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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When it comes to oral do u prefer to give or receive?

I’m a giver 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When it comes to oral do u prefer to give or receive?

I’m a giver 100% "

I’ve got to agree with you I very much love giving it compared to receiving from a lady.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give & love to receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 50/50 most of the time

75/25 either direction

Oral is fantastic I love giving but it's very difficult for any woman to fit a massive thick cock in her mouth

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Looooove giving oral to a woman. Not gonna turn down receiving though

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"When it comes to oral do u prefer to give or receive?

I’m a giver 100% "

Giver all day long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham

Defo giver!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50"

Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I prefer to give until the female loses control and grabs my cock and becomes a battle whose going to make the person cum first

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50"

What does feel good for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give oral to both make and female, not so bothered about receiving oral.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?"

Notsoposh. It turns me on more if I’m giving the pleasure I love it when a woman cums on my tongue.

I just love everything about it. Apart from the aching tongue

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By *ildrockMan
over a year ago

london

As much as I love recieiving.... I’m a BIG GIVER! I get so turned on and horny just by giving oral to a lady it’s insane. When you get craving to eat a vagina, yeah that’s me haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love to give oral to both make and female, not so bothered about receiving oral. "

Scarlettm what is it u don’t like about receiving?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50

Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it "

And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Notsoposh. It turns me on more if I’m giving the pleasure I love it when a woman cums on my tongue.

I just love everything about it. Apart from the aching tongue "

What if ahe doesn't?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50

Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it

And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that."

Notsoposh

That’s where communication comes in. I always ask if there is anything the woman wants me to focus on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love to give oral to both make and female, not so bothered about receiving oral.

Scarlettm what is it u don’t like about receiving? "

It doesn’t arouse me, I don’t know why, I tend to prefer a vibrator to a tongue...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly get a lot more pleasure and satisfaction from giving than receiving!

Cliched perhaps... but being selfless is also selfish

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50

Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it

And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.

Notsoposh

That’s where communication comes in. I always ask if there is anything the woman wants me to focus on "

See, that wouldn't work for me, because I just don't know. I couldn't say what you should focus on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love to give oral to both make and female, not so bothered about receiving oral.

Scarlettm what is it u don’t like about receiving?

It doesn’t arouse me, I don’t know why, I tend to prefer a vibrator to a tongue... "

Scarlettm. Would u let the other person use the vibrator on u ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are we missing the obvious solution.

69 and give and receive at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love to give oral to both make and female, not so bothered about receiving oral.

Scarlettm what is it u don’t like about receiving?

It doesn’t arouse me, I don’t know why, I tend to prefer a vibrator to a tongue... "

Oh dear, you may be about to be flooded by messages proclaiming they can change your mind about this.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"How are we missing the obvious solution.

69 and give and receive at the same time "

I've only ever enjoyed that once as well....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love to give oral to both make and female, not so bothered about receiving oral.

Scarlettm what is it u don’t like about receiving?

It doesn’t arouse me, I don’t know why, I tend to prefer a vibrator to a tongue...

Oh dear, you may be about to be flooded by messages proclaiming they can change your mind about this. "

LOL, cunnilingus hehe... I don’t mind it being done to me but not a first choice. I prefer playing with sex toys and masturbating before sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are we missing the obvious solution.

69 and give and receive at the same time

I've only ever enjoyed that once as well...."

This is a tricky one. Sometimes, it’s more pleasurable to only give or receive. 69 isn’t always pleasurable. Seldom, in my case.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I love both, can’t decide

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"How are we missing the obvious solution.

69 and give and receive at the same time

I've only ever enjoyed that once as well....

This is a tricky one. Sometimes, it’s more pleasurable to only give or receive. 69 isn’t always pleasurable. Seldom, in my case."

Concentrate on the one thing at a time.... much better. Usually

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How are we missing the obvious solution.

69 and give and receive at the same time

I've only ever enjoyed that once as well...."

I’m not a big fan of 69. It makes the licking part more difficult to get the tongue in the right places. It’s alright if ur giving a rimming lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love to give oral to both make and female, not so bothered about receiving oral.

Scarlettm what is it u don’t like about receiving?

It doesn’t arouse me, I don’t know why, I tend to prefer a vibrator to a tongue...

Oh dear, you may be about to be flooded by messages proclaiming they can change your mind about this.

LOL, cunnilingus hehe... I don’t mind it being done to me but not a first choice. I prefer playing with sex toys and masturbating before sex "

I like toys incorporated into foreplay. Some women aren’t always in the mood to receive and it’s fun to use toys instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving,but love receiving even more,especially if it's a sub girl who likes to gag etc...

But at the end of the day both ways is great.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?"

Does anyone even know why?

Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?

Genuinely curious about this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Notsoposh.

I think if it was me doing it to u And u didn’t know what u wanted if just try several different tactics until I found the one that made ur body react to

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50

Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it

And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that."

Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Notsoposh. It turns me on more if I’m giving the pleasure I love it when a woman cums on my tongue.

I just love everything about it. Apart from the aching tongue

What if ahe doesn't?"

If she’s not enjoying it then I would just stop and use kissing and other pleasurable things like fingers toys etc

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50

Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it

And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.

Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way. "

hi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50

Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it

And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.

Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.

hi"

Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Does anyone even know why?

Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?

Genuinely curious about this."

Its amazing how many messages we get saying how they are great with their tongue or will have me squirting in minutes with their oral skills, I love it from hubby but not others and definitely not off a girl but love giving to both! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Does anyone even know why?

Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?

Genuinely curious about this."

Personally I just like the taste, feel, smell. Sensitive folds of skin against my lips. I do it for me, it's selfish, but if she doesn't like it, as a lot of women don't, then what's the point. No fun at all.

There's a wealth of other pleasures.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50

Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it

And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.

Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.

hi

Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ? "

I didnt say that. Jimboba did.

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Does anyone even know why?

Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?

Genuinely curious about this."

Why I like giving?

If she doesn't like it, there's plenty more to try. Apparently I have very skilled fingers too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50

Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it

And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.

Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.

hi

Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?

I didnt say that. Jimboba did."

Ohh lol sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50

Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it

And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.

Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.

hi

Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?

I didnt say that. Jimboba did."

It’s my first night on forum. Still learning

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Give always give. Couldn't care less if I never recieve again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a 50/50 split

I love giving and I think I do it well but then I also love to receive.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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I can’t decide!

I adore giving, listening to the moans of the person I’m licking or sucking, it’s such a turn on, making them orgasm - perfect.

But I also love to be licked, the orgasm from it is just amazing, simply can’t choose!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Does anyone even know why?

Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?

Genuinely curious about this.

Personally I just like the taste, feel, smell. Sensitive folds of skin against my lips. I do it for me, it's selfish, but if she doesn't like it, as a lot of women don't, then what's the point. No fun at all.

There's a wealth of other pleasures. "

Thank you! A completely honest answer..... it's why I always preferred giving.

Totally selfish of me because I love feeling a cock harden in my mouth.... or get even harder in my mouth. I love the heat, the taste, and most of all the power and feeling of control I have over him while I'm making him moan. Completely submissive in every way except when I'm doing this one thing.

Of course I love the fact that he's enjoying it, and if he didn't then I'd change things up or stop and as you say Cat, a wealth of other pleasures. But I enjoy the feeling of giving head so much I've even orgasmed myself over it.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50

Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it

And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.

Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.

hi

Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?

I didnt say that. Jimboba did.

It’s my first night on forum. Still learning "

No worries. Welcome. You're getting stuck in, which is great.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is a big turn on for me when a woman orgasms on my tongue

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Does anyone even know why?

Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?

Genuinely curious about this.

Why I like giving?

If she doesn't like it, there's plenty more to try. Apparently I have very skilled fingers too"

Yep.... why do you like giving?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50

Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it

And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.

Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.

hi

Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?

I didnt say that. Jimboba did.

It’s my first night on forum. Still learning

No worries. Welcome. You're getting stuck in, which is great."

I’m trying my best lol. Apparently I’m more likely to get some luck on the forums so I bit the bullet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Does anyone even know why?

Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?

Genuinely curious about this.

Personally I just like the taste, feel, smell. Sensitive folds of skin against my lips. I do it for me, it's selfish, but if she doesn't like it, as a lot of women don't, then what's the point. No fun at all.

There's a wealth of other pleasures.

Thank you! A completely honest answer..... it's why I always preferred giving.

Totally selfish of me because I love feeling a cock harden in my mouth.... or get even harder in my mouth. I love the heat, the taste, and most of all the power and feeling of control I have over him while I'm making him moan. Completely submissive in every way except when I'm doing this one thing.

Of course I love the fact that he's enjoying it, and if he didn't then I'd change things up or stop and as you say Cat, a wealth of other pleasures. But I enjoy the feeling of giving head so much I've even orgasmed myself over it."

I find the "control" thing intriguing. You're not the first to say it. I never feel that way, maybe that's being male has sonething to do with it.

When I get a sense that someone is doing it for my pleasure rather than their own I tend to stop enjoying it and change the scene.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50

Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it

And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.

Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.

hi

Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?

I didnt say that. Jimboba did.

It’s my first night on forum. Still learning

No worries. Welcome. You're getting stuck in, which is great.

I’m trying my best lol. Apparently I’m more likely to get some luck on the forums so I bit the bullet lol "

You never know.... just be you and show your personality.

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Does anyone even know why?

Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?

Genuinely curious about this.

Why I like giving?

If she doesn't like it, there's plenty more to try. Apparently I have very skilled fingers too

Yep.... why do you like giving?"

The reaction when she enjoys it, of course, making her squirm and moan on my tongue. I also like the taste, and feel.

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By *lirt and funCouple
over a year ago

ilford

I'll be honest, I'm a greedy young lady. Love having a pair of lips on my clit x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50

Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it

And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.

Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.

hi

Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?

I didnt say that. Jimboba did.

It’s my first night on forum. Still learning

No worries. Welcome. You're getting stuck in, which is great.

I’m trying my best lol. Apparently I’m more likely to get some luck on the forums so I bit the bullet lol

You never know.... just be you and show your personality."

I will babe. Thank u for that advice. I’m a decent enough bloke so fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving feeling her enjoyment

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Does anyone even know why?

Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?

Genuinely curious about this.

Personally I just like the taste, feel, smell. Sensitive folds of skin against my lips. I do it for me, it's selfish, but if she doesn't like it, as a lot of women don't, then what's the point. No fun at all.

There's a wealth of other pleasures.

Thank you! A completely honest answer..... it's why I always preferred giving.

Totally selfish of me because I love feeling a cock harden in my mouth.... or get even harder in my mouth. I love the heat, the taste, and most of all the power and feeling of control I have over him while I'm making him moan. Completely submissive in every way except when I'm doing this one thing.

Of course I love the fact that he's enjoying it, and if he didn't then I'd change things up or stop and as you say Cat, a wealth of other pleasures. But I enjoy the feeling of giving head so much I've even orgasmed myself over it.

I find the "control" thing intriguing. You're not the first to say it. I never feel that way, maybe that's being male has sonething to do with it.

When I get a sense that someone is doing it for my pleasure rather than their own I tend to stop enjoying it and change the scene."

For me I think it is because I don't take control at any other point (usually) so it's the novelty of that as much as literally being in control. Having a penis in your mouth puts the owner of said penis in a very literally vulnerable position.

I'd never do it purely for the other person's pleasure. If you do that it becomes boring and that's not good for either participant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll be honest, I'm a greedy young lady. Love having a pair of lips on my clit x"

Flirt and fun

This is the kind of woman I want to have some fun with. I love to lick the clit and bury my tongue inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Does anyone even know why?

Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?

Genuinely curious about this.

Personally I just like the taste, feel, smell. Sensitive folds of skin against my lips. I do it for me, it's selfish, but if she doesn't like it, as a lot of women don't, then what's the point. No fun at all.

There's a wealth of other pleasures.

Thank you! A completely honest answer..... it's why I always preferred giving.

Totally selfish of me because I love feeling a cock harden in my mouth.... or get even harder in my mouth. I love the heat, the taste, and most of all the power and feeling of control I have over him while I'm making him moan. Completely submissive in every way except when I'm doing this one thing.

Of course I love the fact that he's enjoying it, and if he didn't then I'd change things up or stop and as you say Cat, a wealth of other pleasures. But I enjoy the feeling of giving head so much I've even orgasmed myself over it.

I find the "control" thing intriguing. You're not the first to say it. I never feel that way, maybe that's being male has sonething to do with it.

When I get a sense that someone is doing it for my pleasure rather than their own I tend to stop enjoying it and change the scene.

For me I think it is because I don't take control at any other point (usually) so it's the novelty of that as much as literally being in control. Having a penis in your mouth puts the owner of said penis in a very literally vulnerable position.

I'd never do it purely for the other person's pleasure. If you do that it becomes boring and that's not good for either participant."

Fully agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely 100% giving

I get pleasure when giving for hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind receiving

Giving?!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Definitely 100% giving

I get pleasure when giving for hours"

I honestly don't believe I know any woman who finds the thought of hours of receiving oral appealing (ladies please let me know if I'm wrong).

If you've made me orgasm a couple of times, chances are I'm ready for something else. After a few, the last thing I'm going to want is your mouth and tongue anywhere near any part of my nethers, especially the clit. That shiz is painful when it's been that aroused.

And if you haven't found at least the first mini orgasm within a relatively short time, I don't know about other women, but I've lost interest in having your face there.

Sorry about that.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Definitely 100% giving

I get pleasure when giving for hours

I honestly don't believe I know any woman who finds the thought of hours of receiving oral appealing (ladies please let me know if I'm wrong).

If you've made me orgasm a couple of times, chances are I'm ready for something else. After a few, the last thing I'm going to want is your mouth and tongue anywhere near any part of my nethers, especially the clit. That shiz is painful when it's been that aroused.

And if you haven't found at least the first mini orgasm within a relatively short time, I don't know about other women, but I've lost interest in having your face there.

Sorry about that."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve heard this before as it happens. Sometimes there is a stop point

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I used to just be 100% a giver as I didn't really get any pleasure from receiving (pre-swinging) but it turns out I just hadn't found someone who knew what they were doing! I do enjoy giving as a sub the only control I have or want is sucking a cock.

I never do 69 as I can't focus on giving him the best oral and my own pleasure at the same time.

I now love receiving but do warn them that I'm a squirter as it puts some men off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to just be 100% a giver as I didn't really get any pleasure from receiving (pre-swinging) but it turns out I just hadn't found someone who knew what they were doing! I do enjoy giving as a sub the only control I have or want is sucking a cock.

I never do 69 as I can't focus on giving him the best oral and my own pleasure at the same time.

I now love receiving but do warn them that I'm a squirter as it puts some men off"

Princess phoenix I love a squirter especially while I’m down there

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By *akjourneyMan
over a year ago

Weston

Pretty much 50/50. I generally like to have given an orgasm before moving on to other activities.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"When it comes to oral do u prefer to give or receive?

I’m a giver 100% "

with meets, I prefer to give.. with my partner its mutual on giving or taking... although he prefers to take

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do like getting a blowjob as long as it is good. I’ve had ppl who have hurt my chap doing it before. But if I had to choose between giving or receiving oral I’d choose to give hands down

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I do like getting a blowjob as long as it is good. I’ve had ppl who have hurt my chap doing it before. But if I had to choose between giving or receiving oral I’d choose to give hands down "

That's why I start off gently and increase pressure etc based on vocal and physical indications

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do like getting a blowjob as long as it is good. I’ve had ppl who have hurt my chap doing it before. But if I had to choose between giving or receiving oral I’d choose to give hands down

That's why I start off gently and increase pressure etc based on vocal and physical indications "

I tend to change what I’m doing when I’m down on a woman as it’s about reading the body isn’t it.

I’ve only ever had 1 woman give me a great blow job

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do like getting a blowjob as long as it is good. I’ve had ppl who have hurt my chap doing it before. But if I had to choose between giving or receiving oral I’d choose to give hands down

That's why I start off gently and increase pressure etc based on vocal and physical indications "

I’d like to experience ur technique

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

50/50 awesome

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50

Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it

And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.

Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.

hi

Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?

I didnt say that. Jimboba did.

It’s my first night on forum. Still learning

No worries. Welcome. You're getting stuck in, which is great.

I’m trying my best lol. Apparently I’m more likely to get some luck on the forums so I bit the bullet lol

You never know.... just be you and show your personality."

She’s always right. Miss.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50

Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it

And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.

Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.

hi

Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?

I didnt say that. Jimboba did.

It’s my first night on forum. Still learning

No worries. Welcome. You're getting stuck in, which is great.

I’m trying my best lol. Apparently I’m more likely to get some luck on the forums so I bit the bullet lol

You never know.... just be you and show your personality.

She’s always right. Miss. "

You know it Mr.

I was going to sleep about 2 hours ago....

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50

Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it

And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.

Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.

hi

Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?

I didnt say that. Jimboba did.

It’s my first night on forum. Still learning

No worries. Welcome. You're getting stuck in, which is great.

I’m trying my best lol. Apparently I’m more likely to get some luck on the forums so I bit the bullet lol

You never know.... just be you and show your personality.

She’s always right. Miss.

You know it Mr.

I was going to sleep about 2 hours ago.... "

It's a bank holiday weekend, treat yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never enjoyed getting head but I love giving it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?"

Bring out the cake

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Bring out the cake "

^^ he knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Bring out the cake

^^ he knows "

Yeah stale cake I know

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Bring out the cake

^^ he knows

Yeah stale cake I know "

I'm saying nothing.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Bring out the cake

^^ he knows

Yeah stale cake I know

I'm saying nothing..... "

Say no more say no more Posh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Bring out the cake

^^ he knows

Yeah stale cake I know

I'm saying nothing.....

Say no more say no more Posh "

If the check doesn't cut it, the fdying pan will

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Bring out the cake

^^ he knows

Yeah stale cake I know

I'm saying nothing.....

Say no more say no more Posh

If the check doesn't cut it, the fdying pan will "

Definitely will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Bring out the cake

^^ he knows

Yeah stale cake I know

I'm saying nothing.....

Say no more say no more Posh

If the check doesn't cut it, the fdying pan will

Definitely will "

And the fish slice

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?

Bring out the cake

^^ he knows

Yeah stale cake I know

I'm saying nothing.....

Say no more say no more Posh

If the check doesn't cut it, the fdying pan will

Definitely will

And the fish slice "

And the wooden spoon please

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston

Im sure we are both 50/50 on this subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a receiver

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By *toobguyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Definitely prefer to give.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

Give

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I give it my all which is then very well reciprocated

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

It's nice there are so many giving souls in this world.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Receive, I’m greedy like that

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I'm 50/50, even though its rare I will cum from getting it, I still love it

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Definitely a giver more than receiver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love both. Especially if I like the taste of the juice, the texture of the lips and the overall shape of it.

Even better if there are some pubic hair to rub my nose and beard over before tongue flat that pussy ftw

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I like both equally...but I'm guilty of having had a few Pillow Princess moments when it's been really good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the givers should meet up with the receivers

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to give and receive. But if someone doesn't like receiving I'm more than happy to just receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.

Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.

So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50"

More 70% in favour of giving rather than receiving lady bit instead of sucking blood everywhere stitches blood everywhere and to boot ruined a perfectly good pair of chinos so more of sugar puff fan myself

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke


"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?

And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?"

I love both giving and receiving. What I get is intimacy at a different level. Both satisfy a number of my senses and I feel the euphoria in my mind. When giving to someone I care, I love to take my time, satisfy her but i also love the visual, the trembling feel in mouth, the taste, the jerk movements of the woman, her sounds. I have been in a relationship with a woman I had daily sex with who was not very keen in both giving and receiving (and even stimulating her with my fingers. Overall, the experience was still great but could be a lot greater. It was like going to a fine restaurant, having a great time but still leaving unable to try the signature dishes. It was frustrating as oral both ways and (stimulating with my fingers) is in my opinion (and in my case) a very important part of foreplay and the easiest way to get aroused. Still though, it was a very satisfactory relationship.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Both love giving oral and exploring with my tongue x

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

More of a giver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Receive

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By *oublesixesMan
over a year ago

Corby

Give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

give Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give but if your good at it receive too

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Give x

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Give but happy to receive if the lady enjoys it, don't want someone doing it because they feel obliged and don't really like it

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By *ildrockMan
over a year ago

london


"Give but if your good at it receive too "

Then I guess 69 would be perfect with your pretty self... we are both givers haha xx

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Recieve

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Give and I have really missed giving

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

50/50 if the giver is good. If not it's more 75/25 me giving

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

I'm definitely a giver

K

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By *oublesixesMan
over a year ago

Corby


"50/50 if the giver is good. If not it's more 75/25 me giving "

I like to think we'd be 50/50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giver 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugh I love both I couldn't pick one over the other

Both at the same time is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than happy to give and really enjoy it but being totally honest, I prefer receiving (and if MrsN gets me to completion, she is on a promise for breakfast in bed!). M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giver I’m afraid as said had unfortunate incident when younger lady bit instead of suck put me off for life I’m afraid do lick to lick sugar puff though

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Giver I’m afraid as said had unfortunate incident when younger lady bit instead of suck put me off for life I’m afraid do lick to lick sugar puff though "

I read that. That sounds horrendous! Did she do it on purpose?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very much both of course love to receive but also love giving just as much

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Both in equal measure. If you’re one of those that pops down there for a visit then moves on quickly, it won’t work for me equal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Giver I’m afraid as said had unfortunate incident when younger lady bit instead of suck put me off for life I’m afraid do lick to lick sugar puff though

I read that. That sounds horrendous! Did she do it on purpose?! "

No she was just a novice hell it hurt blood was everywhere embarrassed emojis what made it worse my mum found out lol came to see me in hospital she said serves yourself right was more concerned about my trousers ahhh loved my chinos ruined blood everywhere

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Giver I’m afraid as said had unfortunate incident when younger lady bit instead of suck put me off for life I’m afraid do lick to lick sugar puff though

I read that. That sounds horrendous! Did she do it on purpose?!

No she was just a novice hell it hurt blood was everywhere embarrassed emojis what made it worse my mum found out lol came to see me in hospital she said serves yourself right was more concerned about my trousers ahhh loved my chinos ruined blood everywhere "

Blimey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Giver I’m afraid as said had unfortunate incident when younger lady bit instead of suck put me off for life I’m afraid do lick to lick sugar puff though

I read that. That sounds horrendous! Did she do it on purpose?!

No she was just a novice hell it hurt blood was everywhere embarrassed emojis what made it worse my mum found out lol came to see me in hospital she said serves yourself right was more concerned about my trousers ahhh loved my chinos ruined blood everywhere "

So that’s why now just like the sugar puff !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would rather receive but really enjoy giving and 100% of the time I give even if I'm not likely to receive

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Give 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both please - but not at the same time - I need to concentrate

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Give x

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give, can’t remember when I last received

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