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By *rivateparts! OP   Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I let my guard down and let my feelings in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you idiot

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Your human xx

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

You need a day out. Choose the castle and the confectionery factory. I’ll get the picnic blanket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same xx

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"You need a day out. Choose the castle and the confectionery factory. I’ll get the picnic blanket. "

She’s here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am that lovely that's why x

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

We are all human PP

Jxx

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"You need a day out. Choose the castle and the confectionery factory. I’ll get the picnic blanket.

She’s here! "

3 is my favourite number. Come along Babs. I’ll bring an extra plate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"You need a day out. Choose the castle and the confectionery factory. I’ll get the picnic blanket.

She’s here!

3 is my favourite number. Come along Babs. I’ll bring an extra plate. "

Wonderful. You will take extra food as well won’t you? PP makes excellent cake I hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exhilarating and scary

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Exhilarating and scary"

Elaborate please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a person we can’t help feelings and emotions... be strong xx

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Don’t be so hard on yourself, this shit happens. Not to me though I don’t have feelings

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It happens pp, doesn't maw you a fool. Hope you're ok x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Sorry if you are hurting but this too shall pass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I let my guard down and let my feelings in."

You’re not a fool. These things happen x

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

We all do it at some point, there will always be some sneaky bugger who will dig a tunnel under that wall when you least expect it

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

It happens sometimes but hey. It’s what makes us human. Stay strong. Stay you. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Letting our guard down and experiencing our feelings makes us feel alive! All good ...

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"I let my guard down and let my feelings in."

You’re not a fool at all so don’t think that way!

Make a cake, get to the coast and we can get windswept again

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Happens to most at some point. What's important now is how you deal with it.

I'd reccomend starting with self care. And I dont necessarily mean wanking. Although now I mention it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit happens deal with it move on !

Says the man who’s hearts on his sleeve !

In all seriousness have good bank holiday weekend pp and enjoy a few beers or in my case cider

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Nothing wrong with that PP.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'm the same kind of fool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’re all fools… all the time. It’s just we’re a different kind each day. We think, I’m not a fool today. I’ve learned my lesson. I was a fool yesterday but not this morning. Then tomorrow we find out that, yes, we were a fool today too. I think the only way we can grow and get on in this world is to accept the fact we’re not perfect and live accordingly"

-Ray Bradbury, The Illustrated Man

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Been there done that PP. hugs my love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are the feels reciprocated?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Yep we've all done it , me included.

It does get better honestly

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By *lenn FairlightMan
over a year ago

East Kent

Easily done. It can bite you on the bum, but the heightened emotions that letting your guard down brings are what life's all about, I reckon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I let my guard down and let my feelings in."

First rule of swinging, shut off all emotional feelings

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I think our feelings and the depth of them are our strength. At times they can hurt, really hurt but we have such a capacity to care, to love, to feel, to experience the good and exciting in the world. That's what keeps us going, the hope that there might be more things that inspire such feelings in us.

I imagine you're hurting a bit right now pp, I hope it passes for you soon and you don't lose hope. Sending you hugs, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong or foolish about that.

It’s human nature. Sometimes it works out sometimes is doesn’t. But that’s life.

It would be a sad world if we all ventured through life without emotions..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of us have been there!!

If it's that bad, take a break, honestly, 2-3 weeks away and you feel much better..the only issue is that thise feelings come back quickly when you return..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your no fool for showing you have feelings.

human beings are emotional and you are no different.

stand up, shoulders back, move forward

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

It happens to is all, been there done that and got many a t-shirt to mop the tears up with

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

Schoolboy error!!!

Although I’ve also done it once on here

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Tis better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tis better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all like me "

You can love me chollout x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens PP and sometimes as I found out its worth the risk. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep done that too

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Tis better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all like me

You can love me chollout x"

Chollout?

I love your style bud!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I prefer to look at it like I'm fortunate to have been in a position to experience those feelings, no matter how briefly...there are many people in this world sat longing to meet someone that stirs that kind of emotion in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exhilarating and scary

Elaborate please x"

That connection.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Would you like a hug, PP?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Tis a fucking curse!

An uncontrollable curse that leaves ya with self loathing for being human.... or maybe that's just me.

I feel ya PP

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"I let my guard down and let my feelings in."

Hello PP. you’re not a fool,you come across as a tidy guy on here so hope you’re ok

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It happens, we’re not robots, sometimes we meet people that literally rock our worlds, it’s not foolish it’s being human

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I let my guard down and let my feelings in."

Was it a nice feeling or it hurts ?

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By *lenn FairlightMan
over a year ago

East Kent


"I prefer to look at it like I'm fortunate to have been in a position to experience those feelings, no matter how briefly...there are many people in this world sat longing to meet someone that stirs that kind of emotion in them. "

Exactly this

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It happens and hurts like hell if not reciprocated. Keep your chin up xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I let my guard down and let my feelings in."

Been there, got the t-shirt. The trick is to let it go if it's not reciprocated.

Hope you're OK PP xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I let my guard down and let my feelings in."

Can you stop feelings coming in, nothing to be ashamed off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shows we only human PP and sadly we all done this we learn or try hope you ok xx

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

It happens to the best of us. Sending hugs. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feels are natural, it makes us human

Key is to understand why you had those feels... our senses are very powerful. You may have subconsciously linked the experience you had with what was happening in your surroundings ie, a smell or a song playing -the brain links this back to a previous experience - if it's a sexual one, then it's going to feel a little overwhelming.

Embrace the feels - box them - shelf them and move on

Unless of course they are reciprocated and you want more of them

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