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By *ntrepid Explorers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Do you hide yourself from views? I didn't for a long time, but as soon as I knew people couldn't see us looking at them, it feels so much more relaxing bouncing around any profile we want without drawing any extra unwanted attention.

I expect we lose wanted attention too, but on balance it seems worth it.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I am in ninja mode all the time

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By *ostonJoeMan
over a year ago

Boston

Hidden because sometimes I just want to look at the pictures and touch myself.

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By *hetalltravellerMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen


"Do you hide yourself from views? I didn't for a long time, but as soon as I knew people couldn't see us looking at them, it feels so much more relaxing bouncing around any profile we want without drawing any extra unwanted attention.

I expect we lose wanted attention too, but on balance it seems worth it."

Ooh is that what a ninja is!?? That explains some very confusing forum posts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn you two are hot

I love to get wach you two on cam

When you two are on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make my myself visible and enjoy watching others

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

It's something I learned to do early on and it stopped the many, 'you looked at my profile etc etc' messages immediately. Bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the yips if I’m not in stealth mode

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

I'm a bold as brass nonja

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Yeap ninja for many years. Works well for me

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ninja All the time I get anuff messages as is

Plus it bust my perv list ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ninja otherwise people might get worried if I show up in their views list.

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

~~

We used to care if people saw us looking. And now we don’t. If we don’t want them looking back just block them

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Ninja Op, not letting you or anyone else know how many times I’m sneaking around your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ninja always.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Never ninja I want them to see me looking, it's nice to be appreciated for having a nice picture

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Ninja

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a ninja!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Never in ninja.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ninja

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Almost always ninja but not for perving reasons, I look at profiles to remind myself about people and nothing more.

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By *r loveslickinMan
over a year ago

Deeside

Nonja nothing to hide profiles there to be seen and nice to know if anyone does look imo

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Didnt used to but Ive got a whole new hot list to perve and dont want to scare them just yet

So yeah currently ninja

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didnt used to but Ive got a whole new hot list to perve and dont want to scare them just yet

So yeah currently ninja "

You made my hotlist today.

And I wanted to smudge your lipstick

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yep always Ninja

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Always Ninja. I like to perve cock and just generally be nosey.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Ninja

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By *hatever works for USCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield/Sunderland

Always ninja

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Ninja, if not you get the "I saw you look at my profile, I hope you like what you saw" messages. More shit to ignore and clog your box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ninja, flying under the radar, unless I want a profile to see I've looked

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Damn you two are hot

I love to get wach you two on cam

When you two are on cam"

They're not talking about being on cam, they mean selecting not to show up on "who's looked at me"

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ponders. I’ve been in ninja for years. I think I’ll try nonja for a bit and see what happens.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Ninja

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I look..you can see I've looked ..if I fabbed too I liked what I saw

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Always ninja. I think some people may get a bit scared at how much I look/perv their pics otherwise

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I am a ninja. Stealthily gawking at your pics and dribbling in a decidedly lewd manner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ninja. Otherwise when you look at someone's profile several times a day to see their amazing arse pics you look a bit stalkery.

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over a year ago

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Ninja ... I'd be blocked and reported for stalking otherwise

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I am a ninja. Stealthily gawking at your pics and dribbling in a decidedly lewd manner "

You’d be very scared

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"I am a ninja. Stealthily gawking at your pics and dribbling in a decidedly lewd manner

You’d be very scared "

You May somewhat unsettled yourself m’lady.....

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

*be

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I am a ninja. Stealthily gawking at your pics and dribbling in a decidedly lewd manner

You’d be very scared

You May somewhat unsettled yourself m’lady..... "

Ooooh goodie

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Ninja ... I'd be blocked and reported for stalking otherwise "

This

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I'm a part-time ninja.

If someone has caught my attention or I'm having a perve, I don't mind them seeing that I've looked.

If I'm just being nosey, want ideas for photos or ideas for my profile, then I go in as a ninja as I wouldn't want to mislead the owner.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Ninja ... I'd be blocked and reported for stalking otherwise "

I wouldn't report you

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs


"Damn you two are hot

I love to get wach you two on cam

When you two are on cam

They're not talking about being on cam, they mean selecting not to show up on "who's looked at me" "

You have to excuse the Prince - he gets a little overexcited.

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By *irenGuy70Man
over a year ago

Cirencester


"I'm a part-time ninja.

If someone has caught my attention or I'm having a perve, I don't mind them seeing that I've looked.

If I'm just being nosey, want ideas for photos or ideas for my profile, then I go in as a ninja as I wouldn't want to mislead the owner. "

You do realise that when you're not in ninja that even the views you did in ninja shows up too don't you?

I don't bother with ninja anymore. Any pics I like get fabbed, so I can always look at them again in fabbed pics if I want to. If I want to see any more added then I add the profile to hotlist. This also helps to see if they put any enticing/off-putting status updates too

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By *lirtyfun!!Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

always!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always visible. If I didn’t want it to be known I’d looked at a profile, I wouldn’t click on it.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"I'm a part-time ninja.

If someone has caught my attention or I'm having a perve, I don't mind them seeing that I've looked.

If I'm just being nosey, want ideas for photos or ideas for my profile, then I go in as a ninja as I wouldn't want to mislead the owner.

You do realise that when you're not in ninja that even the views you did in ninja shows up too don't you?

I don't bother with ninja anymore. Any pics I like get fabbed, so I can always look at them again in fabbed pics if I want to. If I want to see any more added then I add the profile to hotlist. This also helps to see if they put any enticing/off-putting status updates too "

Does it?

If so, that's a bit crap!

From a tech side, surely it's easier and quicker for them to just not store the data about the visit if ninja'd, rather than have to check everyone's current status whenever the views page is looked at.

I've got an idea to test it. Can you check if I've viewed your profile?

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Discovered and remained ninja.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We work in ninja mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m visible

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Sometimes Ninja and other times Nonja. All depends on whether we can be bothered with the extra messages or not.

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By *irenGuy70Man
over a year ago

Cirencester


"I'm a part-time ninja.

If someone has caught my attention or I'm having a perve, I don't mind them seeing that I've looked.

If I'm just being nosey, want ideas for photos or ideas for my profile, then I go in as a ninja as I wouldn't want to mislead the owner.

You do realise that when you're not in ninja that even the views you did in ninja shows up too don't you?

I don't bother with ninja anymore. Any pics I like get fabbed, so I can always look at them again in fabbed pics if I want to. If I want to see any more added then I add the profile to hotlist. This also helps to see if they put any enticing/off-putting status updates too

Does it?

If so, that's a bit crap!

From a tech side, surely it's easier and quicker for them to just not store the data about the visit if ninja'd, rather than have to check everyone's current status whenever the views page is looked at.

I've got an idea to test it. Can you check if I've viewed your profile? "

I wouldn't see if you've looked at me or not because I'm not looking for men, so those views automatically get filtered out from my 'who's viewed me' list. Trust me though, that's how it works. You sometimes notice people looking, disappearing, then reappearing a while later - well you will if you don't get that many views per day .

I guess it's swings and roundabouts in terms of technically how the site is coded; on one hand you have to write a bit of code to not record the view based on the profile's ninja status, or on the other hand you just filter it out from the results by making a simple change to the database query the system uses to return the profile information or the count. I suspect ninja mode has been an add-on at some point, which is why it might work like that.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"I'm a part-time ninja.

If someone has caught my attention or I'm having a perve, I don't mind them seeing that I've looked.

If I'm just being nosey, want ideas for photos or ideas for my profile, then I go in as a ninja as I wouldn't want to mislead the owner.

You do realise that when you're not in ninja that even the views you did in ninja shows up too don't you?

I don't bother with ninja anymore. Any pics I like get fabbed, so I can always look at them again in fabbed pics if I want to. If I want to see any more added then I add the profile to hotlist. This also helps to see if they put any enticing/off-putting status updates too

Does it?

If so, that's a bit crap!

From a tech side, surely it's easier and quicker for them to just not store the data about the visit if ninja'd, rather than have to check everyone's current status whenever the views page is looked at.

I've got an idea to test it. Can you check if I've viewed your profile?

I wouldn't see if you've looked at me or not because I'm not looking for men, so those views automatically get filtered out from my 'who's viewed me' list. Trust me though, that's how it works. You sometimes notice people looking, disappearing, then reappearing a while later - well you will if you don't get that many views per day .

I guess it's swings and roundabouts in terms of technically how the site is coded; on one hand you have to write a bit of code to not record the view based on the profile's ninja status, or on the other hand you just filter it out from the results by making a simple change to the database query the system uses to return the profile information or the count. I suspect ninja mode has been an add-on at some point, which is why it might work like that."

I'm still not certain you are correct.

I filter out men, but they are still shown in my views page, so that part can't be true.

I've also never seen someone disappear from that page, but that would be easy to miss.

So I'm taking it you couldn't see my view? I liked at your profile whilst hidden but then I hid straight afterwards.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"...

I guess it's swings and roundabouts in terms of technically how the site is coded; on one hand you have to write a bit of code to not record the view based on the profile's ninja status, or on the other hand you just filter it out from the results by making a simple change to the database query the system uses to return the profile information or the count. I suspect ninja mode has been an add-on at some point, which is why it might work like that."

It's not really swings and roundabouts.

Not writing the visit to the database would be a couple of lines of code, to query the state of HideMe and to skip the write function.

To hide based on a changing state would mean every visit is stored (increasing the database size), then the server would have to query every user that visited your profile to check the current state of HideMe before returning the list of users.

Yes, it's not a huge difference but when you are running a server with tens of thousands of users, it all adds up and means slower performance and higher costs. Not something you want to have, especially when the outcome is a less desirable feature.

It's definitely got me wondering though if I'm wasting my time toggling it though, so I've raised a question about it.

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By *irenGuy70Man
over a year ago

Cirencester


"I'm a part-time ninja.

If someone has caught my attention or I'm having a perve, I don't mind them seeing that I've looked.

If I'm just being nosey, want ideas for photos or ideas for my profile, then I go in as a ninja as I wouldn't want to mislead the owner.

You do realise that when you're not in ninja that even the views you did in ninja shows up too don't you?

I don't bother with ninja anymore. Any pics I like get fabbed, so I can always look at them again in fabbed pics if I want to. If I want to see any more added then I add the profile to hotlist. This also helps to see if they put any enticing/off-putting status updates too

Does it?

If so, that's a bit crap!

From a tech side, surely it's easier and quicker for them to just not store the data about the visit if ninja'd, rather than have to check everyone's current status whenever the views page is looked at.

I've got an idea to test it. Can you check if I've viewed your profile?

I wouldn't see if you've looked at me or not because I'm not looking for men, so those views automatically get filtered out from my 'who's viewed me' list. Trust me though, that's how it works. You sometimes notice people looking, disappearing, then reappearing a while later - well you will if you don't get that many views per day .

I guess it's swings and roundabouts in terms of technically how the site is coded; on one hand you have to write a bit of code to not record the view based on the profile's ninja status, or on the other hand you just filter it out from the results by making a simple change to the database query the system uses to return the profile information or the count. I suspect ninja mode has been an add-on at some point, which is why it might work like that.

I'm still not certain you are correct.

I filter out men, but they are still shown in my views page, so that part can't be true.

I've also never seen someone disappear from that page, but that would be easy to miss.

So I'm taking it you couldn't see my view? I liked at your profile whilst hidden but then I hid straight afterwards. "

Sorry, it's the male message filter that seem to affect if I can see male profiles looking at me or not. I had it turned on. If I turn it off then I can see your view 5 hours ago.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Ninja I’m too big of a perv not to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ninja. Purely because I had too many messages from guys bitching when I'd checked their profile but not replied to their message

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I found I occasionally got blocked if people realised I'd looked at their profile so I'm in permanent ninja mode now

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