess that's where it's better to judge a person on their conversation skills rather than their body though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porn got their first. I still find it amusing that people on fab have the most sexiest explicit profile pics. Not sure i want to see non fab people naked, alright maybe my female neighbour and her sister are quite hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t say I don’t get aroused anymore, but I do prefer the more artistic naked vibe ones that someone has taking time to produce I would say that gets more attention from me. Just boobs pics in a selfie mode I can just skip by now and think it norm lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think there's a comparison between photos and a living breathing hopefully smiling lovely man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have to many friends on here if honest. But looking though updates and hot pics, the nudity certainly arouses me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am slightly desensitised to it on here.

In person its different.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"No I definitely still love seeing naked bodies.

However I'd prefer to see them in person

Yes it is a bit weird I guess but we were all born naked anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much of anything will become boring after a while.

How many people on here have been in a situation that should be 'hot ' like a threesome or group fun etc.. and you're just thinking

I'd rather be at home with tea

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Actual nudity arouses me

Pictures of nudity don't "

This. And if I don’t have the hots for them whether they’re naked or dressed makes no difference to me really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too much of anything will become boring after a while.

How many people on here have been in a situation that should be 'hot ' like a threesome or group fun etc.. and you're just thinking

I'd rather be at home with tea

In an orgy and all you can think about is getting home and settling down for the evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the sense that I sometimes have to check myself when interacting with non-fab friends ans sharing photos

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

It's made my penis all the more sensitive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too much of anything will become boring after a while.

How many people on here have been in a situation that should be 'hot ' like a threesome or group fun etc.. and you're just thinking

I'd rather be at home with tea

In an orgy and all you can think about is getting home and settling down for the evening. "

Too much of anything is boring.

Not that I've had too many orgies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't have any sense to start with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It hasn’t desensitised me

To be fair, your nudity still hits the spot

Ooo that’s a nice compliment thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly this. Nudity is a huge equaliser. It takes a lot of courage to post pics on here initially, then you realise that not everyone has perfect bodies and they probably share similar hang ups. It increases your confidence which can only be a positive thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I think so too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hasnt desensitized me to it... It has definitely normalized nudity though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has desensitised me to kinks and fetishes.. Some we have we thought were just us. Seems they are a lot more common than we thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes definitely !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you feel fab has desensitised you to the arousing excitement of nudity? Does nudity still arouse you?"

Just checked your vids as a tester, ..nudity still works for sure Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still appreciate the beauty of a naked woman but I won't get aroused by it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anything it’s fuelled the fire! Nothing beats a naked woman in person

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't think so. I've always been kinda relaxed about nudity. I grew up as a kid with parents who didn't mind changing in front of us and we only had one bathroom so they used to leave the bathroom door unlocked so we could still use the loo while they were in the bath.

Then I danced from a toddler until I was 19 and sometimes had quick changes in the wings. You don't wear bras under leotards and we wore nude thongs so they didn't show under costumes. Then I did life drawing at college then went to university and studied lingerie. The girls who were sample sizes were always trying stuff on for us and eventually nobody is shy anymore. I also volunteered myself for the private courses my university ran for things like bra fitting and pattern cutting. I was the demo for everything from bra fitting to having my boob taped into various positions with surgical tape

So I guess nudity wasn't a big deal for me long before fab! I personally feel its a good thing as I think we can be a bit prudish in this country. Other countries are much more relaxed about it. It is just a body after all.

I don't think it takes away from being aroused by the naked body of those we're attracted to. I can be aroused by the clothed body of someone I'm attracted to and you see clothed bodies every day.

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By *aving_bonkersMan
over a year ago

Bugle

I am due to have a socially distanced social on Sunday. I have seen probably everything you want to see in her photos. The meeting is going to be in public and fully clothed and I am really looking forward to seeing her, and knowing what she is hiding I think is going to be so sexy!! Just to confirm, it’s a social only!!!

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By *CandBCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

Most of our friends are people we know from BDSM events. So it is unusual for us not to have seen our friends naked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit that it is a little disconcerting to read some rather meaningful thoughts coming from a dick.......dick pic, I meant.

I tried wandering around the Forum as a bare chest for the first week or so and it finally overwhelmed me to put up a profile with clothes on because I couldn’t get past my vanilla hang ups of talking to people in a semi-nude state.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I must admit that it is a little disconcerting to read some rather meaningful thoughts coming from a dick.......dick pic, I meant.

Uh oh. Best not look at my profile then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You definitely become less sensitive to nudity and sex after joining fab. I had a friend who I thought might join with his wife.

I showed him the site and he became really uncomfortable. I was due to meet a woman for coffee and he couldn't understand how I knew what she looked like during sex and once he had seen her profile he wouldn't meet her to say hello.

It's also strange meeting people at socials. Everyone exchanges profile names, and checks their phones to see what the people in front of them look like naked. It's not how nights out are for regular people.

Or conversations. It's not often in the real world that you meet a couple who will talk about how the wife loves having other men cum on her tits or how the husband felt about his cock being pushed out during DP because that guy at the bar over there has a cock that's just too girthy. These conversations are small talk during a social weekend.

My previous existence as a monogamous husband who married the second person he dated influences my perspective on this

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

It would be difficult to answer really, as it's what I would expect from the site. I think most would have been looking at pictures of naked people for many years, on the internet or in my case, top shelf magazines, from early teens. I still appreciate an attractive body, so not completely desensitised.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Yes, it has.

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"Actual nudity arouses me

Pictures of nudity don't

This for me too. Though only hot male nudity

I socialise at the STPs with a lot of people that I have seen naked pic of. But they never even enter my mind when in their actual presence."

Rude

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No, it hasn't. I've never been one to get aroused by photos on here, I can appreciate ones I like but not find them sexy.

I do find nudity arousing if it's someone I find attractive and a photo that's taken with me in mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must admit that it is a little disconcerting to read some rather meaningful thoughts coming from a dick.......dick pic, I meant.

Uh oh. Best not look at my profile then lol"

You will note that I said “from a dick.” I do not have such a problem when it comes from boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, it hasn't. I've never been one to get aroused by photos on here, I can appreciate ones I like but not find them sexy.

I do find nudity arousing if it's someone I find attractive and a photo that's taken with me in mind."

Once again, you have articulated what I didn’t even think I was thinking. Just this.

I find beauty in the photos, not necessarily arousal. However, the one with me in mind can be as basic as a selfie and the effect is very different.

Thank you Meli. Once again, the voice of my subconscious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is situational for me

I adore being naked in a sauna

I am still conscious in the changing room of a gym

I have a constant niggle with my OH about him being naked round the house when the blinds are open

Seeing a naked body in 2D here does zero for me

Seeing a naked body in 3D, that body being pressed into mine (consentually of course) then yes, big time

I can pre-cum from cuddles and closeness, it doesn't need to be sexual

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is situational for me

I adore being naked in a sauna

I am still conscious in the changing room of a gym

I have a constant niggle with my OH about him being naked round the house when the blinds are open

Seeing a naked body in 2D here does zero for me

Seeing a naked body in 3D, that body being pressed into mine (consentually of course) then yes, big time

I can pre-cum from cuddles and closeness, it doesn't need to be sexual"

Not sure anyone would have questioned the consent from your post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. When I’m out shopping and I spot a pretty lady I’m always trying to cop a look at her tits cause I’m so used to seeing pretty ladies tits for free

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