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"Do you mean sex or physical touch shag?" I am not sure what they meant, but yes I think it might be physical touch, do you? | |||
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"Good morning Shag. I think I can understand what that means. I feel certainly feel it. I haven’t touched a woman in over three years and I’ve forgotten what it feels like." Morning and yes I think it means that too, for me it was 5 years ago. I also think everyone will experience it, but at different stages too. | |||
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"Do you mean sex or physical touch shag?I am not sure what they meant, but yes I think it might be physical touch, do you?" I think so and in answer to your question, I am extremely tactile and so are my close friends and family so cuddles are never far away ![]() | |||
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"It's only a state of Mind." So is psychosis | |||
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"‘Touch starvation’, jeez a bit dramatic to say the least. " Why would you deem it to be dramatic? It’s a term that seems to refer to a sensation that has been lacking. Nothing more than that. You are placing your interpretation of the word ‘starving’ on it, which seems to lean towards the dramatic. Just as someone lacking food and nutrition would deem to be starving for it, surely. | |||
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"‘Touch starvation’, jeez a bit dramatic to say the least. " Touch lowers levels of the stress hormone cortisol and stimulates oxytocin, the bonding hormone. It's not a dramatic term really. | |||
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"‘Touch starvation’, jeez a bit dramatic to say the least. Why would you deem it to be dramatic? It’s a term that seems to refer to a sensation that has been lacking. Nothing more than that. You are placing your interpretation of the word ‘starving’ on it, which seems to lean towards the dramatic. Just as someone lacking food and nutrition would deem to be starving for it, surely." Google what the word ‘starvation’ means then come back to me, I’m using the literal term of the word. | |||
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"It's only a state of Mind." If only that were true, as state if mind affects and can influence our behavioral patterns | |||
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"I reckon being starved of touch can feel pretty lonely. The actual sex bit can be dealt with by masturbation but that must be a lonely experience eventually, most people want to share an embrace, hold someone's hand, lay in someone's arms. You might not die physically from a lack of touch but maybe a part of you withers emotionally. I sometimes wonder if that's why so many people in sexless relationships are on fab, seeking the sensation of another person's touch" This is pretty much what I was about to type. Touch and intimacy are so important for many people and without that, it's a lonely place to be. I need intimacy to feel loved by a partner, I need to be held and kissed. Without this, it's a friendship and I'll always need more. | |||
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"I reckon being starved of touch can feel pretty lonely. The actual sex bit can be dealt with by masturbation but that must be a lonely experience eventually, most people want to share an embrace, hold someone's hand, lay in someone's arms. You might not die physically from a lack of touch but maybe a part of you withers emotionally. I sometimes wonder if that's why so many people in sexless relationships are on fab, seeking the sensation of another person's touch This is pretty much what I was about to type. Touch and intimacy are so important for many people and without that, it's a lonely place to be. I need intimacy to feel loved by a partner, I need to be held and kissed. Without this, it's a friendship and I'll always need more. " Agreed. I sometimes think of a woman we know whose husband was ill for a very long time and the for last years of his life was completely reliant on her and carers. She must have been very lonely. | |||
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"Do you mean sex or physical touch shag?I am not sure what they meant, but yes I think it might be physical touch, do you? I think so and in answer to your question, I am extremely tactile and so are my close friends and family so cuddles are never far away ![]() Yes and that is good that the cuddles are not to far away for you ![]() | |||
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"Positive physical contact is a large part of how we show concern and establish camaraderie with friends and loved ones. Without it I believe anxiety is increased which in turn can lead to psychological issues, supposedly on the increase, due to the restrictions down to isolating cuz of covid" Yes and with the restrictions of covid, it doesnt help either. | |||
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"‘Touch starvation’, jeez a bit dramatic to say the least. Why would you deem it to be dramatic? It’s a term that seems to refer to a sensation that has been lacking. Nothing more than that. You are placing your interpretation of the word ‘starving’ on it, which seems to lean towards the dramatic. Just as someone lacking food and nutrition would deem to be starving for it, surely. Google what the word ‘starvation’ means then come back to me, I’m using the literal term of the word. " My apologies, I’d quite forgotten about this. I don’t rely on Google for every facet of knowledge I hope to glean. I know what the word starvation is as do most people. However, language is not a static medium. By your reasoning, perhaps every poet and writer was wrong in their interpreting of words to fit an expression, such as ‘starved of oxygen’, ‘starved of emotions’, ‘starved of touch’, hence touch starvation. Perhaps I ought to write to Google to expand their literal use of words to allow for some expressive freedom in order that people needn’t be overly pedantic in their use of it. However, I’m sure they must have already allowed for this with some effort in searching for interpretive expression. | |||
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"I was interested to know if there was any, so I looked it up, apparently there are side effects. I was looking at the list which was interesting and one said touch starvation, have anyone experienced it? I havent yet ![]() Touch starvation is horrid. Its sensory deprivation. Not really linked to sex imho. Last year, locked down, alone, no-one to interact with physically. It was tough. | |||
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"I reckon being starved of touch can feel pretty lonely. The actual sex bit can be dealt with by masturbation but that must be a lonely experience eventually, most people want to share an embrace, hold someone's hand, lay in someone's arms. You might not die physically from a lack of touch but maybe a part of you withers emotionally. I sometimes wonder if that's why so many people in sexless relationships are on fab, seeking the sensation of another person's touch This is pretty much what I was about to type. Touch and intimacy are so important for many people and without that, it's a lonely place to be. I need intimacy to feel loved by a partner, I need to be held and kissed. Without this, it's a friendship and I'll always need more. " Yes, same here. I was also about to write what you both said there. I also think that intimacy is more important than sex as masterbation takes cares of the that. I also wonder if a normal greeting hug could act like a substitute whilst it is not intimate in that way, we do have that second or 2 close contact with another person? ![]() | |||
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"I reckon being starved of touch can feel pretty lonely. The actual sex bit can be dealt with by masturbation but that must be a lonely experience eventually, most people want to share an embrace, hold someone's hand, lay in someone's arms. You might not die physically from a lack of touch but maybe a part of you withers emotionally. I sometimes wonder if that's why so many people in sexless relationships are on fab, seeking the sensation of another person's touch This is pretty much what I was about to type. Touch and intimacy are so important for many people and without that, it's a lonely place to be. I need intimacy to feel loved by a partner, I need to be held and kissed. Without this, it's a friendship and I'll always need more. " ![]() | |||
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