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Year without a shag?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i bet if you go for a year without a shag ... would definitely affect mental health...unless if its for medical reasons.

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Went four year whilst I was married, so a year is nothing...using a hell of a lot of batteries though

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not had sex in more than a year...still sane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i bet if you go for a year without a shag ... would definitely affect mental health...unless if its for medical reasons. "

I think it could affect your mental health even if it was for medical reasons.

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By *otmyrealname99Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Not sure I was fully sane beforehand, how will I know??

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

I've so far gone 3 years without a shag, and I've not gone mental, well I thought maybe I had but a striped pink and green turtle who lives my in knicker draw told me I was fine

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It has its challenges

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Went four year whilst I was married, so a year is nothing...using a hell of a lot of batteries though "
been there, got the divorce papers

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It didn't so much affect my mental health. It just made sex a bit uncomfortable the first few times but then it was fine again. I guess the muscles are out of practice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was talking to myself about this before and we both agreed I’m fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did 7 months and my sex drive died... it took some to get it back

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By *ong_John2333Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Over a year here, not sure how it has affected me yet, sadly I think Ive forgotten how it was before. We'll hopefully see when things start to go back to how they were.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Not when you can still have a wank.

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By *ardinal FangMan
over a year ago

Sandy

Over a year since I last saw my partner (she lives in the US) and despite having permission to play, this darned virus has made sure that I haven’t been able to.

Pretty unbearable, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m at a year and a half and can confirm that I’m feeling the effects

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

My longest dry spell was 12 years, and it definitely affected me badly.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I went over 10 years when I had my son. Some things are more important than a 'shag'

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It’s not that bad. but then again I am having flashbacks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who’s going to start the Friday/ Saturday night threads now ?

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Lack of sex for a year may be an issue for some I suppose, but it suggests a bigger problem if it significantly impacts on your mental health.

In my experience, the longer you go without, the less it matters.

There's many more important things in life than sex. I went the best part of 3 years without sex after the breakdown of my marriage. I was in my early 20s and previously had very healthy sex life.

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By *ssexfunladMan
over a year ago

essex

Im curruntly 12 months in without sex and im so feeling the effects grrr lol x

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The question of lack of sex in the context of the pandemic, is a different quantity.

I suspect that it's the lack of physical contact that is the problem for many, and it is being perceived as a lack of sex.

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