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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I think , and this is only my opinion, a lot of single men, joined because they thought it was a good place to bed a different woman every night, week, month or what ever. The reality is that, and this is not a moan in any way shape or form, we do outnumber the single ladies, it's a fact, this means the women can be selective, which the men seem to forget.

Second point, you have to remember

you are actually speaking to a person, not an object, address them as such, you wouldn't walk up to someone on the street and ask if the want to fuck now, why do it here.

Accept that you are not gods gift to women, be respectful, not every woman wants to rip your clothes off and jump your bone. I have had my fare share of delete or unreplied messages, that sadly is the way of life, you get knocked back in life, so why would it be any different here.

As in life, I have made friends with people, some I may never actually meet, some I may, its about building a connection, whether it is just pure friendship or a more intimate experience.

Treat this site like any social experience, have a laugh, join in with the banter, but first and foremost, dont expect to get sex, it isnt a given right, if it happens it is a very big bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for educating me oh wise one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanks churchy.

take ya preaching elsewhere, your in no position to tell others what to do or how to behave. thats up to the individual and if they want to act like a moose's ass then they sure aint gonna listen to you.

too many men on here think they can pass on advice to other men on how to do things or about behaviour.

mind your own god damn business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well at least I now know where I've been going wrong, and all this time I been thinking it just how I look

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"thanks churchy.

take ya preaching elsewhere, your in no position to tell others what to do or how to behave. thats up to the individual and if they want to act like a moose's ass then they sure aint gonna listen to you.

too many men on here think they can pass on advice to other men on how to do things or about behaviour.

mind your own god damn business.

"
as it says, MY OPINION, or didn't you actually read that bit, ffs

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I truly believe even if there was more women on here than men I'd be just as selective. I'd rather not have sex a tall than have it with someone I'm not that keen on for the sake of it.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


" I'd rather not have sex a tall than have it with someone I'm not that keen on for the sake of it."

Exactly this. It's good to be selective and wait for the right one to come along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks churchy.

take ya preaching elsewhere, your in no position to tell others what to do or how to behave. thats up to the individual and if they want to act like a moose's ass then they sure aint gonna listen to you.

too many men on here think they can pass on advice to other men on how to do things or about behaviour.

mind your own god damn business.

as it says, MY OPINION, or didn't you actually read that bit, ffs"

Wow. Just wow. Is there any need for that kind of hostility? All you needed say *if anything-* was you don’t agree. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Without being so aggressive

J

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I truly believe even if there was more women on here than men I'd be just as selective. I'd rather not have sex a tall than have it with someone I'm not that keen on for the sake of it."

Same here. A few years ago I stopped meeting for a year until I found the right people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh, that esculated

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Guys need to realise that in real life 20% of guys get about 80% of the women.

On here it’s closer to 5% / 95%

Don’t get worked up, if you aren’t in the top 5% on here just accept it and try tinder/the pub or put some effort in to try get to that top 5%

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By *lwenWoman
over a year ago

De12 area


"I think , and this is only my opinion, a lot of single men, joined because they thought it was a good place to bed a different woman every night, week, month or what ever. The reality is that, and this is not a moan in any way shape or form, we do outnumber the single ladies, it's a fact, this means the women can be selective, which the men seem to forget.

Second point, you have to remember

you are actually speaking to a person, not an object, address them as such, you wouldn't walk up to someone on the street and ask if the want to fuck now, why do it here.

Accept that you are not gods gift to women, be respectful, not every woman wants to rip your clothes off and jump your bone. I have had my fare share of delete or unreplied messages, that sadly is the way of life, you get knocked back in life, so why would it be any different here.

As in life, I have made friends with people, some I may never actually meet, some I may, its about building a connection, whether it is just pure friendship or a more intimate experience.

Treat this site like any social experience, have a laugh, join in with the banter, but first and foremost, dont expect to get sex, it isnt a given right, if it happens it is a very big bonus"

You couldnt have said it any better.. If it happens it's a bonus..

And like you said many men join thinking it's Insta shag and are very disappointed..

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Guys need to realise that in real life 20% of guys get about 80% of the women.

On here it’s closer to 5% / 95%

Don’t get worked up, if you aren’t in the top 5% on here just accept it and try tinder/the pub or put some effort in to try get to that top 5%"
I am actually quite happy where I am to be honest, and as I said, it is my opinion, and definitely not a moan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a hard days work out here lads but together we will over come this and get laid lol

Maybe fingers crossed one day lol after covid is gone sometime this year or next who knows but we will get there in the end I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think , and this is only my opinion, a lot of single men, joined because they thought it was a good place to bed a different woman every night, week, month or what ever. The reality is that, and this is not a moan in any way shape or form, we do outnumber the single ladies, it's a fact, this means the women can be selective, which the men seem to forget.

Second point, you have to remember

you are actually speaking to a person, not an object, address them as such, you wouldn't walk up to someone on the street and ask if the want to fuck now, why do it here.

Accept that you are not gods gift to women, be respectful, not every woman wants to rip your clothes off and jump your bone. I have had my fare share of delete or unreplied messages, that sadly is the way of life, you get knocked back in life, so why would it be any different here.

As in life, I have made friends with people, some I may never actually meet, some I may, its about building a connection, whether it is just pure friendship or a more intimate experience.

Treat this site like any social experience, have a laugh, join in with the banter, but first and foremost, dont expect to get sex, it isnt a given right, if it happens it is a very big bonus"

OK thank you. I will stop addressing them as light bulbs from now on.

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