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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just a question or two about this question 1 could anyone tell me if there is an actual dating app that works ? question 2 do ladies actually pay to join these site of do they get free membership

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's quite a few but most I think go for the free memberships .

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By *TJxComboMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Dating sites exist to make money off desperate men, go outside and meet people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the ones ive come across are all fake and you have to pay to join them or shall i say reply to there fake messages you receive

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

We met through the dreaded tinder so I guess they do work sometimes.

Mr H.

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By *lassyandkinkyCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Dating sites exist to make money off desperate men, go outside and meet people "

How will that work with current climate?

Where exactly should OP go to meet people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you're after, have tried them all, used to be on BigOne

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By *lassyandkinkyCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"the ones ive come across are all fake and you have to pay to join them or shall i say reply to there fake messages you receive"

I agree. I joined two well known ones in 2019 and had a 14 day get out and after 10 days realised I was being messaged by fakes to keep me on site so I cancelled with full refunds before the 14 days were up. I don’t know the answer OP but good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its pretty hard to find a genuine site nowadays lots of fake/scam sites on the net. some are are easier to spot than others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

same as whats in my profile admittedly introducing a lady into swinging isnt easy lol

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I came on here after having no luck with regular dating sites. It's much easier and so far no catfish or scammers which is refreshing.

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By *rooperRedMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Actually found a couple of Fab members on "regular" chat sites. One actually matched. We said hello. I said I recognised her from fab. She thought it was funny. Then unmatched me.

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By *lassyandkinkyCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Actually found a couple of Fab members on "regular" chat sites. One actually matched. We said hello. I said I recognised her from fab. She thought it was funny. Then unmatched me.

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I had a creepy guy from a dating website asked was I on Fab, no idea how he assumed that, think he asked all women it but I blocked him on there.

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By *rooperRedMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton


"Actually found a couple of Fab members on "regular" chat sites. One actually matched. We said hello. I said I recognised her from fab. She thought it was funny. Then unmatched me.

I had a creepy guy from a dating website asked was I on Fab, no idea how he assumed that, think he asked all women it but I blocked him on there. "

Just to make it clear, that wasn't me... And hopefully I'm not creepy either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a tinder profile although it's currently hidden. I've never paid to use the site though. Got chatting to a few guys on there who are also on here.

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I paid for and used a couple of dating apps, and then I had an epiphany. Dating apps are like cold calling, except the useless thing I'm trying to sell is me. Haven't used one since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's funny how many 20 odd year olds fancy me and want to chat to me on it (providing I buy a sibscription or credits). On here they just tell me to go away (but less politely)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met the hubby vis love@lycos and had a big of success using blendr and pure both free

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

I think there are a couple good sites that were set up and run by women and designed for women. All the rest are scams that charge you sums of money to chat to created profiles “for entertainment purposes” in their Ts&Cs small print.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I'd say women swipe right on 5% of men on tinder. Better off going out to clubs and gigs once lockdown ends o/p Good luck!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Dating apps some are free to communicate and positively can work depending upon what one is looking for I've made ex amount of friends just because the distance was impossible or a struggle to see each other as much to develop into a relationship but I never say never because if click so well it's worth it

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By *rooperRedMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Apparently I'm a stalker for recognising someone now...

Teach me to open my big mouth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on paid for subscriptions of pof and Badoo (not at the same) and realised I was wasting my money and time... as I’m pretty sure they are both just Fab in disguise! Lol

So I’ve succumbed to staying single and being on here nowadays and I’m saving myself money in the process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on Bumble, it's more female focussed than most apps. Who knew...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

which sites were these mate?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you for the suggestions

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I know people that have had success, with Tinder, POF, Bumble, Hinge and Badoo, so they can work.

But like with anything, you only get out of them what you put in.

You can't expect to just join and expect people to start falling at your feet.

A well written profile and good photos would be a great start though... I 'really' need to improve on that stuff myself as mine is crap

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

tried pof but found that full of fake profiles and scammers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the good advice mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dating sites exist to make money off desperate men, go outside and meet people "

Said the man on a app for swinging n hooking up

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Unless your top 10% attractiveness as a guy most of the swipe ones are a little pointless. Not that they can’t work, but it’s very biased towards tall good looking guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just a question or two about this question 1 could anyone tell me if there is an actual dating app that works ? question 2 do ladies actually pay to join these site of do they get free membership "

I think the issue with dating sites is similar to this, women get bombarded with messages and can’t reply to everyone, a lot of guys will message everyone they can to try and get a reply then there are the few who only message one or two people.

If you fall into the last category your still at a disadvantage no matter how genuine you may be because you message might simply get lost within a flood of others

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By *lassyandkinkyCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Dating sites exist to make money off desperate men, go outside and meet people

Said the man on a app for swinging n hooking up "

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