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"I can think of 2 fairly recent examples that I've watched and thought the sex scenes added to the authenticity of the characters " In what ways? Did we lack authentic characters when sex was implied? | |||
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"The sex scenes make us more intimate with the characters. The violence is for the men, as they don't follow a script. " I just likes the shiny pictures and the cars that go broom broom | |||
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"Probably Nynphomaniac would be one " Is that the line of what is needed, because the sexuality of one is alongside the asexuality of another? | |||
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"I can think of 2 fairly recent examples that I've watched and thought the sex scenes added to the authenticity of the characters In what ways? Did we lack authentic characters when sex was implied? " The type of sex the characters had tied with the plot so it made it more relatable for me | |||
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"The sex scenes make us more intimate with the characters. The violence is for the men, as they don't follow a script. " I can hear men raising their cudgels at this comment. I have read of sex scenes being added to fill the time (and have one friend who experienced this when they were younger and on screen). I have read defence of extremely violent scenes being necessary to understand the character(s). | |||
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"The sex scenes make us more intimate with the characters. The violence is for the men, as they don't follow a script. " As it seems neither have you. Hate watching anything with a bad script (unless it so bad it becomes unintentionally funny). Sooner good script over sex or violence any day. | |||
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"Wow, now that is a big values question. Gratuitous can be interpreted and projected in oh so many ways." It absolutely can. I have enjoyed as many sex scenes as ones I have found 'gratuitous' (read pointless, badly inserted or violent). I am more likely to put up with a gratuitous sex scene but the more I learn, those are more likely to damage individuals. More thought to safety and safeguarding has been given to violence than to sex. Then we have the holy trinity of women experiencing sexual violence, being used as the plot point and disposable to 'understand' the male protagonist. | |||
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"I stopped watching ‘The house that jack Built’ due to one scene with a Mother and her Child. I just got angry as well as upset knowing Lars Von Trier the Director would have probably wanted me to feel that way. If I’d bought it, it would be in the bin after that scene. I know it’s just a film but sometimes a certain scene, like the notorious bit in ‘irreversible’ that I did manage to watch till the end, can just get to you and how you feel about what it’s portraying. " That is the potential of all art forms, I think. The visual impact (for the sighted) is, or can be, especially affecting. | |||
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"Wow, now that is a big values question. Gratuitous can be interpreted and projected in oh so many ways. It absolutely can. I have enjoyed as many sex scenes as ones I have found 'gratuitous' (read pointless, badly inserted or violent). I am more likely to put up with a gratuitous sex scene but the more I learn, those are more likely to damage individuals. More thought to safety and safeguarding has been given to violence than to sex. Then we have the holy trinity of women experiencing sexual violence, being used as the plot point and disposable to 'understand' the male protagonist. " Yet, projection from the past is a trigger for now. Just look at a simpler level by the disclaimer telephone numbers from main stream programs given out. Our values are set by instant social impact. Never did see the photo of your boobs you sent me by the way. Have fun. | |||
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"The sex scenes make us more intimate with the characters. The violence is for the men, as they don't follow a script. I just likes the shiny pictures and the cars that go broom broom " And the stuff that goes kaboom!! | |||
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"The sex scenes make us more intimate with the characters. The violence is for the men, as they don't follow a script. As it seems neither have you. Hate watching anything with a bad script (unless it so bad it becomes unintentionally funny). Sooner good script over sex or violence any day." I followed every word of The Vagabond when I was a kid. | |||
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"Wow, now that is a big values question. Gratuitous can be interpreted and projected in oh so many ways. It absolutely can. I have enjoyed as many sex scenes as ones I have found 'gratuitous' (read pointless, badly inserted or violent). I am more likely to put up with a gratuitous sex scene but the more I learn, those are more likely to damage individuals. More thought to safety and safeguarding has been given to violence than to sex. Then we have the holy trinity of women experiencing sexual violence, being used as the plot point and disposable to 'understand' the male protagonist. Yet, projection from the past is a trigger for now. Just look at a simpler level by the disclaimer telephone numbers from main stream programs given out. Our values are set by instant social impact. Never did see the photo of your boobs you sent me by the way. Have fun." How did you not see the gratuitous flashing of my boobs if I sent you the image? Did I need a better disclaimer and helpline details? | |||
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"Wow, now that is a big values question. Gratuitous can be interpreted and projected in oh so many ways. It absolutely can. I have enjoyed as many sex scenes as ones I have found 'gratuitous' (read pointless, badly inserted or violent). I am more likely to put up with a gratuitous sex scene but the more I learn, those are more likely to damage individuals. More thought to safety and safeguarding has been given to violence than to sex. Then we have the holy trinity of women experiencing sexual violence, being used as the plot point and disposable to 'understand' the male protagonist. Yet, projection from the past is a trigger for now. Just look at a simpler level by the disclaimer telephone numbers from main stream programs given out. Our values are set by instant social impact. Never did see the photo of your boobs you sent me by the way. Have fun. How did you not see the gratuitous flashing of my boobs if I sent you the image? Did I need a better disclaimer and helpline details? " Honestly, pressed the wrong button.... obviously on the phone. So, I cannot claim to see a disclaimer. | |||
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"The sex scenes make us more intimate with the characters. The violence is for the men, as they don't follow a script. As it seems neither have you. Hate watching anything with a bad script (unless it so bad it becomes unintentionally funny). Sooner good script over sex or violence any day." Or maybe, just maybe she was joking. | |||
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"The sex scenes make us more intimate with the characters. The violence is for the men, as they don't follow a script. As it seems neither have you. Hate watching anything with a bad script (unless it so bad it becomes unintentionally funny). Sooner good script over sex or violence any day. Or maybe, just maybe she was joking. " Don't be daft. No one jokes on here. Cudgels at the ready... | |||
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"The sex scenes make us more intimate with the characters. The violence is for the men, as they don't follow a script. As it seems neither have you. Hate watching anything with a bad script (unless it so bad it becomes unintentionally funny). Sooner good script over sex or violence any day. Or maybe, just maybe she was joking. Don't be daft. No one jokes on here. Cudgels at the ready..." For the record...I was deadly serious! Everyone knows men look at boobs, explosions, fights and car chases  | |||
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