FabSwingers.com forum: Asking why

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I try to reply to most emails even when I'm not interested. However there's a lot of guys that ask why not?

How do people deal with this response?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they say thanks for the reply thats cool

if they ask why not, ignore

if they persist, block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask if they would like the truth or should I make something up?

They rarely reply to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if they say thanks for the reply thats cool

if they ask why not, ignore

if they persist, block"

I second that!

dont get it myself, if someone knocked me back, I wouldnt wanna embarrass myself by asking y or begging them to reconsider as ive had before...'my age limit is 35 for a guy, ur 56...' 'but I look much younger'...CRINGE!!!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I try to reply to most emails even when I'm not interested. However there's a lot of guys that ask why not?

How do people deal with this response? "

Having a profile that states exactly what I'm looking for and stating I won't reply to anyone outwith my preferences.

I honestly struggle to understand why people get so hot and bothered answering people they're not interested in.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I try to reply to most emails even when I'm not interested. However there's a lot of guys that ask why not?

How do people deal with this response? "

if they're ok with it and say something like 'keep me in mind' we do so and have met some of those guys at a later date..

when they get arsey or pestering, str8 block tbh..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's when they ask why I'm saying no. It can be rather annoying. Isn't a no meant to be a no?

I've just been called stuck up and I think I'm miss perfect as I repeated that I didnt want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as a person who has mostly deleated messages without a rely...being on the forums has made me re think this.

As many say...over and over...manners cost nothing.

I too get lots of mail but if the message is polite have started to relply

O:-

Its been a very positive experiment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well as a person who has mostly deleated messages without a rely...being on the forums has made me re think this.

As many say...over and over...manners cost nothing.

I too get lots of mail but if the message is polite have started to relply

O:-

Its been a very positive experiment "

its a good attitude to have...I always end my msg's as a no thanks is fine..and often take note.Sounding like a parrot, but I've had meets in the past from ppl that have said no..I just never hounded them for a meet, or asked why why why..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I have to.

Deleated a message....and spoke to him in a chat room weeks later without knowing who he was.

He had me in stitches and we met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually I have to.

Deleated a message....and spoke to him in a chat room weeks later without knowing who he was.

He had me in stitches and we met "

i read -had me in stitches and wet....

sorta cock rised me lol

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"if they say thanks for the reply thats cool

if they ask why not, ignore

if they persist, block"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I always think if a guy struggles to take no for an answer on here, he might struggle to take no for an answer in real life too. Not worth the risk.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"I try to reply to most emails even when I'm not interested. However there's a lot of guys that ask why not?

How do people deal with this response?

Having a profile that states exactly what I'm looking for and stating I won't reply to anyone outwith my preferences.

I honestly struggle to understand why people get so hot and bothered answering people they're not interested in.

My thoughts exactly....

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