FabSwingers.com forum: Why don't men in the furom fancy me

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Be honest but nicely please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be honest but nicely please."

I’m sure some of them do.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Bet they do

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

They don't fancy me either, but that's not important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be honest but nicely please."

Nothing wrong with you at all .

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Be honest but nicely please."

Bet you dont fancy some of them xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They don't fancy me either, but that's not important. "

It is to you though.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m sure they do! A lot of people in the forum are just there for the banter etc too. Do you get many messages from non forumites? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be honest but nicely please."

For me the it's the age. But some of the forum chaps will undoubtedly find you attractive.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

What makes you think they don't?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Sensual can I be very honest with you? If we went by forum interactions alone my vagina would be incredibly dry and underappreciated.

There are some women who men like flirting with on here, they tend to flirt back with those men.

Sometimes, what we read on the forum needs to be taken with a bucket of salt. Flirting on here doesn't mean that someone fancies another. I mean it can do but 90% of the time it's peacocking. Or done because it's fun. Don't read too much into it and don't let penises dicktate (not sorry) your worth.

Take part more, maybe someone will reach out to you and make you smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They don't fancy me either, but that's not important. "

Just checked put your profile look good to me

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Sensual can I be very honest with you? If we went by forum interactions alone my vagina would be incredibly dry and underappreciated.

There are some women who men like flirting with on here, they tend to flirt back with those men.

Take part more, maybe someone will reach out to you and make you smile."

You always say things better than me!! But yes basically this!

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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Be honest but nicely please."

I'd bum u

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m sure they do! A lot of people in the forum are just there for the banter etc too. Do you get many messages from non forumites? X"

Yes. But I get blanked and ignored here.

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By *oItForYorkshireCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Do you mail them or wait for them to mail you. I’ll be honest I’m guilty of the latter.

Shoot your shot. They might not have the balls to mail you x

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Sensual can I be very honest with you? If we went by forum interactions alone my vagina would be incredibly dry and underappreciated.

There are some women who men like flirting with on here, they tend to flirt back with those men.

Take part more, maybe someone will reach out to you and make you smile."

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be honest but nicely please."

Hi, what makes you think they do not fancy you?

It maybe that you need to re address you profile. Perhaps write what you do actually like and although you do not accommodate or meet, how you would be able to meet socially or for some naughty fun.

Best of luck op

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"I’m sure they do! A lot of people in the forum are just there for the banter etc too. Do you get many messages from non forumites? X

Yes. But I get blanked and ignored here."

We all do at times, don't take it to heart xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sensual can I be very honest with you? If we went by forum interactions alone my vagina would be incredibly dry and underappreciated.

There are some women who men like flirting with on here, they tend to flirt back with those men.

Take part more, maybe someone will reach out to you and make you smile."

I try to take part and have done for quite a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m sure they do! A lot of people in the forum are just there for the banter etc too. Do you get many messages from non forumites? X

Yes. But I get blanked and ignored here."

Honestly lots of us do ... just laugh at the posts and don't worry! I treat it as friends talking to their friends more than I'm being ignored. Occasionally (& very) I'll get a response to one of the games but most of the time can't be bothered just to be ignored! But they're worth a lurk and a giggle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m sure they do! A lot of people in the forum are just there for the banter etc too. Do you get many messages from non forumites? X

Yes. But I get blanked and ignored here."

On the forums you mean? I often do too.

They’re all gagging for it really though...... I hope

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I’m sure they do! A lot of people in the forum are just there for the banter etc too. Do you get many messages from non forumites? X

Yes. But I get blanked and ignored here."

I honestly don’t think it’s purposefully. When I do threads I try and reply to everyone but then I think that makes it boring as half the thread is me! But then I think people may get upset if I don’t so I do. And then I miss people out accidentally! It’s hard to know what to do x

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It's really hard to tell when people interact with you in the forums, unless they reply in a private msg.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What makes you think they don't?"

I'm always ignored in threads.

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Be honest but nicely please."
I think u are stunning xx

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Why is it important? I mean I don't flirt with many on here, I'm not a natural flirt. I don't know how many actually fancy me compared to those just being nice.

I know there are far lovelier and more flirtatious people on here. I'm not trying to compete with them, and neither should you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be honest but nicely please."
very sexy lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They don't fancy me either, but that's not important.

Just checked put your profile look good to me"

Yours doesn't look too bad either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m sure they do! A lot of people in the forum are just there for the banter etc too. Do you get many messages from non forumites? X

Yes. But I get blanked and ignored here."

I get ignored blanked and over looked 90 per cent of the time, don't let it effect you, maybe take some time.out if it's having a negative impact on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is key, go chase, don't wait to be chased.

If you post negative stuff too most will lean away from that.

Btw, your latest pic...lovely lingerie set

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"What makes you think they don't?

I'm always ignored in threads."

On which ones lovely? I'm always ignored on the flirty ones because I'm shit at flirting on line. But I'm not on the more debate style ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They don't fancy me either, but that's not important.

Just checked put your profile look good to me

Yours doesn't look too bad either."

Oops sorry,not me.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

Just be yourself. Show your character.

If looks was everything, then I’d have never met anything. But if your character shows through, then it’s a different ballgame. You should see my inbox lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, don’t think of it that way , it’ll do your head in! ,Some men will fancy you, others won’t neither is your problem it’s just a fact of life. The important thing is that you feel good about you! From the tone (not content) of your post , you seem like you need a little confidence booster. Don’t look to others for that look to yourself. Look yourself in mirror, pick something YOU’D like to change and make that change for you. That confidence boost will work wonders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes you think they don't?

I'm always ignored in threads."

We all get ignored at times lovely, and it’s easy to take it to heart when you’re feeling low or vulnerable.

You’re lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just be yourself. Show your character.

If looks was everything, then I’d have never met anything. But if your character shows through, then it’s a different ballgame. You should see my inbox lol"

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They don't fancy me either, but that's not important.

Just checked put your profile look good to me

Yours doesn't look too bad either."

Thanks hun message me if you like

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"I’m sure they do! A lot of people in the forum are just there for the banter etc too. Do you get many messages from non forumites? X

Yes. But I get blanked and ignored here."
9 times out of 10, so do I, doesn't mean no one fancies me really. I feel invisible sometimes, but I join in

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Girl be a tigress go get em x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They don't fancy me either, but that's not important.

Just checked put your profile look good to me

Yours doesn't look too bad either.

Oops sorry,not me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt wrong with you sensual so maybe its their loss and possibly the right ones havent come along yet for you

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I get ignored dont bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get ignored dont bother me"

We all get that at some point

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What makes you think they don't?

I'm always ignored in threads.

On which ones lovely? I'm always ignored on the flirty ones because I'm shit at flirting on line. But I'm not on the more debate style ones. "

Alsorts

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"I get ignored dont bother me"

I'd never ignore you beautiful

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I get ignored dont bother me

We all get that at some point "

And I'm saying I'm not bothered

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I get ignored dont bother me

I'd never ignore you beautiful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you mail them or wait for them to mail you. I’ll be honest I’m guilty of the latter.

Shoot your shot. They might not have the balls to mail you x"

I have pm some. No reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even fancy myself so you know x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I’m sure they do! A lot of people in the forum are just there for the banter etc too. Do you get many messages from non forumites? X

Yes. But I get blanked and ignored here."

We all get blanked and ignored here at one time or another, and I'm not ashamed to admit being overlooked has hurt my feelings in the past and likely will do again in the future. But it is the nature of a community that sometimes people slide under a radar now and then.

I hate making people feel like they're ignored, which is one of the reasons I respond to everyone on a thread I start, regardless of the fact some people moan about people that do that.

Just because people are flirting on a thread doesn't mean they actually fancy each other anyway.

A message in the inbox is far more likely to be serious than a flirty comment on a thread.

If it's getting to you, some time away from the forum might be helpful for you.

I hope you find your happiness Sensual, you're a lovely woman.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"What makes you think they don't?

I'm always ignored in threads.

On which ones lovely? I'm always ignored on the flirty ones because I'm shit at flirting on line. But I'm not on the more debate style ones.

Alsorts"

I've seen people reply to you. And I've noticed you loads on the forum. Don't feel so bad about it some people are more confident and chatty and draw a conversation out of people. And there are others who aren't me included. You are amazing don't think otherwise as this thread proves x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

But surely men from your area and searches will fancy you and meet when allowed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get ignored dont bother me

We all get that at some point

And I'm saying I'm not bothered "

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be honest but nicely please."

You look fine to me, but I'm outside your age range.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I don't even fancy myself so you know x"

Get out

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Hes escaped from my cellar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't even fancy myself so you know x

Get out "

Great movie tbh

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Grab him

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

I get ignored too, I get views on our profile when I/we comment but rarely any interaction which is fine by me as I only really come here to read the hilarious stuff x

Don't let it get to you it's just fab, you don't need anyone to fancy you to validate you x you're enough x

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

As most say, we all get ignored at times. I know we do, but honestly, wouldn't start a thread on the matter. Life in general is like that..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What makes you think they don't?

I'm always ignored in threads.

We all get ignored at times lovely, and it’s easy to take it to heart when you’re feeling low or vulnerable.

You’re lovely

Thing is it's not sometimes,it's always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure some men do, some of the threads it’s easy to get bypassed and it happens to us all.

When I’m feeling more confident I tend to interact more and that gets me noticed. Honestly some of the most beautiful ladies on here can also be ignored, we have to put our personalities forward.

Sorry I hope I’ve said that right, I’ve got covid brain x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen, I have a good body, nice cock, been said good looking, great sense of humour, been on many threads and still no one messaging me! So it’s just a big mystery in here, don’t overthink too much, in time someone will contact you... keep il

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

F&B

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

The forum isn't the be all & end all of fab. Try not to let it get to you.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Be honest but nicely please.

I'd bum u"

Silver tongued charmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't even fancy myself so you know x"

^ he has a good point ^

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Be honest but nicely please.

I'd bum u"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They don't fancy me either, but that's not important.

Just checked put your profile look good to me

Yours doesn't look too bad either.

Oops sorry,not me.

??"

I thought you was replying to jojo.

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By *etal MickeyMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

"I’m sure they do! A lot of people in the forum are just there for the banter etc too. Do you get many messages from non forumites? X

Yes. But I get blanked and ignored here."

That means you are in the cool group with me, they just can't handle us.

There is nothing wrong with your profile I particularly like your profile pic.

Some people have told me i come across better in person than in my profile/fourm/messages so maby you are like me in that respect.

One lady that rejected on here later met me in person & we ended up dating! So don't let this place get to you

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I respond depending on the post not my attraction to the poster.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I very often don't get replies on threads. Sometimes they are so fast moving, comments get missed. Also I think sometimes people won't comment or reply to people they don't know as much if they don't know the 'banter' they get involved with etc.

I was on Fab a year before I even ventured onto the lounge. Give it time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell me about it babe.. it’s hard work lol x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We/I get ignored, missed on threads. Sometimes things just move too fast, sometimes people are too busy responding to friends, flirting.

Don't worry about it.

I know men on the forums don't fancy me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For mr its cos your not 99 with cobwebs on your fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They don't fancy me either, but that's not important.

Just checked put your profile look good to me

Yours doesn't look too bad either.

Oops sorry,not me.

Message me privately if you like

I thought you was replying to jojo."

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’m not fancied and get ignored by most.

Keep getting involved I’m sure things will turn around. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be honest but nicely please."

As a man I can honestly say that by just going by your three public pictures I do indeed fancy you!!!!

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

"Be honest but nicely please."

Don't wait for them, go out and grab the bull by the horns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many others have said, don’t take forum interactions to heart; it’s very easy to get lost within the noise of a thread, especially if it’s very active and/or contentious.

It’s absolutely nothing to do with you or your value here. It’s a feature of social platforms in general.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Op you’ve been on about the same time as I’ve been back on here and you’ve got way way more fabs on your pics than me. I think perhaps you’re more popular than you think. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been there in some threads struggling to get involved scared to comment too, but some days it’s all okay think it’s how we think, try keep positive takes time and some lovely peeps on there definitely

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"What makes you think they don't?

I'm always ignored in threads."

We often are too. Try not to take it to heart.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Be honest but nicely please."

I think everyone is feeling more isolated because of the lockdowns at the moment....I'm sure when it is permissible more meetings,more flirting...a generally lighter atmosphere will engender more opportunities for everyone to interact more freely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op you’ve been on about the same time as I’ve been back on here and you’ve got way way more fabs on your pics than me. I think perhaps you’re more popular than you think. x "

This is my return as well.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

OP I'm not taking anything away from your thread or you but if I man had started this he wouldn't get so much support

OP join in forums more I remember you from before x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time I get ignored or passed over don’t be disappointed or down as they say don’t let the b******s get you down move on there is always someone for everyone

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Op you’ve been on about the same time as I’ve been back on here and you’ve got way way more fabs on your pics than me. I think perhaps you’re more popular than you think. x

This is my return as well."

Oh is it? Do stay. It really is a shitty time at the moment. None of us are really ourselves. People can’t meet etc. Nothing seems as it was at all on here. I’m sure things will change for the better soon. x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Sensual can I be very honest with you? If we went by forum interactions alone my vagina would be incredibly dry and underappreciated.

There are some women who men like flirting with on here, they tend to flirt back with those men.

Take part more, maybe someone will reach out to you and make you smile.

You always say things better than me!! But yes basically this!

Ha I just type waffle most of the time.

I do feel for the OP and I know that before I've felt a bit unnoticed at times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone. I'll take it all on board

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"They don't fancy me either, but that's not important.

It is to you though."

No, I don't care if no men from the forums fancy me.

I enjoy interacting with the men and women of the forums; I don't care if they don't find me attractive

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

I don’t fancy everyone in the forums either!! Being ignored and fancied are two different things!

Sorry you feel like this but if this was a blokes thread they would be getting grief left right and centre!!

Your on here in your underwear so we know your a strong woman!! Go make your mark and enjoy

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

There’s more to the forums than the men (sorry men!). Enjoy the fun, humour and informative gems and treat anything else as a bonus.

And don’t take it to heart - it’s not worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to not tell what forumites I like in that way in case they don’t like me in that way sort off friend zoneing my selfs for the sake off keeping friends

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I don't. Meet Forumites they smell

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I’ve only just started dipping my toe in with the forums. I’ve no idea whether anyone fancies me or not and I tend to stay clear of those types of threads at the moment. But I do enjoy reading them and commenting sometimes or playing the games and that’s what keeps me here.

As others have said there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you. Just Be you and let your light shine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to put it into perspective, I posted on here nearly an hour ago and no-one has replied! Checked the last 10 threads I've posted on and been ignored in every single one and I've been knocking around the forums for three years ... it's very easily done but best not worried about!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Thank you everyone. I'll take it all on board

Also it really is mostly banter. I flirt a lot on here but funnily enough I don’t tend to flirt with the ones I’m meeting/met/plan to meet as I’d rather keep that quiet so don’t think that all the flirting people do means they all fancy each other x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fancy you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place is very busy and there are lots of conversations going on all at once. It's easy to go unnoticed on a thread. I get overlooked loads on the forum (I'm a great thread killer), but I don't take it to heart unless I'm feeling a bit rubbish to begin with. If that is the case I make a point of not contributing until such a time that I feel happier and more confident.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I fancy you xx"

Date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The men in the Forums are a picky bunch, they don't fancy me either. There are thousands of single guys on here and only a tiny percentage use the Forums. I wouldn't worry about it Op, just chill and go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I fancy you xx

Date"

Yes please sis lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are stunning I fancy you very much xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I don’t mean to sound horrible bit your profile seems quite hostile. All about the ‘no’s’ and ‘Dont’s’

Make it a bit more fun and out there. You have a body and pics so many people are after but the nature of the profile may put them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fancy each of you ladies in different way xx

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"This place is very busy and there are lots of conversations going on all at once. It's easy to go unnoticed on a thread. I get overlooked loads on the forum (I'm a great thread killer), but I don't take it to heart unless I'm feeling a bit rubbish to begin with. If that is the case I make a point of not contributing until such a time that I feel happier and more confident. "

Good advice Nell

Sensual, we've chatted before and you're lovely, but come across a little shy. Just get involved more & get yourself known.

There are a lot of new faces on the forum since you left, so patience.

But I would say, if you are feeling a little down, or in anyway negative about how you're perceived or "fancied" or not, I'd suggest a little break. Fab can be a lonely place when you're not feeling positive.

Good luck, lovely xx

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

"I’m sure they do! A lot of people in the forum are just there for the banter etc too. Do you get many messages from non forumites? X

Yes. But I get blanked and ignored here.

I do post reasonaly regularly recently. (stuck in lockdown?) I get the occasional reaction but not lots and often forget what I've posted anyway and forget to go back(blame it on my age?)

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"Hi, I don’t mean to sound horrible bit your profile seems quite hostile. All about the ‘no’s’ and ‘Dont’s’

Make it a bit more fun and out there. You have a body and pics so many people are after but the nature of the profile may put them off"

Give the lass a break.. she didn’t ask for profile advice!!

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By *ixieUKMan
over a year ago

MORDEN

"Be honest but nicely please."

I fancy but unfortunately I am out of your age range

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By *20cplMan
over a year ago

Manchester

You've got the kind of body I like and you're pretty.

Keep going

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By *namoratomanMan
over a year ago

Herefordshire

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with what you’ve written or your photos.

My only concern is that you’re so close to me and I’m 1 year outside your age range!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I don’t mean to sound horrible bit your profile seems quite hostile. All about the ‘no’s’ and ‘Dont’s’

Make it a bit more fun and out there. You have a body and pics so many people are after but the nature of the profile may put them off

Give the lass a break.. she didn’t ask for profile advice!! "

I think it goes hand in hand no? If I start talking to someone I check their profile out. If they’re a negative nelly........ sorry. Not for me

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I fancy you xx

Date

Yes please sis lol x"

Xxxx

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Hi, I don’t mean to sound horrible bit your profile seems quite hostile. All about the ‘no’s’ and ‘Dont’s’

Make it a bit more fun and out there. You have a body and pics so many people are after but the nature of the profile may put them off

Give the lass a break.. she didn’t ask for profile advice!!

I think it goes hand in hand no? If I start talking to someone I check their profile out. If they’re a negative nelly........ sorry. Not for me"

Bit it is against forum rules to not pic someone's profile, unless they specifically ask for it. She didn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There’s absolutely nothing wrong with what you’ve written or your photos.

My only concern is that you’re so close to me and I’m 1 year outside your age range!"

The age range can be altered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi, I don’t mean to sound horrible bit your profile seems quite hostile. All about the ‘no’s’ and ‘Dont’s’

Make it a bit more fun and out there. You have a body and pics so many people are after but the nature of the profile may put them off

Give the lass a break.. she didn’t ask for profile advice!!

I think it goes hand in hand no? If I start talking to someone I check their profile out. If they’re a negative nelly........ sorry. Not for me"

Maybe you should think about why it says those things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh lovely.

Nothing wrong with you or others.

Everyone is beautiful in their own right and we aren't right for all.

Join in with threads and show the really you.

It's not about the having the prefect sexy body, it's about the real you and people will see that.

I struggle on here compared to most females but I don't worry about it or get negative.

I'm just me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I'm not taking anything away from your thread or you but if I man had started this he wouldn't get so much support

OP join in forums more I remember you from before x"
your probs right yas im gonna try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if someone already said it.. but fab is NOT all about forum men. I have had lovely conversations with some local to me and they never even looked here. It's actually nice. A breather from forum stuff.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't know if someone already said it.. but fab is NOT all about forum men. I have had lovely conversations with some local to me and they never even looked here. It's actually nice. A breather from forum stuff.

I know that Rose but I do fancy a few of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I don’t mean to sound horrible bit your profile seems quite hostile. All about the ‘no’s’ and ‘Dont’s’

Make it a bit more fun and out there. You have a body and pics so many people are after but the nature of the profile may put them off"

She didn't ask for profile advice,.or did I miss thst memo

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I know that Rose but I do fancy a few of them

Do they know?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP I'm not taking anything away from your thread or you but if I man had started this he wouldn't get so much support

OP join in forums more I remember you from before x your probs right yas im gonna try it"

Oi,go and get your own thread

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I just fired up my who's near... mostly blokes ...but I don't think I have ever seen any of them posting on the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know that Rose but I do fancy a few of them

Do they know? "

Some do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea if anyone in the forum fancies me or not. How do you know?

People being attracted to you on here is about the whole package. It’s what you write in the forum, your pics and your profile. We can’t comment on your profile because you haven’t asked us to.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I know that Rose but I do fancy a few of them

Do they know?

Some do"

Winks are good if you’re not keen on messaging. I think most men look at winks.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I know that Rose but I do fancy a few of them

Do they know?

Some do

Winks are good if you’re not keen on messaging. I think most men look at winks. "

I love a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sensual can I be very honest with you? If we went by forum interactions alone my vagina would be incredibly dry and underappreciated.

There are some women who men like flirting with on here, they tend to flirt back with those men.

Take part more, maybe someone will reach out to you and make you smile.

I try to take part and have done for quite a while."

I find the same thing

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I know that Rose but I do fancy a few of them

Do they know?

Some do

Winks are good if you’re not keen on messaging. I think most men look at winks.

I love a wank

Take your filth elsewhere would you. This is a serious thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that Rose but I do fancy a few of them

Just try. Even if not reciprocated it will stop bothering you.. question in your head.. do they fancy me back.. you'll know and no won't kill you, trust me. You will move on and dont waste your time on thinking "what if".

Or.. Be a friend first perhaps?

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Be honest but nicely please."

Who knows you may have some secret admires

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I know that Rose but I do fancy a few of them

Do they know?

Some do

Winks are good if you’re not keen on messaging. I think most men look at winks.

I love a wank

Take your filth elsewhere would you. This is a serious thread

"
how did you do that?lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I know that Rose but I do fancy a few of them

Do they know?

Some do

Winks are good if you’re not keen on messaging. I think most men look at winks.

I love a wank

Take your filth elsewhere would you. This is a serious thread

how did you do that?lol

I didn’t do a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said there's over 36000 people online here right now and probably 100 people have commented on your thread ... the forums are a tiny part of fab

And I understand exactly about liking an online profile totally but they're not interested in me ... same as in real life. I have no idea what to do about this ... I'm sure everyone has their fancies on here but no way of getting past that. I just enjoy the daydreams about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not really sure what your question really means - are you looking for flirting etc in the forums or more ouvert direct messaging? The forums can be a lonely place and appear quite cliquey. However, I would say that you've only been on fab for a few weeks though.... so hang on in there and dont be afraid of reviewing your profile.

Ps - women in the forums dont fancy me so Im probably not the best person to take advice from

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Don't see what's not to fancy. I'm sure almost all would

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im not really sure what your question really means - are you looking for flirting etc in the forums or more ouvert direct messaging? The forums can be a lonely place and appear quite cliquey. However, I would say that you've only been on fab for a few weeks though.... so hang on in there and dont be afraid of reviewing your profile.

Ps - women in the forums dont fancy me so Im probably not the best person to take advice from

I've been around for over 3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps - women in the forums dont fancy me so Im probably not the best person to take advice from

I've been around for over 3 years

Sorry - your profile says 5 weeks. I didnt realise you have previous

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you so much for your comments. I really appreciate it.

I'll leave it there as some people in the forum are now taking the piss

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Thank you so much for your comments. I really appreciate it.

I'll leave it there as some people in the forum are now taking the piss

I don't think anything in the forum is being directed at you so please don't worry about that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thank you so much for your comments. I really appreciate it.

I'll leave it there as some people in the forum are now taking the piss

I don't think anything in the forum is being directed at you so please don't worry about that. "

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you so much for your comments. I really appreciate it.

I'll leave it there as some people in the forum are now taking the piss

I don't think anything in the forum is being directed at you so please don't worry about that. "

Well there is 3 other threads after this one . Only difference is that this one was serious by the looks of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thank you so much for your comments. I really appreciate it.

I'll leave it there as some people in the forum are now taking the piss

I don't think anything in the forum is being directed at you so please don't worry about that.

Well there is 3 other threads after this one . Only difference is that this one was serious by the looks of it."

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I don’t rely on the forum to be fancied tbh. I rely on my profile. Good photos, a good bio and I get my ego massaged every day.

the forum is of a more informative/entertaining nature to me.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Thank you so much for your comments. I really appreciate it.

I'll leave it there as some people in the forum are now taking the piss

I'm sure they are just trying to lighten the mood

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I very often don't get replies on threads. Sometimes they are so fast moving, comments get missed. Also I think sometimes people won't comment or reply to people they don't know as much if they don't know the 'banter' they get involved with etc.

I was on Fab a year before I even ventured onto the lounge. Give it time

Valid points. Of course I’d agree as I’m in pursuit

But I will add another factor to this wisdom - the bigger “geographic” rooms are just that. You see someone you fancy 300 miles away and the motivation is going to be less. The smaller ones. Scotland in my case. Used to be buzzing before COVID because the possibilities were more realistic. And you knew more folk from meeting in person already. Hopefully that will return.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

OP ignore the other threads this is what happens unfortunately or join in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP ignore the other threads this is what happens unfortunately or join in x"

Good advice

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

"Thank you so much for your comments. I really appreciate it.

I'll leave it there as some people in the forum are now taking the piss

I'm sure they are just trying to lighten the mood

Ah, the all-famous “forum banter”... salt of the earth, hey?

I find it extremely poor and uncalled for. This is exactly why people stop posting whenever they’ve plucked up the courage to do so.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Thank you so much for your comments. I really appreciate it.

I'll leave it there as some people in the forum are now taking the piss

I'm sure they are just trying to lighten the mood

Ah, the all-famous “forum banter”... salt of the earth, hey?

I find it extremely poor and uncalled for. This is exactly why people stop posting whenever they’ve plucked up the courage to do so.

Xxx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Thank you so much for your comments. I really appreciate it.

I'll leave it there as some people in the forum are now taking the piss

I'm sure they are just trying to lighten the mood

How do you know how the

OP is feeling ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pisstake threads are very much more than a tad condescending and disrespectful, not an attractive part of the forums for sure!

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

...and the lady’s gone and hidden her profile.

People who do this outright bullying should very well be ashamed of themselves. I am utterly disgusted at all those starting those threads taking the piss at this one. Revolted. Ugh.

Better retire for the night.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"The pisstake threads are very much more than a tad condescending and disrespectful, not an attractive part of the forums for sure! "

They are cruel

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Iv messaged OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...and the lady’s gone and hidden her profile.

People who do this outright bullying should very well be ashamed of themselves. I am utterly disgusted at all those starting those threads taking the piss at this one. Revolted. Ugh.

Better retire for the night.

It honestly is like following the kids at school trying to all act up to get laughs.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"...and the lady’s gone and hidden her profile.

People who do this outright bullying should very well be ashamed of themselves. I am utterly disgusted at all those starting those threads taking the piss at this one. Revolted. Ugh.

Better retire for the night.

It honestly is like following the kids at school trying to all act up to get laughs. "

Yeah you responded in the threads

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Thank you so much for your comments. I really appreciate it.

I'll leave it there as some people in the forum are now taking the piss

I'm sure they are just trying to lighten the mood

Ah, the all-famous “forum banter”... salt of the earth, hey?

I find it extremely poor and uncalled for. This is exactly why people stop posting whenever they’ve plucked up the courage to do so.

I've made a serious point further up this thread .. several people have contributed serious answers...the other threads aren't not there to be a criticism or to belittle this one .. imitation is the sincerest form of flattery... please regard them as a fabland community hug .... Because I'm sure this is the intention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...and the lady’s gone and hidden her profile.

People who do this outright bullying should very well be ashamed of themselves. I am utterly disgusted at all those starting those threads taking the piss at this one. Revolted. Ugh.

Better retire for the night.

It honestly is like following the kids at school trying to all act up to get laughs.

Yeah you responded in the threads

I did yes. I'm glad you saw.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Thank you so much for your comments. I really appreciate it.

I'll leave it there as some people in the forum are now taking the piss

I'm sure they are just trying to lighten the mood

Ah, the all-famous “forum banter”... salt of the earth, hey?

I find it extremely poor and uncalled for. This is exactly why people stop posting whenever they’ve plucked up the courage to do so.

Tell that to the

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I thought that childish behaviour had died with the last few cliques but it seems it is very well alive...

I shouldn’t be, but I am so angry... why are people so fucking mean? We clearly haven’t learned anything in this last year...

Bleurgh.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"...and the lady’s gone and hidden her profile.

People who do this outright bullying should very well be ashamed of themselves. I am utterly disgusted at all those starting those threads taking the piss at this one. Revolted. Ugh.

Better retire for the night.

It honestly is like following the kids at school trying to all act up to get laughs.

Yeah you responded in the threads

I did yes. I'm glad you saw."

How nice for you

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I thought that childish behaviour had died with the last few cliques but it seems it is very well alive...

I shouldn’t be, but I am so angry... why are people so fucking mean? We clearly haven’t learned anything in this last year...

Bleurgh. "

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...and the lady’s gone and hidden her profile.

People who do this outright bullying should very well be ashamed of themselves. I am utterly disgusted at all those starting those threads taking the piss at this one. Revolted. Ugh.

Better retire for the night.

It honestly is like following the kids at school trying to all act up to get laughs.

Yeah you responded in the threads

I did yes. I'm glad you saw.

How nice for you "

I don't quite understand your point in saying i posted on the threads? If you have checked my replies on the 3 then its a strange comment from you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought that childish behaviour had died with the last few cliques but it seems it is very well alive...

I shouldn’t be, but I am so angry... why are people so fucking mean? We clearly haven’t learned anything in this last year...

Bleurgh. "

I'm with you on this ... often lately I simply won't post on many threads because of the passive aggressive bullying undertone!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Thank you so much for your comments. I really appreciate it.

I'll leave it there as some people in the forum are now taking the piss

I'm sure they are just trying to lighten the mood

As the woman isn't happy with those threads it won't be lightening the mood for her

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"The pisstake threads are very much more than a tad condescending and disrespectful, not an attractive part of the forums for sure!

They are cruel"

You told her to join in or ignore them, why should she if you think they are cruel

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Thank you so much for your comments. I really appreciate it.

I'll leave it there as some people in the forum are now taking the piss

I'm sure they are just trying to lighten the mood

Ah, the all-famous “forum banter”... salt of the earth, hey?

I find it extremely poor and uncalled for. This is exactly why people stop posting whenever they’ve plucked up the courage to do so.

It is uncalled for, especially as the person they are taking the piss out of is not joining in and actually mentioning that in this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought that childish behaviour had died with the last few cliques but it seems it is very well alive...

I shouldn’t be, but I am so angry... why are people so fucking mean? We clearly haven’t learned anything in this last year...

Bleurgh. "

Awful isn’t it? To set up a new thread clearly taking the piss out of this one. I don’t know who some of these folk think they are. They clearly forgot that there’s a person with feelings involved. No place for bullies in the forum.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To the people this applies to, the other threads were not "banter" as the person you were taking the piss out of was not joining in. If people don't stop with the "banter" knowing the person you are taking the piss out of is unhappy about it then it looks like bullying or you really don't care about other peoples feelings

Remember the forum is for everyone, lets have a bit of respect for other users

On another note. I know when a thread needs closing or not, there is no need to demand me to do it

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