FabSwingers.com forum: Dad bods and Curvy guys

By *yrshirelad5987 OP Man
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Let's set up a wee thread and show some appreciation to fact that some of us guys don't need a 6 pack to be confident in ourselves

Let's show fab that we love our bumps and lumps as well

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I'm in on this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's set up a wee thread and show some appreciation to fact that some of us guys don't need a 6 pack to be confident in ourselves

Let's show fab that we love our bumps and lumps as well"

I think your bod is spot on

You wear it well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guess I belong here but u can have a dad bod and still be confident just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll do my best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's set up a wee thread and show some appreciation to fact that some of us guys don't need a 6 pack to be confident in ourselves

Let's show fab that we love our bumps and lumps as well"

I go to the gym and my shape isn’t perfect and I am 100% not happy/confident. Don’t be fooled by what’s on the outside to how someone’s feeling on the inside.

I love a woman with shape to her body! Nothing wrong with that

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"guess I belong here but u can have a dad bod and still be confident just saying

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This seems to be where I belong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Home at last lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m here......although weekly getting less but feeling great for it

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By *lueeyedblonde78Woman
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Lots of love and appreciation for the dad bod.

I'd rather have a dad bod than a gym fit man

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"Let's set up a wee thread and show some appreciation to fact that some of us guys don't need a 6 pack to be confident in ourselves

Let's show fab that we love our bumps and lumps as well"

I’ve got a 6pack hidden under the lumps and bumps haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll just take a seat right here and immerse myself in dad bods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Dad bod pictures are available upon request

I’m learning to gain confidence in mine as I was always gym fit but recently my nipples have been moving closer to my arm pits

but I’m going to embrace it gracefully

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"I'll just take a seat right here and immerse myself in dad bods

Goond on ya. Don't forget to tell your friends

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Definite dad bod here, but I'm shy so it is staying hidden

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Dad bod here ... not shy can’t wait get it out in the sun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pulling up a chair, don't mind me!

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"Pulling up a chair, don't mind me!

We'll you a sofa, you can stay all day then

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Can I squeeze in in here?

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

"Pulling up a chair, don't mind me!

Sit back, relax & enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope I can join as I’m 59 on Monday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pulling up a chair, don't mind me!

We'll you a sofa, you can stay all day then

So kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pulling up a chair, don't mind me!

Sit back, relax & enjoy

I will do thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one going to pick up on the word ‘curvy’ to describe men, ah ok, they must have changed the meaning.

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By *olvesfunguyMan
over a year ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

Think I qualify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure about curvy

But chunky... Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pulling up a chair, don't mind me!

Sit back, relax & enjoy

I will do thanks

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your a perve

and I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll just take a seat right here and immerse myself in dad bods

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be gentle with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure about curvy

But chunky... Yes!

Have you seen Madagascar movie? Reminds me of the hippo character who had lots of ladies admiring his chunkiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pulling up a chair, don't mind me!

Sit back, relax & enjoy

I will do thanks

your a perve

and I love it

Never going to change I'm afraid fluffy beast!

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"Not sure about curvy

But chunky... Yes!

Have you seen Madagascar movie? Reminds me of the hippo character who had lots of ladies admiring his chunkiness

I'd take that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure about curvy

But chunky... Yes!

Nice fruit basket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hairy dad bod here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure about curvy

But chunky... Yes!

Have you seen Madagascar movie? Reminds me of the hippo character who had lots of ladies admiring his chunkiness

"
... I do think I know the hippo.. Yeah! Very funny.. That's me.. a big chunky hippo!! I have the music in my head now.. "i like to move it, move it"

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Either or. If I like the face and personality the bod isn’t that important to me. Don’t think I’ve ever described a man as curvy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy is an hour-glass figure; large breasts, hips and butt with a comparatively small waist.

Yours factually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure about curvy

But chunky... Yes!

Have you seen Madagascar movie? Reminds me of the hippo character who had lots of ladies admiring his chunkiness

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I like em big I like em chunky names moto moto name so nice you gotta say it twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pulling up a chair, don't mind me!

Sit back, relax & enjoy

I will do thanks

your a perve

and I love it

Never going to change I'm afraid fluffy beast!

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I wouldn't want you to

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I've got a lumpy, bumpy dad bod.

Not overly confident with it yet, but the longer I'm on here and seeing the appreciation on that's like this, the more our grows.

Cheers all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I squeeze in in here?"
.I enjoy posting feelers and knowing my photos are appreciated even from an incognito visit .(how do I know its " ,I don't) but you may ask the members that question.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Signing in, at your service!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll just take a seat right here and immerse myself in dad bods

Stunning rope work picture you have there PNG

Sorry to go off topic......I will get my coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely in ! Rocking the dad bod here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like a thread I should join in on.

Chunky body here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I also add ‘Well Built’ as a suitable phrase nobody has used yet........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I also add ‘Well Built’ as a suitable phrase nobody has used yet........

I’m not, I’ve got a few screws loose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one going to pick up on the word ‘curvy’ to describe men, ah ok, they must have changed the meaning. "

I believe the meaning remains as it has always been intended, to denote that isn’t straight. I have heard women say how they love their man’s curves.

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By *enuineCoupleCheshireBBWCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Dad bods rule me and my lady both dig the fuller figures something really erotic about curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish no one had put the word GYM in this forum, makes me feel sick seeing the word hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure about curvy

But chunky... Yes!

Nice fruit basket

"
.. Oh thank you! I love a pink lady!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curvy is an hour-glass figure; large breasts, hips and butt with a comparatively small waist.

Yours factually

Thats me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More of a chucky uncle bod here

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By *ocalguy4youMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Dad bod here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grandpa bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pulling up a chair, don't mind me!

Sit back, relax & enjoy

I will do thanks

your a perve

and I love it

Never going to change I'm afraid fluffy beast!

I wouldn't want you to

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Curvy is an hour-glass figure; large breasts, hips and butt with a comparatively small waist.

Yours factually

Is that the official definition then. I’m down as curvy as I think I am but I don’t have a small waist for sure.

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I'm trying to actually put on weight but I think my overactive brain keeps me slim

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By *eeling0880Man
over a year ago

Pennines

Honey I’m home

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Cheam

Perving mood engaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perving mood engaged

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.. Ditto

Stunning photos

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Be rude not to get involved in this thread given my name

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By *xiled BikerMan
over a year ago

Beverley

Im in, feel free to comment

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I prefer slim to a light covering on a man.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"Either or. If I like the face and personality the bod isn’t that important to me. Don’t think I’ve ever described a man as curvy though. "

^^^^ absolutely this

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"Curvy is an hour-glass figure; large breasts, hips and butt with a comparatively small waist.

Yours factually

Is that the official definition then. I’m down as curvy as I think I am but I don’t have a small waist for sure. "

Waist smaller than your hips. Hourglass. That’s what I would describe as curvy.

Not fat rolls everywhere.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Never fear Super-Dad-Bod is here.

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

What if you have a dad bod and not confident?

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"What if you have a dad bod and not confident?

Join us and gain confidence!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I join I'll take curvy as a compliment

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

Well, there you go - profile pic is best I have at the moment... not sure it counts though

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Ohhhh helloooo

everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod here!!!!

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"Ohhhh helloooo

everyone

Hello!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ohhhh helloooo

everyone

Oooh hellooo you pull up chair or better still sit on my lap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer hands down a woman with curves, are there any women out there that prefer men with, as we have labelled a dad bod

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By *iercedCplCouple
over a year ago

Greater Manchester/Lancashire

Don't mind me...

Mr P definitely rocks his dad bod.

Mrs P xx

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’m an upper middle aged man who tries to keep fit but I don’t aspire to any type of body.

I am what I am and what I am needs no excuses.

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"Don't mind me...

Mr P definitely rocks his dad bod.

Mrs P xx"

Pull up a lap, get comfy!

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Curvy? Chunky? What about cuddly?

Whatever it is it’s me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than happy with my Dad bod, I'm clean, very hygienic and eat healthily, just the wrong side of fifty.

What you see is what you get so I'm in too....

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Ohhhh helloooo

everyone

Hello!!"

Loving the beard

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Ohhhh helloooo

everyone

Oooh hellooo you pull up chair or better still sit on my lap"

How very kind

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By *r_smooth_alloverMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

All shapes and sizes should be loved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who doesn't love a dad bod?

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

"Who doesn't love a dad bod?

Sorry I got distracted by your photo - what were you saying?

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"Ohhhh helloooo

everyone

Hello!!

Loving the beard

Why, thank you

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Curvy? Chunky? What about cuddly?

Whatever it is it’s me

So long as its more of a party7 than a 6-pack you quality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spent too long in my life trying to achieve that six pack look. Never got there and never will. Happy with how and who I am, and Marie agrees. That's all the matters to me. Long live the "dad bod"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dad bod is getting a bit smaller due to swimming trying to get my tum down a bit and to help with the back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distractions can be fun...

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

This is true, especially with that camera angle, makes me imagine the possibilities

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Spent too long in my life trying to achieve that six pack look. Never got there and never will. Happy with how and who I am, and Marie agrees. That's all the matters to me. Long live the "dad bod"

Ask Marie to shake your hand for me. Keep up the good work.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

curvy dad bod here.

if you ont like it thats your problem not mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Distractions can be fun..."
u are definitely gonna cause a few of those looking like that young lady

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

My 6pack is becoming a little barrel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Distractions can be fun... u are definitely gonna cause a few of those looking like that young lady

Who me...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Distractions can be fun... u are definitely gonna cause a few of those looking like that young lady

Who me...?

"
yes u super sexy ooooooffffttt

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Distractions can be fun... u are definitely gonna cause a few of those looking like that young lady

Who me...?

yes u super sexy ooooooffffttt

Smooth talker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Distractions can be fun... u are definitely gonna cause a few of those looking like that young lady

Who me...?

yes u super sexy ooooooffffttt

Smooth talker.

"
smooth as tenessey whiskey me mate

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Thought that said curvy girls oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm proud of my dad bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought that said curvy girls oops

We all appreciate those too!

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"Thought that said curvy girls oops

Still very welcome

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Love a dad bod .. love most mens bods..

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Welcome ladies, pick a lap, or 2, or, you get the idea

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

"Welcome ladies, pick a lap, or 2, or, you get the idea"

Mine has space

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

TROWBRIDGE

Before covid I was doing OK and was in kind of a good shape. I stayed smooth/well trimmed below.

Now I am full on Dad bod mode and am getting quite fluffy: the silver hi lights are taking over the face fuzz and hair.

I am not sure that I like what I see in the mirror anymore. But it is what it is.

I had better learn to love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Distractions can be fun... u are definitely gonna cause a few of those looking like that young lady

Who me...?

yes u super sexy ooooooffffttt

Smooth talker.

smooth as tenessey whiskey me mate"

Straight to the hard stuff then?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Welcome ladies, pick a lap, or 2, or, you get the idea"

I’ll have one from the top, two from the middle and three from the bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought that said curvy girls oops

"
but belle all your curves are in all the right places xxx lovely to see you around the forums now and again still xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Distractions can be fun... u are definitely gonna cause a few of those looking like that young lady

Who me...?

yes u super sexy ooooooffffttt

Smooth talker.

smooth as tenessey whiskey me mate

Straight to the hard stuff then? "
unless u would prefer i was sweet as strawberry wine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spent too long in my life trying to achieve that six pack look. Never got there and never will. Happy with how and who I am, and Marie agrees. That's all the matters to me. Long live the "dad bod"

Ask Marie to shake your hand for me. Keep up the good work.

Thanks!

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"Welcome ladies, pick a lap, or 2, or, you get the idea

I’ll have one from the top, two from the middle and three from the bottom

Greedy

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I don’t have a dad bod, its a potato with toothpicks for arms and legs!

Made self portraits easy in juniors when you had to paint using fingers and a potato...

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I don’t have a dad bod, its a potato with toothpicks for arms and legs!

Made self portraits easy in juniors when you had to paint using fingers and a potato..."

Lowry would have had problems painting me too. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finally somewhere i belong

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I’m in dare I say a grandad to

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Plenty of curvy bits here thanks to the lockdown lard. Talking of that I need to try and shift a bit. It's a bit like an unwelcomed guest!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I’m in dare I say a grandad to

You may be a grandad, but far too slim (fit) to qualify as a 'dadbod'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Distractions can be fun... u are definitely gonna cause a few of those looking like that young lady

Who me...?

yes u super sexy ooooooffffttt

Smooth talker.

smooth as tenessey whiskey me mate

Straight to the hard stuff then? unless u would prefer i was sweet as strawberry wine?

I hear variety is the spice of life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Distractions can be fun... u are definitely gonna cause a few of those looking like that young lady

Who me...?

yes u super sexy ooooooffffttt

Smooth talker.

smooth as tenessey whiskey me mate

Straight to the hard stuff then? unless u would prefer i was sweet as strawberry wine?

I hear variety is the spice of life!"
then u can spice up my life anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woohoo a category for me

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By *hubster2016Man
over a year ago

I’ve not got a dad bod coz I’m not a dad

I’m just a FAT blob that has been knocked back that many times I’m in the Stone Age!

Unlike most of you I HATE my body! I have since a botched operation at 15 turned me from fit to very fat. I was bullied due to this and I’ve struggled with self confidence ever since! I became an emotional eater and was drinker at one point but don’t drink now, the eating is a cycle I’ve broke a few times but to much abuse and boom.

I eat coz I’m unhappy I’m unhappy coz I eat.

I’ve been single for 17 years simply coz I think I’m not good enough!

Sorry ladies I just believe you when you say you like someone like me it’s not the evidence I’ve seen!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Afternoon troops

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"I’ve not got a dad bod coz I’m not a dad

I’m just a FAT blob that has been knocked back that many times I’m in the Stone Age!

I eat coz I’m unhappy I’m unhappy coz I eat.

I’ve been single for 17 years simply coz I think I’m not good enough!

Sorry ladies I just believe you when you say you like someone like me it’s not the evidence I’ve seen!!

You've gotta somehow find peace with yourself mate. Whether that be how youvare now, or that you can set an attainable target to lose some weight

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By *languyxMan
over a year ago

South Wales

Am a Dad too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A great thread OP, in.

Love a curvy lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in - don't laugh to loud lol

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By *cottyl1983Man
over a year ago

Tyne and Wear

Dad bod here but working on it but feel happy in myself

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By *cottyl1983Man
over a year ago

Tyne and Wear

"Who doesn't love a dad bod?

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wow mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Afternoon

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By *yrshirelad5987 OP Man
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Loving the response guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve not got a dad bod coz I’m not a dad

I’m just a FAT blob that has been knocked back that many times I’m in the Stone Age!

I eat coz I’m unhappy I’m unhappy coz I eat.

I’ve been single for 17 years simply coz I think I’m not good enough!

Sorry ladies I just believe you when you say you like someone like me it’s not the evidence I’ve seen!!

I feel your pain. Similar to me a few years ago, I was single and never looked for 14 years, always struggled with weight after breaking my back and struggling to exercise. Comfort eating didn’t help either.

I was single for a long time but decided to put myself out there, totally out of my comfort zone as I’m quite shy but I’m so glad I did.

Still want to lose weight and was managing a little at the gym before lockdown but made a conscious decision to ignore the people I don’t respect and have met some great friends through here and had some great times.

Not met a lot of people but those I have never want a one off (not that I do either) so I must be doing something right and that has helped to boost my confidence a lot.

Still got the whole keg rather than a six pack and doubt that’ll change anytime soon but I’m at ease with myself a lot more than I was.

It’s not easy though for large guys as women have so much choice, and we are so outnumbered.

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

"I’ve not got a dad bod coz I’m not a dad

I’m just a FAT blob that has been knocked back that many times I’m in the Stone Age!

I eat coz I’m unhappy I’m unhappy coz I eat.

I’ve been single for 17 years simply coz I think I’m not good enough!

Sorry ladies I just believe you when you say you like someone like me it’s not the evidence I’ve seen!!

I was in a very similar boat five years ago, weighing in at around 26 stone and increasing. Decided to get myself sorted by cutting out takeaways (great for comfort eating!) and , and starting to exercise with a couch to 5k programme. Weight literally fell off but has plateaued around 19stone for some time. However, I have run a half marathon, go to the gym on a regular basis and recently been told I am fitter and stronger than 20 year old colleagues.

You CAN do it. Not easily, and will require struggle, setbacks and sacrifice. You will feel better for it though in the end.

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By *hubster2016Man
over a year ago

I did at my biggest get to 20st 10lb so I did something about it and lost 7+ stone to get to 14 stone exactly In 14 months!

I hit my target so I could go out for New Years with mates I was chatting up a girl & all her mates came over and said why you chatting to this fat c#@t. I went from feeling good to absolute shit....the next time I went gym I pushed hard & dislocated my shoulder leading to putting weight back on.

I’m now around 18 stone but need to get motivated to loose more and get to 13stone.

I can do it but it takes focus and any spare time I have outside of work.

Tbh I’ve given up a bit on women (I’m straight) I’m just on here for the pics and to help push myself a bit

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think I fit in there somewhere. But I think that Will be down to your judgement. Of course we are always have a right to a opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No 6pack here but I’m happy with my body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh it’s definitely taken me a while to realize that i’m confident enough with my size and shape. Dad bods for the win!

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

The only six pack I have is JS Beans!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod in place here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy bellied guy here and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look like a bald Winnie the Pooh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod here ...

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