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"Always interesting. I'm in, and I'd like to know honestly. Gotta love some posh in your life, easy to get on with, n wet wet wet " I'm always interested in ppls take on me, may not agree or change because of it | |||
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"Ahh it's been a while. Go on then. Mrs kf x" If I post it, they will come | |||
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"Remember folks, this isn’t a thread to be passive in, you need to send posts out as well as hope that you receive. Most of the time that people complain in receiving no replies in this thread is because they’ve not sent any out" I couldn't agree more with this.... And I'll be back to send messages when I've managed to put my thoughts back in order, as some of y'all have made me cry with the level of insight you have (but in a lovely way, no nastiness here) | |||
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"Remember folks, this isn’t a thread to be passive in, you need to send posts out as well as hope that you receive. Most of the time that people complain in receiving no replies in this thread is because they’ve not sent any out" I'm in. I will mail later as skiving at the mo. | |||
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"Remember folks, this isn’t a thread to be passive in, you need to send posts out as well as hope that you receive. Most of the time that people complain in receiving no replies in this thread is because they’ve not sent any out I'm in. I will mail later as skiving at the mo. " I like that you skive to come here but mostly, I like your tits!!! | |||
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"Dancer Beautiful, articulate with a wicked sense of humour. " Did you read the OP fully Taff? It’s meant to be via PM | |||
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"Dancer Beautiful, articulate with a wicked sense of humour. Did you read the OP fully Taff? It’s meant to be via PM " doh ha ha pms on the way | |||
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"I think I found out enough yesterday." I’m not inclined to make anyone do anything that they don’t want to but I think that seeing how others see you, not how you think they see you, is a positive thing | |||
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"I'm interested in this too. self development tool " I know I'm not meant to comment here but I can't pm you so IL keep in brief... in a nutshell, you sound amazing. No improvement necessary. Love your profile x | |||
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"I'm in though I don't think I've interacted with anyone enough to give them a fair appraisal " We haven’t interacted but my superficial and, I believe, my fair appraisal of you is that you, my good sir, were obsessed with oral in 1969. Why that particular year, I couldn’t say. I hope this helped. | |||
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"I did one of these recently but I think that at the moment with the recent degree of angst over the last few days, a moment of self reflection, introspection and non reactive thought about others might be helpful. It might seem a strange idea but at it’s heart is the intent for us to be more rounded and understanding people. Self reflection is an important tool in understanding what, why and how we act but so is how others honestly see us. Post that you’re in on the thread, then respond to others via message with honest opinions about people. Not nasty, not sycophantic, honest appraisals of how you feel about them, this isn’t a chance to try to ‘get in’ with that hottie, this should be a self improvement exercise. The intent is to honestly see how others view us, if you give criticism, then please be constructive with it. Remember to be kind folks. Let’s see how this goes... Remember to respect filters, if you can’t directly message someone, then don’t post it on the thread, it’s meant to be private and personal " I’m in and no judgement or anything so please be honest and tell me exactly what you feel. No holds barred. | |||
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"I think I found out enough yesterday." I saw some of it when I came online again yesterday afternoon. I sent them a private message. I can only say I wish I had been in the thread at the time they had been on. Which reminds me, in line with the thread, that person and I obviously know what we think of each other already through our private messages yesterday. | |||
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"Has anyone sent anything?" Have you? I’ve sent and received a few | |||
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"Has anyone sent anything? Have you? I’ve sent and received a few" I've received some surprisingly positive feedback Have reciprocated, obviously | |||
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"Has anyone sent anything?" I have sent one or two messages. | |||
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"I'm in though I don't think I've interacted with anyone enough to give them a fair appraisal We haven’t interacted but my superficial and, I believe, my fair appraisal of you is that you, my good sir, were obsessed with oral in 1969. Why that particular year, I couldn’t say. I hope this helped. " Thank you my good man, alas the 69 was a suggestion from fab because apparently I'm not the first orally obsessed Faber which makes me wonder are there 68 other orally obsessed fabbers | |||
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"I'm interested in this too. self development tool I know I'm not meant to comment here but I can't pm you so IL keep in brief... in a nutshell, you sound amazing. No improvement necessary. Love your profile x" If you can’t PM someone, then just move on to the next person. I will also say that the feedback is meant to be a critical reflection of the person, not intended to curry favour and flatter | |||
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"Has anyone sent anything?" Yes, a few x | |||
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"Im out...though not sure i was in to begin with x" You said that you weren’t... If you’ve not received feedback, then try sending messages first | |||
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"Has anyone sent anything? Yes, a few x" Same | |||
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"Has anyone sent anything?" I got a nice one | |||
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"I'm in though I don't think I've interacted with anyone enough to give them a fair appraisal We haven’t interacted but my superficial and, I believe, my fair appraisal of you is that you, my good sir, were obsessed with oral in 1969. Why that particular year, I couldn’t say. I hope this helped. Thank you my good man, alas the 69 was a suggestion from fab because apparently I'm not the first orally obsessed Faber which makes me wonder are there 68 other orally obsessed fabbers" Really, it was a suggestion by Fab?? It didn’t simply pop into you mind as the first set of numbers to try? This has me perplexed. | |||
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"I'm in though I don't think I've interacted with anyone enough to give them a fair appraisal We haven’t interacted but my superficial and, I believe, my fair appraisal of you is that you, my good sir, were obsessed with oral in 1969. Why that particular year, I couldn’t say. I hope this helped. Thank you my good man, alas the 69 was a suggestion from fab because apparently I'm not the first orally obsessed Faber which makes me wonder are there 68 other orally obsessed fabbers Really, it was a suggestion by Fab?? It didn’t simply pop into you mind as the first set of numbers to try? This has me perplexed. " Yip 110% a fab suggestion. The other option was an underscore between the words | |||
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"Has anyone sent anything?" I have but can’t get round to each one that I’d love to let know that it’s been my pleasure to see their posts. | |||
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"I'm in though I don't think I've interacted with anyone enough to give them a fair appraisal We haven’t interacted but my superficial and, I believe, my fair appraisal of you is that you, my good sir, were obsessed with oral in 1969. Why that particular year, I couldn’t say. I hope this helped. Thank you my good man, alas the 69 was a suggestion from fab because apparently I'm not the first orally obsessed Faber which makes me wonder are there 68 other orally obsessed fabbers Really, it was a suggestion by Fab?? It didn’t simply pop into you mind as the first set of numbers to try? This has me perplexed. Yip 110% a fab suggestion. The other option was an underscore between the words" How apt for Fab to suggest it. Coincidence or default? Hmm. | |||
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"I’m in (I think )" Awww....there are some I can’t message. | |||
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"I’m in (I think ) Awww....there are some I can’t message." Sorry don’t allow men messaging me | |||
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"Can I send some messages please " Yes fire on... | |||
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"Can I send some messages please Yes fire on... " All I'll say is Sexy pics and attitude | |||
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"Can I send some messages please Yes fire on... All I'll say is Sexy pics and attitude " Wow thank you | |||
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"I did one of these recently but I think that at the moment with the recent degree of angst over the last few days, a moment of self reflection, introspection and non reactive thought about others might be helpful. It might seem a strange idea but at it’s heart is the intent for us to be more rounded and understanding people. Self reflection is an important tool in understanding what, why and how we act but so is how others honestly see us. Post that you’re in on the thread, then respond to others via message with honest opinions about people. Not nasty, not sycophantic, honest appraisals of how you feel about them, this isn’t a chance to try to ‘get in’ with that hottie, this should be a self improvement exercise. The intent is to honestly see how others view us, if you give criticism, then please be constructive with it. Remember to be kind folks. Let’s see how this goes... Remember to respect filters, if you can’t directly message someone, then don’t post it on the thread, it’s meant to be private and personal" Those abs tho! | |||
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"I’m in (I think ) Awww....there are some I can’t message. Sorry don’t allow men messaging me " I don’t understand. Who is this in relation to? My remark was to the lady who posted that she is in. Unfortunately, I am filtered out and can’t message her to tell her that..... | |||
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"Well this went south quickly!" I know l! Up north we don’t get many messages | |||
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"Oh I cant! They only want messages from supporters. How discriminatory " That made me remember to check my filters and remove them! | |||
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"I’m in (I think ) Awww....there are some I can’t message." As I keep reiterating; if you can’t send someone a PM, just move on to the next. Please don’t use the thread to try to get round filters. Thanks | |||
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"I’m in (I think ) Awww....there are some I can’t message. As I keep reiterating; if you can’t send someone a PM, just move on to the next. Please don’t use the thread to try to get round filters. Thanks" It’s all right chum. I wasn’t trying to get around filters. I was simply remarking that I would’ve liked to have sent a message but are filtered out of some. It’s not a statement of discontent. I have sent messages to three gentlemen since. | |||
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"Has anyone sent anything?" Nope. Nothing. Nil nada squat | |||
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"Has anyone sent anything? Nope. Nothing. Nil nada squat" You, I went to have a word with you. Just you wait there. | |||
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"Has anyone sent anything? Nope. Nothing. Nil nada squat You, I went to have a word with you. Just you wait there. " You sexist pig, you filtered my kind out. | |||
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"I'm interested in this too. self development tool " Filters darling...filters | |||
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"Has anyone sent anything? Nope. Nothing. Nil nada squat You, I went to have a word with you. Just you wait there. You sexist pig, you filtered my kind out. " Haha you made me laugh. Fixed filters now | |||
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"I'm in though I don't think I've interacted with anyone enough to give them a fair appraisal We haven’t interacted but my superficial and, I believe, my fair appraisal of you is that you, my good sir, were obsessed with oral in 1969. Why that particular year, I couldn’t say. I hope this helped. Thank you my good man, alas the 69 was a suggestion from fab because apparently I'm not the first orally obsessed Faber which makes me wonder are there 68 other orally obsessed fabbers Really, it was a suggestion by Fab?? It didn’t simply pop into you mind as the first set of numbers to try? This has me perplexed. Yip 110% a fab suggestion. The other option was an underscore between the words How apt for Fab to suggest it. Coincidence or default? Hmm. " Maybe fab knew I was a fan of fun numbers | |||
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"Has anyone sent anything? Nope. Nothing. Nil nada squat You, I went to have a word with you. Just you wait there. You sexist pig, you filtered my kind out. Haha you made me laugh. Fixed filters now " Coming your way in a bit. | |||
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"Yes let me know, I value constructive Criticism that I can take on board and ignore." Enough said. | |||
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"Has anyone sent anything? Nope. Nothing. Nil nada squat You, I went to have a word with you. Just you wait there. You sexist pig, you filtered my kind out. Haha you made me laugh. Fixed filters now Coming your way in a bit." Keep your cum away from me!!! Oh I see what you meant haha | |||
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"Has anyone sent anything? Nope. Nothing. Nil nada squat You, I went to have a word with you. Just you wait there. You sexist pig, you filtered my kind out. Haha you made me laugh. Fixed filters now Coming your way in a bit. Keep your cum away from me!!! Oh I see what you meant haha" Oops, sorry, you made me turn around just as.....here’s some tissue. | |||
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"Oh I cant! They only want messages from supporters. How discriminatory That made me remember to check my filters and remove them!" I’m too old for you. *sniff*. Anyway, I don’t think I would’ve been adding new to what you would’ve already received from younger people. | |||
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"Oh I cant! They only want messages from supporters. How discriminatory That made me remember to check my filters and remove them! I’m too old for you. *sniff*. Anyway, I don’t think I would’ve been adding new to what you would’ve already received from younger people. " Never too old | |||
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"Some will like me, some won't..." You were here? Sorry, didn’t catch my attention. . You’re obviously slipping. | |||
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"Some will like me, some won't..." That’s true of pretty much everyone on here | |||
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"Good idea but you can't be sure that some people will just comment in the positive to the people they like, or are in their circle? Or respond to people they want to know? That kind of negates what you are trying to achieve. Self reflection in my experience is something people find it hard to do at the best of time. Especially when people are appraising. " Very true. There are flaws but even just as a basic exercise, it can be beneficial | |||
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"Some will like me, some won't... You were here? Sorry, didn’t catch my attention. . You’re obviously slipping. " I'm more than happy to slip..I dont need the attention that others crave x | |||
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"Some will like me, some won't... You were here? Sorry, didn’t catch my attention. . You’re obviously slipping. I'm more than happy to slip..I dont need the attention that others crave x" You don’t need to try. You just be. Some people just attract people to them. I have several friends like that and I love being around them. | |||
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"Yes let me know, I value constructive Criticism that I can take on board and ignore." I left this message hours ago and haven’t received a single message, I feel it might have been the tone. | |||
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"Yes let me know, I value constructive Criticism that I can take on board and ignore. I left this message hours ago and haven’t received a single message, I feel it might have been the tone. " As so supports my theories above. People generate towards the people in their groups or circles with affirmations over constructive criticism Now stand still and bend over so I can blow smoke up your bumhole | |||
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"Yes let me know, I value constructive Criticism that I can take on board and ignore. I left this message hours ago and haven’t received a single message, I feel it might have been the tone. As so supports my theories above. People generate towards the people in their groups or circles with affirmations over constructive criticism Now stand still and bend over so I can blow smoke up your bumhole" Are you in? I’ve not read the whole thread yet but just wanted to check | |||
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"Yes let me know, I value constructive Criticism that I can take on board and ignore. I left this message hours ago and haven’t received a single message, I feel it might have been the tone. As so supports my theories above. People generate towards the people in their groups or circles with affirmations over constructive criticism Now stand still and bend over so I can blow smoke up your bumhole Are you in? I’ve not read the whole thread yet but just wanted to check " If you want to appraise me you can | |||
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"Yes let me know, I value constructive Criticism that I can take on board and ignore. I left this message hours ago and haven’t received a single message, I feel it might have been the tone. As so supports my theories above. People generate towards the people in their groups or circles with affirmations over constructive criticism Now stand still and bend over so I can blow smoke up your bumhole" Blow Smoke up my bumhole... Im broadminded enough to let you try that | |||
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"Yes let me know, I value constructive Criticism that I can take on board and ignore. I left this message hours ago and haven’t received a single message, I feel it might have been the tone. As so supports my theories above. People generate towards the people in their groups or circles with affirmations over constructive criticism Now stand still and bend over so I can blow smoke up your bumhole" That's not been the case for me. I started sending messages to everyone on the thread and received them from people I didnt expect. I've not had a chance to get all the way through the thread, but anyone that I haven't messaged yet I will do through the course of the evening. My friends already know what I think of them, good and bad, and don't need me to tell them, but it's only fair as far as I'm concerned to give everyone a message if they've asked. If it was purely an exercise in blowing smoke up people's backsides then it would be pointless, but if it's an exercise in honesty and reflection then it can only be a good thing. And that doesn't mean being nasty for the sake of it, just being honest and constructive. | |||
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