FabSwingers.com forum: Refusing sex

By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

During an interesting conversation with another fabster, I was asked if I would turn a woman down if she offered me sex.

My response was that if I didn't know her, or had never had any contact with her , yes I would, which I think she found quite surprising.

So I open this question up to you lot. Would you turn down the offer of sex if you had had no prior contact, or a complete stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"During an interesting conversation with another fabster, I was asked if I would turn a woman down if she offered me sex.

My response was that if I didn't know her, or had never had any contact with her , yes I would, which I think she found quite surprising.

So I open this question up to you lot. Would you turn down the offer of sex if you had had no prior contact, or a complete stranger"

Absolutely yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely that depends on whether you’re attracted to her or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"During an interesting conversation with another fabster, I was asked if I would turn a woman down if she offered me sex.

My response was that if I didn't know her, or had never had any contact with her , yes I would, which I think she found quite surprising.

So I open this question up to you lot. Would you turn down the offer of sex if you had had no prior contact, or a complete stranger"

Yes. We aren't all thirsty

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Obviously yes. I do several times a day !

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes. I lmostlly like a connection. The sex is much better that way.

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would depend upon my mood.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Under normal circumstances, yes.

In a club setting, dynamics are different and the answer might be different as well.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Obviously yes. I do several times a day ! "

Yeah me too I'm constantly turning down offers from all sexes..... not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised that your friend found it surprising

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

Happens already. Noooo is all we seem to say!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I'm surprised that your friend found it surprising "

Me too

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

In this scenario it's really only going to be a man at the other end of the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with City Jeans, if I was attracted to her of course safe sex only

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"During an interesting conversation with another fabster, I was asked if I would turn a woman down if she offered me sex.

My response was that if I didn't know her, or had never had any contact with her , yes I would, which I think she found quite surprising.

So I open this question up to you lot. Would you turn down the offer of sex if you had had no prior contact, or a complete stranger"

Move been known to turn down women. One time, during a FFF I was invited in and said no. Still kicking myself 3 years later haha

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

In a club you’ll hear X Lexi X scream from the other side of the club “just fuck her will you?!?!?”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Why did your friend find it suprising?

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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"Yes.

Why did your friend find it suprising? "
sceptical that if it was offered on a plate any man would refuse

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Yes, if I didn’t fancy them or they didn’t interest me.

No if I fancied them or if they offered me a toffee crisp as a sweetener

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"During an interesting conversation with another fabster, I was asked if I would turn a woman down if she offered me sex.

My response was that if I didn't know her, or had never had any contact with her , yes I would, which I think she found quite surprising.

So I open this question up to you lot. Would you turn down the offer of sex if you had had no prior contact, or a complete stranger"

No if there was no chat or didn’t know the lady then definitely not

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

"During an interesting conversation with another fabster, I was asked if I would turn a woman down if she offered me sex.

My response was that if I didn't know her, or had never had any contact with her , yes I would, which I think she found quite surprising.

So I open this question up to you lot. Would you turn down the offer of sex if you had had no prior contact,

or a complete stranger"

Yes I would refuse if no prior contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t just meet someone with out having any prior contact with, I have to get to know someone a little first

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By *aughtycplStokeCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Yes we would refuse, end of the day sex is only ever any good if you find the other attractive and you have a connection

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By *1ueWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

100%

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Definitely.

Though depending on the situation I might be pursauded after just a little conversation

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Another refusal here.

Even the Hemsworth would have to have a chat first.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I turn down (by way of deleting the messages) offers of sex multiple times a day.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes

I would as I'd like to know this person little more and feel comfortable see if the chemistry led to this rather than just what they wanted as I might not just because there is attraction doesn't mean it's going to be sexual

I might be the only one thinking like this but I also could be wrong

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I would never have thought that so many people have not had a random sexual encounter with someone they just met.

Blimey I must be the Last of the Hedonists......

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"Another refusal here.

Even the Hemsworth would have to have a chat first."

The Hemsworths are very short and have chicken legs

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I would never have thought that so many people have not had a random sexual encounter with someone they just met.

Blimey I must be the Last of the Hedonists......"

Have in the past. Wouldn't now though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think this was aimed at men and the surprise was that a man would turn it down.

A lot of women do think ALL MEN are thirsty as fuck and can't control their dicks.

In answer though, yes, more men would turn it down than not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely yes, I've turned down those who I would love to have sex with too due to circumstances as well.

Sex is about more than just getting to stick my dick in a hole.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Absolutely...

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

If I fancied her, no, but I've turned down sex with plenty of women I wasn't attracted to over the years on nights out etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another refusal here.

Even the Hemsworth would have to have a chat first."

Yehhhhh right! Tsssst

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Yes. I need a connection or I have more fun solo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ive turned down every 'meet now' types and 'meet & fuck' messages ive had.

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By *ir SupremacyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Thats why I'm on here.....To refuse all these ladies ha x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Another refusal here.

Even the Hemsworth would have to have a chat first.

Yehhhhh right! Tsssst

He would! I'd have to explain how to get to my house for a start

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Sigh. Whatever happened to spontaneity, lust, desire, passion.... immediate attraction?

How far I have drifted from the “norm”....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

If I was ovulating, I'd got a freshly waxed foof, no work that needed doing and someone said to me "Hey Meli/strange beautiful woman, I'd really like to fuck you/masturbate for you because you turn me on so much. I'm staying at *somewhere that's not a Premier Inn/Travelodge*?

And that person gave me an instant sucker punch of lust? The sort that makes me achingly aware of how much I want them? Yes. I probably would.

The likelihood is absolutely zero.

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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"If I was ovulating, I'd got a freshly waxed foof, no work that needed doing and someone said to me "Hey Meli/strange beautiful woman, I'd really like to fuck you/masturbate for you because you turn me on so much. I'm staying at *somewhere that's not a Premier Inn/Travelodge*?

And that person gave me an instant sucker punch of lust? The sort that makes me achingly aware of how much I want them? Yes. I probably would.

The likelihood is absolutely zero."
that made me spit my coffee out, absolute classic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m calling bullshit on some of these I need a connection replies, if you’re attracted to them, what else do you need to know, their star sign and where they do the weekly big shop ?!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Imagine having to contrive every sexual encounter, I couldn’t live such a prescriptive life. Those wonderful moments, eyes across a crowded room, ripping each other’s clothes of in a taxi. Or here on fab, that message. “I notice you have “meet today” up.....

Some of the best meets I have ever had came from a “meet today” posting....

I’m obviously a dinosaur or worse.....

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

If I’m attracted to someone a one off session, why not ?

I’ve done it in the past and probably will in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another refusal here.

Even the Hemsworth would have to have a chat first.

Yehhhhh right! Tsssst

He would! I'd have to explain how to get to my house for a start

Name and address suplied lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter who, what, where or when, under no circumstances would I ever turn down the offer of sex, ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men on here are hypocrites or try to look good! post men think about sex all the time, if they could have their own way they would do it on the veg counter or in the starbucks queue....

If I am in the mood that day yes I would, connection or not its just pure raw primal sex and its fucking good. After that we get on with our life, no name or phone number exchanged....

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
over a year ago

Yes, I would (and do!) refuse.

Just because you're advertising your wears on Fab doesn't mean that you have to give it away. It's your own choice.

Certain women, just don't do it for me.

All the gay men with the "wanna suk?" or telling me they're going to rip me a new arse hole........ block!

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

There is a saying, "if it sounds too good to be true it probably is" so my suspicious mind would kick in and prevent me from dropping myself in a potentially whole lot of shit !!

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"I’m calling bullshit on some of these I need a connection replies, if you’re attracted to them, what else do you need to know, their star sign and where they do the weekly big shop ?!"

I think the issue here is context.

If these guys were locked in a cell for 10 years and a super hot female walked in and wanted to ride him, I doubt any would say no.

Also, how much of a contact are we taking about? A women sending a photo of herself to you is a form of contact. Would you agree to fuck someone you'd never even seen a picture of?

I wouldn't, If turn that down.

To me there's a big difference to someone walking over and saying let's fuck, and someone walking up chatting for 30 mins then heading off to fuck.

It maybe that the first had never happened, and I'm doubtful it every would, so if it did I'd be suspicious that I was going to get mugged

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole

"I turn down (by way of deleting the messages) offers of sex multiple times a day."

Same

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"I’m calling bullshit on some of these I need a connection replies, if you’re attracted to them, what else do you need to know, their star sign and where they do the weekly big shop ?!"

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No. In order to my body to respond I need a connection with someone. Never have and never will jump into bed with a stranger x

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"Under normal circumstances, yes.

In a club setting, dynamics are different and the answer might be different as well."

Exactly this

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"In a club you’ll hear X Lexi X scream from the other side of the club “just fuck her will you?!?!?”"

Omg! You make me sound so harsh!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Yes I would turn her down. For me and I expect most of us, there has to be a mental connection first which is not usually instant.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I'm surprised that your friend found it surprising "

Indeed - assuming people will sleep with anyone is more surprising!

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Probably would refuse if I had no idea about them.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"In a club you’ll hear X Lexi X scream from the other side of the club “just fuck her will you?!?!?”

Omg! You make me sound so harsh!

Haha just saying what happened!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im here to meet strangers....

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Done it before a few times,not one to just sleep with anyone

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yes definitely, Have done many times on meets and in clubs so for someone I’d never even met before definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m calling bullshit on some of these I need a connection replies, if you’re attracted to them, what else do you need to know, their star sign and where they do the weekly big shop ?!"

Some, perhaps. I said “Yes” to the question whether I’d turn it down because I have done so.

She looked great, attraction was there after spending a couple of hours with her but it still didn’t feel right. Can’t tell what was missing. I even knew her star sign, which was Scorpio. I remember it well.

I can only guess that the reason I didn’t follow through was because I didn’t know where she did her weekly big shop.

Thanks for making sense of it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your looking to for a setup thats it.

anything could be waiting for you

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"I’m calling bullshit on some of these I need a connection replies, if you’re attracted to them, what else do you need to know, their star sign and where they do the weekly big shop ?!

Some, perhaps. I said “Yes” to the question whether I’d turn it down because I have done so.

I can only guess that the reason I didn’t follow through was because I didn’t know where she did her weekly big shop.

Thanks for making sense of it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the whole situation, if it was ‘hi, let’s have sex’ then it’d be a no.

But if you find them attractive, you hit it off & things go that way then...

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"During an interesting conversation with another fabster, I was asked if I would turn a woman down if she offered me sex.

My response was that if I didn't know her, or had never had any contact with her , yes I would, which I think she found quite surprising.

So I open this question up to you lot. Would you turn down the offer of sex if you had had no prior contact, or a complete stranger"

Yes because it would not suit or satisfy me and what I want to get out of a meet, and therefore I doubt they would enjoy themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a no brainer

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

Absolutely yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are some men having difficulty believing other men say yes to this thread. I'm 60, prematurely grey and overweight. Still my answer is yes.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Why are some men having difficulty believing other men say yes to this thread. I'm 60, prematurely grey and overweight. Still my answer is yes."

I agree. This thread is a good filter for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because of how desperate some men are, there are SOME (not all) women think every man has the “any hole is a goal” mindset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm..

Yes I would.

If he looked like Brad Pitt and I was feeling extremely horny..possibly not

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Sorry, sorry.

How is it “desperate” to be spontaneous?

If someone approaches me in a bar (or on fab) and I fancy them and it is clear that they would like to have sex with me, then chances are, I will have sex with them.

Didn’t realise this made me a heinous individual or “desperate”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, it might be different point but it doesn't happen only between male and female.

I need a connection to have sex.

I know sometimes people are very spontaneous and dont blame them but the buzzer in my head will be stopping me to go further than kissing her

Kiss is always a great start

You know it in seconds if this will lead or not to something unique and special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are some men having difficulty believing other men say yes to this thread. I'm 60, prematurely grey and overweight. Still my answer is yes.

I agree. This thread is a good filter for me

A lot of the forums should be a good filter for the discerning.

However "I got a biggun, wanna shag" is so prevalent I often wonder if or why it works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"During an interesting conversation with another fabster, I was asked if I would turn a woman down if she offered me sex.

My response was that if I didn't know her, or had never had any contact with her , yes I would, which I think she found quite surprising.

So I open this question up to you lot. Would you turn down the offer of sex if you had had no prior contact, or a complete stranger"

It depends on the context, situation, do I find him atttactive? Does he find me attractive? Do I feel comfortable?

So... I’ve had sex with people I haven’t met before and chatted online. But I checked kinda the basic points, if not I’d refuse. And if the situation is odd, I’d refuse

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Sorry, sorry.

How is it “desperate” to be spontaneous?

If someone approaches me in a bar (or on fab) and I fancy them and it is clear that they would like to have sex with me, then chances are, I will have sex with them.

Didn’t realise this made me a heinous individual or “desperate”

I'd you said yes to anyone that asks you, that would be desperate not spontaneous.

You have said if you fancied her. That was never part of the question.

I assume by what you said, that if you didn't find her attractive in the flesh you would say no?

Which would mean you 'would' turn down sex from a women.

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

"During an interesting conversation with another fabster, I was asked if I would turn a woman down if she offered me sex.

My response was that if I didn't know her, or had never had any contact with her , yes I would, which I think she found quite surprising.

So I open this question up to you lot. Would you turn down the offer of sex if you had had no prior contact, or a complete stranger"

FAF OP?

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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"During an interesting conversation with another fabster, I was asked if I would turn a woman down if she offered me sex.

My response was that if I didn't know her, or had never had any contact with her , yes I would, which I think she found quite surprising.

So I open this question up to you lot. Would you turn down the offer of sex if you had had no prior contact, or a complete stranger

FAF OP?

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what do you take me for, I'm a gentleman dont you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

I would be immediately suspicious of this and assume it was a trick to rob me in some way.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Sigh. Whatever happened to spontaneity, lust, desire, passion.... immediate attraction?

How far I have drifted from the “norm”.... "

I’m not a spontaneous person generally speaking. As for the rest, I don’t get those from a message (especially the “hey bbe wanna fuck” ones). I might feel those things in person if I met someone on a night out, but I probably still wouldn’t jump straight into bed with them out of concern for my safety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had sex with complete strangers in clubs.

I wouldn't rule it out still.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I would turn it down.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Sorry, sorry.

How is it “desperate” to be spontaneous?

If someone approaches me in a bar (or on fab) and I fancy them and it is clear that they would like to have sex with me, then chances are, I will have sex with them.

Didn’t realise this made me a heinous individual or “desperate”

I don’t have a problem with any of your comments mate. You said some men so not tarring us all with the same brush

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Sorry, sorry.

How is it “desperate” to be spontaneous?

If someone approaches me in a bar (or on fab) and I fancy them and it is clear that they would like to have sex with me, then chances are, I will have sex with them.

Didn’t realise this made me a heinous individual or “desperate”

I don’t have a problem with any of your comments mate. You said some men so not tarring us all with the same brush "

Confused of Devon (having never said “some men”)

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

If she is hot, has an aire on self assuredness and also not trying to punch me in the face while asking, Sure

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Sorry, sorry.

How is it “desperate” to be spontaneous?

If someone approaches me in a bar (or on fab) and I fancy them and it is clear that they would like to have sex with me, then chances are, I will have sex with them.

Didn’t realise this made me a heinous individual or “desperate”

I don’t have a problem with any of your comments mate. You said some men so not tarring us all with the same brush

Confused of Devon (having never said “some men”) "

No wasn’t you,was city jeans.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Sorry, sorry.

How is it “desperate” to be spontaneous?

If someone approaches me in a bar (or on fab) and I fancy them and it is clear that they would like to have sex with me, then chances are, I will have sex with them.

Didn’t realise this made me a heinous individual or “desperate”

I don’t have a problem with any of your comments mate. You said some men so not tarring us all with the same brush

Confused of Devon (having never said “some men”)

No wasn’t you,was city jeans. "

I am not responsible for all posters from Devon, I did try to become the “King of Devon” but I lost out in 2nd round voting to a badger

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Sorry, sorry.

How is it “desperate” to be spontaneous?

If someone approaches me in a bar (or on fab) and I fancy them and it is clear that they would like to have sex with me, then chances are, I will have sex with them.

Didn’t realise this made me a heinous individual or “desperate”

I don’t have a problem with any of your comments mate. You said some men so not tarring us all with the same brush

Confused of Devon (having never said “some men”)

No wasn’t you,was city jeans.

I am not responsible for all posters from Devon, I did try to become the “King of Devon” but I lost out in 2nd round voting to a badger "

Don’t let a badger stop you’re dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think it’s just plain rude to say no. Or maybe she would think you are gay or have erection problem.

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By *leeperMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes if I don’t know her doesn’t matter how pretty I’ll say no (tbh It’s a bit creepy if that happened)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation. Usually, even if I fancy him, I'd prefer to build a connection so I'd probably start a conversation instead and see how it went. However, occasionally if I'm out dancing and drinking, I'll come across a guy I fancy and if he's up for it too then maybe I'll go have a fun night with him.

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

I have been known to say yes, but in a club and usually after a bit of playful flirting across a room (eyes keep meeting etc).

Totally random offer? I'd pass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would think it’s just plain rude to say no. Or maybe she would think you are gay or have erection problem. "

Is it the 70's?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It depends

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