FabSwingers.com forum: Am I ugly

By *assionate explorer 1 OP Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

No you are definitely not ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt say so

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I think we are all a little confused about our attractiveness OP

and to answer your question you are not ugly at all if it was all about looks

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By *assionate explorer 1 OP Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

I know it's probably not being able to meet. Gonna knock my confidence not seeing anyone for 6 months. Hard time to be alone. Feel for all you fellow singletons

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

As a straight male I wouldn't say you are, but attraction is subjective

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"I know it's probably not being able to meet. Gonna knock my confidence not seeing anyone for 6 months. Hard time to be alone. Feel for all you fellow singletons"

Loneliness is a killer, sorry you're feeling that way. Try and keep in touch with friends as much as you can. Life will improve, we are all heading the right way.

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By *assionate explorer 1 OP Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

That is true. I know not everyone is attracted to the same type. Need meets pronto lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a geek, proud of it. Ugly or indeed beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

You’re not attractive to me but that doesn’t mean you’re ugly.

Very few people are actually unattractive, most people are actually just plain. Makeup and a decent hairdresser can improve a woman’s looks and a bloke can add a bit of stubble, comb their hair and add a decent aftershave or dress nicely to improve their look.

You’ll attract some women with your looks and certainly height, just don’t get to worried about those you don’t.

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By *assionate explorer 1 OP Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Thank you for the comments. Think I need stop over thinking. I know have my good parts. Just wanna go back to being me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugly no!!

Tall yes!!

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By *assionate explorer 1 OP Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

"Ugly no!!

Tall yes!!

Lol thank you. I know I always have that. Many ladies do like the taller fella lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No from across the pond you are attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, definitely not ugly.

I think you took my share of height when they were dishing it out though.

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By *assionate explorer 1 OP Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

"No from across the pond you are attractive

Thank you. You are too x

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By *assionate explorer 1 OP Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

"No, definitely not ugly.

I think you took my share of height when they were dishing it out though.

Lol sorry about that.

Just need to get over myself and keep trying. I'll get there.

Thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a good looking guy, PE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, definitely not ugly.

I think you took my share of height when they were dishing it out though.

Lol sorry about that.

Just need to get over myself and keep trying. I'll get there.

Thanks guys"

Everyone is getting back into stride, some rebuilding their confidence after months of loneliness.

Good luck.

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By *artininlondonMan
over a year ago

london

Hey mate, from a bi guy who is also feeling the loneliness of Covid!! You’re a top looking fella and give yourself a boost mate! It’s over soon and pleased your reaching out! (I’d give you a reach around) joking!! Serious you’re brilll!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender. "

My opinion is irrelevant

But Yeah fair play OP I wouldn’t of had the confidence to throw that thread up !

Well played

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel you on this buddy, every now and then I’ll think the same but we’re our own biggest critic I guess

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

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By *assionate explorer 1 OP Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender.

My opinion is irrelevant

But Yeah fair play OP I wouldn’t of had the confidence to throw that thread up !

Well played

I wasn't sure what reaction I would get. Guessing I'm not alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender.

My opinion is irrelevant

But Yeah fair play OP I wouldn’t of had the confidence to throw that thread up !

Well played

I wasn't sure what reaction I would get. Guessing I'm not alone"

Yeah mate could of gone ether way....

Anyway good for you ! As said above we all kinda feel a tad shit at the minute

but things are finally looking up

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

No, but you do look like you are from another era ie WWII pilot.

I can see you flying a Spitfire.

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By *assionate explorer 1 OP Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

"No, but you do look like you are from another era ie WWII pilot.

I can see you flying a Spitfire.

Lol call me Biggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you’re good looking

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I know it's probably not being able to meet. Gonna knock my confidence not seeing anyone for 6 months. Hard time to be alone. Feel for all you fellow singletons"

I relate to this. I've had a few body image crises during lockdown. I think it's similar to you in not being able to meet and for me not being able to go to clubs. I think while we're isolated like this we're also more vulnerable to the influences of things like social media because we have less other influences to balance it.

I'm sorry you're having a wobble OP and I hope you feel better when things start opening up again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is about so much more than looks

As looks go though, yours are OK

I dare your height & physique get you as much attention as your face

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By *odyAndSoul.Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

I always get a negative response or no respond when I sent my pic I don't know what to do, altho I am not really ugly

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

A touch of the Vincent Price I’d say.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You look attractive to me - but what is my word worth?

It's your voice in your own head you've got to contend with every day. It's not easy - I speak from experience - but you need to make peace with yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty on the eye of the beholder. What's attractive to one isn't attractive to another. From your pic I see a good looking bloke.

On here I have days where I feel like the ugliest person going and other days I feel okay about myself. ( feel like this in normal life too) but I'm learning to love myself the way I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn’t define yourself by if people find you attractive or not. We should never seek external validation. The question you should be asking yourself is am I happy with who I am?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not saying you're ugly at all, just everyone looks better in person, once you see there mannerisms me thinks

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Shit, if you're ugly OP, I'm Shrek.

Nah, you're not at all. The restrictions have been hard on people, knocking confidences and general mental health all over the place. Hopefully, you'll get a bit of mojo back, and get back on the scene (or whatever kids call it these days idk). - Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess this post is due to you not getting any meets from this site for an easy bunk up?

You need to try harder you ugly bastard.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I am ugly "

Nonsense. Not at all.

Out of interest, how do you feel about the Wrexham ownership?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live here but I am originally from South Wales and I am a Jack fan and a Manchester United fan

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugly is sod all to do with looks... Regardless of how good looking you may or may not be, you will be attractive to some but not to others... Bugger all we can do but be ourselves, not worry about it too much n see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your gorgeous tbh xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a straight fella you look fine plus wife said attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I live here but I am originally from South Wales and I am a Jack fan and a Manchester United fan"

Hello

Not sure if you posted in this thread by mistake. Read the first post and that's what people are chatting about.

Or start a new thread maybe in the Introductions section to say hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not saying you're ugly at all, just everyone looks better in person, once you see there mannerisms me thinks "

To be fair, most of the blokes I have met, from Fab, have looked better in person... You guys seem to be a bit pants at face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender. "

No you're not ugly. Good looking bloke.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

This site has a way of making you feel ugly and unwanted at times, you just have to grow a thicker skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am ugly because no women have showed any interest in me on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am ugly because no women have showed any interest in me on fab"

Shit! Me too then!!

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"I am ugly because no women have showed any interest in me on fab

Shit! Me too then!! "

And me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am ugly because no women have showed any interest in me on fab

Shit! Me too then!!

And me

Eerrrmmm!! No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am ugly because no women have showed any interest in me on fab"

There's supposedly 100 men to every 1 woman on here. We aren't here to fuck everyone who asks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From another thread, no you are not ugly! don't let fab convince you other wise, this place is a bit of a head melt but never let it get you down op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if I was not ugly women would be interested in me ?

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Well if I was not ugly women would be interested in me ?"

You're not my cup of tea, but I'm sure you will be someone's x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if I was not ugly women would be interested in me ?"

Not ones that aren't attracted to you

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Well if I was not ugly women would be interested in me ?"

You are not ugly just keep on keeping on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender. "

No pal your not ugly, me on the other hand. Me on the other hand, I can turn milk sour with a, glance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if I was not ugly women would be interested in me ?

Not ones that aren't attracted to you"

Tom Hardy apparently is hot but I'm not attracted to him and wouldn't fuck him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP it’s not that your ugly your words this site has many people on it & I’m sure you will find someone it’s like going to a pub/club not everybody fancy’s everyone when you go there but one time you do there would be someone you fancy & they fancy you! Don’t give up keep going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if I was not ugly women would be interested in me ?

Not ones that aren't attracted to you

Tom Hardy apparently is hot but I'm not attracted to him and wouldn't fuck him. "

I'm the same with Brad Pitt... Steve Buscemi on the other hand would definitely get it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you’re not ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you are not ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to some people you will be to others you wont be same as most of us so concentrate on those that think your not and the rest can go fuck themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"to some people you will be to others you wont be same as most of us so concentrate on those that think your not and the rest can go fuck themselves

Why do people have to be rude about it... We can't help who we do or don't find attractive... It's not an insult to not fancy someone, stop treating it as such!

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By *eepitonwaxMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Another No, you are not ugly... people have a habit of focusing on the one or two negatives instead of the 10’s or 100’s of positives, so please don’t do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if I was not ugly women would be interested in me ?

Not ones that aren't attracted to you

Tom Hardy apparently is hot but I'm not attracted to him and wouldn't fuck him.

I'm the same with Brad Pitt... Steve Buscemi on the other hand would definitely get it!

I'll take one for the team and have Brad so you can have Steve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I am ugly because no woman has showed any interest in me on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if I was not ugly women would be interested in me ?

Not ones that aren't attracted to you

Tom Hardy apparently is hot but I'm not attracted to him and wouldn't fuck him.

I'm the same with Brad Pitt... Steve Buscemi on the other hand would definitely get it!

I'll take one for the team and have Brad so you can have Steve.

Deal! Don't spose I could have Greg Davies aswell, while we're at it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I am ugly because no woman has showed any interest in me on this site "

Yes, yes, that's what that means... Thanks for reading everyones replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if I was not ugly women would be interested in me ?

Not ones that aren't attracted to you

Tom Hardy apparently is hot but I'm not attracted to him and wouldn't fuck him.

I'm the same with Brad Pitt... Steve Buscemi on the other hand would definitely get it!

I'll take one for the team and have Brad so you can have Steve.

Deal! Don't spose I could have Greg Davies aswell, while we're at it?

Yeah he's too tall for me. I'll have Micky Flanagan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if I was not ugly women would be interested in me ?

Not ones that aren't attracted to you

Tom Hardy apparently is hot but I'm not attracted to him and wouldn't fuck him.

I'm the same with Brad Pitt... Steve Buscemi on the other hand would definitely get it!

I'll take one for the team and have Brad so you can have Steve.

Deal! Don't spose I could have Greg Davies aswell, while we're at it?

Yeah he's too tall for me. I'll have Micky Flanagan.

Sweet... He is too Essex for me so works out well!

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

No you are not ugly average looking though based purely on physical attraction for sex you will never get a hot stunning lady based on your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am ugly because no women have showed any interest in me on fab"

It’s fab mate get use to it !

Anyway don’t moan

Trust me that won’t help it’s not a good look !

But yeah do what OP did start a thread and ask ?

If nothing else you will get chatting to all sorts of mostly cool people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No you are not ugly average looking though based purely on physical attraction for sex you will never get a hot stunning lady based on your face "

I don't think that last bit is true at all tbf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No you are not ugly average looking though based purely on physical attraction for sex you will never get a hot stunning lady based on your face

I don't think that last bit is true at all tbf"

Have you seen the women with men that in my opinion wouldn’t be good looking ! Men fall in love with there eyes women with there ears !

I’m not saying that apply’s on here but looks aren’t everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"to some people you will be to others you wont be same as most of us so concentrate on those that think your not and the rest can go fuck themselves

Why do people have to be rude about it... We can't help who we do or don't find attractive... It's not an insult to not fancy someone, stop treating it as such! "

whats rude about that it’s true of most people - for some people you will be their type for others exactly opposite of their type

all I said was concentrate on those that like you and ignore the rest (ok I said the rest can go fuck themselves

) but thats what I meant

why focus on those that dont like you when there are people that do???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"to some people you will be to others you wont be same as most of us so concentrate on those that think your not and the rest can go fuck themselves

Why do people have to be rude about it... We can't help who we do or don't find attractive... It's not an insult to not fancy someone, stop treating it as such!

whats rude about that it’s true of most people - for some people you will be their type for others exactly opposite of their type

all I said was concentrate on those that like you and ignore the rest (ok I said the rest can go fuck themselves

) but thats what I meant

why focus on those that dont like you when there are people that do???

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great advice

looks is very subjective and exactly what he said who fucking cares just carry on mate

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender. "

Why have been called ugly?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

You’re definitely not my type OP

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender. "

Well, I would..

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

With my Doms I’m pretty. With my girls I’m mean. With my enemies I’m one hell of any ugly fucker. Depends don’t it?

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By *assionate explorer 1 OP Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Forgot about this. Interesting reading back the comments. Thanks for the feedback

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"I guess this post is due to you not getting any meets from this site for an easy bunk up?

You need to try harder you ugly bastard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit just gets funnier I missed that one

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender. "

I think you look fucking gorgeous! Doesn't mean I want to get naked with you though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender.

I think you look fucking gorgeous! Doesn't mean I want to get naked with you though."

But your not ruling it out ether ?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender.

I think you look fucking gorgeous! Doesn't mean I want to get naked with you though.

But your not ruling it out ether ? "

There are reasons I don't want to get naked with him, none of them are to do with my perception of his attractiveness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender. "

Are you kidding?? You look like a movie villain!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender.

I think you look fucking gorgeous! Doesn't mean I want to get naked with you though.

But your not ruling it out ether ?

There are reasons I don't want to get naked with him, none of them are to do with my perception of his attractiveness "

Grand

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By *areToShareCouple
over a year ago

Bingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you are not ugly mate, nothing to worry about.

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

Why was this one resurrected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Resurrecting again. Definitely not ugly. Even being harsh anyone would struggle to call you average looking. Good looking I’d say.

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"Resurrecting again. Definitely not ugly. Even being harsh anyone would struggle to call you average looking. Good looking I’d say. "

His parents ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not ugly. And you’re super tall, which is pretty desirable.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No not ugly. You may not be everyone's type but I would swype right on looks alone.

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