FabSwingers.com forum: Forum Personas

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How would you like to portray yourself in the forum?

How do you feel you come across in the forum?

Is your persona here a fair reflection on the real you, or just a persona?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Fun humourous not serious

Helpful kind honest

Jolly and real.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Sweet and innocent angel

Sweet and innocent angel who makes people smile

Apart from the fact I'm actually shy and have less confidence in a lot of ways, yep. Totally me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

My forum persona is one aspect of my personality.

I would like to come across as erudite, witty, well informed and hugely amusing. I'm afraid that would require a huge misrepresentation...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m probably more confident and flirty both here and on meets than I am in real life. I can be terribly shy otherwise

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'm always just me, I'm the same in person as on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s an amalgamation of sorts.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

On here I'm the same as I am in real life..just with more filth

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I think I probably come across as a whinge bag who's lost their sparkle.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’m 100% me on the forums. I have no filter in real life.

I don’t hide my feelings.

Marmite - love me or hate me.

I don’t do the smoke blowing and find it completely cringy.

I’ll be your best friend or your worst enemy in person and on the forums

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’m me, take it or leave it ...the majority generally leave it

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Mine is defo the real me.

I'd like to come across more fun, but thr truth is I have lost a lot of my sparkle.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

on the forums i come across as blunt. In real life im soft and kind

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm not the real me on the forum, on!y one person sees the *real* real me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little reserved but friendly, respectful and with an occasional good one liner.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Unsure to be honest, I'm just being me.

Probably a bit quiet, but respectful and a little silly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I come across as I am.

A bit grumpy at times but mostly dont take anything too seriously

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I cant pretend to be someone/something I'm not. What you see is what you get x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest and open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I come across exactly as I intend to

Inoffensive, a bit flirty with the odd crap joke that gets a pity laugh. I don't get drawn into serious discussions as this is just a bit of fun for me

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Honest and open.

That photo!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here, I’m me but certainly chattier. I am much quieter until you know me when offline.

I certainly wouldn’t parade around in my underwear in front of guests and friends offline.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Argumentative and aloof, im probably friendlier in real life....maybe

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Me?

Im adorable, charming, witty, adorable, cheeky, hilarious, adorable and modest.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I’m a lot quieter and reserved on here, if you know me I don’t stop talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honest and open.

That photo!!!

I had surgery on Tuesday

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Honest and open.

That photo!!!

I had surgery on Tuesday

Well... I'm a wee bit jelly! I'm well chuffed for ya yaaaaaaay

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By *ilkandhoneyxWoman
over a year ago

leicester

people probably think i’m a bitch lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honest and open.

That photo!!!

I had surgery on Tuesday

Well... I'm a wee bit jelly! I'm well chuffed for ya yaaaaaaay

I’m in a fair bit of pain. I’m always smiling though

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"How would you like to portray yourself in the forum?

How do you feel you come across in the forum?

Is your persona here a fair reflection on the real you, or just a persona?

What you see is what you get, I wear my heart on my sleeve, I say it as I see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very much who I am if you meet me in real life.

I like to think I come across as friendly but I don't suffer fools.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really have a Persona i guess. I try to come over as i am in real life.

I probably can be more blunt/dickish in text form though.

But in reality im pretty nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life I have a filter. On here I am 100% honest. I’m kinda easy going with a filthy attitude.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

I hope I come across as someone who bites the heads of chickens and kick in shop windows on a Saturday night.

Oh and I like Clown Porn.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

There's not really a set way I want to portray myself on the forums. Not a twunt but that's as far as it goes.

I think I come across as being of moderate intelligence, very talkative. Oh sometimes I can be a bit cutting. How I think I come across and how I do could be worlds apart though.

I don't see it as me having a persona on here, it's different facets of me depending on my mood at the time, what's going on around me etc. So yes, I guess it's the real me, although I do find myself biting my tongue more frequently than I would in "real life".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m just me not trying to be anything else so I’m not trying to come across as funny or smart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendly, Approachable, Respectful I’d like to think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m probably more reserved on here especially lately, still finding my feet but just being myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to come across as genuine and true to myself as possible here, which is probably why i’ve ended up on the naughty step a couple of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh it's just one part of me ... but in reality not a part you meet often in real life! Real me noone could type and put online ... I'm way politer here and, really, only my serious thinking side comes through. That's a part that I have but rarely comes through hahahahahahahaha

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't have a persona. I'm just me.

If the last year has shown anything on here it's that some people really struggle to maintain a persona when people have been spending more time in this virtual world and have had the time to scrutinise a little more closely.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't really try to come across a particular way. I just post what I want to say.

As for how I cone across, I honestly have no idea. Everyone sees you through their own lense anyway.

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Yep, I'm a git in the real world too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is me, my persona doesn't change, I don't know how to be anything other than me

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Hopefully I come across as numerous, up for a laugh and kind both here and in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't put a lot of thought into it to be honest - I pop in and out.

I'm just me

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Tbf you are going to get whatever mood I am in and currently that is mainly serious with occasional humour sprinkles

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

It depends on my mood but it's always authentic. Sometimes I'm in a jokey mood and that's what you will see from me for a while. Other times i am in a deeper mood and give more thought out replies.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"How would you like to portray yourself in the forum?

How do you feel you come across in the forum?

Is your persona here a fair reflection on the real you, or just a persona?

1. Neutral.

2. Insignificant, detached (from the local norm), sometimes against the flow.

3. Me in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure. I just start typing. Think after. Unless it's my post and I need answers. Then I'm more conscious of what comes up from under these fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it real me? A small fraction of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never really considered how I 'planned' to come across, but when we did the "what do you think of me" thread last week the positives from a few people were inclusive, honest and up for a laugh.

I'll take that any day of the week

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm incognito

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

Not so sure about forums, but online me is far different to real life me.

On here, I will say hello to a woman I find attractive and try my luck. In real life, I would admire from a distance and never make the approach.

Quite sad really as I am told I have nice eyes and lips, and a voice to die for - I just dont see it in myself.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I don’t portray myself as anything different from who I am.

If I’m happy; I post happy, if I’m sad; I post sad, etc.

Perhaps I should filter myself more but I think that being honest in who I am is a positive thing.

I see no point in being a persona to please others or to be more palatable, if people don’t like me, then that’s fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My forum petsona is just a snapshot of how I can be on any given, one day I'm a twat others I'm a kind caring man, it's all ebbs n flows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I type less in real life and use less fish puns, I don’t try to shoe horn them into casual conversation just for the halibut, whereas here I slip them in without people noticing

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Not really considered it before, but I suppose I often come across on here as I do in real life - sometimes happy, sometimes sad, often down on myself, sometimes at odds with the prevailing mood, can't consciously flirt for shit, sometimes exasperated by what's going on, sometimes despairing of others, and occasionally in fun hoover mode where I can suck the humour out of the situation

Your bog standard, middle aged bewildered fuck up, basically

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Above all else, correct about everything.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Who cares. I'm me and that's good enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cum across however people wish to take me....but I do love the term "playing devil's advocate "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

discombobulated

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I don't have a forum persona, I'm just unapologetically me.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

How I would like to come across in the forums: Sexually irresistible.

How I suspect I come across in the forums: Not like that.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I'm just me, sometimes I'm witty other times I'm serious. I'm like marmite you'll either love me or hate me

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By *uan KnightMan
over a year ago

Rugby

Always myself, here. Save my acting for the stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m utterly delightful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re exactly the same here as we are in real life. Opinionated. Sarcastic. Hopefully a bit amusing. But fair and nice people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only be myself. Sometimes not funny when I want to be and sometimes serious when I want to be funny. Always just myself though, nothing more and nothing less.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

No personae, I just come across as the voice of 'rightness' ie people when they have a deep think tend to realise, yep, Chris, he's right actually.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I have absolutely no idea how I come across on the forum.

We are both caring and sensitive people in normal life, thoughtful and compassionate.

Mrs doesn't really post on the forum so anything you read is from the brain of Mr brain.

I overthink every thing and sometimes say more than I should.

But I believe in being honest and true to myself.

To this end not here to impress anyone or to get into anyone's knickers through sycophantic nonsense.

I'm both insecure and confident.

I tend to blend in the background always have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably come across very opinionated (which I am), but hopefully kind.

I'm exactly the same here as I am anywhere else. There's only one version of me. I don't put on an act or persona anywhere...too lazy to keep it up

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By *arc6662018Man
over a year ago

reading

Not sure always a bit curious about how far to go with sexual fantasys and forwardness, but I think everyone is a little sensitive that's why we are here

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By *arc6662018Man
over a year ago

reading

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I portray myself as I am, genuine, fair, open minded and will fight for the right reason.

I've no idea how I come across, but if anything like real life, away from social media.

Many people tell me I'm a real nice person.

I respond ....... No I'm not, I'm genuine.

If you think I'm nice, it's because I treat you with I'm the same way you treat others, with the same respect.

There are several that think I'm not so nice.

Same again.

My internet persona is pretty much me, though I find myself boring my tongue (or fingers) more online, but I suppose that's because we'll mix with those personality types we may not in our real life, where we have more choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just being myself and hoping it's not fucking annoying

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm Me in here and real life.

What you see is what you get.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

I always been who I am and still are, forums and chat. Like me or loathe me I am who I am, just simply me. Have always been honest about myself and with others what ever the outcome.

Don't change if I think it will get me laid or not

Love and peace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am more fiery on here (although....still a fiery woman when pissed off, but overall alot more chilled)

This is due to many things though, the main one being, I wouldnt surround myself in real life with some of the people on here or their way of thinking.

Much easier to stick to the fun loving....not fun draining...folk in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am more fiery on here (although....still a fiery woman when pissed off, but overall alot more chilled)

This is due to many things though, the main one being, I wouldnt surround myself in real life with some of the people on here or their way of thinking.

Much easier to stick to the fun loving....not fun draining...folk in the real world

As an add on, the dad jokes I post and love of willie copters is much more like the "in person" me, I am always laughing and joking

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I'm as much of a twat in real life so not much else to say really

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I'm pretty much as I am on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sad grumpy fucker that likes no one

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