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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m so undecided on whether to go to a club for the first time alone or find someone to go with? Which is another challenge in itself!! Help lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If you don't have a friend open to it already, finding someone willing to go with you will be a challenge

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely a challenge just not sure I have the confidence to go alone :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don’t you start with somewhere like Eureka? It’s a bit less pressure?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I’m so undecided on whether to go to a club for the first time alone or find someone to go with? Which is another challenge in itself!! Help lol"

I imagine your friends 'Flirtykent' would arrange to meet you in a club, and help ease you in to that scene? I would never recommend to a mate to visit a club for the first time, as a solo guy

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Ohh if only.. I would of taken you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m so undecided on whether to go to a club for the first time alone or find someone to go with? Which is another challenge in itself!! Help lol"

As your in Kent.. look up Cougarsandcubs on here.

K runs party nights (when allowed) at DV8 in Rainham Kent.

I see someone mentioned Eureka also in Kent but I fear as a newbie and alone it could be harder as it’s a larger club and very easy to get lost.

Once you have tried others then yeah.. but party nights at eureka are also out pricing the single guys.. which I fear in turn will stop the single girls from going.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"I’m so undecided on whether to go to a club for the first time alone or find someone to go with? Which is another challenge in itself!! Help lol"

You have every chance of finding someone to go with or even if you went alone I’m sure you would be very popular.

Don’t take negatives from here.

Try posting in the forums more, making friends, go to socials.

Clubs are daunting at first but once you have been you will feel loads better. It will either be for you or not.

Look at it as a night out with no guarantees. Be polite, sociable with no expectations and I’m sure you will have a great time!

Once the clubs are open, put your name on some of the events and maybe message some people that are going explaining it’s your first time.

MOST people are friendly and understanding.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you and if anyone wants to come with me please message me I’d be happy to go with someone lol

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"Thank you and if anyone wants to come with me please message me I’d be happy to go with someone lol"

I am more than certain you won’t struggle to find someone to go with you...

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Thank you and if anyone wants to come with me please message me I’d be happy to go with someone lol"

I'm sure you won't struggle, I'm in the same boat this part of the country, if o was nearer I'd be your wingwoman lol

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Go on your own, it makes you look more confident, will improve your chances of making connections & you won't be worrying about the other person all night.

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