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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Before a wank?

Do you like to get yourself in the mood? Light a few candles, massage yourself, give those nipples a gentle rub maybe... Or do you just go straight in for the genitals?

Why is that? Would you be annoyed if a play partner gave you the same amount of foreplay as you give yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this about your masturbation station again ?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

. I’d prefer more than 30 seconds with a partner yes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is this about your masturbation station again ? "

My threads have a recurring theme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty foreplay always.

Mutual better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Plenty foreplay always.

Mutual better."

Mutual how? The thread is about wanking...

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By *otmyrealname99Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I can't really seduce myself so..... I still need to be in the mood but no candles

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I read some filth or I watch some filth, get the vibrator out and I’m good to go. Takes 20 minutes start to finish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"YES!

Px "

Ooo do tell, what's your pre wank warm up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this about your masturbation station again ?

My threads have a recurring theme

Did you get your new dildo airdropped on to your front lawn this morning ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope no foreplay for me, if I’m in the mood I don’t need it, and foreplay with others tends to be aimed to the women mainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read some filth or I watch some filth, get the vibrator out and I’m good to go. Takes 20 minutes start to finish."

What’s your vibrator powered by coal ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t wank so might difficult to explain.

But I love if she do an exotic dance, maybe a belly dance like around a fire, it would be a hot night, maybe the desert in Morocco, then she will start running her hot body against me.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but mostly in the imagination, thinking of a complete scenario or fantasy before full wankathon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"YES!

Ooo do tell, what's your pre wank warm up?"

okay, so don't laugh at me.

but when my other half and i have a particularly incredible sesh, i'll write down on my notes app, everything about it. like what happened, what was said, how i felt, what he did etc.

my pre-wank workout, lying on my bed, i'll re-read them. it's like my own personal smut

and then ill get off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh hell yes. Never jump straight in. Foreplay is a must for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of foreplay in case lady not in the mood hair strokes hug cuddle her to sleep x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"YES!

Ooo do tell, what's your pre wank warm up?

okay, so don't laugh at me.

but when my other half and i have a particularly incredible sesh, i'll write down on my notes app, everything about it. like what happened, what was said, how i felt, what he did etc.

my pre-wank workout, lying on my bed, i'll re-read them. it's like my own personal smut

and then ill get off

Px "

Wow, a sex journal then? Does he know you write it down and play to it in this way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before a wank?

Do you like to get yourself in the mood? Light a few candles, massage yourself, give those nipples a gentle rub maybe... Or do you just go straight in for the genitals?

Why is that? Would you be annoyed if a play partner gave you the same amount of foreplay as you give yourself?

When it comes to foreplay I prefer to give the attention to a lady than to receive as I get more turned on giving pleasure

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I like to talk dirty to myself in the mirror. Comment on how much I’ve been waiting for this and how big I am before wanking in various positions to make sure I feel it everywhere. Then after cumming I ask myself if it was good and when will I be ready to go again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Before a wank?

Do you like to get yourself in the mood? Light a few candles, massage yourself, give those nipples a gentle rub maybe... Or do you just go straight in for the genitals?

Why is that? Would you be annoyed if a play partner gave you the same amount of foreplay as you give yourself?

When it comes to foreplay I prefer to give the attention to a lady than to receive as I get more turned on giving pleasure "

I'm taking about solo foreplay though... Do you like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I braid my pubes in tribal style to prepare my manhood for a time of extensive savage survival session.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"I read some filth or I watch some filth, get the vibrator out and I’m good to go. Takes 20 minutes start to finish.

What’s your vibrator powered by coal ? "

Hamsters on a wheel. Takes a few minutes for them to get a good speed up

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"YES!

Ooo do tell, what's your pre wank warm up?

okay, so don't laugh at me.

but when my other half and i have a particularly incredible sesh, i'll write down on my notes app, everything about it. like what happened, what was said, how i felt, what he did etc.

my pre-wank workout, lying on my bed, i'll re-read them. it's like my own personal smut

and then ill get off

Px "
it sounds like you could have a best seller there, probably out sell 50 shades, and get turned into a movie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I braid my pubes in tribal style to prepare my manhood for a time of extensive savage survival session."

Oh my hahaha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I braid my pubes in tribal style to prepare my manhood for a time of extensive savage survival session."

Yes this is standard practice I'd imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"YES!

Ooo do tell, what's your pre wank warm up?

okay, so don't laugh at me.

but when my other half and i have a particularly incredible sesh, i'll write down on my notes app, everything about it. like what happened, what was said, how i felt, what he did etc.

my pre-wank workout, lying on my bed, i'll re-read them. it's like my own personal smut

and then ill get off

Wow, a sex journal then? Does he know you write it down and play to it in this way?

aye pretty much.

the smut journal, coupled with pictures and videos, is enough to set myself away

aye he knows about it.. but there's née way on this earth i'll ever show him

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Not so much a ritual, or setting

mood or anything, but I'll tend to draw it out, take a while before finishing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope a solo wank is just about relief of horn overflow...

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"YES!

Ooo do tell, what's your pre wank warm up?

okay, so don't laugh at me.

but when my other half and i have a particularly incredible sesh, i'll write down on my notes app, everything about it. like what happened, what was said, how i felt, what he did etc.

my pre-wank workout, lying on my bed, i'll re-read them. it's like my own personal smut

and then ill get off

Wow, a sex journal then? Does he know you write it down and play to it in this way?

aye pretty much.

the smut journal, coupled with pictures and videos, is enough to set myself away

aye he knows about it.. but there's née way on this earth i'll ever show him

Px "

My first club experience, the lady I had fun with gave me a tasting at the end. It was so weird (I scored well though)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanking is important

Working yourself out is important

Training yourself is important

I love it

I once said to a woman I can make myself feel things you simply can't provide and that did not go down too well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I break out my wife's wand and u use that on my balls and around the base of my cock. Just to enjoy the feels

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wanking is important

Working yourself out is important

Training yourself is important

I love it

I once said to a woman I can make myself feel things you simply can't provide and that did not go down too well

Haha I bet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty foreplay always.

Mutual better.

Mutual how? The thread is about wanking..."

Mutual wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wanking is important

Working yourself out is important

Training yourself is important

I love it

I once said to a woman I can make myself feel things you simply can't provide and that did not go down too well

Haha I bet

I then taught the lass how to use her hands properly

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By *ickyxxx69Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Yes especially giving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, find some porn to watch, skip to a part of the scene I like, knock one out, clean up. Bosh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope, find some porn to watch, skip to a part of the scene I like, knock one out, clean up. Bosh!

So efficient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many men didn't understand this thread, trying to impress on the ladies their proficiency at foreplay.

Me, nope. Get wood, get going. It is solo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How many men didn't understand this thread, trying to impress on the ladies their proficiency at foreplay.

Me, nope. Get wood, get going. It is solo."

Quite a few didn't read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many men didn't understand this thread, trying to impress on the ladies their proficiency at foreplay.

Me, nope. Get wood, get going. It is solo."

How so. Coming across negative there, let’s keep it friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, find some porn to watch, skip to a part of the scene I like, knock one out, clean up. Bosh!

So efficient

I'm a busy guy but I make do

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

I like to tease myself a tad, throw some come to bed eyes before getting to it with gusto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many men didn't understand this thread, trying to impress on the ladies their proficiency at foreplay.

Me, nope. Get wood, get going. It is solo.

Quite a few didn't read it

I saw the OP and knew it was about wanking before I read it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How many men didn't understand this thread, trying to impress on the ladies their proficiency at foreplay.

Me, nope. Get wood, get going. It is solo.

Quite a few didn't read it

I saw the OP and knew it was about wanking before I read it.

Well I never. I'm offended lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many men didn't understand this thread, trying to impress on the ladies their proficiency at foreplay.

Me, nope. Get wood, get going. It is solo.

Quite a few didn't read it

I saw the OP and knew it was about wanking before I read it.

Wanking is a foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wanking is important

Working yourself out is important

Training yourself is important

I love it

I once said to a woman I can make myself feel things you simply can't provide and that did not go down too well

Don’t expect she did go down after you said that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many men didn't understand this thread, trying to impress on the ladies their proficiency at foreplay.

Me, nope. Get wood, get going. It is solo.

How so. Coming across negative there, let’s keep it friendly"

A friendly reminder the OP asked about solo masturbation, which apparently she is quite interested in (according to posters who know her)

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually straight in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on mood, sometimes nipple play lazily, building arousal.

Sometimes straight in there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wanking is important

Working yourself out is important

Training yourself is important

I love it

I once said to a woman I can make myself feel things you simply can't provide and that did not go down too well

Don’t expect she did go down after you said that."

She went down a few days later once shed calmed her self down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to really take my time with masturbating. A good 2-3hours, reading erotica, lots of foreplay, lots of pacing and edging. I don’t find I have the time anymore so often if I do have a wank it’s straight to it

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

If taking half a hour choosing what porn movie to watch counts ... Then yes I indulge in foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nipple play, a bit of oil, spend half hour finding porn that doesn't involve those irritating OTT fake screams, and then I'm away

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

My masturbation foreplay is usually mental

. Daydreaming or perving.

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By *asilForty77Man
over a year ago

a hundred and sixty of us living in a small shoebox in the middle of the road

100% yes it sets the tone it's nice to see how receptive your partner is and you can totally see how good the main course will be in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always put my wrist and ankle restraints on first and spank my own derriere a few times... Then I'm good to go.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I get d*unk and then argue with myself so I can have a “making-up” wank

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Sometimes I break out my wife's wand and u use that on my balls and around the base of my cock. Just to enjoy the feels

What setting do you have it on? Low or High?

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Foreplay is the making of the cake. Intercourse is the eating of the cake...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always put my wrist and ankle restraints on first and spank my own derriere a few times... Then I'm good to go.

Shame we can’t see anything from your profile

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I take myself out for a meal and compliment myself on how good I look today. I then take my underwear off halfway through and put them in my pocket.

When I get home, after laughing at my jokes, I put on some slow music and pour a glass of wine and dance to set the scene.

I then go upstairs, to my candlelit bedroom and slowly undress, teasing as I do so...

Then I slowly touch myself, all over before I start stroking...telling myself how good that feels...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take myself out for a meal and compliment myself on how good I look today. I then take my underwear off halfway through and put them in my pocket.

When I get home, after laughing at my jokes, I put on some slow music and pour a glass of wine and dance to set the scene.

I then go upstairs, to my candlelit bedroom and slowly undress, teasing as I do so...

Then I slowly touch myself, all over before I start stroking...telling myself how good that feels...

I laughed way more than I should have

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Some of this sounds like a faff. I go straight to my clit with a wet finger tip.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

Time spent on the lady is returned tenfold we think ... a skilled man is a very attractive proposition. x Anne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"YES!

Ooo do tell, what's your pre wank warm up?

okay, so don't laugh at me.

but when my other half and i have a particularly incredible sesh, i'll write down on my notes app, everything about it. like what happened, what was said, how i felt, what he did etc.

my pre-wank workout, lying on my bed, i'll re-read them. it's like my own personal smut

and then ill get off

Px "

This is extremely hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I do give myself a little time really depends on the mood of course, edging and different paces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually straight in

This about solo, no need to talk about what i do with a partner (you promised it was OK)

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