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By *andD TogetherWeCan OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

What do you guys think is better for first meet...social pub meet, going to a club, using an escort etc

Hubby would rather go with the escort but I would prefer the club scene we've never had a meet before or been to a Club so don't know what to expect or how we are going to feel etc hubby thinks with the escort idea if we end up not feeling like we could go thru with it then we stop there and then we pay her and she leaves whereas with a meet we may feel obligated to go thru with things we might not feel comfortable with and wasting other people's times and experiences x

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By *ereforgigglesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Not that I'm any great expert but I'd imagine as long as CLEAR boundaries are set beforehand ie. "this might just end up being a social meet and a laugh with NO contact" then you should be fine (unless they're an absolute dick)

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Maybe hold off on the club meet.

Plan your first club visit as a social event and see how you feel once you have found your feet. Less pressure that way.

Actually escort is not a bad idea but does mean you dont get the build up of messages beforehand. That's one if the parts I love almost as much as the meet.

If unsure you can always plan a social or a soft swing meet with the option to er upgrade?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Always just have a social first, see if there's that connection, mutual attraction.

Then arrange a meet after that.

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By *andD TogetherWeCan OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Not that I'm any great expert but I'd imagine as long as CLEAR boundaries are set beforehand ie. "this might just end up being a social meet and a laugh with NO contact" then you should be fine (unless they're an absolute dick)"

We haven't had much luck on here due to time wasters and then covid with an escort you know exactly where you stand and can arrange anytime x

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By *andD TogetherWeCan OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Maybe hold off on the club meet.

Plan your first club visit as a social event and see how you feel once you have found your feet. Less pressure that way.

Actually escort is not a bad idea but does mean you dont get the build up of messages beforehand. That's one if the parts I love almost as much as the meet.

If unsure you can always plan a social or a soft swing meet with the option to er upgrade?"

I think hubby prefers escort because she will come and do what we are paying her for instead of all the pressure of chatting and arranging meets for them to be total time wasters and not turn up etc like we've had happen a couple of times on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe hold off on the club meet.

Plan your first club visit as a social event and see how you feel once you have found your feet. Less pressure that way.

Actually escort is not a bad idea but does mean you dont get the build up of messages beforehand. That's one if the parts I love almost as much as the meet.

If unsure you can always plan a social or a soft swing meet with the option to er upgrade?

I think hubby prefers escort because she will come and do what we are paying her for instead of all the pressure of chatting and arranging meets for them to be total time wasters and not turn up etc like we've had happen a couple of times on here x"

What do *you* want?

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By *andD TogetherWeCan OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Maybe hold off on the club meet.

Plan your first club visit as a social event and see how you feel once you have found your feet. Less pressure that way.

Actually escort is not a bad idea but does mean you dont get the build up of messages beforehand. That's one if the parts I love almost as much as the meet.

If unsure you can always plan a social or a soft swing meet with the option to er upgrade?

I think hubby prefers escort because she will come and do what we are paying her for instead of all the pressure of chatting and arranging meets for them to be total time wasters and not turn up etc like we've had happen a couple of times on here x

What do *you* want? "

I'm happy to go along with the escort plan but it's paying stupid amount of money that puts me off. I like the idea of visiting a club and maybe meeting someone from there since we've had no luck on here due to time wasters x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe hold off on the club meet.

Plan your first club visit as a social event and see how you feel once you have found your feet. Less pressure that way.

Actually escort is not a bad idea but does mean you dont get the build up of messages beforehand. That's one if the parts I love almost as much as the meet.

If unsure you can always plan a social or a soft swing meet with the option to er upgrade?

I think hubby prefers escort because she will come and do what we are paying her for instead of all the pressure of chatting and arranging meets for them to be total time wasters and not turn up etc like we've had happen a couple of times on here x

What do *you* want?

I'm happy to go along with the escort plan but it's paying stupid amount of money that puts me off. I like the idea of visiting a club and maybe meeting someone from there since we've had no luck on here due to time wasters x"

Try a club when they open again. Good luck x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Meets end the moment its not right, whatever the expectations were. In a club, you can have a social, progress to play and then cool off and split from them, if it doesn't work.

1st club trip imo is better planned as an exploration and social with others

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