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Lies and broken promises

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There was a time when you assumed people told the truth and would keep their promises.

When and how did all that change?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a time when you assumed people told the truth and would keep their promises.

When and how did all that change?"

as some people like to play games and treat people like shit maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a time when you assumed people told the truth and would keep their promises.

When and how did all that change?"

I stopped doing that when i was about 12

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone lies.

including the pope

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"There was a time when you assumed people told the truth and would keep their promises.

When and how did all that change?"

4 points here : 1. Some people really do tell the truth and they are great to have as friends. The second point : Sometimes "THE" truth is a matter of perception, of interpretation.... and a situation may not be black and white. 3. Most people will tell white lies at some point in their lives, often in order to protect somebody else's feelings - to me that is not a lie as such. 4. A lie is only a lie in my world when a person deliberately and knowingly gives a false account of events for his or her own gain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a time when you assumed people told the truth and would keep their promises.

When and how did all that change?"

We still live in that space and time,Just the way we are tho ,Let the fakers fake thats what we sya xox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a time when you assumed people told the truth and would keep their promises.

When and how did all that change?"

A promise is a comfort to a fool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a time when you assumed people told the truth and would keep their promises.

When and how did all that change?

4 points here : 1. Some people really do tell the truth and they are great to have as friends. The second point : Sometimes "THE" truth is a matter of perception, of interpretation.... and a situation may not be black and white. 3. Most people will tell white lies at some point in their lives, often in order to protect somebody else's feelings - to me that is not a lie as such. 4. A lie is only a lie in my world when a person deliberately and knowingly gives a false account of events for his or her own gain."

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't think it has changed... we just focus too much on the few that do lie, rather than the masses who don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't lie, as I am no good at remembering the lies I have told.

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos


"There was a time when you assumed people told the truth and would keep their promises.

When and how did all that change?"

Not sure when that time was but dont remember it sadly

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"There was a time when you assumed people told the truth and would keep their promises.

When and how did all that change?"

when we started swinging

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

i with _phrodite,there are many types of lies.

i cannot remember a time,when i could not spot a liar,or a bullshitter.

it's not always a good thing.

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"There was a time when you assumed people told the truth and would keep their promises.

When and how did all that change?

4 points here : 1. Some people really do tell the truth and they are great to have as friends. The second point : Sometimes "THE" truth is a matter of perception, of interpretation.... and a situation may not be black and white. 3. Most people will tell white lies at some point in their lives, often in order to protect somebody else's feelings - to me that is not a lie as such. 4. A lie is only a lie in my world when a person deliberately and knowingly gives a false account of events for his or her own gain."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a time when you assumed people told the truth and would keep their promises.

When and how did all that change?

as some people like to play games and treat people like shit maybe"

Yep, can relate to that!!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"There was a time when you assumed people told the truth and would keep their promises.

When and how did all that change?"

Am planning to keep my promises tomorrow

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

I start off from the point that I expect people to tell the truth and keep their promises.....but will quickly question things if my gut instincts give me a kick. If I promise something I will stick to it unless something entirely beyond my control happens.

I find it quite difficult to lie (my face always gives me away I'd be crap at poker, lol). The exception being to my mother in which case I learned to lie about my social plans as a young teenager, an art which has proved extremely useful since I started swinging. As a teenager I always was truthful about whom I was with....just omitted to say where we would be going...so it was more often witholding information rather than deliberate lies....and the same holds true today......as in "I'm going to stay with friends at a log cabin in the lake district"...just omitting to say that it's gonna be a shag fest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a time when you assumed people told the truth and would keep their promises.

When and how did all that change?

4 points here : 1. Some people really do tell the truth and they are great to have as friends. The second point : Sometimes "THE" truth is a matter of perception, of interpretation.... and a situation may not be black and white. 3. Most people will tell white lies at some point in their lives, often in order to protect somebody else's feelings - to me that is not a lie as such. 4. A lie is only a lie in my world when a person deliberately and knowingly gives a false account of events for his or her own gain."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it has changed... we just focus too much on the few that do lie, rather than the masses who don't"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate liars with a passion no point truth allways comes out in the end. I was brought up to be honest and maybe soometimes too honest for my own good!!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I hate liars with a passion no point truth allways comes out in the end. I was brought up to be honest and maybe soometimes too honest for my own good!! "
I hate liars, too - and as per previous definition - it is those who do it deliberately and for their own personal gains. No mitigating circumstances there I am afraid.

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