FabSwingers.com forum: Frustrating

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone else get frustrated when a thread of their's gets overrun and the idea gets changed or it just becomes a flirt thread?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Sorry Wonko

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nah but I can understand why others might be.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

Never get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone flirts in forums and they know they are doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry OP l! I promise not to be a naughty lad in class

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No x

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

No I just enjoy the craic of folk conversing

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

At least the threads take off, rather than withering and dying

Now, Posh, come and squish those lovely boobies up against me, please

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By *otmyrealname99Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Detentions all round

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

What about that weather folks, bloody pouring here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else get frustrated when a thread of their's gets overrun and the idea gets changed or it just becomes a flirt thread?"

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yeah sometimes. I try and keep it to two flirty replies and then pm. Threads get off tangent obviously but sometimes I read the OP trying to get it back on track and it's a bit sad.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Did someone say FAF, oops sorry wrong thread

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"In

Fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I give up.

Can i have a lifetime forum ban please

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Does anyone else get frustrated when a thread of their's gets overrun and the idea gets changed or it just becomes a flirt thread?"

Aw, Sorry Wonko, I may be guilty of this. But I wouldn't do it on a serious thread, or if I saw the OP wasn't amused. Xx

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I give up.

Can i have a lifetime forum ban please "

Don’t be daft. No you can’t. Hugs?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It’s a general rule of thumb that most threads get drawn in tangents along their run.

It depends on the topic as to how bad.

I used to joke that it was only various degrees of separation from any topic to becoming about ducks.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"In

Fuck"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's better than having no replies at all. Posting something you thought was good or funny and then .... .... .... just silence

Ewww

Better it to be hijacked or for people to have fun with it in my humble opinion

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Not really, it can be a bit of a shitter if I'm trying to reply to every post and it confuddles me a little knowing where I was up to and has led to me missing people out before by accident coz I've skipped where others have been flirting and missed a comment in the middle.

Other than that nah, but that's not really a biggie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's better than having no replies at all. Posting something you thought was good or funny and then .... .... .... just silence

Ewww

Better it to be hijacked or for people to have fun with it in my humble opinion "

Story of my threads ....

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Doesn’t bother me because I rarely start threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's better than having no replies at all. Posting something you thought was good or funny and then .... .... .... just silence

Ewww

Better it to be hijacked or for people to have fun with it in my humble opinion "

Exactly this. I’ve started some I thought were fun and light. And get dropped after a few replies...

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Very rarely start a thread and I’m generally happy if it gets to double figures. Please flirt on mine

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Oops. Guilty as charged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely start a thread and am grateful for any(almost) comments but I do seem to be able to kill a thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a good post can be taken over by a completely different subject, usually nonsense & stupidity by the same individuals

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

I have a tendency to comment then kill the tread .. but a don’t worry about it! But get what you’re saying guess you being popular everyone knows you’re crack so think it’s funny x

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

It’s why Iv never made a thread I hate flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shall I just sit on your face Wonko so you can't see the comments and flirting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shall I just sit on your face Wonko so you can't see the comments and flirting? "

Sorry wrong thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s a general rule of thumb that most threads get drawn in tangents along their run.

It depends on the topic as to how bad.

I used to joke that it was only various degrees of separation from any topic to becoming about ducks.

Quack.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a tendency to comment then kill the tread .. but a don’t worry about it! But get what you’re saying guess you being popular everyone knows you’re crack so think it’s funny x"

I have no desire to be popular

Rather people ignored me if I'm honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a tendency to comment then kill the tread .. but a don’t worry about it! But get what you’re saying guess you being popular everyone knows you’re crack so think it’s funny x

I have no desire to be popular

Rather people ignored me if I'm honest "

easier said than done i’m afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a tendency to comment then kill the tread .. but a don’t worry about it! But get what you’re saying guess you being popular everyone knows you’re crack so think it’s funny x

I have no desire to be popular

Rather people ignored me if I'm honest "

I find when I want to be ignored I always start a thread to take the focus off myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a tendency to comment then kill the tread .. but a don’t worry about it! But get what you’re saying guess you being popular everyone knows you’re crack so think it’s funny x

I have no desire to be popular

Rather people ignored me if I'm honest

I find when I want to be ignored I always start a thread to take the focus off myself "

Don't worry I won't be starting any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's when the flirting takes the thread off into a different tangent and other posters comments are being trampled over for the sake of flirting I find annoying

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"It’s why Iv never made a thread I hate flirting

Somebody call the fire brigade, her pants are blazing

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I've seen it happen a lot but unless you are there to police it and constantly bring it back on track you kind of just have to leave them to it.

Sometimes if it is a new poster I feel its rather inappropriate and puts them off posting gain, especially if there are lots of 'in' jokes and flirting going on.

Of course there will be those saying 'if they can't handle it they should stay off the forums' but that's just the defense of a bully in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a tendency to comment then kill the tread .. but a don’t worry about it! But get what you’re saying guess you being popular everyone knows you’re crack so think it’s funny x

I have no desire to be popular

Rather people ignored me if I'm honest

I find when I want to be ignored I always start a thread to take the focus off myself

Don't worry I won't be starting any more "

I wasn’t worried

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Aren't threads a bit like conversations though, you start of talking about the weather and 10 mins later you are talking about the cost of running a hot tub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aren't threads a bit like conversations though, you start of talking about the weather and 10 mins later you are talking about the cost of running a hot tub

On that note - How much does it cost to run a hot tub....asking for the proverbial 'friend'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the thread. Depends who. Depends if they know where to stop. I spoke to a friend about it who said he enjoys them growing and taking their own life.

it works for some posts and they might turn out to be the lounge article of the day... But not when you have specific outcome of the post in mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aren't threads a bit like conversations though, you start of talking about the weather and 10 mins later you are talking about the cost of running a hot tub

if only. 10 topics in 10 min.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a tendency to comment then kill the tread .. but a don’t worry about it! But get what you’re saying guess you being popular everyone knows you’re crack so think it’s funny x

I have no desire to be popular

Rather people ignored me if I'm honest

I find when I want to be ignored I always start a thread to take the focus off myself

Don't worry I won't be starting any more "

Just bumping this comment!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It is just the nature of the beast, too many personalities and opinions to keep things 100% focused.

It is an annoyance and frustrating but it is also something that you just have to live with.

If I tend to start a more serious thread, I do so in the knowledge that it is highly likely going to not just go off on tangents, but derailed by pointless comedic trolling or public displays of flirting.

I have been guilty of both myself, so can't complain to much though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is just the nature of the beast, too many personalities and opinions to keep things 100% focused.

It is an annoyance and frustrating but it is also something that you just have to live with.

I have been guilty of both myself, so can't complain to much though. "

I agree with this and would say the same about myself too.

NBVN x

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"I have a tendency to comment then kill the tread .. but a don’t worry about it! But get what you’re saying guess you being popular everyone knows you’re crack so think it’s funny x

I have no desire to be popular

Rather people ignored me if I'm honest

I find when I want to be ignored I always start a thread to take the focus off myself

Don't worry I won't be starting any more "

Neither will aye my shit show performance this morning.. a wanted more bants and everyone to take the puss out of each other

but that never happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a tendency to comment then kill the tread .. but a don’t worry about it! But get what you’re saying guess you being popular everyone knows you’re crack so think it’s funny x

I have no desire to be popular

Rather people ignored me if I'm honest

I find when I want to be ignored I always start a thread to take the focus off myself

Don't worry I won't be starting any more

Neither will aye my shit show performance this morning.. a wanted more bants and everyone to take the puss out of each other

but that never happened

I missed that one - I might have been actually working instead of idly browsing here

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