FabSwingers.com forum: Feeling down

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone fancy a chat...my depression is at an all time low and hubby working all hours doesn't help

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Something got you low, or is it lockdown taking a toll?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Something got you low, or is it lockdown taking a toll?"

I just feel down and ugly. Need to redo my pink but can't afford it. Just want something to look forward to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh lovely im sorry you are feeling low.

I'm really sorry but I'm just off to sleep but please feel to send me a message anytime. X

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I’m here if you want to have a chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh lovely im sorry you are feeling low.

I'm really sorry but I'm just off to sleep but please feel to send me a message anytime. X"

Thank you hun. Maybe we can sort out a drink sometime

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

I'm sorry you're feeling low beautiful. What's the best thing thing that's happened this week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh lovely im sorry you are feeling low.

I'm really sorry but I'm just off to sleep but please feel to send me a message anytime. X

Thank you hun. Maybe we can sort out a drink sometime "

That sounds lovely. I'm sure we sort something. X

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"Something got you low, or is it lockdown taking a toll?

I just feel down and ugly. Need to redo my pink but can't afford it. Just want something to look forward to "

Your pictures tell a different story, definately not ugly! The end of the lockdowns is something to look forward to, at the very least

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Something got you low, or is it lockdown taking a toll?

I just feel down and ugly. Need to redo my pink but can't afford it. Just want something to look forward to

Your pictures tell a different story, definately not ugly! The end of the lockdowns is something to look forward to, at the very least"

Lockdown has shown the holes in our relationship and he doesn't make me feel special anymore. I would love fwb with someone who will care for me as a friend as well. But i think that's wishful thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far from ugly, far far far from it..!!!

How’s about thinking of the last thing that made you smile

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"Something got you low, or is it lockdown taking a toll?

I just feel down and ugly. Need to redo my pink but can't afford it. Just want something to look forward to

Your pictures tell a different story, definately not ugly! The end of the lockdowns is something to look forward to, at the very least

Could be that he's struggling too, potentially, but I understand where you're coming from, definately. Why don't you try and have a flirt, arrange some meets?

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By *uchislife66Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Anyone fancy a chat...my depression is at an all time low and hubby working all hours doesn't help "

Sorry to hear you are feeling this way ...

Cant be easy with your partner away theough the week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have tried to sort out a few foursomes.

We have a couple we used to play with although they seem more interested in him since lockdown. He meets them alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps I’m not the best to advise as a single man but have you told your partner honestly how you feel?

I think often there is an expectation both ways that you know exactly how the other person is feeling.

The other issue is often things are not fully said in case the other persons feelings are hurt.

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"I have tried to sort out a few foursomes.

We have a couple we used to play with although they seem more interested in him since lockdown. He meets them alone"

Ooh, that's a little harsh! Have you had a chance to speak to him about it? (You can dm if you want to chat)

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By *uchislife66Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Seems unfair he joins this couple alone!!

You mention East Sussex ....

I recall it being lovely there

From Yorkshire myself but been there when I was younger

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By *uchislife66Man
over a year ago

Leeds

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes i have spoken to him.

I said that I'm sure said girl would be unhappy if I borrowed her husband without asking

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

What was his reply to that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What was his reply to that?"

He said he had told them to speak to me...i got a message from the guy..saying they WERE borrowing my husband. Nothing since then

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

That's pretty shitty! Why not make your own profile, and arrange yourself something, see if that gets a reaction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how about a date night, just you and him, lock down has been hard on us all, be two young people going for a date again, cant hurt

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By *ooking4othersMan
over a year ago

Here ...

"What was his reply to that?

He said he had told them to speak to me...i got a message from the guy..saying they WERE borrowing my husband. Nothing since then"

The thing about swinging is that there needs to be communication and boundaries to which you both agree to.

Doesn't sound like meeting alone is within your boundaries and its certainly not up to you to speak with them about it!

He needs to stop meeting them alone and you both need to communicate ... good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand fully what it's like to feel down especially in this situation is think people should talk to each other more im for to talk or just to listen

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

You are a very pretty girl and will have no problems finding a wonderful fwb.

Just chat to them to make sure there is a connection. Look for someone with the qualities you would look for in a friend. Above all enjoy the search. Flirt and have fun.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"What was his reply to that?

He said he had told them to speak to me...i got a message from the guy..saying they WERE borrowing my husband. Nothing since then"

Why are you not involved with the 3 of them meeting ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone fancy a chat...my depression is at an all time low and hubby working all hours doesn't help "

If you even need someone to talk to just message me and I’ll have a chat don’t have to be a naughty chat, just want to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im sorry ive only just seen this.

You aren't alone OP

message me.. im a good listener

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry you are feeling down. My inbox is always open to chat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope morning looks less doom than last night. X

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

As a fwb I would probably be shit, but as a friend, who has been through what you are going through, pm me if you want to talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thing about Fab, always someone willing to help,

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

OP hope you're feeling a bit perkier this morning. Passing over my last Custard Cream to (hopefully) help you smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone fancy a chat...my depression is at an all time low and hubby working all hours doesn't help "

Sorry to hear that your feeling down, and reading through the thread for what's happened, my inbox is always open

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Good morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you everyone x"

Lovely looking you g lady,hope things get better x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I've nothing constructive that hasn't already been said, OP, but I'm sending support and virtual gigs through the ether to you.

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

I'm going through the same myself and after speaking to the doctor you realise just how common it is and how it's ok to ask for help. You also find out that there are so many things that help such as simply talking to someone, exercise and having a damn good cry every now and again. You also find out that things that you think should make you feel better like alcohol are actually depressants ! In simple terms don't bottle it up but dont be afraid to ask for help if you need it

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