FabSwingers.com forum: I’m being blac mailed

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pleas can someone advise on what to do???

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Go to the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

On here or in everyday life?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

On here

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"On here "

Contact admin

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"On here "

Report them and go to the police.

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By *oxy lady40Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

"On here "
report them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Police. Whatever it is isn’t worth being manipulated over, unless it’s illegal and then I suggest you find a lawyer and then go to the police

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Sorry to hear that OP.

Report to admin. Discuss with the police maybe to see what your options are.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Take screenshots, report and block then report to police x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Probably a good idea to hide your profile until sorted

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Screenshots, police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely keep a record of everything and go to the police. Don't worry about being on here the police aren't bothered at all but they will take black mail very seriously!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No advice but this must be awful. Total scumbag behaviour.

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Report them to admin on here and also the police. I would Keep hold of any messages on here or any other evidence you have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve never been so scared before thank you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Take screen shots of everything they’ve sent you.

2. Notify admin.

3. Inform the police, take the screenshots with you. Section 21 of the Theft Act 1968 explains UK bl*ckmail law. In legal terms bl*ckmail is when someone makes unwarranted demands with menaces in order to attain personal gain or project loss on another and also under revenge porn laws you can now face up to two years in prison if you threaten to share sexual images – or videos – of a person without their consent.

Don’t take no shit. Go to the Police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never been so scared before thank you all"

Hope you got it sorted! Don’t be scared and let us know how it went

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

admin do take action, taking matters into your own hands is not the way to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might want to hide your profile too until it's sorted x

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Sorry to hear this. They are probably just bullsh*tying but if you really are worried take screenshots of everything and contact the police. Not sure what they will do but if you're worried it's worth a go.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

op report the profile to admin, they take a dim view of this sort of thing. I'll post how admin deal with reports next

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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