FabSwingers.com forum: Advise

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any advice on how to get replies? Or is it just luck? Ovs no display due to work but I attach photos when I dm and always polite

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Could you add pictures you can't be identified by?

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

Your profile is short and doesn’t really grab a person’s attention. More effort required. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is you shop window, take a look from the outside and ask yourself, is this inviting anyone in?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

There are so many men for us to chose from when they message us.

A poor profile is the top reason for just deleting.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

U need pics m8 .u av 2 grab the ladies attention. Wen the look at blank pic it does nothing 4 them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have no control over it.

You just need to accept it and have fun

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Any advice on how to get replies? Or is it just luck? Ovs no display due to work but I attach photos when I dm and always polite"

The more effort you put into your profile, photos and replies the luckier you'll get.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As in like body photo or something? Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As in like body photo or something? Thank you "

yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Most people saying more depth in my profile, going to upgrade it abit add quite a few more photos and see if I can do something with a display :p thank you everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some good advice there op!!!!

Best of luck.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"As in like body photo or something? Thank you "

Yes if you can't show your face, have a look at some successful guys profiles for ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a look at profiles that catch your attention.

Is your profile as appealing?.

How's your message?

A basic hey?

Or do you relate your message according to their profile, and what they seek?

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

As said above but also when messaging read profiles, most of us don’t like copy and paste messages, we like to see that you’ve read our profiles (not by just saying I’ve read your profile).

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Have a think if you would message a profile minus any public pictures and limited write up.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"Any advice on how to get replies? Or is it just luck? Ovs no display due to work but I attach photos when I dm and always polite"

There’s 1,000 men for every (genuine) woman on here. So every time you message a woman, I can guarantee 100 other guys have had the same idea.

I have a few female friends on here. So I’m speaking from 1st hand experience.

They’ll take a look at your profile. They’ll take a look at your photos. And all this before even reading your message.

And a lot of my friends won’t even open your message if you have no profile pic.

And the “work” excuse doesn’t wash sorry. I’ll PM you why.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Good profile text, good photos and good messages. That's what will give you shot.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile is very bland. There is nothing in it that would capture my attention x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no advice

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"Your profile is very bland. There is nothing in it that would capture my attention x"

And that’s a lot coming from Soarkle! She’d talk to a postbox given the opportunity

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Your profile is very bland. There is nothing in it that would capture my attention x

And that’s a lot coming from Soarkle! She’d talk to a postbox given the opportunity

Thats not nice to call yourself a postbox x

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"Your profile is very bland. There is nothing in it that would capture my attention x

And that’s a lot coming from Soarkle! She’d talk to a postbox given the opportunity

Thats not nice to call yourself a postbox x"

I have a reputation!!! Don’t be letting people know I speak to you!!!

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

If you seriously need to told, for example, what's sorely lacking on your profile it's unlikely you'll succeed either way.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Your profile is very bland. There is nothing in it that would capture my attention x

And that’s a lot coming from Soarkle! She’d talk to a postbox given the opportunity

Thats not nice to call yourself a postbox x"

Haha, back of the net

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Your profile is very bland. There is nothing in it that would capture my attention x

And that’s a lot coming from Soarkle! She’d talk to a postbox given the opportunity

Thats not nice to call yourself a postbox x

I have a reputation!!! Don’t be letting people know I speak to you!!!"

I keep it a secret, never mind your reputation, I have mine to maintain x

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"Your profile is very bland. There is nothing in it that would capture my attention x

And that’s a lot coming from Soarkle! She’d talk to a postbox given the opportunity

Thats not nice to call yourself a postbox x

I have a reputation!!! Don’t be letting people know I speak to you!!!

I keep it a secret, never mind your reputation, I have mine to maintain x"

I’m making your profile more popular

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"There are so many men for us to chose from when they message us.

A poor profile is the top reason for just deleting."

This

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Your profile is very bland. There is nothing in it that would capture my attention x

And that’s a lot coming from Soarkle! She’d talk to a postbox given the opportunity

Thats not nice to call yourself a postbox x

I have a reputation!!! Don’t be letting people know I speak to you!!!

I keep it a secret, never mind your reputation, I have mine to maintain x

I’m making your profile more popular

Not needed

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

There's no algorithm hack. It comes down to expressing your personality and photos that appeal.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"Your profile is very bland. There is nothing in it that would capture my attention x

And that’s a lot coming from Soarkle! She’d talk to a postbox given the opportunity

Thats not nice to call yourself a postbox x

I have a reputation!!! Don’t be letting people know I speak to you!!!

I keep it a secret, never mind your reputation, I have mine to maintain x

I’m making your profile more popular

Not needed

People see I’m associating with you and that will make them want to talk to you.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Your profile is very bland. There is nothing in it that would capture my attention x

And that’s a lot coming from Soarkle! She’d talk to a postbox given the opportunity

Thats not nice to call yourself a postbox x

I have a reputation!!! Don’t be letting people know I speak to you!!!

I keep it a secret, never mind your reputation, I have mine to maintain x

I’m making your profile more popular

Not needed

People see I’m associating with you and that will make them want to talk to you.

Thats only them checking I'm taking my meds because I am talking to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any advice on how to get replies? Or is it just luck? Ovs no display due to work but I attach photos when I dm and always polite"

Apologies for this sounding brutal but dor me, it's the lack of photos, not much in your bio at all either. You say you like everything - that isn't true so that puts me off.

Have a look at some of the guys who post and get replies - couple examples; GrumpyMcFuckNugget, Estragon and Moreno.

Good luck

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"Any advice on how to get replies? Or is it just luck? Ovs no display due to work but I attach photos when I dm and always polite

Apologies for this sounding brutal but dor me, it's the lack of photos, not much in your bio at all either. You say you like everything - that isn't true so that puts me off.

Have a look at some of the guys who post and get replies - couple examples; GrumpyMcFuckNugget, Estragon and Moreno.

Good luck "

*ahem*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any advice on how to get replies? Or is it just luck? Ovs no display due to work but I attach photos when I dm and always polite

Apologies for this sounding brutal but dor me, it's the lack of photos, not much in your bio at all either. You say you like everything - that isn't true so that puts me off.

Have a look at some of the guys who post and get replies - couple examples; GrumpyMcFuckNugget, Estragon and Moreno.

Good luck

*ahem*"

Yes dear..?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

"Any advice on how to get replies? Or is it just luck? Ovs no display due to work but I attach photos when I dm and always polite"

Rule 1 be hot

Rule 2 don’t be not hot

It’s a swinging website, physical attraction reigns supreme

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"Any advice on how to get replies? Or is it just luck? Ovs no display due to work but I attach photos when I dm and always polite

Apologies for this sounding brutal but dor me, it's the lack of photos, not much in your bio at all either. You say you like everything - that isn't true so that puts me off.

Have a look at some of the guys who post and get replies - couple examples; GrumpyMcFuckNugget, Estragon and Moreno.

Good luck

*ahem*

Yes dear..?"

I think you missed someone

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"Any advice on how to get replies? Or is it just luck? Ovs no display due to work but I attach photos when I dm and always polite

Rule 1 be hot

Rule 2 don’t be not hot

It’s a swinging website, physical attraction reigns supreme "

Not true!!! I’m an ugly fucker and had a few meets

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

You could mention that you're willing to bring cake to every meet?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

You don't accommodate, some will feel your playing away so no reply.

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By *ed velvet thornWoman
over a year ago

over the rainbow

"Any advice on how to get replies? Or is it just luck? Ovs no display due to work but I attach photos when I dm and always polite"

Just keep trying most like a full on profile im the opposite i like a short bio so I've got stuff to talk about and get a convo flowing as you can see from my own hahahaha

If only you was closer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahaha. Always the way, always that tad to far

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Expand your bio. Definitely needs more detail.

Always read the ladies profile, be polite, refer to something she's mentioned. Say why you think you might be compatible.

Good luck!

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