FabSwingers.com forum: Be kind!!

By *rivateparts! OP Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I've just nicked this of a social media site, but it does reflect me and how I feel most of the time.

I suffer from massive anxiety and I do get embarrassed. It's not a good place to be in. People don't believe me when I tell them because I am always happy and laughing around them and try to make others laugh. At times I do struggle. I can be hard to live with or to be around when I get this way and I know it. I try my best to control it and most of the time I succeed. I manage to get on top of it and control things but at times I break. So if you see me and I am quiet or don't speak, I'm not upset with you nor have you upset me, I also do not mean to be rude, I may just need a minute to myself or a hug.

So please if you are my friend just bear with me

It's ok to not be ok, tell someone you're not ok. It's ok.

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over a year ago

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I know where you are coming from, so far this year, I have had a cancer scare, various other medical issues, my relationship of 4 years broke down, my job has gone because of lockdown.

My anxiety and depression have been through the roof, the week before was the anniversary of me finding out I was going to be a dad, and then my partner losing our baby.

I am finding hard to cope with all the shit this year has given me so far, but I am trying hard to get passed it, it is a struggle every day, but I am getting there. Remember, you are not alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs PP

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peace n love Op, look at the guided meditation for anxiety, or read up on cbt coping stragies to manage anxiety

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It's me to a tee.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it only friends that can hug you. I've noticed for the last few days that you've been 'out of sorts'. Take all the time you need,be kind to yourself. A lot of people here care about you. You're a great bloke with a lovely smile and an amazing body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's me to a tee."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you for opening up, understanding behaviours is half the battle and we can only work on what we're given, self preservation in key and you must look after yourself and remember to be kind to yourself too

I was in a dark place earlier today and gave someone I care about a hard time, he gave no judgements, just listened to me...People who care will take you warts and all

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

A very good post xxx

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

You never do know what battles others a fighting, do you?

Keep on keeping on, folks.

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Posts like this are why we need a

or a

button.

Be kind to yourself OP

Those that matter don't mind and will be there whatever the 'weather'.

Those that do mind don't matter.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Posts like this are why we need a

or a

button.

Be kind to yourself OP

Those that matter don't mind and will be there whatever the 'weather'.

Those that do mind don't matter.

Darn right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending hugs PP xxx

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Be Kind.. and if you cannot be kind then at least be funny with it...

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By *ectorRivaMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

This is not a good site for sensitive people, feelings run high and low, I generally fade out when low and return when I feel stronger !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been much the same pp. sending love and hugs x

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

A big hug for you PP

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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Hugs for anyone that needs them

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Life can be challenging. Hug to you OP and to anyone who needs one

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Since the world slowed down mine has actually been better.

I'm dreading everything going back to normal.

First lockdown I'd never been so at peace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it only friends that can hug you. I've noticed for the last few days that you've been 'out of sorts'. Take all the time you need,be kind to yourself. A lot of people here care about you. You're a great bloke with a lovely smile and an amazing body."

That's lovely.

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