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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having a discussion with someone about who sleeps on which side of the bed. I wondered if there was one side favoured by a particular gender?

Standing at the foot of the bed, I favour the right hand side. On which side do you sleep?

Is the side you sleep on related to a feature of the room, like a door or window, or maybe to get out quickly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

standing at the bottom, i sleep on the right hand side. always have done Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually the side closest to the door, could be a protective element

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Right hand side and its not open for discussion

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I favour the side closest to the bedroom door.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Facing the bed, I sleep on the right side

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

~~

Always the right side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facing the bed I’m left and sleep alone plus stay on my side too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually face down star fished around where the dog and cat have chosen ... don't have an actual side but the light/bedside cabinet are on the left when standing at the bottom of the bed so perhaps err to that?

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Closest to the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always the left or the middle.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Left for me x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Usually the left

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Left and closest to the door..

I'm the one who knows where the crowbar is in the event of a zombie apocalypse...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Usually face down star fished around where the dog and cat have chosen ... don't have an actual side but the light/bedside cabinet are on the left when standing at the bottom of the bed so perhaps err to that? "

This here is exactly why my cat is banned from the bedroom!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The right side because Im a side sleeper and sleep on my right hand side.

But I'll sleep whichever side you like OP

Just know that 90% of the duvet is mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If responding from a couple's profile, I'd be curious to know which of you is replying (unless you both sleep on one half of the bed )

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Standing at foot of bed I sleep on right near window. Always have. Plus T gets up earlier then me so needs to be nearer door to not wake me up

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Standing at the foot of the bed, I sleep on the left -closest to the door.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The right side because Im a side sleeper and sleep on my right hand side.

But I'll sleep whichever side you like OP

Just know that 90% of the duvet is mine. "

That's just a ploy to perv us non-pyjama wearers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always nearest the door. A Gentleman, protective and 'dispensable' K has many more years after I have fallen to the zombie attack...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose the side furthest from the door. That way if a homicidal axe wielding maniac comes through. I stand a chance of getting away

J

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By *rooperRedMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Don't know, I sleep diagonally..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently a rightie

It has changed house by house and I can't find the logic. Nothing to do with doors or windows, just a general 'feels like my side'

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Facing the bed from the foot of the bed I’m on the left. I think of it as the right side though!

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Currently wherever I end up, noone else in it, I do have a thing where I generally have to face the edge of the bed

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Middle.

If I share, if there's only one, the one with the bedside table to put my glasses on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is interesting. We wondered if there one a side preferred by certain genders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'll sleep on the floor if she starts moving about to much

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

If I'm sharing then standing at the bottom I'm on the left, when I roll into the centre my right hand is free to wander...

If I'm on my own closest to the door.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel

Always the right hand side for me. It just doesn't feel right sleeping at the other side. Mr can sleep anywhere.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left side - now I sleep alone I'm not sure why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Cornershop sang ‘Sleep on the left side keep the right side free’

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

From the foot of the bed I sleep on the right..... but sometimes in the middle, or star shape or across both sides there’s usually only me in it

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

All over the bed. Don’t have a particular side

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I always sleep on the right hand side looking down from the headboard.

The problem i get is that my headboard faces North,when I stay in another bed I find it hard to sleep if the headboard is not facing North...it's weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearest the bathroom lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nearest the bathroom lol"

oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sleep on the left, though prefer to sleep nearer the door as I tend to get up if I can't sleep.

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

It isn't something I often have to worry about, but if I have the choice I prefer to be on the left, as you look from the foot of the bed, with the woman to my left. I'm right handed, so that means I can roll to my left and put my right arm around her.

If in a hotel then whichever side I can reach a/the bedside table easiest to put my glasses on it.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

It doesn't bother me but Mr says he has to sleep on the left side. However this doesn't seem to bother him anywhere else apart from at home and seems to be something he favoured since we had kids. My theory is his preferred side is whichever is away from the door so that I'm the one who gets woken up by the kids in the middle of the night or first thing in the morning.

Mrs x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

The outside edge if the bed is against the wall as I get claustrophobic between the wall and a person.

On the left of the bed as you're laying in it if I'm alone.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

When I was married my husband preferred the downstairs right room, I preferred the upstairs left room.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Looking from the foot of the bed, I'm on the right (fem), he's on the left.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my own I'm on the left (from bottom of bed) and my dog is on the right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm on my own, all over the bed, if I'm at Andys I'm on the left unless he gets pissed off with my snoring and kicks me out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Left side - now I sleep alone I'm not sure why "

Why do we have sides when we have the bed to ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a greedy starfish, which does cause a problem when I'm sharing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The right side because Im a side sleeper and sleep on my right hand side.

But I'll sleep whichever side you like OP

Just know that 90% of the duvet is mine.

That's just a ploy to perv us non-pyjama wearers "

Fuck it, was it that obvious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left hand side or whichever is furthest away from the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spread eagle in the middle the joys off being single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to sleep the side nearest the door, not sure why, guess it’s like walking traffic side of pavement when walking with a lady or my daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sleep on the left and alone, usually face down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left but right but left mostly left as I have the bed to myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The right side because Im a side sleeper and sleep on my right hand side.

But I'll sleep whichever side you like OP

Just know that 90% of the duvet is mine.

That's just a ploy to perv us non-pyjama wearers

Fuck it, was it that obvious. "

I would not sleep if I were in your bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I would get bunk beds because I think petite woman would like to be on top of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually the side closest to the door, could be a protective element "

Just about to say the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The right side because Im a side sleeper and sleep on my right hand side.

But I'll sleep whichever side you like OP

Just know that 90% of the duvet is mine.

That's just a ploy to perv us non-pyjama wearers

Fuck it, was it that obvious. "

Saw straight through it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I would get bunk beds because I think petite woman would like to be on top of you "

That won't work, I'll either climb up, trap him with my womanly ways and get on top of him that way or I'll just scare him into submission from the top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the middle of bed hogging duvet

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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I tend to sleep diagonally across the bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I sleep and wriggle around on all of it. The whole king sized bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP I would get bunk beds because I think petite woman would like to be on top of you

That won't work, I'll either climb up, trap him with my womanly ways and get on top of him that way or I'll just scare him into submission from the top. "

Now I'm debating whether or not to hit the checkout button on Ikea's website!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I would get bunk beds because I think petite woman would like to be on top of you

That won't work, I'll either climb up, trap him with my womanly ways and get on top of him that way or I'll just scare him into submission from the top.

Now I'm debating whether or not to hit the checkout button on Ikea's website! "

You two need to get a room....... a bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left for me x

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Facing the bed, I sleep on the left, because I'm right-handed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Middle for me these days

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Doesn’t really matter, I always gravitate to the middle and they perch on the edge, clinging on for dear life

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

Even though i sleep on my own, im always sleeping closer to the door. I think it's just a protective thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left for me male of the two. But maybe it as to do with being left handed??

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Facing the bed I read on the right hand side then switch lamp off and sleep on the left on my front.

Have woke recently lying diagonally on my back and totally relaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I would get bunk beds because I think petite woman would like to be on top of you

That won't work, I'll either climb up, trap him with my womanly ways and get on top of him that way or I'll just scare him into submission from the top.

Now I'm debating whether or not to hit the checkout button on Ikea's website!

You two need to get a room....... a bedroom "

I think a sleepover at IKEA might cover that. And so many more options.

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