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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

We all have moments of doubt about ourselves, be it on here or in the real world.

With that in mind, how do you see yourself, not how others see you

I'm imaginative, creative, articulate, compassionate, but stubborn as fuck

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I think that we see ourselves for what we hope and for our intentions, not necessarily for who we actually are.

I think that there needs to be brutal honesty and a balance between how others see us and how we see ourselves to get a true picture.

I see myself as smart, articulate, honest, funny, kind, generous, caring, a loyal friend. I value time and attention above any amount of money

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

As a walking contradiction.

A complex yet straightforward human, I love and hate sometimes the same things at the same time. I laugh and cry, again sometimes at the same time. I'm lost and found, I understand yet I'm confused.

If there was a song that was me, it would be one hand in my pocket by Alanis Morissette.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I see myself as happy, ( kindish ) caring , non materialistic, self contained, articulate, determined, non competitive, gregarious for the right people and more than happy to be alone rather than be with people I don't admire, respect or like. I'd say I don't like money but I won't give you mine. My favourite thing in life is talking and laughing..... that's all... talking and laughing.

And being warm..... but I can say those things cos my fridge is full and my heating is paid......

Easy to say how little you need when your warm , dry n fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errrmm I find this sort of thing quite difficult

The negative things are easier to believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm headstrong, independent, stubborn and bloody minded most of the time. I'm like a dog with a bone once I get an idea and don't like letting things go. I can hold a grudge if you've hurt me enough and I'll cut you off without a second thought. That being said, I also have a big heart and will do anything for the ones I care about. I have a half decent brain when it works too.

I'm not perfect by any means but my friends and family love me warts and all and that's what really matters. I made some pretty awesome little humans too, go me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

discombobulated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just a cunt. And I'll never change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"discombobulated"

Love that word!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Kind and intelligent but with a dark side.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I'm kind, empathic, independent, strong, intelligent and witty. I don't take myself too seriously and make excellent sandwiches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not dead.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

How I see myself: I don't look like much, and I'm not the sharpest tool in the box, but I can fuck like a champ. Every day I'm not called upon to do so is a day squandered.

How everyone else sees me: Not like that, apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

existing. Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see myself as honest, caring (too much at times it seems), a really good person inside and a bit of a party animal when I actually get to go out.

Hopefully some of that shows to others.

I can also be dismissive if I feel any negativity from others. I think that's self defense though.

God knows if any of that shows on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not dead."

#winning

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm a survivor, I'm smart, I'm resourceful, I have strong values. And I never stop working on myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both kind, caring, honest, loyal ( to the right people) loving ( again to the right people) empathic to a fault. We are both identical apart for our sex. But also nobodys fool either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am what I am just roll with it

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hmm, positive only? Let's say...

Well intentioned, funny and rational.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I’m proud of what I have achieved in the face of real adversity. I have a lot to show from coming from nothing. And not just in a material sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see myself as a kaleidoscope!

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Even with all the crap I've had in the past decade I'm a happy soul who cares deeply about those I love and choose to have in my life, glass half full optimist x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even with all the crap I've had in the past decade I'm a happy soul who cares deeply about those I love and choose to have in my life, glass half full optimist x"

Same here

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Boring, lazy, unimaginative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the shadows (all right, I changed it to Share to me more apt to Fab)

Patient

Mending and rebuilding

Takes decent photos with my violin

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