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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

at compromising?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Depends, im really easy going (I know some might not think it)However if there is something definetly dont want to do there is no way id do it. I live on my own so i dont have to make any comprimises on decor or whats for dinner

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"at compromising?"
i cant work out a compromise for when i meet you and jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it is..;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I think im at a stage where I don't want to compromise all the time with certain things and I want to be totally selfish for a change

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Depends, im really easy going (I know some might not think it)However if there is something definetly dont want to do there is no way id do it. I live on my own so i dont have to make any comprimises on decor or whats for dinner"
So what you are saying is little things are easy to compromise over for you?

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Depends what on?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"at compromising? i cant work out a compromise for when i meet you and jo "
Didnt Jo tell you we dont compromise - we take a man firmly by the....err hand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on either side of the fence

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Depends who it is..;-)"
Do you give them a compromise rating?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I think im at a stage where I don't want to compromise all the time with certain things and I want to be totally selfish for a change "

Totally understand that and I feel the same about some major decisions I need to make

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Depends what on?"
So small compromises are easier?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I'm on either side of the fence"
I worry about you xx

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Depends what on?So small compromises are easier?"

Definately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on either side of the fenceI worry about you xx"

its a small fence u can still bend over and be spitroasted......

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"at compromising? i cant work out a compromise for when i meet you and jo Didnt Jo tell you we dont compromise - we take a man firmly by the....err hand? "
i hope so i have two hands but only one errr !!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Depends, im really easy going (I know some might not think it)However if there is something definetly dont want to do there is no way id do it. I live on my own so i dont have to make any comprimises on decor or whats for dinnerSo what you are saying is little things are easy to compromise over for you? "

Like when jay is here, he will chose whats for dinner or if we are going on a trip. But the thing is, its not really a comprimize because we think alike.

But over something like decorating i could never comprimize

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm good. It's about being reasonable and I think I'm a reasonable person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can compromise with people if they ever get the chance!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I'm on either side of the fenceI worry about you xx

its a small fence u can still bend over and be spitroasted......"
By yourself and your alter ego?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I'm good. It's about being reasonable and I think I'm a reasonable person.

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Sounds very balanced

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I can compromise with people if they ever get the chance! "

Are you saying we dont give you chance on here? Aw... sorry if that was the case. Not my intention xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm good. It's about being reasonable and I think I'm a reasonable person.

Sounds very balanced"

I try to be. So "depends" makes me giggle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"at compromising?"

Classify what scale you judge good to bad with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can compromise with people if they ever get the chance!

Are you saying we dont give you chance on here? Aw... sorry if that was the case. Not my intention xx"

Naa not at all. Just my way of admitting that I am kind of assertive and maybe sometimes peeps just step back rather than attempt a compromise.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"at compromising?

Classify what scale you judge good to bad with."

Some people find it easy to accept somebody else's wishes and go with the flow. Personally I would differentiate between really big decisions eg where I want to live, work and have my roots - less important to me would be the type of holidays we have. I can compromise on most things though especially if I can see a reason behind the other person's thoughts.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I can compromise with people if they ever get the chance!

Are you saying we dont give you chance on here? Aw... sorry if that was the case. Not my intention xx

Naa not at all. Just my way of admitting that I am kind of assertive and maybe sometimes peeps just step back rather than attempt a compromise. "

LMAO - how could I have got you soooooo wrong

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Anybody remember this....my mam still sez it to me to this day, and I'm **coughs** 39

There was a little girl,

who had a little curl,

right in the middle of her forehead

and when she was good, she was very, very good,

but when she was bad she was horrid.....

I never knew for years it was by Longfellow (paraphrased by my mam)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"at compromising?

Classify what scale you judge good to bad with.

Some people find it easy to accept somebody else's wishes and go with the flow. Personally I would differentiate between really big decisions eg where I want to live, work and have my roots - less important to me would be the type of holidays we have. I can compromise on most things though especially if I can see a reason behind the other person's thoughts."

so how does good or bad come into it if the goalposts change. Its as unmeasurable as how happy someone is or how honest someone is as there is no fixed measuring point.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Anybody remember this....my mam still sez it to me to this day, and I'm **coughs** 39

There was a little girl,

who had a little curl,

right in the middle of her forehead

and when she was good, she was very, very good,

but when she was bad she was horrid.....

I never knew for years it was by Longfellow (paraphrased by my mam)"
You dont look a day over 39

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"at compromising?

Classify what scale you judge good to bad with.

Some people find it easy to accept somebody else's wishes and go with the flow. Personally I would differentiate between really big decisions eg where I want to live, work and have my roots - less important to me would be the type of holidays we have. I can compromise on most things though especially if I can see a reason behind the other person's thoughts.

so how does good or bad come into it if the goalposts change. Its as unmeasurable as how happy someone is or how honest someone is as there is no fixed measuring point. "

Ok, I see where you are coming from, tbh it was not meant as a scientific question expecting answers in scientic notation to 3 - it was a general invitation to forumites to think about and voice if they so choose about how they see themselves in terms of being able to compromise. Hope that helps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends who it is..;-)Do you give them a compromise rating?"

Yes...

Some people I would do (almost) anything for...

Some I wouldnt budge an inch...;-)

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