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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

On the back of a few blow job threads, and I would also add, it isn't a anyone want to give me a blow job post

I have cum from a bj a couple of times, but a a rule, I dont, I get so far and them it resets and start to build again, this can be repeated several times over, the down side, even despite me saying it's rare that I will come, a few women have said it made them feel a bit strange that they take me all the way or have basically given up doing it.

Dont get me wrong, I absolutely love the sensation it give me, even though it's as frustrating as hell, one moment I can be a quivering mess on the verge and the next moment not.

So my question to the ladies, is in a couple of parts.

1 have you had experience of this

2 would it knock your confidence in repeating with the same person

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Yes,

No.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I haven’t experienced this. I’m not sure really, it may affect my confidence a bit. I don’t know.

Hope that helps . Probably not!

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I have given enough of them to know that everyone is different. What I do works for most people but not everyone and that could be for a variety of reasons.

Kx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

No

I use a bj as foreplay and to tease - It's the appetiser, not the main course.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Dick rarely cums from a bj. I'm used to it now.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't suck a cock to make it cum.

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

1. yes

2. no

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I've had a few different experiences. Some have held off, held off and held off and it's ran away. Others have barely got between my lips before popping.

Anything can happen that knocks it back down, from a noise outside to a phone beeping.

Yes it can be frustrating I guess, but at the same time it's no different to me, I've been on the edge before and something has stopped it happening and it's not that anything has been done "wrong", it just runs away.

It doesn't stop me from wanting to do it again, but if it was a regular thing it may knock my confidence, as long as the person was enjoying what I was doing though, then it's sound.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't suck a cock to make it cum.

"

This.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Everyone is different, it's more of a warm up for me. Get them going then into the main act!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It's quite common for a man not to cum from a blowjob. It's most definitely not the be all and end all, especially as I do blowjobs as part of foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't suck a cock to make it cum.

"

Just the amuse Bouche to the main course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with someone 20 yrs who would never cum from a blow job *yes I must be crap. It's almost more of a surprise for me now if someone does and never expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I wouldn't care, usually a blow job is part of foreplay as I want to have sex, so I'm ok with the guy not cumming that way!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Until I came onto FAB I had never met/heard of anyone who couldn't come from a blowjob, apart from one guy who couldn't come full stop.

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

Yes I have met people like you, but I have a bad habit of persevering (maybe not first time) to achieving (probably my) desired result.

So no it doesn't bother me to return, and a lot of the time as others have said it is just part of the foreplay so I wouldn't say it's a deal breaker.

I think it's nice if you're confident enough to say you struggle as this helps ladies not lose confidence, and indeed for some it may spur them on

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